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  • Anonymous · 4 years ago
    Ok, I was on staff at Fifth Avenue and know that Tom Tewell is a womanizer. He behaved inappropriately with me on several occassions and I resigned because of his behavior (lies and deceit). He is not the man that everyone thinks he is. He does have a big ego. He's an excellent speaker from the pulpit and is a trained actor. He wants everyone to like him and he finally got caught.
  • Anonymous · 4 years ago
    What sadness I feel for Suzanne, their two sons and three grandchildren. Dr.Tewell was the messenger-not The Message. My prayers are with his wife, children and grandchildren. Yes, he scaled to the top of the Presbyterian mountain and he fell off. He's human.

    Now, everyone is lining up to throw stones,piling on as it were. He is paying dearly for his actions, but has anyone stopped to think how their sarcastic remarks and reactions are affecting his FAMILY ?

    We were members at MDPC and I DO know he gave that Church a renewed sense of ' Being the Difference,'and made a difference in the lives of those less fortunate.

    Yes he will probably spend the proverbial 40 years in the wilderness. But please: think about his wife and sons the next time anyone is so inclined to pass judgement.

    They are in this too, and they certainly did not choose to be.

    Suzanne is a fine lady,an adopted 'Southern gentlewoman', who has always had incredible faith in God.

    It is between them now. God has forgiven him. And something tells me, she has forgiven him as well.

    And if she can forgive him and their sons can forgive him, then this is for them to work through and work out.













  • Anonymous · 4 years ago
    It is hard for me to believe that Tom Tewell is a womanizer as anonymous above declares. There was never a hint of this at MDPC in Houston the years he was there. it seems to me that something like this would have come out. Also if he were a womanizer would he have just started at FAPC? Usually there is a history and I never heard of this in Houston.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Thanks to Dave and others who have tried to convey the humanity of Tom Tewell. Though I was a rather infrequent visitor of FAPC, Tewell's intelligent (and non-canonical) approach to the complexities of living often provided much-needed spiritual sustenance. I have no "inside information" about his personal life, nor any idea about church politics, etc. .... yet, I do want to say that those who have villified him here might look to their own sanctimoniousness... your attacks sound very much like the ignorance you would eradicate... many who are exploring spirituality from various perspectives, whether Christian or Buddhist or ....?... understand that religion in all its guises has been misused, yet that doesn't negate the human desire for spiritual meaning... and shooting the "enemy" without giving him a face is a little like what war is about... is that what you want???

    Though, again, I am only a "visitor" at FAPC, it is clear that Tewell has had an enormously positive impact on individuals and the community at large and I am very disturbed that this "incident" obscures all the good that Tewell has done. How many of us have done so much?

  • Dave8 · 3 years ago
    anonymous 12/26/2005 8:40 PM: "Though, again, I am only a "visitor" at FAPC, it is clear that Tewell has had an enormously positive impact on individuals and the community at large and I am very disturbed that this "incident" obscures all the good that Tewell has done. How many of us have done so much?"

    Hitler's had devoted followers that likely thought he had an "enormously positive impact on individuals and the community at large" for Germany, as he was marching through Europe... I suppose, you need to clarify "How many of us have done so much?"... if your standard is the "positive impact" for "humanity" as a whole... I dare say, he is humbled before "many" people, who don't preach using doctrine that is immoral, and exclusive, which begets intolerance and bigotry... uh, that would be the "exclusivity" of the bible, per the Old Testament and New Testament... It appears you assign positive impact, to those who receive some "benefit" from his preaching, i.e., pseudo-purpose of life, founded with a security blanket in the afterlife...

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Just to clarify... I should have said "thank you" to EnWyCee and Mark....I incorrectly identified Dave as a rational voice....
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Just to clarify... I should have said "thank you" to Dave... I incorrectly identified EnWyCee and Mark as rational voices....
  • NYCchurchgoer · 3 years ago
    What have we learned about church governance? How to use the facts of life to run individual houses of worship is the challenge that all denominations are facing as they find ways to set policy and train leaders and congregations in how to use prevention rather than cure as the focus of church policy. Those that don't may find that the insurance companies will educate them as a requirement for writing the insurance policies. As these cases are publicized, two things happen: more people see the problem and more people will look for solutions. Insurance companies don't want to make pay-outs--they'd rather prevent the claims--they make money by not handing out a mil her, a mil there. As we know. So, the capitalists among us may be the trend-setters in helping houses of worship meet the demands of life with written policies and means to enforce them that everyone knows. Because it is a suprise to many people that there is such a thing as an "inappropriate relationship" that has actual meanings and definitions--until you find--as we did--your church the subject of widespread publicity. Then the laity learns what's what. That is, if they start educating themselves. Thinking it won't happen here, we're too sophisticated, or some claptrap is what will land you up a creek--far far up a creek--without a paddle.
  • Helen Locker · 3 years ago
    I am a long time member of Memorial Drive Presbyterian Church in Houston and Tom Tewell was one of my pastors in the most difficult time of my life. My youngest son was killed in an automobile accident and I have to tell you the support and love that I received from Tommy (as Charlie Shedd called him) plus the care and love from staff and members of MDPC helped me to life again. It took a long time, but Tom never gave up on me and we should not give up on Tom. He is not a womanizer, he is a loving friend and pastor. Thankfully my pastors have always taught that I am a forgiven child of God and so are you and so is Tom, if indeed he had this relationship. I just want Tom to know that I love him and God loves him too. Helen
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I was a longtime member of Fifth Avenue Church and left after Tom Tewell had been there for two years. He is definitely a womanizer. He acted inappropriately with me, making passes at me on several occasions. It is possible that his ego (which is huge) had grown some since Texas days. I worked closely with him on several committees and spent a week outside of the country with him, so I had more than a casual knowledge of his behavior. I experienced him as shallow and insincere, with a deep desire to be in the limelight at all times. The amount of pastor-worship that was taking place at Fifth Avenue was nauseating. I left.

    Suzanne is a fine person who deserves much better. I feel great sadness for her, and for her boys. Shame on Tom!

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I have known Tom Tewell for over 20 years and always found him to be a caring minister to all and an outstanding preacher. I for one am very sorry that Fifth Avenue accepted his resignation and feel the church will lose a lot of members. He's always been very devoted to his family and I feel this suit was initiated by a very vindictive man who chose to collect a lot of money and destroy a man's career. Mr. Vione had an affair and if Tom made a mistake, it was being too caring to others. Suzanne is a very special person and if anything, their marriage is stronger today than ever. All who know and love Tom hope that he will continue in the ministry. An elder friend once heard him many years ago preach in New Providence and stated "I've been looking for a minister like that all my life."
    He was, and will continue to be, very special to all who know and love him.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I learned today at church in Bonita Springs, Florida about Tom Tewell's alleged affair and resignation. While I don't know the details, I can say without hesitation that he had a very positive impact on my life and my children's lives. May God be with you Tom....Jim Schultz
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I don't know Dr. Tewell that well, but know that his preaching was amazing. Amazing to the point that when I moved from New York to Tokyo I would download his sermons every Sunday and listen to them. I still own all the tapes and every now and then pop one in to listen. I can't condone such behaviour, if it is indeed true, but I also know that I owe him a huge thank you for the difference he has made in my life.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    It is unfortunate that we have to visit a site like this to learn the truth and not from those who purport to believe in Truth above all else.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    One thing that puzzles FAPC churchgoers was the comment said to be in 1994 from the clerk of session of his Houston church to the clerk of session at FAPC that was repeated at a church event fall 2004 from the pulpit by someone, as giving advice of a sort. While we at FAPC are as puzzled by this turn of events as anyone, we wonder what, if anything, was different for him there and here. Did he change how he was, or did it just come across differently? It would be interesting to compare notes, if only to know what we could have done differently as prevention.

    The congregation is mostly single people, not families, in Midtown Manhattan, typical of NYC, and those single people are mostly women, as in typical in NYC houses of worhip.

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Does anyone know what has happened to him? Is the suit pending? Is he living w/Suzanne?
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I just became aware of this situation. Two questions: first, do we know what Rev. Tewell is doing now? Second, is the allegation that he had an emotional fair, ONLY, with this woman? Has anyone proved a physical affair?
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I have knwon Rev. Tewell for his reign at Fifth Ave. While of course every high profile, big church minister must be a politician, fund raiser, hand shaker, in order to run a big church. That said, Tom was always down to earth with my family, delivered fantastic sermons consistantly each week and believed in his faith each and every day. While it seems that Tom had a brain freeze at some point here, lets give him the benefit of the doubt. Tom's ministry is not done. Look for even greater things from him in the future.
  • carol · 3 years ago
    What a bunch of idiots these babble believers are. "He preached a good sermon." BFD!!! He is nothing but a nonsense salesman who cons sad people that need some type of crutch to get thru their lives.

    "Look for even greater things for him in the future." Greater than adultery? What would that be? Child molesting, perhaps?

    Then on another thread someone again is so hurt we are mocking their imaginary friend. Makes me want to just scream out of frustration!

    Hello to Dave8, Boom, South and everyone!

    Regards, carol







  • Ben · 3 years ago
    These comments praising and supporting these preachers just astonish me, it's just amazing.

    What can someone say with words that have made an impact in your life? Words are just noises made by people.

    What one thing can someone say to you, that you could have gotten on your own, if you had just wanted to?

    Words of comfort perhaps?
    Words of encouragement?
    Words of enlitenment?

    In the end they are just words!!! you people, just like all Americans are being HERDED around by WORDS!!!

    It was WORDS that were written down on clay tablets, by men, translated over 1600 times transcribed down in a BOOK, by men!

    You people put your faith in MEN and their WORDS!!!

    Preachers are just people, special people? NO! The bible says not one is worthy of the kingdom of god, yet you must elect a person that pretends that he is "Holyier" than thou!!!

    This one person wrote about her son being killed in a car wreck and he supplied comfort to her, what could he have said? That his soul is resting in Heaven now? Does saying such a thing prove it's true? No it had to be a preacher saying it, that confirmed it in your mind.

    Why can't you all see that it's just WORDS that you've allowed let dominate your very being?

    Words do not supply truth!!!

    It's all PRETENDING!!!
    You're all pretending it's true!!!
    You're all pretending that you believe in the bible!!!!
    You're all pretending that you're someone special!!!!
    Pretending is living in a LIE!!!

    THe bible is the GREAT MAKE BELIEVE LIE!!!

    IT's SANTA CLAUS with a BIG PROMISE!!!

    You christians are a sick lot, the American people have become a spawn of mindless drivel'ers.

    Whomever will get up and speak, we will follow!!!



































  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    LIES!!! LIES!!! LIES!!! Tell me sweet little lies, Fleetwood Mac.

    Preachers and politicians are professional LIARS!!!

  • Dave8 · 3 years ago
    There is a difference between a preacher and a politician typically. A preacher many times actually believes what they preach, where politicians know better, but still sell their words to the masses. However, there are many preachers, who are also politicians, and they are the ones who move entire masses of people to commit crimes against humanity.

    In the end, both preachers and politicians are word peddlers, and people have a responsibility to make them prove their words. However, that is where authority and force come into play, as both preacher and politician will engage in control behaviors, i.e., alienating, chastising, etc., anyone who takes a different view than they themselves hold.

  • Dave8 · 3 years ago
    Oops, pardon, but preachers who also believe in their words, are likely to mislead the masses in acts of hostility, they just seem to do it through delusional ignorance, in the end, its a matter of determining accountability. I typically, would want to see the political punished far greater, than a delusional preacher who is just sorely ignorant, and a by-product of their upbringing most times. Still, I would isolate a preacher who obviously shows negative effects towards a society and humanity in general. Still, they're all word peddlers.
  • Michael · 3 years ago
    As Christians, we shall not judge or condemn. Tom has left us. As hard as it may be, we forgive.
    I am not ready to cast the first stone.
    Who among us would like to see our sins made public.
    I forgive as Christ would
    Michael



  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    I heard this same pathetic rhetoric when Jim Baker was arrested.

    The way Christians worship their pastors is amazing.

    Sad.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Of course Tom Tewell was just a meesenger. How do some of you think we just worshipped Tom and not God. All I can say is that Rev. Tewell each week renewed my spirit and gave me a recharged spirit to start my week. Without Tom;s insight, ( which comes down from God) life was just muttled.
    Regardless what he did, he was a conduit.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    First of all, it has not been said exactly what happened with Rev. Tewell and the woman. Tom has paid the highest price. God has forgiven him. I am sure Suzanne has forgiven him. This country always wants to hammer those who are down even deeper down. What would Jesus do? Please guys---get a life and forgive.
  • Christine · 3 years ago
    I have known Rev. Tewell for many years and while I believe that he made a terrible mistake, the positive things that he gave us and the church should not be forgotten. He has helped many people and brough many people to Christ. While some of you call him a salesman--YES! ministers are! And so were the desciples and early church founders!!
  • Joel · 3 years ago
    Lets hope that some of the contributors here do not make a bad decision one day. It would be a terrible world if we did not forgive. In fact God will forgive us all on the judgement day for our small and large sins if we confess our faith. We should all wish that we could convey the message as Rev. Tewell did. I guess we are all jealous?
  • Paul · 3 years ago
    This is a sad site where all we do is bash ministers. Does one mistake make all ministers bad? No! Does a mistake by Rev. Tewell make him a bad person? No! We should all thank God for our ministers who day to day bring us closer to Christ. Like none of us has been tempted or swayed. Get a life people!
  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    Okay, let me get this straight. Here's what I'm receiving from the last few posts:

    Tom Tewell made me feel good. He made me feel so good that I want to feel that good again, and no one, absolutely no one, has the right to have an opinion contrary to mine, because, well, because, well, he made me feel good. And that's the way I feel about it.

    Did I get it right?

    I wonder if your supervisor at work were to have a similar "slip" if you would be so accepting? If your supervisor, or manager, made such a slip, would you expect your supervisor to be relieved of his/her position?

    You see, people who take on the mantle of leadership are held to a higher standard than those in the trenches. It's like that in the military and in the workplace. It's interesting that leaders in the Church of the Living God are held to lower standard in the minds of some posters here.

    Perhaps it's because supervisors, drill sergeants and so on, don't make people feel all that good most of the time. Let's see, managers tell you what do to do, and when you do it, you get money. Pastors tell you what to do and take your money. Supervision is hated - pastors are loved.

    I'm sorry, it just doesn't make sense.

    I guess that's why Swaggart is back on TV.













  • X-fundy · 3 years ago
    The BW'ed fundy Paul wrote:

    Does one mistake make all ministers bad? No!

    Does one mistake two people did, Adam and Eve, make all people ever born, have to ask for forgiveness to pay for their sins? YES



  • NYCChurchgoer · 3 years ago
    The civil suit against Dr. Tewell/Fifth Avenue Presbyterian Church/Presbytery of NYC is currently in the courts. The judge will hear oral arguments next month and make the decision to dismiss the suit or accept one, two or three of the causes of action. There has been no ruling issued by the Presbytery of NY as of this date. Further "why's" are outside the scope of this post. At this writing everyone is still married to the same people they were married to 12 months ago.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I think the "Webmaster" should GET A LIFE!
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Tom Tewell announced in August 2005 that the session of FAPC had voted to join the Covenant Network--an organization supporting ordination of gay pastors, elders and deacons. He was simultaneously slammed with a lawsuit. Coincidence?

    Christians,"ExChristians" and everyone else who values civil liberty should consider whether this country is being looted by religious fanatics. Like him or not, Tom Tewell is just another casualty in the ongoing attack on individual rights.

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I'm sure many people do not know what to make of all this. I certainly do not know much about what has happened as I have been away for a while from New York City and am just coming back. I read the letters and have heard the talk. And still things are very confusing.

    But I do know this. Tom Tewell is a very fine man. He changed my life. His love of Christ and His Church as expressed from the pulpit and from the small talk exchanged weekly at the shaking of hands soon thereafter, saved me from taking my own life when I thought everything was lost. The fact that I am alive and well this morning and able to write this letter is directly due to Tom's caring and his God given abilities which he shared with me and with so many others who were fortunate enough to know him.

    I was a very lost man who had about given up on life despite being deemed a successful man by those who thought they knew me. Yet, I was lost and at the edge of the abyss until I quite by accident walked into Fifth Avenue one Sunday morning and heard a message that was nothing like anything I had ever heard before. I believed in him that day and I believe in him now.

    If Tom did something wrong and I would think that he should be entitled to present his side of this matter before anyone makes any judgment whatsoever, I would think that we should all remember that Our Savior told us that not only should we not make jusgments on others but also that only we who are without sin should be the bearer of the stones to toss. Didn't King David in Psalm 103:12 comfort us with the thought that the love of God is so great and transcends sin that "as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us." We have all made mistakes in our lives. I do not know if Dr. Tewell made one in this instance but I know God loves him and has forgiven him if in fact he did.

    My friends, I love Tom Tewell with all my heart. I pray from him and his family daily and for all that are involved in this matter. The vastness of God's love is supremely shown in His forgiveness of our sins. We should not forget that.







  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I am 53 years old and I cannot figure out how people can develope such supreme loyalty to another human based on what he has told them. All preachers have figured out by observation, of other preachers that they can drag people around by their ears.

    It's just like teaching to be a kamakazi, look at Jim Jones, David Koresh, Heavens Gate people.

    I want to know just what a preacher can say with their lips that would cause someone either to kill themselves or someone else, or what a preacher could say with his lips to someone, to thwart a person from killing themselves.

    Is it, GOD LOVES YOU, is this what everyone wants to hear?

    Is it, JESUS LOVES YOU, is this what you want to hear?

    Is it, YOU WILL GO TO HEAVEN, is this what you want to hear?

    Is it, YOU ARE A SINNER, BUT YOU ARE SAVED, is that what you people want to hear.

    WHAT IS IT THAT YOU WANT TO HEAR?
    WHAT WORDS? WORDS OF COMFORT? WORDS OF HOPE? WORDS OF PRAISE? WORDS OF JESUS? WORDS OF GOD? WORDS OF A MAN? KIND WORDS? THOUGHTFUL WORDS? WHAT WORDS DO YOU ALL WANT AND DESIRE SO MUCH TO HEAR?

    I had a dear friend, very devoted christian, we were young, we grew up togther and went to school together he was very intelligent, made straight A's in everything including church, I never heard a negative word come this mans mouth, people would tease him, because he could not see very well, he was legally blind, not totally blind, but he could not drive a car, he could only see close up things with the help of glasses, anyway he had a string of medals that he proudly wore that he acquired by perfect attendence having never missing Sundays at church at least 18 medals, and he would go up to the alter call every so often profess and re-dedicate his life to Christ, and all us not as religious, would wonder why, why would my friend go up and confess his sins and his love for Christ, the one friend and only friend since, that I considered to be pure and Holy. I considered him sinless, I believed in him as much or more than Jesus himself, because I knew this man very well, I spent a lot of time with this man. Anyway as time goes on, I got married and moved away for a couple of years, and one day I came back to my home town and heard that my good friend had killed himself, I said you must be mistaken, there is no way this man would kill himself, this man of God! this man of Jesus? Well apparently he fell in love with a woman and she left him and he felt rejected and decided life wasn't worth living without a woman. This is a true story. Of course I was devastated and it haunts me to this very day and that was 30 years ago.

    I believe we've all been secured from birth, by words, by parents, by people, people actions, by false endearments, that we are so afraid to admit that we are all alone in this world, it's the fear of being rejected, by friends, by parents, by preachers, by god and jesus.

    It appears that words validate us. Words make us worthy beings.
    Words take us back to our childhood, because that is where it all began.

    Word peddlers like preachers and politicians know this and use this knowledge to sway and to minipulate people to conform and to control.

    One question is.
    WHAT WOULD PEOPLE HAVE DONE IF THEY NEVER HAD HEARD OR SEEN A BIBLE?

    WHAT WOULD PEOPLE DO WITHOUT A BIBLE?

    THE BIBLE, MANS CURE ALL, MANS FALSE COMFORT, MANS FANTASY, MANS FALSE HOPE, MANS DREAM FOR THE HERE-AFTER, MANS MAKE BELIEVE FAIRYTALE

    IS THE BIBLE IS SUPPOSED TO SAVE MAN FROM HIMSELF?

    What is in words that control and sway amd minipulate so many?

    Words are just noises made with the lips and are written down in books. Ben




































  • Friend of Tom · 3 years ago
    My wife and I became members of the New Providence Presbyterian Church in New Providence, NJ. My sister invited us to come one Sunday since we did not have a church. To our astonishment it was a standing room only service. My sister said it is always like this and if you want a seat be there at least a half hour early.

    That Sunday began a friendship that has lasted nearly 30 years and still continues. Tom is the consumate Christian. He says what he believes and believes what he says, all of which is based on Christ.

    During the 12 years we were at the church our friendship grew and we watched as hundreds came to Christ because of Tom. We had become Junior High Advisors at the hillarious request of Tom as there was no program for these kids. Thanks to Tom and his guidance we watched the group grow from 5 to 6 to as many as 50. Tom would regularly come to our sessions and special events and offer his advise and talk to the kids and answer questions. Because of Tom we advisors became very close and still are to this day. More importantly we saw these "kids" grow into young adults, some going into the ministry and some into other Christian activities.

    I will be forever greatful to Tom for getting me through some very difficult times. I had become an alcoholic, suffered from depression, and thoughts of suicide. Tom literally gave me his shoulder to cry on on many occasions. When we moved away we knew that we would likely not find another Tom Tewell and so far have not. Tom will forever be in our hearts and minds.

    For those of you who believe the acusations are true and are chastising him remember what the Bible says: let he who is without sin cast the first stone. How many of you are without sin? I am not and certainly Tom is not. If there was any sin in this God has already forgiven him. How many of you can say that?

    Most of you have written negative comments about Tom's character, that he is evil, egotistical, and a womanizer must be talking about a different Tom because this is not the Tom we know and love. In August 2004 we were fortunate enough to make a visit to NYC and see Tom again preaching. He stirred us as always. It was wonderful to see him again, vibrant and alive as ever.

    For anyone who could even think that Tom has done this you are sorely wrong. I have known Tom longer than most of you. That does not make me an expert on Tom but it does give me more insight into his character. You people have destroyed a true Christian, shaken his wife Suzanne, and left his sons in disbelief.

    I will do anything I can to defend Tom. He is the best friend we have and will be with him as long as we both are here. I will not leave this as "anonymous" as most of you have. God is on Tom's side and so am I.

    Tom and Janette Brenner
    Eternal Friend of Tom
















  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    "You people have destroyed a true Christian, shaken his wife Suzanne, and left his sons in disbelief."

    Ah, no.

    Tom got himself into trouble, not us. No one destroyed your hero, he tripped up, that's all.

    When you put yourself above others, and proclaim yourself a leader, then you are held to a higher standard. Tom was obviously a dynamic and charismatic leader, hense the passionate, loyal worship of his followers. However, Mr. Brenner, Tommy boy is just a man, nothing more. He is NOT the Lord's annointed, but he WAS/IS in the news. When you're in the news, it's public discourse time. It's called freedom of speech — get over it.





  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I have to agree with Mr. Brenner 100 percent. The church and our family has felt such a large void since Tom left last fall. Tom always went the second, third and fourth mile for every endeavor he was involved with. He has brought many people to CHrist and has always recharged our family each sunday to meet the demands of this terrible world. Sure, Tom has tripped up here, to what extent we may not ever know. He has received forgiveness from God and from his family and from his flock. He has resigned and embarassed himself with will follow him throughout the rest of his life. I know God will find a place for him in HIS ministry in a very short time and he will be even a better preacher. My only hope is that it is in the New York area. I suggest to those who just want to throw stones to examine THEIR lives and ask forgiveness for your sins. Then and only then can you understand God's forgiveness for us all and our ability to take those back into the flock after a problem. If only all of us had a tenth of what Tom Tewell has, it would be a much better world. People here, I guess are just jealous and love to get on a person when he or she is down. I guess that is why they are "ex-christians" They certainly are............
  • FatherTyme · 3 years ago
    You people just do not get it do you?

    To fervently uphold compassion for a quack preacher just because he has tickled your ears and told you that you're going to Heaven, you will continue to lick his bottom up, because he was good to you, but yet has strung his (flock)you included and his flock (blindless-sheep) members along for the ride to your sweet endearment. You all never did grow up and get past the play pin mentally, because it's sweet endearment terms that you love to hear, you have never gone to church to hear the truth, one reason is, you'll never hear the truth at any church.


    These preachers that you love so well, get up in public and profess to have some devine calling, and claim to hold a position that was granted to them by a god for being deemed worthy in a gods eyes, as all preachers do and take peoples money, on top of that, it's like Jesus hanging on the cross and suddenly saying, I was just kidding!

    Someone said, if one apple in the barrell is bad, does that make all the apples bad? Yes it does! Because all the apples are claimng to be pure and without worms or rotten, now none of the apples can be trusted. If one preacher in the entire USA cannot abstain from committing crimes of the laws of this land, then this defrocks the whole entire bunch.

    They're all crooks and total frauds and you might as well know it now.

    All religions are a fraud and a hoax, it's all make believe child pretend for those that never grew up mentally.

    All religions are for the sick and mentally ill. Sounds like you fit right in.

    And yes anonymous brainwashed sheep of 11:37am, you're a total fraud yourself, you're a fake, and everything about you is a fraud and you know it, why else would you have to return to that idiots church because you want to hear how wonderful that your are, you have to get your religious fix.














  • FAPC Member · 3 years ago
    Tom has paid the ultimate price for his sin (which has not yet been exactly stated as of yet)Anyone can say anything about anyone--it has to be proven. So whatever it is or was...he is forgiven. We all understand his reluctance to stay because of the controversey involved.

    That said---you would have to go a long way to find anyone who is at least one half of what Tom Tewell is. Anyone who knows him (not through newspaper articles) certainly knows he is above the current problem and will come back stronger than ever.

    This country loves to kick people who are having problems. I guess its the American way. So sad for a country who should still believe in the Motto " In God we trust"

    Just watch and see.. Rev. Tewell will come back again stronger and without any remorse. Good people always rise to the top after trials and tribulations.





  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Why do people do to church?

    To hear what they want to hear.

    Why would anyone pay another person money for no reason?

    To hear just what they want to hear.

    Why do people want to hear sweet endearment terms?

    Because they never got them from their fathers.

    So why is a preacher considered so special?

    Because a preacher claims to have been called from his father(god).

    Why is it that christians cannot see the hoax?

    Because they've been told since childhood that god and religion is true.

    Why does not anyone investigate and find out for themselves that all religions and god and preachers are all a hoax?

    Because that would be like calling mother or father a liar.

    No one ever called their parents liars about Santa or The Tooth Fairy, but still they found out it was all a lie.

    What makes the Bible so much more believable?

    It comes with a promise and a threat if you do not believe it.

    Preachers keep people their flock scared, steeped in fear, knowing fullwell that it's all a lie and a hoax, but people are so afraid that they will get spanked by god for not believing such nonsense.

    I cannot imagine living in constant fear of an imaginary god and support preachers that feed off their prey. All preachers are leeches, weasels, wolves in sheeps clothing.































  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    "I love the way Tom Tewell made me feel — I WILL forgive him for anything!"

    "I don't like the way ex-Christians make me feel — they have no right to an opinion!"

    Christian, hear me! Hero worship is a sin!



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I think the title of this web site should be changed to: People that are mad.

    Why is everyone so viicious against ministers? According to Ben if one is bad they are all bad? How does one condemn a whole part of our community in one shot?

    Of course they are bad ministers. There are bad policemen, firemen, postal workers,bad husbands, bad wives, mayors etc. that does not condemn the whole human race.

    The only way this web site can be looked at again, at least by me is for everyone look at both side objectivley and both sides of an argument.

    Man, even if you dont believe in God...you have look at both sides and be reasonable to discussion without shooting from the hip.







  • Shannon · 3 years ago
    Tom Tewell supposedly had god’s power on his side and what’s more he had should have had something even more powerful called self-restraint. He used neither.

    I’m quite certain if I had a friend who seemed genuinely kind. Did things for me that were nice yet turned around and flagrantly seduce my sister away her husband, I’d have to reconsider his motivation for his previous kindness towards me. (I’d have some nasty things to say about my sister, too).

    Dr. Tewell’s previous pious behavior should not be employed as an example of his true character because his earlier benevolence should be viewed with suspicion.



  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    "Of course they are bad ministers. There are bad policemen, firemen, postal workers,bad husbands, bad wives, mayors etc. that does not condemn the whole human race."

    Am I the only one who sees the irony in this comment?

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Shannon,

    I understand exactly what you are saying, although this man does not have a history of this problem. No one is allowed to have brain freeze at some point? No one is condoning what he did (whatever it is)but does that codemn the man forever?

    A father who makes a mistake and robs a bank, is still a father and no one can take away the excellent way he may have brought up his kids even though he has now robbed a bank. Yes he should not have robbed the bank, but he was a good father and could possible still be a good father.

    Tom was a good minister, has had a major problem. Does that mean he cannot redeem himself now?





  • FatherTyme · 3 years ago
    Dear preacher skeered anonymous, first off let me tell you I am a preacher, not of christianity, not of jesus, but of truth, which seems to you as being from hate, because you've never been told the truth before, you think that people telling you how wonderful that you are, is truth. It's not!


    Here's the truth, before 1492, there was not a single Bible on American soil, before 1492,there was not a single church on American soil, before 1492, there had never been a christian on American soil, this land still belongs to the Native Americans, that the christians stole from them, there was estimated 150 million Indians, most all were killed, men women and children and elderly Indians, massacred in the name of God and Jesus Christ, and now you've got the gall to put some 2-bit preacher on high.

    I personally dare you to got to:
    http://www.truthbeknown.com/victims.htm

    and scroll down to Native Peoples and read the whole thing and come back and tell us all how much you love jesus and Tom Tewell.

    Do you really think there exist a God and Jesus that wanted the Native Peoples killed so they can build churches all over America, so God and Jesus can be worshipped? including preachers being worshipped, many preachers living a life of Grandeur, and you and Tom Tewell could not recognize truth if it smacked you in the face.

    I know I'm wasting my time, I can't seem to awake people from their religious mind fog.











  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Ben,

    Your rational still comes from your hate of christians taking away land from native indians. That is not the question here. The question is whether Rev. Tewell can still be effective in his career choosing. You are not comparing apples to apples.

    You are still not allowing other sides an opinion...You are right period...no other opinions required? No one is doubting your conviction of the problems of the american indians, you just cant discount the rest of the world to further your cause.



  • Dano · 3 years ago
    Posted by Anonymous to ExChristian.Net - News and Opinion at 3/20/2006 03:06:41 PM

    "Tom was a good minister, has had a major problem. Does that mean he cannot redeem himself now?"

    That is an oxymoron. You can't teach people mythology as if it were truth, and screw up their brains and lives and "Be Good"
    Dan (Rationalist)




  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    OK-first of all...any Christian with good sound theology knows that a person does not redeem him or herself...it is God who is the redeemer. This is part of the problem with you people...you cannot distinguish between God and Tom Tewell. Tom Tewell is not the saviour...God is the Saviour. Please get that!
    Yes-pastor worship or hero worship is idolatry and there is a lot of that going on here.
    This is not a "he said, she said" situation...there has been an investigation and a report has been made...the only reason people don't know what is in the report [i.e. the truth] is because Tom Tewell has requested a "stay" in the process until the lawsuit has been settled. Once that happens the truth about what happened will be made known.
    Yes-Tom Tewell made a "mistake" with this woman, but the real mistake he made was to lie about it and try to cover it up. He lied to the investigative committee, to his staff, to his wife and to his congregation. Had he told the truth in the beginning, things would have gone differently. His ego and his narcissism don't allow for anything or anyone to get in the way of his career. He's like the Wizard of Oz..."pay no attention to what's going on behind that curtain...just look at me!" Sickening!
    If Tom Tewell wants to be a preacher in the future, perhaps he should start preaching sermons that are honest about the human condition and the fact that we ALL struggle. Instead of preaching Norman Rockwell sermons about his 'perfect marriage" and his "perfect family" he should be honest and say that marriage [and life] is hard work...that's the truth. Nobody's life [Christian or exchristian or whatever] is perfect...not even Tom's
    Tom should practice some of the integrity that he so often preaches about and tell the truth about what he did.
    His family and the congregation/staff at FAPC deserve at least that much. Then you can all "forgive him" and you'll know what you're forgiving him for.
    There's no disputing that he has done good things in his ministry, but there is also no disputing that he has become a hypocrite. If we say we have no sine then the truth is not in us. Tom Tewell needs to confess, repent and ask for forgiveness...and be honest about what he is asking to be forgiven from. Otherwise it's just cheap grace.






  • Shannon · 3 years ago
    Anonymous 3/20/2006 3:06 PM EST

    -I’ve known my best friend since eighth grade, nearly 23 years. I whole-heartily love her. She is one of the most important persons in my life. I understand her character to be that she would not cheat on her husband.

    -But if she were to flagrantly conspire to cheat on her husband and was caught, I - honestly, without doubt - would condemn her. Even if her husband would choose to stay with her, I would still divorce her from my life because there are certain things that morally I abhor. For me there are lines of behavior you don’t cross and if you do there is no redemption. After someone has taken the moral highroad and then precede right down to the lowroad without a blinker, there are no excuses. Zero.

    “No one is condoning what he did (whatever it is) but does that condemn the man forever?”

    -Seems to me that your god has a policy of condemning people FOREVER.

    “A father, who makes a mistake and robs a bank, is still a father and no one can take away the excellent way he may have brought up his kids even though he has now robbed a bank. Yes he should not have robbed the bank, but he was a good father and could possible still be a good father.”

    -So is this what you would tell your daughter if her husband was caught robbing bank? The mindset of someone, who thought the robbing a bank was his only recourse, is hardly someone who would be the best moral teacher. He could serve as what not to do but then I’ve always hated the do-as-I-say-and-not-as-I-do mantra.











  • FatherTyme · 3 years ago
    Just as I thought! It doesn't matter to you that the christian religion has blood on it's hands, and your self-appointed preacher himself, has no idea that he is promoting a religion that was brought over here in USA and is responceable for the murder of innocent Indians all killed in the name of Jesus.

    God is no savior, he allowed innocent Indians to be killed in his name. Get That!!

    Apparently you do not consider Indians to be human beings either.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    What a relief to know that we are all perfect ! So glad none of us would have to ask for forgiveness. So glad that would never happen to us. ex christian.net is pretty much the same as ex-out of touch of reality.net no discussion allowed here I guess.
  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    No discussion allowed?

    You just posted for crying out loud!

    What you don't like is people who disagree with you.

    Have a nice day.





  • south2003 · 3 years ago
    Annoy said: What a relief to know that we are all perfect ! So glad none of us would have to ask for forgiveness.

    How about an apology first? This preacher did his womanizing on many occasions and now he's busted. If he was not busted, he would have continued.

    So why look for forgiveness when you had the other option available i.e. personal responsibility - one that doesn't cause pain. That option is available to everyone, but apparently, he loved to self indulge on others expense.



  • Shannon · 3 years ago
    ARGH! This is not a matter of perfection. We all say one thing and do another. We all crossed the gray lines of right and wrong but Dr. Tewell did not use the company credit card to buy a Metallic CD.

    And yes, we, humans often fail each other miserably but we are not talking about shortcomings in emotional support here. Dr. Tewell didn’t just slip onto top of Mrs. Vione while she just happened to be horizontal and naked. This is not a failure in judgment; this is moral bankruptcy. He systematically chose each step, consciously. In his understanding of the standards that he chose to promote, he knew adultery to be wrong.

    Dr. Tewell’s responsibility was to uphold the bar for the standards - no ifs, ands or buts about. His position, also, allowed him to lop guilt and condemnation onto others for the sins of lustfulness, adultery, and divorce.

    The physical action of committing adultery is truly the lesser of his crimes. His high crime is the flagrant and systematical disregard for the standards that he was supposed to duly uphold.





  • south2003 · 3 years ago
    "Dr. Tewell’s responsibility was to uphold the bar for the standards - no ifs, ands or buts about. His position, also, allowed him to lop guilt and condemnation onto others for the sins of lustfulness, adultery, and divorce."

    "The physical action of committing adultery is truly the lesser of his crimes. His high crime is the flagrant and systematical disregard for the standards that he was supposed to duly uphold."

    Well said Shannon



  • onlooker · 3 years ago
    Actually Shannon,

    Nicely said. Those in position of authority have not to sway. No if or buts.

    good job



  • Friend of Tom · 3 years ago
    Do any of you who are commenting about Dr. Tewell really know him. I find it amazing people can say such things about a person they do not even know.

    I do know him. Perhaps when the courts finally rule on this situation everyone will have to find another person to talk about.

  • Dave8 · 3 years ago
    Well, Friend of Tom, I'll ask you the hard question. If Tom were an Atheist, would you be on this site, supporting him? Or, would it be more accurate to say, that you would expect an Atheist to commit such a crime, and thus require no special support.

    Now, if you choose to support the Atheist, then just remember...

    2 Corinthians 6:14 - Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?"

    2 Corinthians 6:15 - "And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?"

    You see, Friend of Tom, before I was born, you were predisposed to shun everyone who doesn't believe as you do. Is it Tom, that has been betrayed or is it more likely, that you and Tom, have a belief founded in bigotry, and thus, shun all those who do not believe as you.

    If justice is to be served, hopefully, it is by the hand of someone in a judges' position, that isn't as bigotted, as your bible promotes.

    Whether Tom is guilty of this crime, or not, he is surely guilty for being an accessory and trafficker of bigotted hatred, based on the doctrine he must accept as truth, the bible. And you, Friend of Tom, are nothing but a supporter for one who has vowed their life to support the doctrine of bigotry.

    When Tom is long gone, and you as well, there will long be the topic of christian bigotry to address, if history serves as an accurate measure.

    If you would like to discuss, how you are able to reconcile the bigotry of the bible, and how you "choose" to behave in society, as tolerant of non-believers, then please, by all means, elaborate... as that would be something worthy of discussion.















  • Friend of Tom · 3 years ago
    Dave, you still did not answer my question. "Do any of you who are commenting about Dr. Tewell really know him." I still don't think so.

    As far as your question, "If Tom were an Atheist, would you be on this site, supporting him? Or, would it be more accurate to say, that you would expect an Atheist to commit such a crime, and thus require no special support."

    I would be on this site and am on this site because I care for the person and his family. Whatever happened to presumed innocent until proven guilty. People who have been responding on this site have already judged and sentenced this man.

    Tom and Janette Brenner





  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    We attended FAPC for the first time in 2 years, just this Sunday.

    Tom's absence was palpable and it only took a quick look today via Google to get some background.

    A dreadful situation notwithstanding, but maybe we need to invoke the famous and maybe shelfworn.. "WWJD"...I'm pretty sure he'd remind us that forgiveness is the ultimate expression that our faith demands..

    I'm proud of being faithful for 35 years of marriage...however.. .. There but for fate goes anyone of us..


    Our prayers are with Tom and his family.


    MACMD











  • gordon thompson · 3 years ago
    I am so glad that most people who are commenting against Tom Tewell are not on a jury in a capital case
    He is convicted and he has not been given a chance to defend himself, what a great bunch of sanctimonious Christians you are, Joe MacCarthy has nothing on you guys.
    Don't you know that 80% of law suits don't even go to trial, so let see if there is a trial and wait for the verdict instead of you convicting Tom, there has been enougth damage to the man allready.

  • Bentley · 3 years ago
    By fervently and quickly ready and willing to forgive this preacher at the drop of a hat, condones and leaves the door open for you Christians should you perhaps find yourselves in the same situation some day, knowing that Tom Tewell will be there ready and willing to forgive you also, at the drop of a hat. This is the guise of Christianity.
  • Dave8 · 3 years ago
    Gordon Thompson: "...so let see if there is a trial and wait for the verdict instead of you convicting Tom, there has been enougth damage to the man allready."

    That's what many sexual predators say, when they have their name loaded on the crime database. They were convicted of a crime, they were punished, and they continue to live with the stigma for the rest of their life, as long as state laws enforce court release of records.

    One question, why should this preacher be treated any different, "if" he is found guilty, as there is currently as much, if not more probability that some form of improper misconduct occurred. I suppose once a person, gets through their trials and tribulations, they should be allowed to recover and move on. However, for those who are shown to have stumbled, they require society to "help" them from being placed in a position that compromises their weakness, whatever it is.

    Oh, and many cases don't go to trial, because many people; don't want to be victimized twice (or continuously) through the legal process which is part of the public record, don't have the money, or don't have the knowledge or support in order to know how to ensue a legal case in civil court.

    Also, court cases that do go to trial, aren't perfect. Some guilty people walk free, and some innocent are gound guilty. The ones who will really deliberate on this case, will be the local community, based on this persons' actions and the testimonies of the plantiffs. There will be those in the end, who will have to choose between the testomonies of those who accuse, and the defendent.

    I find it interesting, that a person paid to be a professional preacher, who by their very profession requires them to bear witness and testimony of a god, spirits (holy ghost), devils, heaven, hell, angels, etc., that have zero evidence.

    How does one tell the difference between a lie, or false testimony, and the preachers' religious testimony? Neither one, would have evidence supporting the statements.

    It would appear, when empty words become acceptable as the foundation for truth, that everything is possible, to include religion, etc.

    Oh, and in this type belief system, its illogical to allow "some" unsubstantiated words to remain as truth, while they allow "other" words from the same person to be disregarded as untrue.















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Gordon...

    There already has been an investigation and a report has been written and submitted in accordance with the Presbyterian system of governance. The only reason that you and others don't know what the report says is because Tom Tewell has requested that it not be made public because of the civil suit filed against him. He is hoping that interest in this will die down and he can just deal with this quietly. That way he can keep on living in denial about what really happened.

    His guilt has already been established...it doesn't matter what happens in the civil suit. By continuing to defend him, you and his other "friends" are enabling him to continue on in this denial.

    So go ahead and forgive him...just don't keep defending him as innocent...that's not really helping him at all. If you truly are his friends then help him to be accountable for what he has done and the damage his actions have caused.

    Holding someone accountable does not mean you don't forgive them, but it also doesn't mean you stick your head in the sand and pretend that something didn't happen when it actually did.

    Stop living in denial and stop worshipping Tom Tewell!









  • Friend of Tom · 3 years ago
    Anonymous....so tell us all. You have first hand knowledge that this report shows that Dr. Tewell is guilty and is hiding behind this report until the civil suit is over. OR are you like the rest hiding behind the name "anonymous" and afraid to let everyone know who you are. We are some of those who still believe in innocent until proven guilty.

    Tom and Janette Brenner

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Yes-I do have knowledge of the report. You will too, some day. Until then...keep on believing in his innocence until proven guilty. It seems to be working for you...it's less painful for you that way.

    Here are some questions for you to consider while you're waiting for the report to be made...if he's innocent, why did he resign? If he's innocent...why didn't he say so? If he's innocent...why didn't he just tell the truth from the beginning? If he's innocent...why did he lie to cover up the truth in the first place?

    Just asking.

    So if you have the answers to these questions...please let us all know.

    Many times...it's the cover up and the lies that come back to hurt someone in the end.[Think Bill Clinton] In this case "Dr." Tewell should have told the truth and then so many people would not have been hurt.







  • Gordon Thompson · 3 years ago
    The last two anonoymous writer must have had a "LOBECTOMY" as they are not using brains they were born with.

    Nowhere in my posting did I defend Tom Tewell, nor did I condem him, all I stated hold your comments until all the facts are out.

    The last anonymous poster claims he has a report, so where did this report come from, and why doesn't he share it with the rest of the community, again a typical MacCarthy trick when he stated I have a list of 500 communist in the state dept. and none was ever convicted.

    You are cowards hiding behind the mask of ANONIMTY, the ghost of the "Witches of Salem" appears, and Dave 8 writes about Hitler and sexual perverts, I note he got up at 403AM to answer my posting, or maybe he just STAGGERED in after a night around town all juiced up, because no sober man could write such drible.

    To Mr&Mrs Brenner, I would suggest you not participate in the game of mental "MASTURBATION" as these guys are getting their jollies off, and this will be my final posting.







  • Dave8 · 3 years ago
    Gordon Thompson: "Dave 8 writes about Hitler and sexual perverts, I note he got up at 403AM to answer my posting, or maybe he just STAGGERED in after a night around town all juiced up, because no sober man could write such drible."

    You provided no direct response to either of the posts, you mention above from me. Yet, you call others cowards, as if that somehow removes the strength of their stance as they presented their argument.

    And, you as the coward who doesn't address the responses to your comments directly, fall back to personal attacks, i.e., I've been out on the town obviously, etc.

    I find it amusing, that you ask for the public to keep a mental abeyance in order to prevent creating a potentially erroneous picture of Tewell, because "no one" has the real truth, or information in the public purview. However, you are capable of accussing, trying, and passing judgement on my values, character, and person, using a time-stamp on a blog.

    Not that I expect a cogent response, I have yet to get one, in regard to any of my replies to your posts. Therefore, I can only conclude, that you had no intention of discussing the issue, your goal seems to have been to continue to reinforce any doubt that may exist for as long as possible.

    You have disengaged, when you found, that people are not backing away from this issue, they are staying alert, and waiting for more information to arise.

    Gordon Thompson: "To Mr&Mrs Brenner, I would suggest you not participate in the game of mental "MASTURBATION" as these guys are getting their jollies off, and this will be my final posting."

    As a final parting, Gordon, realizes that he can not impose doubt to the point, that a society become disinterested, and thus, attempts damage control, by pleading to the Brenner's to pull away from an open discussion on the topic.

    Well, I won't return the childish name calling, and ad hominem attacks. I can only hope, that everyone keep a sharp situational awareness of their environment. It prevents, people from being victimized, and misled. Those who would like to postpone that observation, or suggest that it is somehow beneficial to remain unalert, do so, for their own purposes. As for me, I will continue to logically, ask questions, and dig as much as possible with the information available, relentlessly.















  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Anonymous is misleading and running hard with an agenda. I, too, have some (but admittedly not complete) knowledge of the report. It was six months in coming, leaving Tewell to be publicly disgraced and expressly forbidden to defend himself. Don't assume the "Presbyterian system of governance" can't be manipulated. It is also easy enough to time a lawsuit to shut down public knowledge even longer, and you honestly can't blame Tewell for suing himself!

    While sin is sin in God's eyes, and Tewell understands that, there are deep gradations in guilt and very broad definitions of misconduct in clergy codes of ethics. Anonymous enjoys blurring those. Within the strict limits imposed on him, Tewell did his best to admit wrongdoing and provide clarity to his congregation upon resigning. The fact that Anonymous and others want that wrongdoing to be something greater and truly salacious is a sorry commentary on them.

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Clearly, New Yorker has "a limited knowledge" about what is in the report. The report was delayed initially, because Tewell did not tell the truth right away...then he was told what he needed to do [i.e. resign] and still he delayed his actions. He preached throughout the spring and summer and "pretended" that nothing was wrong. He should have resigned long before he did.

    How do you know what Tewell "understands" as far as sin goes? Perhaps it is you, New Yorker who is "running hard with an agenda."

    By the way...are you sure that the report says "clergy misconduct?" Better be careful about what assumptions you make about that. Sure the Presbyterian system can be manipulated...that is exactly what happened here in that Tewell was allowed to continue to preach and teach for as long as he did. You have no idea how long this has been going on.

    If you are so close to Tewell...since you seem to be an authority on what he "understands" then you should encourage him to tell the truth about what he did. Even now...the truth has not been told. He is not capable of facing it...perhaps you could help him.

    You're right about one thing...the lawsuit was ill-timed, but that seems to have worked in Tewell's favor. It allows him to keep the truth from being told.

    Encourage your "friend" to tell the truth. It's what he should have done all along.









  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Hey, Anonymous, can you hold your innuendo for half a minute? No, I made no claim to quote verbatim the report, much less to be a special "friend" of Tom Tewell. I merely had to read what he wrote to the congregation. All this, I assume, from the same Anonymous who posted on March 20 presuming to know what Tewell had been telling his wife!

    So, before we disregard you entirely, why don't you give out one more piece of your disinformation and let us "know" who told Tewell to resign last spring? The Investigating Committee? If they had already reached a conclusion, why did they not issue their charges, rather they leave the senior pastor of this flagship church to "twist slowly in the wind" while they took their summer vacations? As you know, the IC is merely charged with bringing an indictment which Tewell could have brought to church trial. Or did the Permanent Judicial Commission get involved at this early date? One wonders why then he was being invesigated and judged by people who already believed him guilty. We await your description of this so-called due process.

    After that, I'll try to leave you alone to spew your garbage. Fortunately, readers here have recognized your McCarthy-like tactics for what they are.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I am so sorry that Tom has left NYC. I loved his preaching, but I have come to the conclusion that his "affair" had to be going on for at least two years before the show down they (Tom and Suzanne and Clerk of Session) had at his apartment with Rachel and her husband in the spring of 2001. He will have to disavow the Presbyterian church so that the report doesn't get out.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I got to know Tom very well at
    MDPC & although I never knew him to be a womanizer I did learn about his HUGE ego & his insincerity...a revelation discovered only shortly before he left. I only hope that this "mess" has made him realize how important honesty, humbleness & sincerity are in any man...but especially a man of God. I believe in forgivness, so if he asks to be forgiven I would encourge everyone to do just that. I do think ministers are held to higher expectations.
  • Pennsylvanian · 3 years ago
    I have been following this story for some time and I am very saddened for everyone involved. I have been listening to Dr. Tewell for a few years and loved to listen to and digest his sermons. I just have two questions: First, how long has this investigation been going on? Was this cloud over the church the entire last year? Were the congregants aware of this? Secondly, I am confused as to what Rev. Tewell could have said in his resignation letter. I know it is not a public document but anyone care to explain what he wrote?
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Who cares about Tom Tewell. he's destined straight to Hell, according to his own teachings.
  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Pennsylvanian: I’m not sure if Tom Tewell’s letter is considered private, so I will lay off that. But, I’ll try my hand at the other stuff, and then do my best to shut up. The investigation, begun a year ago, was properly kept quiet from the congregation and all but a few elders, but it still probably cast a long shadow over the actions of the pastor and those who “knew.” It took longer than expected (one can argue about why), there was some substance to it (even if it was no longer about adultery), and it became an issue when time came for Tewell to return from summer leave. It was recommended that he take a leave of absence. So, it was in late August that the congregation was notified, but so, too, by someone, were the newspapers. One tabloid, the New York Post, took hold of it, running the absolutely false story that Tewell and Mrs. Vione had confessed to the investigating committee that they had committed adultery. The paper cited a “source close to the investigation,” a disturbing development suggesting at least the possibility that someone in high places was spreading slander (after all, even the tawdry Post is supposed to accurately place its anonymous sources).

    After long delays, people expected a ruling from the “judges” (the Permanent Judicial Commission) when they were scheduled to meet in late October. On the same morning Mr. Vione filed his lawsuit, presumably because he didn’t “like” the results of the investigation; this shut down the process entirely because, well, lawyers—and not just Tewell’s lawyers—are overly cautious beings. Once you had this lawsuit and the inevitable delay and the now postponed possibility of his future suspension, Tewell did the proper thing and submitted his resignation. Upon accepting his resignation, the elders of his own church were finally allowed by the Presbytery to talk things out with him but apparently declined (Go figure—I’m guessing it was the lawyers again), so they remain in no better position to inform the congregation of what had occurred and are content to let rumors fly.

    But when you ask, Pennsylvanian, if this cast a cloud, the answer is more complicated. Tewell had been the victim of a whispering campaign of rumors of sexual immorality for about three or four years prior to this (the same thing happened to his predecessor, who also left abruptly, presumably for other reasons). Some of these rumors involved his proximity to Mrs. Vione, but there were other tales of other women that were blatantly false. So, when a real investigation occurred, it was hard for most people to separate slander from truth. And perhaps that was the intention all along.



  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Correction on the above post: I misplaced a quotation mark. It is better to say of the New York Post that "the paper cited sources that were close to the investigation."
  • Curious · 3 years ago
    Dear Friends,

    I'm actually a seminary student and find all these comments to be very interesting and instructive.

    I've read all of the comments.

    Does anyone have an update as to the "case" against Dr. Tewell?

    One of our correspondents suggested that there was an internal Presbyterian investigation, but that those records are closed pending litigation.

    Do any of you have an update as to Dr. Tewell's practical fate?

    I'm not interested in a theological argument, just wondering if he's still able to practice as a Presbyterian minister.

    Thank you so much!













  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    it is important to keep in mind
    that until all of the information is out and Tom Tewell has had the chance to explain himself

    (he is not allowed to say anything
    in his defense at present while
    negative talk is flying around
    and out of control)

    things should be clear as to what happened and the circumstances involved.

    Of course we know not to use as credible information the stories / headlines in the NY Post from someone who betrayed the church's trust in their position !!!

    It is fair to say that things most likely have been exaggerated as to what actually went on.

    So we must all wait patiently
    on God's timing for the truth to come out.


    remember that as you judge so shall
    ye be judged ( we all are in need of God's mercy as sin carries consequences that Jesus took for us on the cross)

    knowing that we ALL have
    fallen short of the glory of God
    with such destructive sins such as gossip (a sin God hates)

    Don't we all need to be treated
    kindly when we do something wrong?

    A critical attitude reveals
    the condition of one's heart.
    Thinking the worst.

    Remember Jesus with the woman
    caught in adultery and his attitude
    "go and sin no more"
    (not that Tom committed adultery)


































  • NYC Churchgoer · 3 years ago
    Absolutely amazing that no specifics from the report have made their way to the press, or blogs. He resigned in Nov 2005; it is now April 2006.

    For any house of worship in the country, a "Misconduct Policy" is becoming a larger issue every day. If you want to know what "misconduct" means in the clergy world google "minister" and "misconduct" and start reading. More importantly than "what" is "why," and an congregation educated about misconduct prevention is just like a NYC populace educated about anti-terrorism measures. "If you see something, don't keep it to yourself," is what we NYC subway riders hear daily. Exactly the same point as printed and taught misconduct policies.

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    yes that is called being accountable to each other
    If you see something - say something.

    and watching out for each other
    especially ministers who are good
    shepherds because Satan wants to pull them down and will work through people to accomplish this

    caring enough to approach the person when we see that they are not really aware of what is going on - rationalizing things

    That is a very big issue indeed in this situation when people observed Rachel.
    But just about everybody assumed (expected) Tom had the situation under control -
    rather than looking out for him.

    Only a very few if any said anything at all to Tom directly that was helpful.

    He thought that she was safe

    Whereas many thought otherwise
    but said nothing.

    this is a lesson for everybody
    in all churches to help your ministers and watch out for them as they are only human after all and can make mistakes. Tom said
    in his final letter that God does bring good out of situations - a heightened sense of awareness after this.





















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    you are all missing the point! what do you think tom's role was in all of this? was he just the 'poor overworked minister who surrendered to the advances of the evil woman?
    do any of you think that Mr. Vione's complaint has any merit?
    How do any of you know what was said to Tewell before this happened? You are all making a lot of assumptions...once again thinking the best of Tewell.
    Maybe he did do some if not all of the things that are in the press...maybe he didn't...until the report is made public...and Tewell does not want it to be...we wohn't know for sure.
    Did any of you stop to think that Tewell may have been the aggressor here?
    At the very least...the boundaries were clearly his to cross..and that he did do. To what extent he crossed those boundaries is really only known to the two parties involved...at least until the report is made public.
    Tewell will be able to go on in ministry, just not in the PCUSA...at least not until the PJC gives its recommendation.
    Stop saying that he "cannot talk about this because of the litigation." He could have and should have talked about it honestly from the beginning...had he done so, this would all be over by now. Instead...he lied and continued to lie about the situation...he called his staff and session and trustees together to "look them in the eye and tell them that it is absolutly not true!" He then had to go back and say that he had been "less than forthcoming with the truth" OPPS! Where's the integrity in that?

    What about all the letters and voicemail messages that were part of the investigation? Does anyone know what happened to them? I'd also like to know whose money Tewell used to fund this relationship...his? the church's? HMMM.
    I would say that Tewell still has some explaining to do...or as you Christians would say...some things to still be accountable for.









  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Again this person is giving out misinformation - if you are so well informed then you know that Tom is not allowed to speak out in his defense because the process within the NYC Presbytery is not concluded.

    So that people can take advantage of this and twist things around
    and make all kinds of assertions about Tom Tewell's character is outrageous even by secular standards.

    Tom whenever someone did something that was not right towards himself always responded with patience and kindness and a word of insight not cruelty or a condemning attitude.

    He had a servants heart and that is what is important - truly caring about others.

    Mature christians know that - there but for the grace of God go I
    -and refrain from being harsh -
    knowing that they too are capable of sinning.

    It is clear that this person has a very selfish and negative agenda with regards to Tom Tewell when speaking of him in this way.

    They show that they do not have a personal relationship with God nor understand Gods purposes in all of this. This person (and others like them)only show to others what kind of person they are by how they respond.


    A person who has stumbled and been forgiven has a very strong testimony and can be even a greater blessing to others being an example of not giving into discouragement but being a witness of Gods grace and presence in their lives. Far more than self righteous people who have done nothing terribly wrong in their lives (so they think).

    Again we must all wait for the truth to come out regarding the results of the investigation as well as Tom's explanation.



















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    the process in the Presbytery is concluded...except that Tewell has requested a stay.

    stop preaching and start paying attention...

    he should be forgiven...after he confesses his sin. untill then, he is living in deceit...and not because of any legal or judicatory process...but because of his own unwillingness not to be perfect.



  • NYC Churchgoer · 3 years ago
    Not to be "perfect?" Whatever any of us are or are not, do or don't do, none of us on earth are perfect.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    You all sound like a bunch of preschoolers! You've got your fake god to thank and to blame, you've all been so conned into your silly beliefs.

    Tom Tewell like all preachers, regardless of location and church are FAKES, Get IT! FAKES

    You've all tossed your hard earned money into the ring, and now with much regret you've all been taken to the cleaners and you're all bolstering mad.

    You've all let Tom Tewell and all other preachers tickle you ears with sweet lies and now you're all steamed because you been had, all of you christians.

    You'll gladly sacrifice your hard earned money for lies, you're all a bunch little butt kissers, you kiss the preachers butt, the members butt, and any one who professes to be a christian, and then when they (sin) not unlike you, you start with your christian cliche's, thinking that repeating biblical chiche's will send god down here and repair things to the way they were, before your trusted conniving friend slit all of your throats.

    All of you christians live in the days of when you were 5 years old and have been threatened with the fear of imaginary Hell by your insane preacher.

    You're all completely insane, grow up and look for truth, and not what some two-bit money grubbing, womanizing preacher has to say.

    Keep ye damned money, ye fools!













  • NYC Churchgoer · 3 years ago
    We don't forgive others for them, we forgive for ourselves. And you can forgive how someone caused you to be sad at losing something, just like you can thank them for giving you something. It isn't a moral issue to forgive someone based on their actions, since it has nothing to do with you whether someone asks for forgiveness or not. His wife, his sons, his extended family have to make peace with whatever he said to them. But the rest of us? It became just a soap opera whose members of 5th Av became an unwilling audience, and the people who will foot the bill for any pay-outs, increased insurance premiums, preventative training programs for the congregaation, staff and clergy, and search costs for the Intermin and next Senior Pastor.
    But, as people, we can just learn whatever anyone chooses to take as the lesson, and then move on. The point of religion is to live, personally a better life, not to debate whose relgiion is better or who lives more faithfully. And that's why churches and civil courts have laws. To be applied.
  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Yes, Anonymous, some of us have seen Mr. Vione’s complaint; it is technically a public document. One doesn’t have to be a lawyer to see that it lacks merit (or even coherence). One almost feels sorry for the guy. Of course, we hope the judge sees it that way, but we must remember that the motion is for summary judgment, not necessarily a final verdict on the merits.

    That’s quite a dramatic story about bringing the staff and session and trustees together and looking them in the eye! Too bad it ain’t true. Most of the church officers did not know about this investigation. Perhaps you are confusing it with the previous whisperings about adultery that harassed Tewell over the years. And if Tewell wasn’t as forthcoming with his staff as we would have liked, that’s unfortunate, but it is helpful to remember that the original charge was adultery, not “hanging out too much with a woman he was supposed to be mentoring.” It’s probably worth reserving judgment on that one.

    Yes, granted, Tewell is the responsible party. If he didn’t know that before, he sure is learning the hard way! But the aggressor? It’s a big church with hundreds of witnesses. Please...don’t be silly.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    by way of clarification to those who are not well schooled

    when satan works through someone
    he puts an idea in their mind
    that they think is their own

    there is a book out called
    "the battlefield of the mind"
    that explains this.

    and he places thoughts in all our minds but we must be able to discern these that they are not to be believed or acted upon.

    so i am not calling rachel evil
    at all.

    We are to leave vengeance to the Lord and for good reason because he does a much better job of it.
    And there has been alot of very destructive results from this that any sincere person would want to avoid at all costs.

    I believe that the motives are not pure at all with regards to the civil suit.

    Joe's financial situaion is certainly a relevant question considering the condition of his finances around 2002 which is a matter of public record.

    And he need to be able to finance the payments that will go with the divorce settlement. Interesting that they keep postponing the meeting with the judge isn't it !!!





















  • Jim Arvo · 3 years ago
    Anonymous: "by way of clarification to those who are not well schooled..."

    What an honor to have someone such as yourself, who is obviously "well schooled", come and instruct us.

    Anonymous: "when satan works through someone he puts an idea in their mind that they think is their own..."

    Please give me one concrete, verifiable, example of this phenomenon.

    Anonymous: "there is a book out called 'the battlefield of the mind' that explains this."

    Do you mean the book by Joyce Meyer? Her thesis seems to be that depression, anxiety, etc. stems from Satanic influence rather than the rather well-established scientific explanations. Her ideas also appear to be purely dogmatic, as she starts from the assumption that such supernatural beings exist, and that the Bible is the "word of god". Even if those two enormous assumptions were correct, her claims do not necessarily follow. Hence, I think here thesis has no credibility whatsoever.

    Anonymous "and he places thoughts in all our minds but we must be able to discern these that they are not to be believed or acted upon."

    And what evidence do you have that a single word of Meyer's fantastic explanation is correct?

    Anonymous: "We are to leave vengeance to the Lord and for good reason because he does a much better job of it."

    Can you give me a single verifiable instance of that?

















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    dear jim

    I have studied the bible
    and have found it to be true
    and Joyce Meyers book is based on scriptures. I feel very fortunate to have done this - not superior.

    I did not want to boast but it is hard to read comments by people who do not really follow the basic teachings of Jesus - spouting off about a man who is truly a human being who has helped many over the years.

    yes, I can give examples of how Satan works. He wants us to feel discouraged and is the father of lies (Jesus says this) and the way we combat him is to know the character of God and his promises as found in the bible as well as how God has worked things through for us in the past - it is important to remember Gods faithfulness.

    And Gods character is that he is all knowing and also truth and perfection and holy and his solutions are so beyond our poor ability to reason. That when we leave it to him to take care of the situation and trust - it leaves us more energy to direct towards what needs to be taken care of as well as not being so angry at the other person realizing how much gratitude we feel for the blessings God bestows on us every day - leaving that person in Gods hands. And then we have a better attitude and response to the person which is a great help also - we do not carry the burden.
    I sit back in amazement seeing how God had worked things through at a much higher level than I ever could.

    But people need to take the time to study Bible which they do not do
    for the most part. That is what I was trying to say by "unschooled"



    The key is to have a good teacher who really understands what scriptures say. Admittedly many churches have very confused teachings nowadays that are based on peoples comfort levels and are very misleading.

    I hope this explains to you enough that you would want to explore further.

    Watching Charles Stanley on television or intouch.org
    and reading his books - particularly his study series of about 20 books ($8 each)is a wonderful way to gain a foundation.






















  • boomSLANG · 3 years ago
    Fundanoymous:

    "it is important to remember Gods faithfulness."


    Advice from an Atheist and former Christian:

    It is important to remember to first provide objective evidence for God's existance before spouting off the same old tired Christian sound-bites---while at the same time using words like "blessing"; "holy"; "faithfulness"; "Satan"...ALL of which have no referant in reality.

    ' Glad I could help.








  • freeman · 3 years ago
    Satan was jesus!!!!!
    He lead god's choosen away from salvation by being the false prophet. "God forgive them for they know not what they do" refers to the soon to be christians! Satan has fooled you all and will gain strength through your ignorance.

    lmao big time!


  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    YES INDEED!! Satan is alive and well. Satan is at the controls, he is pulling and tugging at your heart strings as we speak, and he's passing on Evil thoughts to Christians, to make them loose faith, and so he can claim (snatch)their souls,and drag them off to Hell, when they least expect it!

    Just ask Sister Joyce Myers, she should know all there is about Satan, since she works for him.

    Satan The Master Deceiver Of All Time has disguised himself as, RELIGION! Yes my friends in Christ, Satan has disguised himself as PREACHERS, and you've bought into the Jesus Lie purported by SATAN.

    Jesus was possessed by Satan while on Earth and invented the story of Jesus the Christ savior. Jesus stole the attention away from God, that he Jesus himself, may be worshipped, instead of the true God, No one comes to the father except through ME, a total lie!

    Isaiah 18 I am the only God and there is none other, not before and not after, I am the only God.

    All you christ cultist's are going STRAIGHT TO HELL!! All you Jesus worshippers amd Preacher worshippers have been blindly deceived By the Master Deceiver SATAN!!!

    It's Too Late, you've all confessed Christ as your personal savior, and you're destined to Hell, to Burn for all eternity.

    You've all been fooled by your own selfish ignorance.

    Once a fool always a fool!

    Satan has you Christians now and you will Burn Burn Burn.

    Unless you all denounce Jesus as your personal savior and start worshipping the real God, the God in Isaiah, there is no other God.

    Whom so ever shall believe in the New Testiment Jesus, shall perish and never have everlasting life.

    Satan and Jesus, has collected more souls to Burn, than the God of Isaiah.

    We pity you Christians, denounce Jesus, denounce Preachers, denounce religion, denounce church, before it's too late!

    I will be praying for your filthy rotten souls.

    Stop casting swine before Pearls.





























  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    yes-new yorker...it did happen. i was there when it did. i can recount it word for word...'i want to look you in the eye and tell you that it is absolutly not true...the first thing i did was to go home and tell suzanne[another lie...mr. vione told suzanne] and she stands by me 100 per cent' is the way he said it. i'll never forget that day. we all believed him...we wanted to. he has lost all credibility with his former staff. he did discuss the alegations..but he said there was no truth to them and asked that people not comment on them.

    tewell as the victim...that's just silly. he's not the victim here. and as far as who was the aggressor...again you have to wait for the report.

    why do you continue to defend someone when you clerly don't know what the hell you're talking about?

    is that what you call blind faith?





  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    hey new yorker...since you have so many answers...what about answering the question about the tapes and the money.
    i heard that the tapes were very damming in the investigation. what's the story there?
    how much of the church's money did tewell spend on entertaining women?

  • Passerby · 3 years ago
    NYC Churchgoer said, "Not to be "perfect?" Whatever any of us are or are not, do or don't do, none of us on earth are perfect."

    Don't forget to include God as someone who is not perfect. The sadistic piece of shit God in the Bible drowned everything, including plants, animals, and innocent little babies...all because it "grieved" his heart for creating them in the first place. This God's heart is stone cold.

  • Jim Arvo · 3 years ago
    Anonymous: "I have studied the bible and have found it to be true"

    I've studied the Bible, and found it to be a collection of disparate largely anonymous and unsubstantiated Bronze-age stories, ranging from quaint to naive to ghastly. Calling a book that condones such grisly violence (even against children) "true" is repugnant to me.

    Anonymous: "...and Joyce Meyers book is based on scriptures."

    You seem to have missed my point. Islamic scholars also base their arguments on scripture, yet we can both agree that their conclusions are sometimes false, right? Unless you can demonstrate that your chosen holy book is somehow the real deal, and theirs is not, I have no reason to put much stock in any Christian claims. Having studied the history of the Bible, I find it incontrovertible that it is the work of man, just like every other holy book I am aware of.

    Anonymous: "I feel very fortunate to have done this - not superior."

    I'll wager that a good many of the regulars here have studied the Bible more seriously than you have. (In fact, judging by your comments thus far, I'd say the vast majority of the regulars here know more about your Bible than you do.)

    Anonymous: "I did not want to boast but it is hard to read comments by people who do not really follow the basic teachings of Jesus..."

    Do you follow the basic teachings of Jesus? Have you sold all your possessions to help the poor? When someone asks you for something (say, a $10.00 donation to support this web site), do you give it, and more? Do you "hate" your family so that you can be a follower of Jesus?

    Anonymous: "...yes, I can give examples of how Satan works. He wants us to feel discouraged and is the father of lies...

    I was fairly clear the first time I asked this, so I'll simply ask it again. Can you give me a SPECIFIC EXAMPLE (names, dates, places, events, etc.) of Satan influencing somebody's thinking? How do you know it is Satan, and not garden-variety psychology at work?

    Anonymous: "And Gods character is that he is all knowing and also truth and perfection and holy and his solutions are so beyond our poor ability to reason."

    Given that I don't believe in your deity, perhaps you would like to start by telling me how you know that such a being exists. Then we can discuss whatever attributes you want to assert about him/her/it.

    Anonymous: "...That when we leave it to him to take care of the situation and trust - it leaves us more energy to direct towards what needs to be taken care of as..."

    That's in sharp contrast to atheists and Deists, for example, who realize that they need to take responsibility for their own actions and the consequences of those actions. Leaving it "god" sounds like an excuse to me.

    Anonymous: "I sit back in amazement seeing how God had worked things through at a much higher level than I ever could."

    Can you provide a SPECIFIC EXAMPLE (names, dates, places, events, etc.) of how this deity has intervened in human affairs, and how you know it to be the actions of said deity?

    Anonymous: "But people need to take the time to study Bible which they do not do for the most part. That is what I was trying to say by 'unschooled'.

    I agree that most people have not read the Bible; but in my experience it's more often the *believers* who are ignorant of their own holy book. Frankly, you sound painfully naive to me, so you calling others here "unschooled" is completely incongruous.

    Anonymous: "The key is to have a good teacher who really understands what scriptures say."

    Surely you realize that there is substantial disagreement about what the scriptures say, even among believers. So I interpret your comment as an assertion that we ought to study scripture as YOU have, and as YOUR teacher has. Yet, I guarantee that I can find Christians who will disagree with your interpretations, and urge you to think like THEM.

    Anonymous: "Admittedly many churches have very confused teachings nowadays that are based on peoples comfort levels and are very misleading."

    But, I take it, you are not "mislead" at all, right? How did that happen? How is it that you managed to get the right picture, yet many (probably most) other Christians managed to get it at least partly wrong?

    Anonymous: "I hope this explains to you enough that you would want to explore further."

    Explains? I must have missed it; what did you "explain"? And explore *what* further? All you've done is to make a few vague and unsubstantiated assertions about an invisible being. I've studied the Bible and Christian apologetics rather extensively, for decades. What, exactly, do you think you have said that has not been dogmatically asserted hundreds of times?

    Anonymous: "Watching Charles Stanley on television or intouch.org and reading his books..."

    Have you read any scholarly books that examine Christianity critically? If so, can you please name a few? If not, can you please tell me why you have not availed yourself of them? I strongly suspect it's the latter, in which case I think it would be quite fitting to think of you as being "unschooled", having seen only one side of the argument. I can't think of a more effective way to deceive one's self than to read only the material coming from one narrow point of view.

    P.S. If you intend to continue a dialog here, I suggest you learn to use the "other" button when you post, and pick a name other than "Anonymous".



















































  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    dear Jim
    The best thing anyone can do
    is to spend time in the Bible
    and put things into practice. Getting further involved in discussion alone serves no purpose. One learns by ones own experience when we reach out and ask God to help us. There is a spiritual world that one cannot know just by scientific examination on the physical plane.

    To study the Bible and become a part of a conservative Chrisitian Church that teaches and where you can ask questions is the best way to go. That's how people learn.

    I pray that you find a supportive group of christians to come alongside you as you ask your questions. We all need that to grow






  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to the person who posted at 4/19 at 4PM
    If you remember the morning of the day that the presbytery was to hand down its ruling based upon the investigations
    Joe put at stop to that by filing of his civil suit.

    To me it is very clear that Joe is more concerned with his goals
    than for alot of innocent people whom he has hurt especially his children - when it was certainly not necessary. Better to be wronged
    than to be the agent of such harm.
    It is a sad comment on Joe that he did not think about how it would affect his children for years to come.


    Certainly there is a very good reason legally why Tom Tewells lawyers requested a stay considering whom they are dealing with.

    Tom was not trying to postpone things in the fall from going through in the Presbytery.
    The longer it takes the worse the talk becomes so Tom would certainly want to have the process completed
    as soon as possible.

    Regarding people who are portraying Tom as trying to supress things to hide something

    I am surprised that they are so short term in their thinking because once people understand the reason behind the "stay" these people with their agendas will lose credibility with those they tell these things to.

    Also with regards to the person referring to tapes "that are damning"

    that is gossip and not substantiated at all. And we all know how inaccurate gossip can be
    in our own life experience when things are said about us.

    Again we all need to wait for the report to come out when it is the best time to do so. And to stop this willingness to believe the worst that is so typical of gossip
    that gets out of control.

    We all would want that for ourselves when accused of something


    As for people writing in with negative comments in the last days - I can see how angry and hurt you are as shown by how you express yourselves. And so it is hidden from your understanding
    how deep and wide is the love of God and how he longs to take care of you and have a personal relationship with you giving you a life of purpose and fulfillment.































  • Jim Arvo · 3 years ago
    Anonymous (still!) said "The best thing anyone can do is to spend time in the Bible
    and put things into practice...."

    I'll take that as an admission that you are totally ignorant of the large body of literature that examines Christianity critically, and finds that it is nothing more than a man-made myth. If I'm wrong about that, please correct me. You are probably also ignorant of the world's other major religions. Again, please correct me if I'm wrong.

    Anonymous: "Getting further involved in discussion alone serves no purpose."

    That's disingenuous. At least admit to yourself that you are bowing out because you cannot answer simple, straightforward questions. You are also probably uninterested in contemplating anything that might challenge your faith. That's fine, you can do what you want, just don't put on airs.

    Anonymous: "One learns by ones own experience when we reach out and ask God to help us."

    One learns by WORKING HARD. One learns by READING WIDELY. One learns by CRITICALLY EXAMINING what others have to offer. One learns by continually ASKING HARD QUESTIONS and examining one's own assumptions. If you discount these other avenues, then I submit that you are actually being lazy, not pious.

    Anonymous: "There is a spiritual world that one cannot know just by scientific examination on the physical plane."

    So please tell me how you DO know of it. I'm not asking for "scientific" evidence, just EVIDENCE. But you cannot provide that, can you? You just "know" it's there by "faith" (i.e. without evidence or reason). That's lazy thinking. Personally, I think that is very irresponsible.

    Anonymous: "To study the Bible and become a part of a conservative Chrisitian Church that teaches and where you can ask questions is the best way to go. That's how people learn."

    See my comments above. Your prescription for "learning" is really just a recipe for being indoctrinated, not educated.

    Anonymous: "I pray that you find a supportive group of christians to come alongside you as you ask your questions."

    So let me see if I understand. You are asking your deity to intervene here, so that she will somehow cause a group of Christians to gather round me and answer my questions. Did I get that right? I thought your god was all-knowing? How is it that she needs your advice in this matter?

    Also, why have you not even attempted to answer my questions? Why are you leaving that to some un-named "group" of Christians that your deity is going to somehow cause to gather at your command? I think you are up to your ears in self-delusion.

    Anonymous: "We all need that to grow"

    We all need religious indoctrination to grow? Hardly. In my view, growth as a person requires taking responsibility for one's actions, one's beliefs, and their consequences, to the extent humanly possible. If you blindly cling to some doctrine, without relentlessly testing it and challenging it, then you are taking the easy road, which inevitably leads to self-delusion. While you may feel content in your intellectual isolation, you are of little benefit to society (imho).

    You are free to fill your brain with whatever you want. But don't come to a forum such as this and expect to be welcomed as a beacon of light when you clearly cannot even articulate your own position cogently.

    Good day.
































  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Well, if you really were there at such a meeting, you weren’t taking very good attendance. I doubted, with good reason, your claim that Tewell denied these specific charges (in 2005) in a gathering together of his boards of elders and trustees. That is one more untruth that has been put forth. I did not deny that he discussed the charges with his staff, where he rightfully denied committing adultery (go back and read what I wrote; unlike you, I can maintain some credibility). I am sorry that the manner of his spending a clearly inappropriate amount of time with Ms. Vione has caused a credibility problem for him with his former staff, but I, for one, am quite willing to reserve judgment on that point. A man who for years has been deliberately hounded by false charges of adultery may be a bit defensive; there are cumulative effects to slander.

    To this person I call McCarthy-Anonymous, I guess I do know enough to keep calling your bluff! Not that I enjoy it—you disgust me. Yes, I totally concede that you are well-informed, but the fact that you turn that information into lies, half-truths, and misleading innuendo should serve a purpose: If anyone doubted that Tewell had well-placed enemies harassing him with false charges, your presence on this website goes far to dispel those doubts.

    Let me pause, call a truce, and say: As someone reminded us here, Satan is “the father of lies,” and he has clearly made a comfortable home in you. Does it go all the way back to the lies told about Tewell’s predecessor in that pulpit? That’s a long time and a lot of potentially ruined lives. But, as you know, the Good News is that it is not too late to repent of these years of deceit. Especially for you, especially now. God will have mercy on you. Disgust or no, I’ll try, with His Grace, to pray for you.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Yes Jim, being on a purely intellectual basis is a real block to understanding.
    C.S. Lewis was one of those people who hated Christianity.
    Read his book - surprised by joy

    I'll be praying for you !!!
    please be open to what I shared with you and not so quick to
    be critical. Putting into practice is the key and waiting on Gods answer which most likely is not the one you would expect.





  • Jim Arvo · 3 years ago
    Anonymous (still!!!) said "Yes Jim, being on a purely intellectual basis is a real block to understanding."

    I've asked you HOW YOU KNOW any of your dogma to be true. You answer by claiming that I impose too many constraints, such as asking for a "scientific explanation", or a "purely intellectual" explanation (when in fact I've asked for NEITHER). If you cannot answer that simple question with a direct and honest answer, then everything you say is unsubstantiated babble. I can go down to any coffee shop and get a million different opinions on any topic. Without something to base them on, they aren't worth the grounds left in my cup.

    Anonymous: "C.S. Lewis was one of those people who hated Christianity. Read his book - surprised by joy"

    I've read a great deal of C. S. Lewis. The odds are that I've read and studied much more Christian apologetics than you have. I hold Lewis in high regard as a writer, but I do not have a similar regard for his theology. While his apologetics may have broad emotional appeal, his logic was often abysmal (e.g. his "Lord, Liar, Lunatic" argument).

    Anonymous: "I'll be praying for you !!!"

    And I'll be hoping for you. By the way, what do you expect your deity to do on your behalf? Again, does she need your advice? Is announcing your intention to petition this deity in a public forum consistent with your theology?

    Anonymous: "please be open to what I shared with you and not so quick to be critical."

    You apparently have an inflated opinion of yourself. You've said ABSOLUTELY NOTHING interesting. All you've done is to assert things for which you haven't the slightest bit of evidence, and you've dodged most of my questions. What is it that you think you've "shared"?

    As for being critical of you, you had better learn how to address questions. If you make a fantastic claim (e.g. Satan causes depression and anxiety), than you ought to be able to say HOW YOU KNOW THAT. Otherwise, you are just babbling. My water heater makes more useful noises.

    Anonymous: "Putting into practice is the key and waiting on Gods answer which most likely is not the one you would expect."

    And you assert this based on WHAT? All you have done is regurgitate various sound-bites of Christian dogma. Since there is apparently nothing to support any of it, I feel no obligation to believe a bit of it; no more so than stories of alien abductions or of great sea monsters in Scotland.

    I have a challenge for you, Anonymous, before you disappear. Please answer the following questions directly and honestly:

    1) Can you name a single book you're read that is critical of Christianity?

    2) Have you read any holy book other than the Christian Bible? (e.g. the Koran, the Bhagavad-Gita, the Book or Mormon, etc.)

    3) Can you admit that you may be wrong on fundamental points of theology?

    4) Can you admit that there are honest well-educated people who know the Bible at least as well as you, and who have reached the honest conclusion that it is no more authentic than any other holy book?

    I look forward to your direct and honest replies.































  • Jim Arvo · 3 years ago
    New Yorker said "Let me pause, call a truce, and say: As someone reminded us here, Satan is 'the father of lies,' and he has clearly made a comfortable home in you."

    You call that a "truce"?! What a thoroughly offensive thing to say to somebody, particularly after declaring a "truce". Good grief.

    And, by the way, have you anything at all to back up that fantastic assertion? I won't hold my breath waiting for a cogent reply.



  • Pennsylvanian · 3 years ago
    I understand that people are angry/annoyed/upset/bitter with all that has happened. That is to be expected and I understand completely. However, I think we might all need to take a step back and tone down the rhetoric. Pastors are humans, they make mistakes. Christianity and salvation are not events, they are processes. We all sin. I would highly recommend that you read one of Dr. Tewell's more popular sermons ("P.B.P.W.M.G.I.F.W.M.Y" -- Please be patient with me. God isn't finished with me yet). The sermon can still be read on www.fapc.org. He explains that none of us are a completed work; we are all striving to be better people -- preachers included.

    Again, I completely understand the anger and disgust towards Rev. Tewell. However, we all sin, preachers included. Preachers struggle with gluttony (Baptists even get to joke about this), pride, anger, slothfulness, the list goes on and on. Sexual-related sins (and cover-ups) are especially troubling but I am not sure any of us can cast a stone. Let's forgive him. Let's also wait for the report to come out. Maybe it is not as bad as some are making it out to be. Please be patient with Rev. Tewell, God isn't finished with him yet (nor is he with the rest of us). After all, isn't gossip a sin as well?

  • south2003 · 3 years ago
    Penn,

    Do you know where you are and what do you think the lot of Atheists who will listen to a sermon about a pastor trying to convince himself that he is still in the "makings" will come away with? Are you hoping we will “see the light” LMAO!!!

    What a bunch of shyster. When is this going to happen and what's taking your non-evident deity so long to "fix" it and why is this non-evident deity have so many cronies, child molesters, womanizers pedophiles and con artist representing it?

    Yea, I think you might have forgotten where you are.





  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    "We all sin."

    Please define sin. What is sin?

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    New YorkerThank you for all the name calling...I guess Satan is indeed alive and well. Thank you also for calling a "truce" and then calling me more names...please refer to the comment posted by Jim Arvo...I think he sums up pretty well what I think about you.

    Now on to your other defensive comments...

    What does what was said at a meeting have to do with "taking attendance?" Obviously you were not at the meeting with the staff [it stands to reason that you are not on the staff at FAPC] where Tewell denied any wrongdoing...that's the whole reson the investigative committee was formed in the first place...it was done so at the request of a staff member in a accordance with FAPC personnel policy. They thought that he would be exonerated..because he had them all so convinced that he was innocent. OPPS!
    He did deny it...read the letter to the congregation from the clerk of session...it says so.

    By the way...how do you know if he committed adultery? Were you there? I doubt it! What is your definition of adultery anyway?

    Why is it that you think that you have credibility and I don't? Because you say so? Sounds like an ego problem to me. Isn't self-righteousness a sin? Or is it not a sin when you do it?

    The credibilty problem Tewell has with his former staff is not because of the amount of time he spent with Mrs. Vione...it is because he lied to them about the nature of his relationship with her. And what does Tewell's predecessor have to do with any of this? Nothing as far as I'm concerned.

    You suggested that I "repent of years of deceit" maybe you should take your own advice. By the way...isn't judgement a sin? Or again...not when you do it?

    And before you pray for me...you might want to pray for yourself-that God would open your closed mind...I think closed mindedness is a sin also.














  • Pennsylvanian · 3 years ago
    To South2003:

    Yes, I do know where I am. I guess the problem is I work at a university, where ideas are debated and where I encourage my students to challenge thier beliefs and be open to differing points of view. I guess sometimes I fail to recognize that others do not work from that assumption. Sorry if I did not provide you with information you already agree with.

  • Bentley · 3 years ago
    Where in the Bible does it say, Wait a minute, God is not finished with me yet?

    Or is Tewell considered so high and mighty that he's rewriting the Bible as he speaks?

    "And everybody sins!"

    Then why pay a jackass preacher to get up and tell you that everybody
    sins?

    The sin being born in the first place!

    Thats why Jesus said you must be born again, because your father lusted another female in his mind, at the exact moment of ejaculation of your mother.

    Now send me some friggen money!


    You stupid Christians better wake up to reality.















  • Jim Arvo · 3 years ago
    To Pennsylvanian (a.k.a. New York),

    Do you also teach your students to be arrogant and condescending? What a bunch of claptrap you've churned out. I have no quarrel with your attempts to defend Tewell, or in urging restraint in passing judgment. However, your rhetoric is so laden with presuppositions that I have also wondered if you had any appreciation at all for who you were addressing. You've also injected some really outrageous assertions, so forgive me if I'm a bit skeptical that you actually urge students to challenge their beliefs to any meaningful degree. Feel free to elaborate on that point and set me straight if you wish.

  • carol · 3 years ago
    I can't decide what makes me sicker, the creepy, lying preachers or the sheep who follow them so damn blindly.

    Satan puts thought in your heads? WTF? Why does gawd allow that if he supposedly loves you so much? Again, Satan beats their gawd.

    Keep prayin for us sinners, fundies. Pray, pray, pray, pray and see how NOTHING will change. Morons.

    Ben, just another example of xians making shit up as they go along to try and expain and justify their bull shit beliefs.

    Regards, carol







  • south2003 · 3 years ago
    Penn: “Yes, I do know where I am. I guess the problem is I work at a university, where ideas are debated and where I encourage my students to challenge thier beliefs and be open to differing points of view. I guess sometimes I fail to recognize that others do not work from that assumption. Sorry if I did not provide you with information you already agree with.”

    The information that was provided is garbage. No substance whatsoever! For you to tell this forum that some non-evident being is still working his magic trick on this clergy man it is to say that all ethics and responsibility on the individual’s part should be null and void- he can’t help it ‘cause his missing parts are on back order….geeeeze.

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to the posting of 4/21 at 1:55 AM

    the point is that two senior ministers have been falsely accused of adultery
    in that church in a row !!
    That is what is so relevant about the previous minister !!!

    Tom Tewell was denying the charges that Joe was making against him that he was not involved in an affair when he met with the staff. And there is no proof of this (again as you know very well)

    That Tom did not set a limit on Rachel's wanting to meet up with him is the issue.
    She was always trying to get her foot in the door so to speak which is generally understood by all - it was her attempts to advance her career by trying to remain close to Tom
    as well as having ambitions to work closely with him after graduation.

    I think that the above is safe to assume is close enough to the truth











  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Some years ago, I attended the FAPC while Bryant Kirkland was still the minister. In trying to find out on the internet what happened to Dr. Kirkland, I came across the sad story of Dr. Tewell. While I think it was the right thing for Dr. Tewell to resign, I also think as Christians we should not condemn him. The Bible says, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. The message of Jesus' death and resurrection is that through our faith, God will forgive us. If God can forgive Dr. Tewell, who I am assuming is still a believer, who are we to say that we cannot?
  • NYC Churchgoer · 3 years ago
    There is no "story." There are, to date, only unsubstantiated allegations without evidence being offered, a dramatic paucity of verifiable facts of the type we know from childhoods playing "Clue": Who/what/when/ where. And it has been how long now since the civil suit was filed/Oct 2005? So, while a civil suit is public record and as such has been quoted in three major newspapers, interestingly, the passage of time has not brought alleged facts out of the woodwork to support the charges. Given the number of churchmembers in 2005, some 3500, one would think there would be some people who would have volunteered details that would have become general knowledge by now. So we know about his resignation, but as to why, who can say? Or as to what, same thing? So quoting a suit, is not the same thing as knowing the facts. So it's remarkable that everyone has spent so much time debating the theological issues, when the facts are fairly meager and not at all dramatic, so who can know what theology applies?

    What has happened since his resignation to write about now? Nothing dramatic. One wonders if the husband who filed the suit ever discussed the wife's work at the church with her and his feelings about it and requested that she not do it due to his own misgivigs as to her motives. Now that would make sense; but we don't know because the husband's not talking as to what, if any, facts exist.

    So suits can be filed, but that says nothing about whether there are facts to support them, and whether the law would support the charges with or without facts.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Friends,

    Notwithstanding these allegations, and the messages for and against, is there any update as to the case, for and against Dr. Tewell? Facts that have been proven?

    John



  • NYC Churchgoer · 3 years ago
    No update.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I have come to New York this week and learned that Dr. Tewell is moving to Washington D.C. to work for the Red Cross in some capacity. I say "good for him, his family, and good for the Red Cross!" I would hope that the faithful at FAPC will wish him well and remember how much he meant to all of us. Methinks Jesus was speaking for the ages when He asked us to look at ourselves before we tossed a stone or in essence wrote a blog comment against anyone, especially someone whose "guilt" was not set in stone but was more in line with the gossip that for some lower case reason permeates our culture.

    We can all choose how we think and what we stand for. After all, this is the land of "E Pluribus Unum." I, for one, will choose to proudly stand beside Tom Tewell and admire and respect and remember how wonderful he was and is and what type of person I was so blessed and fortunate to have met in my life. His message was extraordinary and if you ever were so fortunate to hear him speak God's words throuigh his human mouth, you would understand. If he made a mistake, so be it. Few people know what happened even though the truth will finally be revealed sooner or later. But who am I to judge anyone?

    Tom's skills and talents and just inate goodness touched many lives and inspired so many people. I would hope we could hear from them and wish him a bon voyage and let him know of our support and love for himself and his wife and family.

    Here's to Tom Tewell! Salute!


    A friend.








  • Bentley · 3 years ago
    God Bless This Man! Dr. Tom Tewell!
    He's moving on to the Salvation Army to do battle against SATAN!!!!

    I wonder how many Souls have been lost and claimed by SATAN, by throwing Tom a DIVERSION, this movement cleverly distracted poor ole Tom and his followers and SATAN slipped in and TOOK a few Souls to Hell while Jesus wasn't looking.

    But we must look on the bright side, God must have had a plan, yes God knew that Brother Tom would soon be called to go where there is much need.

    God knew that somewhere, there would be hole left in the gospel to be filled.

    I have fervently prayed and fasted and deeply meditated about Dr. Tom Tewell, it's all in God's hands now and Dr. Tom will prevail and rise to be Glorified standing among the Heavenly Saints to be Annointed with the Holy Spirit of God and a Jewel will be placed in his Crown and his Mansion will Stretch-out among the depts of Heaven to be admired by all those that never took over the reins of Jesus's Holy Word and just sat there and warmed the pews and slipped into Heaven by the Skin of their Teeth.

    Dr. Tom Tewell must be surely be a Man Of God, without question or appology! There is no question in my mind that Dr. Tom Tewell is a Living Patron Saint, whose shoes that I am worthy to unlatch!

    If I could be so worthy to touch the hem of his Holy Immaculate Robe!

    These things I pray! Amen and Amen














  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    it comes to mind about Jesus and the woman caught in adultery

    how Jesus said to her - where are your accusers? Neither do I condemn you - go and sin no more !

    When Tom Tewell's predecessor
    had been falsely accused of adultery (a way of making trouble for him by someone - it has deja vu all over again over the past few years) and there was alot of talk about this with people believing it.
    Tom did all he could to stop that talk when he came as the new Sr. Minister.
    This should be the example to those presently in leadership positions with regards to Tom's situation.






  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    dear friend of Tom Tewell

    you spoke so well for many of us
    in how Tom touched so many lives
    with his healing touch that gave validation. He never showed a critical attitude towards those who behaved badly.

    Everyone should show him the same grace.

    When a person stumbles - they are to be restored with meekness and gentleness.

    Those who are so critical and rushing to judgement are certainly
    "bench warmers"

    Yes in the end the truth is going to come out that Tom was a trusting soul because of his own innate goodness and was not looking out enough for himself












  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    It would be nice to know that all congregations and pastors publish and support guidelines in misconduct policies. Without an acceptance and education of the do's and don'ts of church life these kinds of things are allowed to be whispered about rather than treated forthrightly. And being treated forthrightly may mean that they don't happen at all. What is acceptable in the giving of time to parishioners?
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    that the correct attitude concerning what should have been in place about policies.

    Not the current self interested attitude of some that if only Tom had come clean right away with them - then they could have worked together against Joe !
    What a bunch of horse manure !!!

    It was a process that occured last spring not deception.

    This shows that the attitude of some is not one of what can we learn from this being humble.

    Would Tom really have wanted to
    trust people who are so ready to
    be negative and show such a lack of spiritual maturity.










  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I wish Tom and Suzanne only the very best in their future journey to wherever God would take them. Is it any wonder that Satan would want him out of NYC?
  • Observer in NYC · 3 years ago
    The plaintiff's wife was a seminarian until she received a degree in May 2005, and who, at the time of the civil suit filing in October 2005, would presumably still have an ongoing career goal: ministry. It takes more than a degree to become a minister in the Presbyterian denomination. Effectively, people are "on trial" going through the system of the denomination that governs by the rules published on how future ministers are evaluated at each step, or to put it another way, judged by conduct polcies similar to those governing ministers, even though they have not attained a similar level of achievement.

    So, when speculating about what's what, ministers and those aspiring to ministry learn early on that actions are consequential in this career.

    And we have learned in life that when at least two people know something, it's only a matter of time often before many more know it too. There are the facts, and then the interpretation of the facts, and how the facts fit into the world you've chosen for yourself, in this case, to be, or to aspire to be, in the ministry.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    i was in seminary with the "plantiff's wife" we had several classes together while she was a seminarian. she commutted from a great distance to get her degree and showed great promise and gifts for the ministry. i know that tom tewell was a mentor to her as well as many others...she and her both showed alot of charisma,which literally means grace-gifted.

    i don't know what she is doing now, but it is a shame to see two talented people be side-lined in the ministry....but god is not finished yet...there is more to this story.

    i am a newly ordained pastor and i know we all have feet of clay...not of us are exempt from sin.

    andy pts class of 2002





  • FAPC Friend · 3 years ago
    Thank you for the update that Tom is heading for the Red Cross. It is good to know that he is out there starting over. He will be an asset to the Red Cross Community as well of the new lives that he will touch. We were blessed to have him at FAPC and I am still blessed to call him "friend". God's speed Tom!
  • Writing in Manhattan · 3 years ago
    What is irrelevant is the "feet of clay" and "stone" comments. When you take a presigitious job, including a pension, you accept the rules that go along with it, same as when you aspire to a career. When you play a sport, you expect to have fouls called. Both families were into sports, both knew there are rules.

    And given the opportunity to make statements to the church members in a letter in Nov 2005, to have their say and be quoted accurately, did they say anything to put a positive spin on it? What did they say about the other?
    Church members know that answer.

    And, here in the blogs, everyone is striving to put a positive spin on it.




  • Dictionarian · 3 years ago
    Tom, yes, he has charisma, because it is "a rare personal quality attributed to leaders who arouse fervent popular devotion and enthusiasm" and hearing his sermons helps one see why people listened to the disciples in biblical times.

    Personally, I don't use the word to mean a sunny disposition, but that's me.

    Yes, Tom has a rare gift to make the Bible come alive, which does not need any paricular belief system to appreciate, although it helps. When you've heard the sermon, you are struck by how much Bible is in it, and how much self effacement. Many other preachers spend much too much time trying to describe their points, I feel.

    If you know who you are and your message, you don't need to belabor the message, or present yourself in a way that says "look at me."

    Do the work you are called to do, within the the laws of your society or career, the secret to happiness. Don't "covet." Don't be "foolish"; all OTestament wisdom that is true today. Find a cure for cancer, raise funds. There is a lot of God's work left to do and people who focus on their work and being respected for it probably have an easier time.

    And don't forget, the law says you can print what's in a suit no matter what the content, on the front page of the Times or Post, the Examiner, the Globe or whatever is the big newspaper in your area. Remembering everyone has picture phones today and there is no privacy may keep people on the straight and narrow in ways unimaginable in biblical times.

    A pulpit in a big steeple church is a privilege, a responsibility and a challenge and a highly visible opportunity to make a difference.











  • Trial by trials · 3 years ago
    The legal suit has moved forward with the NY judge making her first decisions on the motions to dismiss the suit's 3 causes of actions as represented in the amended complaint filed by the plaintiff for the total sum of $6 mil (up from $5 in the first complaint), including punitive damages against the minister/church and Presbytery.
  • Commandment reader · 3 years ago
    To be front page news of the Post with the headline "Hell to Pay," might be some people's fondest dreams. It just hasn't helped the church's fortunes at the moment.

    And to those who act as though they have knowledge, or had knowledge, interestingly enough no one has mentioned any details to support anything. So one wonders why 1) people would belong to a church with goings-on they did not endorse and 2) where the courage of their convictions is, at the very least, to enforce a policy. Or whether people have changed their minds to support the worst case scenario.

    So, it's as if people just looked the other way, if they did. Well WWII there was a lot of that and we called them collaborators. Or, maybe there was nothing to see in this instance. You can't have it both ways.

    So, one wonders what truth people endorse? That to gossip about the worst without producing evidence? Or that the individual is powerless to effect change? Some coveting; some foolishness; both Old Testament words may apply. That's why the Bible has lasted so long; the basic admonitions to "men" don't change. Men compete and the 10 commandments tell them not to be so competitive. That it doesn't pay in the end and destabilizes society to have people wanting what the other person has. Now we have Playboy where you can look but not have. Nothing changes.





  • Thinking · 3 years ago
    Perhaps this crisis with counseling was welcomed by the Tewells to improve their marriage. Maybe they didn't have the words to urge each other there before. And as the plaintiff's wife might be described as comporting herself as a middle-aged (43 this year) giddy schoolgirl, which is a free choice, a married mother of minor children--perhaps people should have regarded the amount of time away from her husband and children not as a positive, but to ask what was the point?

    But to think that everyone didn't really get what they wanted in the end is naive. Just because you or I might think this is a crisis, does not necessarily mean that the people whose choices these were--four people--didn't get their lives changed in the directions they wanted, divorce for one (moving through the courts) and staying together with more time together (in another state), as he had talked about wanting.

  • Character · 3 years ago
    "Pain in the neck," might be the characterization you would have gotten about her wanting to be mentored, from Tom's point of view. And "character" is the reason you would have heard in Tom's sermons for why he chose his wife whom he married in 1970. And do you think he would chose someone with minor children while he's in an empty nest, free-as-the-breeze marriage now? Get real. And the number of single, available women for whom he held some attraction meant there were many less problematic choices, if that had been the direction he was going. And he needed to get work done, mostly with volunteers, and she was interested so was at the church a lot, a fact left out of the suit and newspaper interviews. It wasn't as if she was recruited from the vast numbers of women at the church. She was going for a degree.

    So did they use each other? Depends on how you look at it. Once one has a masters degree in divinity, one is required to take, and pass, the 5-part written exam of by the Presbyterian church as a next step. So there are objective standards one must meet if ministry is one's goal.

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    It is a shame that the session did not look out for Tom (as they should have done)regarding any problematic situations that could arise.

    They fell flat on their faces and then turned around and wrote a cover letter back last fall
    that showed no remorse and was plainly self serving.

    Tom was concentrating on taking care of the congregation and in the process made a difference in many people's lives.

    Too bad he did not have the needed backup from the session to help him avert this situation with advice and keeping an eye out.
    (which they well know they did not do)

    We all need people along side us
    to watch out for us especially someone in such a vulnerable position as a minister to such things.

    Clearly it is a risky business to enter into such a profession considering the potential liabilities even when you feel called to such a service to God.

    This will make people think twice about entering seminary. This will have repercussions within the church at a time when solid people are needed.














  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Joe Vione obviously did not consider that - vengeance is the Lords - and how there are consequences to doing harm.

    Over time it will be interesting to see how God moves regarding Joe's life. Having money is no protection against God's wrath.

    Certainly he should be more concerned about where he will be for eternity which is very much in
    question right now.

    he will have no peace of mind
    upon which there is no price tag
    and can only come from God when
    we do the right thing

    Clearly money is an issue for him
    considering his financial situation
    and needing to finance his divorce

    In ten years time or so
    we will see how God works things out and if I were Joe - I would be plenty worried.
















  • Victorian · 3 years ago
    As of May 2006, the suit against the minister/church/Presbytery has less to it than it did in October because the judge has handed down her decision on which causes of action are sustainable under the law and not all of them made it as legally valid.

    So legal theories have been ruled on and the next step is seeing what facts are there and what that means for a trial or a negotiated settlement. Or maybe an appeals process depending on how much patience any lawyers paid on contingency have vs trying to sew up a financial settlement and moving on. Because no one is getting any money unless 1) there is a settlement or 2) a judge or jury awards an amount in trial and the insurance and any un-insured parts of the award are paid out. And if a judge or a jury ruled that none of the defendants are culpable, then the plaintiff would receive no monetary award and might be responsible for court costs.

    And the longer one waits for a trial, the greater the chance of loss of witnesses who might support your case, and the chance that the laws might change, making your case less sustainable or capping the award at a lower amount and new laws might be passed eliminating suits for what currently are valid.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    In response to babbling Ben........................
    I would rather live my life as if there is a
    God, and die to find out there isn't, Than
    live my life as if there isn't, and die to
    find out there is.



  • boomSLANG · 3 years ago
    In response to babbling Anonymous........

    ...::NEWS FLASH::...

    Firstly, Pascal's wager---the "just in case" argument---may seem really "clever" to you and your fundy friends, however, what you really have is one big cock-o-mamy contradiction. Here's why:

    As it stands---you don't "know" that a God exists, otherwise, there'd be no reason to apply "Pascal's wager". Yet, interestingly enough, out of the bazillion Gods to choose from, you give the arrogant implication that you "know" which God will "save" your ass "just in case" a "God" happens to exist. Tell me....how's that bullshit work? Naah, it doesn't work.

    So----if you're going to believe in God "just in case", welp, you'd better get off your knees 'n get your little ass down to the library and start brushing up on EVERY major religion known to man---JUST IN CASE. You wanna have all your bases covered....::wink::







  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    in response to victorian....

    you better check your facts regarding what the judge allowed to move forward in the civil suit...
    to say that the law suit has less merit now than it did before is also untrue
    laws may change, but the facts remain



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I don't need your news flash filled with vulgarity and hatred. I am very sorry your parents didn't hug you more. Get a life.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    If these two things were happening simultaneously, cause for a civil suit that alone would not warrant it. So both must be true, and proven true. Or not. To go forward. Unless they all sign on the dotted line, give whatever to whomever and go home. Or whatever personal misconduct legal mavens might say are the potential scenarios.
  • Churchgoer · 3 years ago
    To be clear, no one has issued any statements as to Tom's plans and the information is being passed word-of-mouth from outside the church to members in it. Working "for" and "doing work for" are not the same and I believe it is the latter that is the case.

    The official announcement from the pulpit at church today about the suit was that the "breach" against Tom and the "supervisory negligence" against the church/Presbytery are going forward and that it is rare for motion to dismiss to actually result in a dismissal from a summary judgment as in for the whole suit to be thrown out of court.

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I've stayed in touch with this matter as best I can for quite some time and read the posts here on a daily basis. Unfortunately, there does not seem to be a vehicle for obtaining accurate information and maybe it's not all that important that I, as just one member of the church, be up to any kind of speed.

    I do think of Tom a great deal and how powerful his weekly message was to me and how much a difference it has made in my own life. His departure cut a part out of me and I've not been able to fill that empty place no matter how much effort I make. Yes, he was only a man but he was a truly remarkable one.

    I have to say that there is a part of me that has become very angry that Mr. Vione decided to vent his own feelings in the manner that he chose to do. As an attorney, I've handled domestic cases for over twenty-five years and I know that there are normally many, many factors that go into a failed marriage. Quite often, the only people that really know what has happened is the couple themselves. That shouldn't be surprising to anyone. The old human failing of being reluctant to point a finger at oneself is never more exemplified than in this oft times contentious arena. I have no idea why their marriage failed and this is none of my business.

    But I submit to all concerned that there is likely a plethora of reasons that the Vione marriage fell apart. If something Tom Tewell did was really one of those reasons, I actually would be surprised but I am also cognizant that where there is smoke, there's probably a little bit of fire. Again, probably only Joe and Rachel know the true story even though this has been looked into by the Presbyterian church. I am positive that at the end of the day there is a long list of factors that has nothing at all to do with Dr. Tewell.

    I've thought about this for quite some time and yesterday while walking the beach, it struck me that it was very wrong for Mr. Vione to take this kind of action against Tom and the church. I believe that notwithstanding the role, if any, that Tom had in the demise of the Vione marriage, this was nothing but a calculated effort to destroy a man's career and in essence the man himself. And the slash at his neck took a broader stroke at those of us in the congregation who comprise the membership of FAPC. For Tom and FAPC, this was obviously only a "lose-lose" scenario and it appears that Mr. Vione and his legal entourage have played this to the hilt. And that Vione feels that he is entitled to millions of dollars from Tom and from the people who comprise the church that he is or was a member of as "recompense" makes me sick and it makes me angry.

    The all consuming greed of the legal system which fuels this kind of fire is a sad part of all of our lives and no amount of protest will ever change that. But that does not give Mr. Vione a pass in my mind. To ask for monies that the church would otherwise use for the benefit of those who need help, be it a homeless person of the city or a member whose pocketbook is more secure but whose soul is in need of its own home, is a classless move. Greed and hatred are all over this lawsuit and isn't there enough of this already in this troubled world? Even assuming that every allegation he made against Dr. Tewell is correct (to only look at this in the light most favorable to Mr. Vione), what gives him the right to think that his marriage was worth so much money? Does the loss of funds for the missions of the church give him a moment of pause? Wasn't he listening along the way to the lessons in that Book which had a place in the pew where he sat each Sunday? Where is his shame in all of this?

    I continue to pray for all involved as I am sure many of FAPC do daily. This will all be over soon and whether it goes to trial or there is a settlement, our collective lives will go on. That is a good thing. Yet I cannot help but be sad this morning that I, as I am sure many at FAPC will also, will have that empty place in my heart in the Sundays to come knowing that the magical days of sitting at 55th and 5th and hearing Dr. Tewell bring God's message in a way all of his own are behind me. I do thank God that I was lucky to have a few of those days in my life.

    A friend of Tom













  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    The actual physical complaint and amended complaint are available--but not easily--to the public. For whatever reason, FAPC has not seen fit to make them available. Similarly the actual judge's pronouncment to date is also available, a bit more easily, but as a member of FAPC it is not my responsiblity, nor anyone else's to make it "easier" to know what's public. What people observed over the years, generally or specifically about anyone at FAPC--as a general principle--might be relevant only to say that no member of FAPC has been taught the misconduct policy in effect at the NYC Presbytery since 1998 so if I were to tell you what was told to me is in the report, it would not make your heart sing to know what misconduct--how little--can be.

    So lawyers, especially, should get their faces into FAPC and find out why no one was minding the store and making sure that everyone knows what a violation of the misconduct policy includes. Do research as I did and educate yourselves. Apparently we like castigating one man against the responsibility of the group, and I think that is very un-Christian of us.

    Have any of the Princeton Seminary preachers in our pulpit accepted any role in this? The woman was at the Sem for how many y4ears? So if you want to interview enough people, you will find that the general attitude was there for a long time. That it went from being OK to not...and became a huge waste of time for everyone because no one would demand that there be changes made at FAPC is our great tragedy. And should anyone forget, one of the FAPC pastors gave a TV interview that aired while the judge was deliberating. So, the church could have taken action to inform us and accept some responsibility but they have not! If not to the specifics, at least as to what misconduct is.

    And members who sit by without demanding change--what comfort do we have that it won't happen again? So educate yourwself about 1) what happened and 2) what misconduct includes. Because if everyone refused to think the worst and demanded to know what DID happen, then we could move forward. Now there is senseless repetition of someone's fantasies. At least as far as proof goes.

    So current members, how many have voiced your thoughts and stood up, as did our biblical forbears and demanded change if you do not like what you have seen to date?







  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "actual document" what I meant.

    No facts--because even were there any, anyone who didn't step in to keep things perfect, what excuse would they have--those who did go to seminaries where this is taught, misconduct.

    So, if you don't know what the issue at the Presbytery was, how can you fix it for next time?

    And the likely response is going to be his rebuke or suspension and that's all you will know, unless you have access to the actual Report. And as far as the civil court goes, the judge has some discretion as well. So better focus on prevention for next time.





  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    And did it ever occur to the plaintiff to take his family and up and leave the church years ago? "Lead us not into temptation," isn't that what we pray every week? So either this was all new news, or, not, in which case who stays in a situation harmful to his marriage? And how unhappy could he have been when they were named volunteers of the month one month? So she's about to graduate and then all xxxx breaks loose. Interesting timing.

    So how much angst should we suffer on his behalf given how long they were church members and she a seminarian. We are supposed to believe that he was quietly suffering. And now not so quietly.

    Maybe he wanted to leave and his wife refused. That would make sense that he'd be angry. No man likes to be shown disrespect and one could argue that he must have felt disrespected by his wife, and Tom's resignation of his trustee position and chair at Princeton, similarly were no doubt a reflection of a loss of respect he would have felt had he continued.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    While it is disappointing that the judge who reviewed the case clearly did not understand the points of law involved and decided to accept all points as being true by Joe.

    So perhaps Tom's lawyer has a good chance at appealing this decision by the judge to allow this to go to trial.

    (Joe was counting on the recent cases involving priests preying on parishoners to influence the judge and she fell for it hook line and sinker which does not speak well of her at all !!!)

    we have to remind ourselves that everything that happens comes through the permissive will of God
    and we are to wait patiently upon Him.

    Remember Joseph and Potifer's wife
    who wrongly accused him of attacking her and he was placed in prison. But in the end Joseph was raised to a high position of authority and helped many survive inspite of her lies.

    God always has the last word !!

    Remember that in the end
    the truth will come out
    although it will take time

    Joe stated for tne newspapers back last fall that he wanted to see Tom defrocked.
    So who is Joe to think that he can overule Gods sovereignty in Tom's life who has been a faithful servant helping many?

    Joe was obviously just a doer while at FAPC not a follower of Jesus Christ when volunteering.

    In the end Joe will find that it is himself that he has destroyed
    even if he does get money he is so determined to get his hands on at the expense of many thinking only of himself. God's wrath will be upon this man for what he has done.

    He obviously needs money as per his financial condition a few years ago if he is to finance a divorce settlement.
    public records show that there was a lien on his house for non payment of taxes around 2002
    courthouse of Mineola

    Now that should be front page news!

    Any woman who goes along with Joe's assertions about Tom clearly
    has problems emotionally or psychologically and will only hurt themselves by getting involved.
































  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Back in September
    Rachel's friend coming out of the house in Garden City made a statement to the NY Post saying

    This has nothing to do with Tom Tewell

    Joe has been living with another woman on the weekends in Connecticut.

    Amazing that no attention or follow up is being paid to Joe's behavior
    only his allegations
    by the press

    Are they brain dead ???










  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    The posting (5/30 - 6:19PM)by an attorney attending FAPC
    is correct about the greed and dishonesty of Joe in filing a suit.

    There is separation of church and state so the only way to "get" a minister is to claim he was a marriage counselor. That is why
    Joe made up that part and stressed it.

    And an incompetent judge
    fell for it !!

    That is why Tom's lawyer stated to the NY Post that they would be filing an appeal because marriage counseling was never given.

    The judge has decided that "on a motion to dismiss, the facts alleged in the complaint are accepted as true and the plaintiff is entitled to the benefit of every favorable inference."

    Whether this can be successfully appealed to prevent the suit from proceeding towards a trial is in doubt.
    Evidence is to be considered in a courtroom.

    Right now this is all about the law and are the charges suitable to go to trial.

    So the judge really blew it big time allowing for the case to proceed rather than dismiss !!!

    Let's hope that a more capabale
    and smarter judge is assigned to review the appeal who will understand the errors in judgement the first judge made.

    This could take 6-9 months till this takes place.

    Keep up your petitions to God
    everyone !! Prayer works !!

























  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    One has only to google the name and church to see that mid-2004 the couple was volunteers of the month, then 6 months later, an infraction for a minister/ seminarian, then a few months later an accusation. Many of us now know what the infraction was. So she washed out of the system; that was a definite possibility for anyone. And that's why people are reviewed annually. So not everyone is cut out for the ministry and the demands it makes on your conduct. Tom has a long career and he was perhaps trying to help someone. The lesson. Help yourself. Never put yourself in harm's way. And there was an occasion for the plaintiff's wife to rethink her past actions, but she did not in the letter to the congregation and Tom did. Never think anyone has your best interests at heart but yourself is the lesson they can both take away from it. Because neither the platintiff nor the defendant have made any positive statements about the other. Nowhere was the minister, church or Presbytery thanked for their contribution to her life to date. Then there's a bump in the road, and that changes everything? As if the past were dead. So if you are only there in the good times what does that suggest. Fair weather friend.
  • Friend of friends of Tewell · 3 years ago
    I was in NYC last week and I have religious friends who went to that church. They were talking about the lawsuit developments. So I googled, found this site, and laughed and laughed at the acrimony here.

    With regard to the lawsuit, here's the court document in a pdf. I found it odd that the commenter who knew of the document wouldn't post the info, so I went to the trouble to find it so all in this discussion could read the PUBLIC document. There is no good reason to obscure or make difficult the access to public, legal information.

    http://decisions.courts.state.ny.us/fcas/FCAS_docs/2006MAY/30011500220051SCIV.PDF

    Regarding the religious people vs. the atheists...this is funny stuff! I can't bring myself to believe in God on evidential grounds.

    But, what's with all the anger by my fellow atheists? My friends are comfortable in their lack of belief, but many here seem angry and upset at religious people. Who cares if they believe their stories? If you're THIS angry about other peoples' religious beliefs, there is something DEEPLY screwed up with you. We're free, we don't have to live with the rules and guilt and neuroses. That's what religious people have. So why are my fellow free thinkers so screwed up on this comment thread? It's embarrassing to our side. We have NOTHING to be afraid of, no cause for alarm, no cause for anger.







  • friend of friends of Tewell · 3 years ago
    here's the court case again. It looks like Blogger cut off the url on my previous comment.

    http://decisions.courts.state.ny.us/
    fcas/FCAS_docs/
    2006MAY/30011500220051SCIV.PDF



  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    Excuse me FFT, but sanctimony and condescension are unattractive qualities in a True Atheist™ like yourself. You should do your best to shed that demeanor when coming into someone else's home—it makes you look bad.

    As far as the civil suit being dismissed (thanks for the link, btw), that proves absolutely nothing about whether the allegations are true or not. All the court dismissal states is that the State of New York does not recognize the allegations as being addressed by any New York law. No law = no crime.

    Now, can someone please explain what is up with the outright slavering worship of this Tewell dude? I mean, really... In the past six years I've never seen the defensive Christian zeal ever aroused to this heightened level over one preacher. This is preacher worship, pure and simple.
    It's almost as if they are all saying: "No one can speak against 'God's Anointed!' It is a sin! It is wrong! It shouldn't be done! Tewell is a hero! Tewell is MY HERO!!!! WE LOVE TEWELL, HE'S OUR MAN...OF GOD"

    Oh brother....






  • friend of friends of Tewell · 3 years ago
    Webservant,

    One atheist telling another atheist about sanctimony? You are a risible man. I don't believe in holiness, so "sanctimony" is as non-existent as a supreme being.

    I was in a coffeeshop with friends when I looked up the Tewell stuff and found your site. Of the five of us, three are atheists, two supposedly believe in some sort of a God, but it has no real bearing on their lives (which is why we can be friends). Five of us, either having no belief or little belief in religion. That's context for this:

    My demeanor may have been unattractive to you, but my friends, after laughing at the fulminations of your readers against religious types, urged me to criticize. It didn't take much urging, and we all thought it was an appropriate criticism.

    Attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder, and our circle thought the comment was attractive and appropriate. I don't care if you or others disagree...it's 100% opinion. You have yours, we have ours. There is no objective standard. As much criticism as you dish out, I would think you would be more tolerant of criticism. Besides, the critique was only aimed at those who pathetically are living in reaction to religion instead of being free of religion. How is that NOT pathetic?

    When I encounter religious people, which is not often in a university town, I just roll my eyes and move on. Who cares if they live in their little fairy tales? I don't. So when I see the gushing anger and disgust at religious types in this thread, I think, "Why are you so angry? Dude, let it go. Be free."

    True atheists are free in our knowledge based on reason. We are free thinkers. We don't live by superstition, fear, or in reaction to religion. We make our own way, not reactive to religious ways.

    Irony: the fulminating pseudo-atheists are still controlled by the religion they rail against. To live in reaction to something is still to be controlled, albeit indirectly, by that something.

    Which brings me back to my original point: you are a risible man.















  • boomSLANG · 3 years ago
    " Irony: the fulminating pseudo-atheists are still controlled by the religion they rail against. To live in reaction to something is still to be controlled...."


    Sauce for the gander: The "True Atheist" in sheep's clothing is ironically "controlled" enough to react and respond to other's responses and reactions. Baa~aa~ah. LMAO!


  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    Yes, the True Atheist™ is hyper-critical of other atheists, and has the audacity to demand conformity to his personal standards of opinion expression and word use. Whatever...

    Since verbal subtleties seem to elude you, I'll explain my use of the word sanctimony—it was a wordplay of sorts on your use of the word acrimony. (Sanctimony—acrimony, get it?) Although it's true that sanctimony is generally and most accurately used in a religious context, Dictionary.com cites the following definition: hypocritical devoutness or high-mindedness. Since I was attempting to play on your polite use of the word acrimony, and since you are making polite dogmatic statements on how all non-believers in Christianity should think, act, or express their opinions, and in light of the fact that you have set yourself and your giggle-buddies up us as some sort of authorities over others, to quickly mock and criticize, after only a cursory glance at a few posts, I believe the word sanctimony not only appropriately fits you, but that you define it.

    I also think you are a liar.

    You tout freedom, and yet demand compliance with your view of how others should respond to Christianity. What an ass you are. What a pompous, pathetically arrogant, piece of work you are.

    Sorry bud, but if you're not a trolling fake, then you are an embarrassment to your cause.

    Have a nice giggle-festive day. Tee-hee.









  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    Another comment:

    Free thinking might be defined as thinking outside the box—any box.

    You're preferred approach to the topic of Christian belief is your preferred approach, and you're entitled to that preferred approach. But, your approach is by no means the absolute standard approach.

    Perhaps you should read some Ingersol, or some Thomas Paine. Those men will probably give you and your friends a few good chuckles too.





  • Bentley · 3 years ago
    The problem with the whole thing is:

    A preacher that is pretending that he is called by a god, which is a total lie!

    People stupid enough to believe that the preacher is really called by a god.

    A total myth (lie) being told as being truth.

    A grand lie written down in a book by men and called being written by a god, a total lie.

    People refusing to see that the bible is a total lie.

    People resenting people like me telling them it's a total lie.

    People rejecting the fact that what they've have been told since a little child, is a total lie and now when a GREAT PREACHER gets caught with another woman and there's a slight inkling that their silly childhood beliefs may become violated and proved to be false.

    The whole problem lies with a grand fairytale being made to seem as the truth, and so many lies have to be told to back up even the grandest lie of all time, the bible.

    A lie is a lie, no matter how many times you try to prove it's not a lie.

    A LIE CAN NEVER BE PROVED IT'S NOT A LIE!

    THE BIBLE CAN NEVER BE PROVED THAT IT'S NOT A LIE!

    ALL PREACHERS ARE LIARS!

    ALL CHRISTIANS ARE LIARS!

    THERE IS NO TRUTH IN THE BIBLE!

    THERE IS NO TRUTH IN ANY RELIGION!

    THIS IS NOT MY OPINION, IT IS THE TRUTH!

    BUT YOU PREFER TO PAY A PREACHER TO TELL YOU A LIE!

    AND YOU WILL PRAISE A PREACHER FOR TELLING YOU LIES, BUT YOU WILL CHASTISE ME FOR TELLING YOU THE TRUTH




































  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    the persons who posted about how much Tom meant to them - knew Tom well enough - that these allegations do not sit well with them and are mature people - not a worshipper of a person. Please !!

    Tom has a very close walk with God and as such was an instrument of God's grace to many.

    What ever happened to innocent until proven guilty? Even you atheists believe in that!

    Joe's allegations of marital counseling are false. Tom referred
    them to existing church programs that would be appropriate. This Joe is claiming is marital counseling - not even close !!
    In the end this case will collapse
    as the truth will come out and that will take time.

    What right do you have ?
    Those of you who do not know Tom tobe be critical of those who are standing by Tom in his time of need?

    You are so entrenched in your negative view of religion and so are in the dark - as evidenced by your comments so as to be totally devoid of any credibility













  • Tom Thumb & My Middle Digi · 3 years ago
    Hey anonymous, don't take life so seriously, it ain't permanent. You'll change your mind, because your mind will change you, as it degrades over time, it appears your declination angle for mental degradation is sharper than most.

    Its all a misunderstanding, we just need to say nony, nony, nony, about a million times while this all goes by, the less we know the better, no reason to observe the pooh fest, its what the religious do best - keep their eyes and mind shut.

  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    What ever happened to innocent until proven guilty? OMG! This is a discussion forum, that's all! No one is going to jail.

    Jesus H. Christ -- you guys worship this man, you absolutely worship him!

    "Tom has a very close walk with God and as such was an instrument of God's grace to many."

    And which god would that be, exactly? Allah? Oh I know, you mean Jezus. Which version of Jesus exactly? The Pope's version? The Jehova Witness's verison?

    What right do we have to an opinion on this news topic? You're kidding, right? This is a NEWS topic. Everyone has a right to their opinion on it -- EVERYONE!!!

    You worship this man -- you absolutely worship him!









  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    can any of you 'fot' say idolatry? how do you spell idolatry..."tom tewell"

    it's the session's fault

    it's the presbytery's fault

    it's the church's fault

    it's joe's fault...

    it's the judge's fault

    when is it tom tewell's fault?

    when does he take responsibility for his own actions?

    pedestal worship...tom needs a lot of help, but not more people to put him on a pedestal















  • au revoirist · 3 years ago
    No one seems willing to write what the facts are...so why is everyone writing about what they don't know? If you never met him or listened to his sermons--why are you bothering to write? Why do you care what other people do? Get over it!

    If you did meet him then you are guessing what, if anything, he did if you are criticizing. No one is bold enough to post the reality; he is neither on nor off a pedestal. He is living his life outside NY with his wife.

  • Windy City · 3 years ago
    So, handy as it is I daresay few people will read the judge's decision. Because it doesn't tell anything except what the judge is letting go forward. And that much was in the Daily News and the Post. No one HAS to like Tom; it's a free country. So, tell your truth, your experience of him if you want, the rest are just spouting air about a stranger.

    Some people had friends or spouses or co-workers who came and went or stayed in your lives. How is this any different?

  • Rock around the clock · 3 years ago
    Lots of people have mid-life crises and the married people and the single people at church had different experiences of Tom. A smart preacher's wife stays close to her husband while he's working and gets to know people in her own home. To give your husband too much freedom, some would say trust, is asking for trouble. A man has to decide if he wants to be married to an all-trusting "mother" (read his sermons) or someone who sees him as a sexy man. So this is a HUGE surprise to the married people, probably less so to some single ones. A man has to decide how hard he wants to "work" to keep his wife and a woman her husband. Stay slim, exercise together, do things together--and stop going on about the grandchildren! Enough already! If Tom and Suzanne aren't "enough" for each other, they will get divorced. If this experience has taught them that they can be "enough" with each other by admitting how they have failed each other, they may stay married.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to the posting of 6/5 - 7PM
    Insurance companies have websites
    explaining that the usual response is to blame the minister when they make a mistake like this-when in fact it is the failure of the entire church - ie. education and prevention and a watchful eye.

    There are two kinds of people in the world - those who like to tear people down and those who like to build people up.

    And what a person says about someone shows what kind they are - the focus is either on good or evil.

    To stand up for someone who is under attack is not idol worship.

    Tom is not a perfect human being and has admitted to making a mistake in judgement - he is a human being with shortcomings like the rest of us. But he is a very good soul who has helped many and God willing will continue to do so (that is what people are so concerned about). It is hurtful to see this kind of evil happening to someone and see them suffer. But Tom will from this experience be even more helpful to people.

    Is that clear now? to those of you who are fixated on the mantra of idol worship?


    The reason Joe went ahead with a civil suit is because the results of the investigation done by the church and the insurance company were not what Joe wanted to get - not because they were not true.

    the findings were conclusive and showed that nothing really extremely terrible went on. Everything fit together in such a way as to give a great deal of confidence in the findings.

    What actually happened - we will not know until the report is given when the legal proceedings are completed.


    Regarding Tom and his wife - they are very close as a couple and have become even closer to each other during this ordeal - and that is a fact not conjecture.





















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    The person who made an attempt at analyzing the Tewell marriage is an amateur psychologist who draws the wrong conclusions mainly due to not understanding the roles of a minister and their spouse.

    First of all no one really knows what goes on in a marriage except the two people involved.

    Suzanne has been praised over the years many times and appreciated for being very patient and supportive because she allowed Tom time to attend to church matters and members without putting pressure on him. She is a caring and generous person.

    Suzanne always appeardd to be very approachable and down to earth with a good word and consistent.
    Not some sexy model type. That is what a minister needs as a helpmate one who listens and understands.
    Tom knows what a gem he married and how good she has been for him.

    Marrieds and singles have different needs and so naturally are ministered to differently.
    Just as individuals receive advice tailored to their situation.

    Ministers are to serve as role models for members. That is why they talk about their family life and dynamics knowing many people attending come from dysfunctional families and this is helpful for them. It is not about being self absorbed in one's own family and talking too much about it.












  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    how in the hell do youknow how close tom and suzanne are as a couple?

    how do youknow why joe filed the lawsuit?

    what about the fact that this has gone on for years?

    to say that "nothing terrible" happened is beyond insanity...everything that has happened here is terrible.

    if tom and suzanne are so close...why did this happen in the first place? why was she never around at church events or with him on speaking events?

    i guess now she will be since they're "so close" and all.

    sounds like a bunch a bs to me!











  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    sorry that you do not want to believe that Tom was not engaged in anything extremely terrible calling that insanity.

    Joe is the person who overreacted creating the situation
    and is a very confused person
    (I am trying to be generous)

    He is known to be more of a street fighter type as his style of handling situations.

    What is insanity is to believe the allegations made that are so obviously false and intended to destroy Tom's career.







  • J. C. Samuelson · 3 years ago
    It's absolutely ridiculous that so many of Tom Tewell's followers - and you are HIS followers - are here to defend him. The guy fucked up, demonstrating that Christianity changes nothing but perceptions.

    Some of the comments are simply outrageous. The sheer volume of nonsensical anonymous postings professing love and admiration for this man precludes addressing them all, but a couple stand out.

    "Tom has paid the highest price."

    He did!? Where? What price would that be? Loss of credibility? His own fault!

    "Tom has paid the ultimate price for his sin..."

    Maybe you should go discuss what the "ultimate sacrifice" means with all the fallen heroes in Arlington. You make me fucking sick!

    "...explaining that the usual response is to blame the minister when they make a mistake like this-when in fact it is the failure of the entire church - ie. education and prevention and a watchful eye."

    When does it become the responsibility of the individual? Whatever happened to the professed Christian ideal of accountability, huh? Out the fucking door when it's someone you like on the chopping block, isn't it?

    Incidentally, for all you Christians who came here to post you should know that the reason for posting news items like this is to point out that your religion changes nothing. Thousands of priests throughout history have professed their faith, only to succumb to human failings anyway.

    All these nuts who showed up got my panties in a bunch, sorry.

















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    how can the allegations be so "obviously false" the only person who destroyed tom tewell's career is tom tewell.

    if joe is the street fighter that you say he is then why didn't he just beat the shit out of tewell?
    i seem to remeber that he taught sunday school and served on committees at the church. he and tom were even friends at one point.

    you seem to be the one who is confused.




  • Wondering · 3 years ago
    Of course in the end it was Tom's fault. He would tell you that. Of couse he is telling people (and you, I guess) that his marriage is "stronger." Men never tell the truth about their marriage and he isn't telling you now. Did he tell his pastor pals before and to what. Or stronger compared to what? Maybe it had nowhere to go but up!

    His wife can go or stay and she has chosen to stay. In the end it was his choice at what times and where to talk Rachel. How much did the church help Suzanne by telling her how serious an infraction "helping" a seminarian could turn into? Or did she just choose to treat him like a boy with his toys, women who adored him, sports, and had given up giving him a bottom line. FAPC members don't really care about their marriage. We wanted to hear him preach and that she couldn't control him so that continued to happen doesn't help us. Or is his quitting and the investigation not related to each other? And Joe couldn't control his wife either. So, everyone got to be "right." This seminarian is no longer on the "Tom team," as she was regarded negatively for being a married mother who got herself into this situation, as did he, no matter how "similar" their accounts. So, for those wondering, yes, it cuts both ways!.

    But no one has commented on the reason he quit FAPC as of Nov 20, 2006 (the letter of Nov 3), and for such a minor infraction--as it is--why not just stay and wait it out? But it is easier to just quit and start over, perhaps, then deal with whatever the real problem--having NOTHING to do with the Viones--he was having with the church in the first place. Just to quit--does seem like a macho thing to do? Hardly.

    No one has come up with a good reason why he quit, and it certainly wasn't about a woman he didn't want.





  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    A person who responds to an assault by filing an assault charge would find themselves in criminal court and maybe that is why you haven't read anything along those lines because maybe that option was considered and dropped rather than there was NO cause. And some people choose to respond to fists with words. And then when is it "assault?" Just more we don't know.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    what do you mean by friends?
    Joe was active enough and so that was appreciated by Tom certainly.
    But Joe never "got it" about being a Christian - he was a doer without understanding what it is all about.

    Doing something borderline wrong is not a career destroyer - if it was then we all would be in trouble career wise wouldn't we.

    It is Joe's false accusations
    designed to destroy Tom's career that are the problem. And his determination to blame Tom for his marital situation. It is easier to focus on someone else that to do the hard work of looking at oneself
    and this will in time backfire on Joe badly.

    Since Tom has such a legacy of being a minister who makes a difference in people's lives then
    his career is not destroyed.
    In fact he will be a better minister for having gone through this because of his attitude of learning from his mistake which was one of poor judgement. (not out of control as some postings suggest that Suzanne did not know where her husband was or give her consent to meeting with Rachel).

    Malcom Forbes said it best : a mistake is success when we learn from it.

    The point about Suzanne is that she did not hamper Tom from giving of himself to the needs of the church which is unusual when one considers how much time he gave!

    And was herself very approachable on Sundays to talk to.
    If Tom needed her at a certain function - she was there for him as a supportive presence.

    And you know what? In the end after a time the Tewells will end up at a very fortunate church indeed. It was time for Tom to be in a smaller medium sized church where there is less intensity because of NYC and people with agendas - although he would rather have left under better circumstances.




















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    If one takes a vow as a clergy; or a husband, one has taken on certain obligations. At some point it isn't about interpretation but about fact.
    He let down the church and his wife, and maybe if R hadn't met him, that marriage would have survived for their children. But no. Many 1000s of people spent many hours thinking about this--and for what?
  • preacherman · 3 years ago
    I am a Presbyterian minister, Tom's age, and a graduate of Princeton Seminary, although I wasn't there the same time he was. I've known of his unusual skills for years, and have met him, although I wouldn't even call myself an acquaintance of his, much less a friend. After visiting this site for awhile (it is, interestingly, the only place I know of where news and discussion of this case can be found) I have become more and more distressed to learn that people like Tom and I are liars and charlatans who routinely manipulate people and try to convince them to believe in a lot of nonsensical crap, all for our own advantage. Maybe this is a surprise to me because, frankly, I haven't noticed all that many advantages to being a minister. Becoming a minister - a Presbyterian one, anyway - requires a long, rigorous, expensive process, after which most of us will never earn much more than an entry-level income. And it's a pretty tough job. If my information is correct, about half of us who enter the pastoral ministry don't survive in it beyond the first five years. Whatever else there is to say about them or what they believe, Christians can be a tough bunch to work for. Presbyterian-type Christians, anyway. There may be a few - like, maybe, Tom - who make incomes well above-average and who are idolized, put on pedestals, etc., but that's not the real world for most of us.

    So, if we don't really get all the goodies we're supposed to get, why do we do it? I would say that most of us (and it's oly my opinion, I might be wrong) are not actually doing it so we can perpetuate a certain mythology or defend an outdated cosmology. I would say that, when all is said and done, we do what we do because we respect the tradition, because we actually believe it represents the "best" in the human spirit, because we believe that if people actually would follow the teachings of Jesus we probably could build the kind of world that we all, deep down, yearn to live in - a world of mutual respect, a world where the needs of all are taken seriously, a world of peace. We also realize that to believe this is kind of funny. Maybe even kind of pathetic. Because it doesn't represent the real world. Because the church often seems to be wroking for the other side. Nobody follows Jesus - not the church, not even we preachers. We keep at it because whether we like it or not we're idealists. It is an idealism, though, mixed with far more doubt and ambiguity than certainty. It has occurred to me since visiting this site that what we preachers actually aspire to is atheism. Then we could finally have the certainty we've wished for all along, being sure that everyone who didn't agree with us were complete nincompoops, and we would finally have the courage to speak boldly enough to simply lay the truth on the line - the truth that anyone with a different belief system than ours are simply fools.

    I don't know what Tom Tewell did with Mrs. Vione or any other woman other than his wife. What I do know is that there is nothing particularly special about him, or me, or any other minister. We're just people, just like everybody else. And, just like everybody else, sometimes our religious convictions lead us to be "better" than we might otherwise be, and sometimes they don't. Where we are different is that by becoming ministers we have put ourselves in a situation where our indiscretions can be much more destructive than they might otherwise be. And we open ourselves up to far harsher criticism when our indiscretions become public.

    There is nothing to be gained at this point, I don't think, from defending or criticizing anyone involved. Perhaps at this point this whole episode has become nothing more than a very sad story, one with no winners. FAPC and it's members have lost a lot - not only a fine minister, but also much of their hope for a productive ministry anytime in the near future. The Vione's as a family unit are, no doubt, shattered beyond repair. Their kids will probably have to carry the burden of this scandal all their lives. Even if Tom and Suzanne do salvage their marriage, well, it will be under a shadow. And even if Tom is completely vindicated, it is very unlikely that his profession will ever again be practiced at the same level of influence and opportunity.

    What's all this episode about? At this point, it seems to me, it's all about one thing - sadness.







  • Moral Observer · 3 years ago
    Preacherman: "FAPC and it's members have lost a lot - not only a fine minister, but also much of their hope for a productive ministry anytime in the near future."

    Non-productive minister = non-productive ministry. Even the forest rangers know, you have to burn the underbrush every now and again to get the grass to grow back greener.

    Preacherman: "The Vione's as a family unit are, no doubt, shattered beyond repair. Their kids will probably have to carry the burden of this scandal all their lives."

    However, if this scandal wasn't exposed, the kids, may have lived a life following their fathers' footsteps, perhaps, its a natural blessing, that the children have been exposed to the justice side of such conduct, and are much more capable of making decisions with known, realistic consequences.

    Preacherman: "Even if Tom and Suzanne do salvage their marriage, well, it will be under a shadow. And even if Tom is completely vindicated, it is very unlikely that his profession will ever again be practiced at the same level of influence and opportunity."

    Lets see, I'm not realigious by a long shot, so forgive me for my heathen comment. Is it possible for Tom to "love" his wife and kids more than his "J.O.B.", and the prestige and influence that comes with the job? It seems Tom, no matter what the outcome, gets to make his decision on his priorities, based on his values. Albeit, his family also gets to decide on his trustworthiness as a father, and who better to make such a decision than those closest to Tom.

    If Tom is truly innocent, and he has been a good father, then, Tom only looses a "J.O.B.", as long as his family, being the religiously devout people they are, give him the benefit of doubt based on their knowledge of him. In the wake of such turmoil, losing a job seems almost insignificant, unless the J.O.B., is somehow bigger than his family.











  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    Preacherman,

    You had me listening until you went here: "...aspire to, is atheism. Then we could finally have the certainty we've wished for all along, being sure that everyone who didn't agree with us were complete nincompoops, and we would finally have the courage to speak boldly enough to simply lay the truth on the line - the truth that anyone with a different belief system than ours are simply fools."

    And the Bible says: "The fool hath said in his heart, there is no god."

    Christianity touts itself as the absolute metaphysical authority—Every knee shall bow!

    Do you think Muslims are right or wrong? Do you think Pagans are right or wrong? Do you think animists are right or wrong?

    As soon as you point your theological finger at other magical religions and say those religions are false, and the followers destined to an eternity of torturous agony in the fire soaked bowels of hell, well, aren't you more-or-less calling those poor deceived souls something considerably worse than nincompoops? Aren't you calling them "the damned?"

    I may think people who believe in talking donkeys; flying fiery chariots; talking snakes; pigs filled with demons; a flying, undead, man-god on a stick; angels, demons, and unicorns; are nincompoops for swallowing such fish stories (insert allusion to Jonah here), but my worldview never threatens them with eternal damnation for harboring those infantile beliefs.

    Would I consider such superstitions naive, or even stupid? Absolutely. Would I consider embracing such nonsense as an offense deserving roasting on an everlasting spit? No.

    You admitted that preachers are just like any other human. That is the foundational point of this entire article—preachers are no different than any other person in any other job. They are not magically filled with holiness, they should not be worshiped and idolized, and being a church minister is a career choice, like any other. To even hint toward the idea that "preacher" is any more honorable of a life career than "fry cook, lawyer, dancer, acrobat, writer, doctor, housewife, etc.," would be to admit to a definite lack of humbleness. Wouldn't you agree?

    I'm always intrigued when posters open their comments be detailing educational credentials. I wonder what exatly that's intended to prove? Are you trying to say that people with Ivy League papers are smarter? Better? More sincere? Able to leap tall buildings with a single bound? Please, don't get me wrong. Education is absolutely essential to success in our society, but acquiring an education is considerably more than attending a school for a few years—any school. Education is a life-long endeavor. I've known entirely too many "titled" individuals who have been quite inept in their chosen fields and quite mentally lazy. Degrees do offer a hopeful beginning, but in the end are just peices of paper. Real education is in the product produced, not in the facts accumulated. As a recently graduated young colleague of mine frankly admitted, "Well, now I know the same as anyone who has read a bunch of books on this subject."

    You've chosen religion as your job. Many people honestly think you've made a silly choice. I suggest you get over it.



















  • Dano · 3 years ago
    Hey Preacherman!
    Anything you can do, or W/M of this site can do, or I can do, or anyone can do, to discredit religion, will help.

    The religious crazies have been creating havoc all over the world for a very long time.

    Cells of religious zealots are plotting to do damage to our way of life as we speak, because from birth they have been taught that their religion is the "only" true religion, and that we are a Christian Country, and Christians are heathens who want to take over the world (see the Crusades).

    They are taught to hate us and anyone else who doesn't adhere their form of religious thought. They are taught to go out into the world and kill and wreak havoc upon all people who will not conform to their way of thinking.

    Fundamental Christianity in it's most evangelical form preaches the same thing to it's disciples.

    With the advent of the Internet, it is possible for the first time in history to disseminate ideas instantly to millions of people, and "Bloggers" are exposing the sham of religious thought, belief, and practice, at a rate never possible before.

    It is virtually impossible today, for a power seeking phony, claiming to speak for God, to gain control over the minds of ordinary folks, like they once could. (God help us if the ever get complete control of the Internet)

    So, Preacherman, now that you have come to the realization through the education you have received, here, and Princeton, that all religion is silly "Mind control," and not worthy of killing anybody for, why don't you use your credentials and education, to try help others get out from under the control these fearful death cults?

    I don't think we need to be particularly concerned about one lying cheating preacher. They are all over the place!

    Dan (Who thinks even an enlightened preacher can make a difference)


















  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    Be sure to check out the update in the orginal post above.
  • Commentator · 3 years ago
    "As far as the civil suit being dismissed (thanks for the link, btw), that proves absolutely nothing about whether the allegations are true or not. All the court dismissal states is that the State of New York does not recognize the allegations as being addressed by any New York law. No law = no crime."

    No webmaster, unless today June 8 it was. Only SOME of it was dismissed. That's why Tom's lawyer said he would appeal!

  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    Thanks for the clarification Commentator.
  • From "just about had it land" · 3 years ago
    The unrelenting gossip by the biddies at FAPC, male and female, stemming from Suzanne's non-appearance at a church event just before 9/11 is how Tom's name has been dragged through the mud since then; nothing to back up their assertions. I'm still a member, but I find it deplorable. And if you read the Post the day after the suit was filed, what was attributed to Rachel is in man's language, being graphic rather than descriptive, and so doesn't have much credibility. More to make a legal case. Or to go fishing, more to the point. That if they accused Tom of something, then would he be take them on? He did! That what was in the letter to the congregation on Nov 3.

    Tom did not always remember in his chosen communication style that he was not a "good old boy" in NYC, as a minister is not (no matter where), but that is a far cry from what he has been accused of doing.

  • No Accounting for Taste · 3 years ago
    The June 8 mtg "to be" was not.
    And now nothing in the judge's chambers until after 4th of July. Unless they decide to make the plaintiff a GAM (go-away money) offer. But to do that would lessen the dramatic potential of having the suit be dismissed. Which it may not be. And who will earn a paycheck if there is no end in sight? We know. The lawyers. And awards are taxable, too.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    since there was definitely no marital counseling given and this is what Joe's case is built on

    This vicious attempt will eventually collapse like a house of cards according to a very credible source close to the situation since all that needs to be shown is that there was no counseling just referral to existing church programs.

    Joe and his lawyers are counting on the Insurance Company to buckle and settle giving him money
    by putting in more false accusations in the newspaper that there were other women Tom couseled taking advantage of them.

    Joe, how low can you stoop before it starts to destroy both you and your family !!

    Joe will do anything to satisfy his misguided desire for revenge and money which is encouraged by greedy lawyers. He is not a well man.








  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Preacherman,
    Since you do not know Tom at all
    why speculate? Crises tend to bring families closer together
    as is the case with the Tewell family and it has made Tom and Suzanne closer by holding onto each other through this.
    And what about crises being an opportunity for growth ?? This will only serve to deepen Tom spiritually not undo him which is what trials do.
    Tom was ready to make a move out of NYC to a smaller church where he would have more time for his family and to write and teach as he enjoys the academic world.


    You are right on one point only in that ministers if they make the slightest indiscretion (as what happened with tom last winter by mentoring Rachel before graduation)
    then as Tom also mentioned in a sermon, the church tends to shoot its wounded where Tom told of how the minister became a better person for it.

    The most important goal in life is to become more like Jesus
    isn't it !! And that is what trials are allowed for !!











  • Firefighter · 3 years ago
    Those talking to the Tewells, were talking to them before this happened, and did you suspect how bad things could get? No. Tom did NOT confide in you, did he?
    Reading the Nov 3 letter tells why.
    The plaintiff's wife was a "nothing" in his scheme of things, and her subsequent reactions confirm that she knew that well. Still, you don't know how "close" Tom and Suzanne were before this happened. Or were not.

    Ironic that last night at FAPC we heard a song from the movie and musical "The Music Man," but it wasn't "We've Got Trouble...Right Here in River City [East River, Hudson River.] Because do Tom's imperfections matter if you got something from church--if not--why did you stay?

    Observe and listen really closely to their conversation those of you who actually are talking to them. Look at where the concern is being placed.

    What he put at risk: his wife, his family (adult sons), his reputation and his career. But maybe this was his "fire" way of cleaning up his "house." But that's why people have "inner" drives. They can't tell you "why."

    One also has to wonder about the assoc pastors' vows at FAPC. Not very helpful or alert not to step in. Now an assoc pastor has quit, and not for another job. But as people go a bit "off" you can see the loss of their "perfect" demeanor, so let's just say the firestorm is sweeping through FAPC.









  • From "Just about had it land" · 3 years ago
    In the Nov 3 letter to the congregation Tom said in essence, "PROVE IT" to his accuser, less than one week after the civil suit was filed. And so far nothing has come out from the plaintiffs, who do have the newspapers' ears. So seems like he called their bluff. If nothing happened, you can't prove something did, the point of the letter.

    But these things have a way of fading away. In NYC people are confusing him with the Roman Catholic priest/secretary story.

  • Search for Tomorrow · 3 years ago
    The FOMA (Freedom of Information Act) of years ago means that states now have public websites to follow along on court cases or check histories of people you are going to hire, or marry, for example, so readers, go to www.nycourts.gov/home.htm then "e-court" at the bottom, "civil" court cases then VIONE as the plaintiff. You can read all the documents as they are scanned and see the progress of the divorce case of the plaintiff. And it has escaped no one that only the husband is suing, and once he is divorced, any award would go to him alone (and his lawyer), unless it's covered in the divorce decree.

    Divorce papers are not public documents, just the meetings, one of which was covered in the Post in 2005.

    And the timing of the newspaper stories in May suggests that the papers are using those as their source. And the stories are appearing after the online doc appears, several days after the decision was handed down by the judge. So now no one need think anyone is being denied access to the information our Federal Government has been letting us have for years! Ah Internet! And you can look up your own clergy (or anyone) in your state by "state name" + court on google and seeing what pops up. Or maybe just replacing "NY" with the postal 2-letter state abbreviation in the URL above. In any case, anyone can write anything in a suit--it opens you up to a countersuit if you have no evidence to back you up.

    So we can blog before the papers publish!
    Happy hunting.






  • Search for tomorrow · 3 years ago
    FOIA...Freedom of Information Act

    http://www.gwu.edu/
    ~nsarchiv/nsa/
    foia.htmlhttp:
    //www.gwu.edu/~nsarchiv/
    nsa/foia.html

    And after 9/11, some docs that were public no longer are, since it made no sense to put public buildings blueprints online, for example as an educational tool when our buildings were attacked.







  • Search for Tomorrow · 3 years ago
    Divorce meeting "dates" are public; not the content.
  • FAPC member · 3 years ago
    6/06/06 4:06 "even a friend." is exactly the error Tom made in suggesting in his letters to the congregation that this was possible or desirable. Ministers minister and they are not "friends"; right out of the ethics of the profession and "best practices."

    Being outside the church with one person alone for any reason, or too much time spent--are both possibilities for "charges" in a church setting, and gender doesn't matter as far as church charges go.

    Tom's Nov 3, 2005 resignation letter said "boundaries" was a problem as a lesson learned.

    The church has probably incurred a cost of over one million dollars now--in lost pledges and attorneys fees. Or it will, eventually.

    So congregations need to learn what's involved. It is really easy to pin it all on this minister, but the reality is we just hired another empty-nester and can anyone recite the lessons learned to him? Doubtful, since people still don't get that "the minister is always wrong," and we can't afford too much more "non-prevention."







  • Follow-up Agreer · 3 years ago
    Anonymous wrote:

    That is for sure:
    -------------------------------

    to say that "nothing terrible" happened is beyond insanity...everything that has happened here is terrible.
    ------------------------------
    Exactly my point!
    ------------------------------
    if tom and suzanne are so close...why did this happen in the first place? why was she never around at church events or with him on speaking events?

    posted: 6/06/2006 3:22 PM EST










  • Re: Infants Terrible · 3 years ago
    Tom got a lot of approval from people at FAPC; did Suzanne give him the same in recent years? It's not like we're guessing now: We have the newspaper stories, the PBS TV interview "Churches in Trauma" with acting head of staff, suits in two places--civil and church--and an empty pulpit. You can't expect a man with all that he got from the congregation not to expect to have the wife he supports at least as admiring of him. But she had to be "on" all the time with him, we not so much.

    Do we want to be put in our place by our spouses--or get support?

    How many women would put on a party dress to be by his side if that was requested? Work may mean more to him than extra women, but that didn't mean he was happy at home. Not being forthright about his issues with his wife or a therapist meant he had a small infraction rather than something big, but for all the harm it did to the church, he might as well have had a harem he flew to Paris with on Mondays.

    So, it was his problems that opened the door.





  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Who said, "it's words?" But he has a presence, and if that is helpful, why judge?

    The past is past. In civil court everyone shares the relevant facts with the other side.

    I agree with you, webmaster, that there is a range of trust from none to 100% and the 100%ers have a different relationship to understanding factual reality than the rest of us.

    People in public are "public." But it is amazing the amount of denial this has evinced, and I am one of his more ardent fans in thinking he can pull himself out of this and move forward. We're all only guessing. Up to him.





  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Ben,
    How do you live day to day? Do you have any friends? Do you ever smile or laugh? You seem so full of hate. Heck, the great thing about America is you are allowed to express that hate. I just hope you are not married and reproducing any children to pass along the hate. You scare me- more than the boogie man scares me.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I wish there was an alternate forum whereas to express concern for Tom and his family (and/or Rachel and Joseph as the case may be) and to get updates about the situation in general. I am a memeber of FAPC and I am so sad as to what this has done to the church and to many people who go there.

    I try to make no judgments about the previous post nor of the person who penned it but let's just say that that I won't be catching a Yankees game with him any time soon. Wow, what anger! And after I read his derisive posts, I just want to take a long, hot shower. I am so glad that I do not know this man.

    Any update on Tom? Any other site where information on Dr. Tewell & family can be had?

    Friend of Tom





  • Info seeker · 3 years ago
    I suggest that some bold FAPC members organize a meeting where we can share concerns and facts. Blogs are public.

    Are you a techie? The Tewells are living a private now. The Tewells are no longer part of FAPC, position: private citizens, so no information is given us. The public nature of this blog/any blog means that anything we are too factual we are reluctant to post. The Presbtytery will make a decision Sept 06 at least. Then after he finds another church we will know about it. Go to www.google.com and put in an "alert" for "Tewell" and you will find any public info, and some, but not all of the newspaper stories. When the stories are too small in the Post, they don't make the alert. You'll get some "Doug Tewell" (pro golfer) articles, but most will appear.

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to the person who keeps using the word "blog" you obviously have an issue with unresolved anger that Tom has departed and are needing to point the finger at his wife.

    It is clear to others that people who talk this way show they have their own issues which are projected onto others.

    And to say that you understand the dynamics of their marriage is unbelievable as to be ridiculous.
    No one except the people involved know.

    Suzanne was a supportive wife and a very approachable person at church and as such a very good wife for a minister to have.
    Every church they have been with have absolutely grateful she was there.







  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    To Friend of Tom and others: I happened to speak with two old and very close friends of the Tewells recently. Quite independently of each other, they report that Tom is “very well”…and they really sound like they mean it. Of course it could be that Tom and Suzanne are just relieved to put New York City behind them, but I do sense it is much more than that. Tom was always a forward-looking fellow (“with great anticipation” was a favorite phrase of his), and he is eager to begin his new work in non-profit fundraising. Beyond that, Tom seems able to “wait on the Lord” even through what now seems like interminable litigation and to go to work with trust and hope (and maybe even joy). We should be grateful for God’s grace here! I don’t know more than that, but perhaps we should see it as inspiring as any sermon.
  • Bentley · 3 years ago
    Yes there's certainly a lesson be be learned here!

    Whenever a preacher gets up in front of his flock and preaches against adultery and sin for 20 or 30 years and then commits those same sins, we must quickly forgive him and not judge him, because we are all made of flesh and we all fall short of the glory of god, we must never condemn him because he was sent directly from God to preach the holey wird and to bilk you stupid fools out of your money.

    But it's more important that we believe in a fairytale that was told to us by our parents, than to question the selfrighteous quacks that are for some reason allowed to preach their insane nonsense in America.

    Why do we allow such filthy ignorant nonsense to be preached in America in 2006?

    Can anyone answer this question?







  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Ben, He didn't commit adultery or anything close to it, so Tom Tewell is not exactly a good example for your point. Some of us do know that (we are familiar with the results of the investigation), others suspect that something "smells" in this case, and still others believe in waiting for justice to take its course. So, pick on someone else, that's all.
  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    "...not exactly a good example..."

    Close, but not exactly. In fact, very close, but not exactly. In fact, "TOUCH NOT MINE ANOINTED!"

    Got it.



  • Bentley · 3 years ago
    New York Loony said;

    " others suspect that something "smells" in this case, and still others believe in waiting for justice to take its course."

    Could it be " a Sin?"

    If something smells, and he voluntarly left the church, surely it could not be a "Sin"

    Why else would the retard resign?
    Because of "sin"?

    No not this puritan! he is faultless in the eyes of his flock.

    No Christian can commit a sin, but if they do, they can play the Jesus get out of Hell free card!

    All you FABC members are all a bunch of brainwashed idiots.

    Why not just admit you've all been taken to the cleaners, it's so obvious to any of us here.
















  • Bentley · 3 years ago
    FAPC, whatever! it's all the same1
  • California girl · 3 years ago
    "Doing well" is the party line.

    The people who see them on a daily basis through this saw some other feelings...so they said.

    How this can be easy? Not!

    A manly man with a boyish side...well he's taken.





  • PNP · 3 years ago
    cynicism is the refuge of the emotionally broken
  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    And rabid dogmatic loyality is the refuge of the willingly blind.
  • PNP · 3 years ago
    From the last 6 months of rantings, it doesn't appear that you know the difference...there is a nuance here, and some obviously have strayed into the area you describe, but your anger towards Christ (or is it the "church"?) would still be there whether some pastor in Manhattan committed adultery or not.

    Hope takes guts...

  • PNP · 3 years ago
    There is a difference between the two...you know...between rabid loyalty and cynicism...your rantings of the last 6 months demonstrate that you're obviously in that angry camp of cynics.

    There are several posters here (or are they poseurs?) who are of the "shiny happy" camp you obviously fear (for some reason)...but others are not.

    I usually see Christians as being those who can't appreciate nuance in life, but atheists can be just as bad...

    Hope takes guts.





  • California girl · 3 years ago
    Nuance is all, I agree with you.

    Tom preached hope and maybe he needed to step back and understand reality more.

    That said, at FAPC we miss his brand of hope. And wish he could have toed the line.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    From my experience the ministers a person can look to as good examples are the ones who are ready to admit that they do not have it all together - that they have stumbled and how they have matured. These are the people with mature understandings. Tom preached a sermon - Be patient with me - Jesus is not finished with me yet.

    Christians know that they are not perfect but they are forgiven.
    That is the good news for everyone!

    So when an atheist rants on about ministers being hypocrites - the ones who put on a show that they have it all together - i agree !!




  • PNP · 3 years ago
    Don't get me wrong...I hope justice is done here. And if that means having to pay out the full $6MM and the rest of it, then so be it - let this serve as a lesson to all who are in authority - religious or not.

    I've known Tom for 25 years, and the webmastah has a point regarding his cult of personality concerns. People in my own family (and many others I know personally) have come to value the messenger more than the message in Tom's case. Your comment about Tom's "brand of hope" makes me a little nervous.

    There is only one brand of true hope and it comes from Him...not him(I'm guessing that's what you probably meant).

    What I have little time for (OK, I've got a few minutes) are people like the webmastah who pimp personal tragedies like this one only to support their previously held hatred of the faith. It allows them to avoid the central, brutally difficult questions that religion pose.

    Christ's question of Peter ("Who do you say I am?") is the most penetrating question ever posed. The answer to it (whichever answer) has changed lives, civilizations, and the course of human history. Allowing the actions of a pastor to avoid the necessary wrestling with its eternal significance is understandable, but tragic.







  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    yes Tom was the messenger and he had a gift for validation of people and strengthening them through his unconditional acceptance. But that is so true that there were too many people who were immature who wanted to focus on Tom but that does not take away from the fact that Tom helped a great number of people.

    Joe really has no case here since there was no marriage counseling
    just referral to existing church programs. There was not an affair (no evidence of at all)as Joe asserts since he has need to blame someone for his marriage falling apart that he boasted about many times at church and so He did not like the investigation results. Joe is in need of money to finance his divorce as his financial situtation resulted in a lien on the house for nonpayment of taxes.


  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    "What I have little time for...are people like the webmastah who pimp personal tragedies like this one only to support their previously held hatred of the faith."

    PIMP? So I'm getting paid for this? So allowing comments from news articles published in public papers is promoting prostitution? So pointing out that Christianity and its associated claims of magical transformation by an indwelling Holy Spirit give all the appearance of gross charlatanism is the same as whoring out innocents against their will?

    Hmm... Interesting attempt at analogy — humorous too, thanks.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    As long as people can use the word God, to justify every crime that a preacher or christian commits, a preacher nor a christian can ever do any wrong.

    A christian is not perfect, just saved!

    By saying such nonsense, says that God is the ultimate authority above the laws of the land, and man may not necessarly abide by the laws of the land, thereby only having to answer to his imaginary god.

    How convenient!!!





  • Brutal Questions? Nope! · 3 years ago
    PNP: "It allows them to avoid the central, brutally difficult questions that religion pose."

    Just because religions pose questions, doesn't mean that the questions are valid, especially for a question posed with the presupposition of a transcendent reality, where no answers can possibly be gleaned. On my weighted scale for valid questions, that rates a "zero" weight, as "nothing" other than information about the messenger can really be useful in any useful manner.

  • PNP · 3 years ago
    Great...I'll take you both on...

    Webmaster:

    You atheists are so literal...I remember those days...life was so simple then...a black and white world...human/good - religion/bad...no spiritual dimension to life. Life on the "blue pill"...Christianity's a hoax...I mean, after all, look at what Christ got out of it...a big mansion...babes...uh...

    well, look what the disciples got out of it...fame...fortune...uh...er

    do you know where the word "martyr" comes from, webmaster?

    Now to you "Brutal questions"...

    My weighted scale happens to go to 11. And, in the immortal words of that great rocker, Geddy Lee (Rush): "those who choose not to decide you still have made a choice." To follow that song ahead (if you're not familiar), Geddy chooses free will. I believe in free will too, but I've also come to see first hand that there is a spiritual dimension to this life of ours, and after many years of avoiding Christ's question, I finally came to a place where I could no longer run. In that moment I turned and bent my knee...











  • boomSLANG · 3 years ago
    Faith is cold as ice--
    Why are little ones born only to suffer
    For the want of immunity
    Or a bowl of rice?
    Well, who would hold a price
    On the heads of the innocent children
    If there's some immortal power
    to control the dice? ~ Rush(the same band)

    Quote: "You atheists are so literal..."

    Firstly, we're not all Atheists. Secondly, being an Atheist myself, I'll tell you that, yes, I'm literal when it comes to the postion of neutrality. But of course, Christians and other religionists are literal too---they "literally" believe they have a monopoly on THEIR god, and all others are false; they have "Faith" in THEIR "God", but they claim absolute knowledge that they worship the "right" one, and are "literal" in telling all others that they're wrong.

    Quote: "I remember those days..."

    LOL! Of course you do, we are all born without the belief in gods(Atheist).I love it when religionists pull this one.

    Quote: "but I've also come to see first hand that there's a spiritual dimension to this life of ours..."

    I would contend that, no, you have not seen any such thing---other than in your own mind. You would have to BE supernatural to experience the supernatural; you would have to BE omniscient to know if an omniscient deity exists.

    Quote: "..and after many years of avoiding Christ's question..."

    What about Mohammad's question?...Buddha's?...Toth's?

    Quote: "I finally came to a place where I could no longer run.."

    You're running from yourself, and the fear of your own non-existance. The "Kingdom" is within you.

    Quote: "In that moment I turned and bent my knee..."

    That's lovely, but in doing so, you closed your eyes.






























  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    "Webmaster:

    You atheists are so literal..."

    So your use of the word Pimp was metaphysical?

    I'm too literal? Are you, someone touting the unalterable, eternal, literal, unbending, Word of Deity, suggesting that I become more metaphorical?

    I'm guessing here that you mean literal martyrs. I'm not sure I could relate to a phantasmagorical interpretation of the word martyr, but I suppose I'm willing to explore that possibility.

    Well, regardless, could you please provide the individual histories of the early apostles and how they were martyred? Please avoid using hearsay reports gleaned from writings developed generations after their departure from history. Please provide reliable historical documentation.

    Then, assuming you can find such documentation, let's talk about the Buddhist, Jewish, Mormon, Protestant, Catholic and Muslim martyrs of the last 2000 years.

    Then, after we've discussed all that data, you can explain how martyrdom is evidential proof of ultimate spiritual truth.













  • Brutal Questions? Nope! · 3 years ago
    PNP: "My weighted scale happens to go to 11."

    You're obviously not into a cohesive reality. Here let me try to ask you a "Brutal Question". How old is the toothe fairy? How old is Santa Clause? How old do elves live to be? There is your weighted scaled questions, I hope the answers you receive really help you out in life. Personally, those asnwers have "zero" meaning in my life, along with questions about supernatural "gods".

    PNP: "And, in the immortal words of that great rocker, Geddy Lee (Rush): "those who choose not to decide you still have made a choice."

    Don't misunderstand me, I have made a choice. The reasons behind your questions, are faulty according to my logic. I decided that long ago, the only valid questions are the ones based on sound reasoning. You have made a choice, its to ask questions based on faulty reasoning, and because you have made that decision, you will never find answers, to each their own. I don't like my mind running in the hobby-trail hamster wheel, but, then, I have met many christians who reason as well as hamsters.

    PNP: "To follow that song ahead (if you're not familiar), Geddy chooses free will. I believe in free will too,"

    That's an absolute, well, lets see. Did you have free will to be born? No? Then it was "determined" beyond your control, thus determinism. Perhaps as you gain autonomy and awareness in your environment, and finally become capable of releasing yourself from dogmatic assumptions, you will realize you have choices in life. However, even those choices are limited based on your level of awareness and environment, of which, is "determined" as well, beyond your control. Your "free will", is only as free as Nature allows you, period. And, at birth, Nature gives you a big fat "zero" there, your range of freedom potentially increases from there.

    PNP: "...but I've also come to see first hand that there is a spiritual dimension to this life of ours, and after many years of avoiding Christ's question,"

    And, what is this question, and where did you get the question from? A person? Are they also able to be influenced by Satan? Yes, according to your belief. Then another persons' statement is prone to Satanic influence, even the information about Christ.

    PNP: "I finally came to a place where I could no longer run. In that moment I turned and bent my knee..."

    You finally came to a place, where your questions overwhelmed the answers in your life, and instead of you working through the underlying "reasoning" behind the questions, you found it easier to just give up.

    "I'd rather die on my feet, than live on my knees"--Zapata



















  • PNP · 3 years ago
    Hey boomslang...if that is somehow connected to your real name...what I meant by "pimp" (do I really need to explain this) was simply to connote what it means when someone uses the personal tragedy of others only to make a point...there's no real caring or compassion for the others, just using it for their own gain...in this case, rhetorical gain...p-i-m-p...pimp

    "they "literally" believe they have a monopoly on THEIR god, and all others are false; they have "Faith" in THEIR "God"...

    of course Christians literally believe that...just like Atheists literally don't believe it...you have your belief system...make no mistake, Atheism is a religion.

    "I would contend that, no, you have not seen any such thing---other than in your own mind. You would have to BE supernatural to experience the supernatural; you would have to BE omniscient to know if an omniscient deity exists."

    Now you're really straying into areas (in this case my life) in which you have NO knowledge. I'm not going to pretend to know why you're an Atheist (although I've been a non-believer myself and have known many Atheists), don't pretend to know my reasons.

    Your point about having to be omniscient to know one makes absolutely no sense. When one comes into contact with events/people/literature that speak to him/her in inexplicable ways that doesn't mean that they're omniscient it means that there are times in life when all logic and reason fail. The apostles weren't omniscient...they were living regular lives as fishermen, tax collectors, leather workers, etc., but they came into contact with a person that completely changed there lives by saying and doing extra-ordinary things. They simply became "witnesses" of what they saw...of diseases healed, eyes opened etc...

    "What about Mohammad's question?...Buddha's?...Toth's?"

    EXCELLENT POINT...boomslang...rather than dismissively throw these questions down, why don't we try to answer them. Now we know from comparative sripture reading (Bible v. Koran, etc.) that only Christ proclaims himself to be part of the Trinity - part man, part divine. And proved this divinity (although you certainly don't have to believe it) through miraculous acts. So when Christ acts Peter the question, he responds by saying he is God. Does Muhammad, Buddha, anyone else make such outrageous claims? If you asked Muhammad if he was God he would have cut your head off for he saw himself as the first among prophets. If you asked Buddha if he was God he would not know what you're talking about because Buddhism is a personal search for self-realization.

    "You're running from yourself, and the fear of your own non-existance. The "Kingdom" is within you."

    Kingdom is within me? easy boomslang...now who's got a God-complex...time to step away from the incense my friend. Are you trying to convert me or something???

    "That's lovely, but in doing so, you closed your eyes."

    Once again...you have no clue how I came to my faith...I can guaran-dam-tee you I wasn't born with it and I wasn't raised in it. My eyes were closed for 25 years until they were opened and believe me when I tell you...I can tell the difference.

    Without getting in to all the gory details, what I learned, lo those 15 years ago is that there are 2 types of people in the world...those who've had their asses kicked...and those who haven't had their asses kicked yet. And for those who have been slapped around there are 2 responses...close your heart and your mind...or open them both...as I said earlier...after much reflection...Christianity is the red pill...























  • Brutal Questions? Nope! · 3 years ago
    PNP: "of course Christians literally believe that...just like Atheists literally don't believe it...you have your belief system...make no mistake, Atheism is a religion."

    Actually, Atheism is reasoned differently by different people, with a common result being, no belief in a supernatural deity in control over human destiny, etc.

    I am an Atheist, because the term supernatural god, is created based on natural terms. Its not only that I don't believe that your god doesn't exist, I don't believe the noun "god", has any definitive meaning or underlying substance to validate it as an object worthy of discussion. What we have, is a "hypothetical" noun, used in language. I tend to not talk to the imaginary stuff.

    Religion: "A strong belief in a supernatural power or powers that control human destiny;"
    wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn

    I don't believe in the term "god", that's totally based on logic, and is not a "religion", unless you are going to say "logic" is a religion, and then, I suppose to you, "everything" is a religion, becuase of your inability to see anything in life other than your biased religion glasses.








  • Dano · 3 years ago
    Brutal Questions? Nope! wrote:
    "I am an Atheist, because the term supernatural god, is created based on natural terms. Its not only that I don't believe that your god doesn't exist, I don't believe the noun "god", has any definitive meaning or underlying substance to validate it as an object worthy of discussion. What we have, is a "hypothetical" noun, used in language. I tend to not talk to the imaginary stuff"

    Religion: "A strong belief in a supernatural power or powers that control human destiny;"
    wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn

    I don't believe in the term "god", that's totally based on logic, and is not a "religion", unless you are going to say "logic" is a religion, and then, I suppose to you, "everything" is a religion, becuase of your inability to see anything in life other than your biased religion glasses

    Dan here!, Brutal Questions? Nope!
    I like the way you answer brutal questions with such ease and fluid logic.

    I pronounce you the winner of the Darwinian contest of natural selection, over PNP. He gave his heart and mind and soul to imaginary stuff, and you have kept yours, and seem to have no problem answering his questions, while staying true to your religion of logicism.

    Here's hoping that the "NOUN" will bless you with a lot of children, and PNP will come back and try living here on earth again. You demonstrate how easy it is to live this life and not sell out to a death cult.

    Dan (Agnostic, who questions: Why believe in a "NOUN?")














  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    PNP: "The brutal tragedy of others for rhetorical gain?"

    Do you mean that the pastor being caught on camera coming out of a motel with a pretty woman (not his wife) is a personal tragedy, and people shouldn't talk about that?

    He's a religious leader that teaches against such behavior, and he was caught.

    I suppose if a pastor were to be caught shoplifting, or peeking in windows, or flashing, or beating children, or beating his wife, or shouting obscenities and flipping the bird in traffic, or visiting prostitutes, or caught lying, etc., then that too would be a personal tragedy people should ignore, or at least not talk about?

    Anyway, you made a snide martyr comment, a comment I assumed was intended to prove that Christianity is true. You haven't answered my post in response to that comment, and I'm really interested in reading it. Here is my comment again, for your convenience:

    "Well, regardless, could you please provide the individual histories of the early apostles and how they were martyred? Please avoid using hearsay reports gleaned from writings developed generations after their departure from history. Please provide reliable historical documentation.

    Then, assuming you can find such documentation, let's talk about the Buddhist, Jewish, Mormon, Protestant, Catholic and Muslim martyrs of the last 2000 years.

    Then, after we've discussed all that data, you can explain how martyrdom is evidential proof of ultimate spiritual truth."

    PNP, you and the other faithful posters on this topic really have hero worship confused with religious devotion. It's a normal human failing, one repeated over and over in history. When the worshiped hero is excused for improper behavior, that's when such fanatical loyalty can become dangerous. Hitler was quite the charismatic speaker, quite the hero. Osama has a pretty devoted following. Even Bush still has his core dogmatic faithful.

    Be careful to whom you surrender your mind.

















  • boomSLANG · 3 years ago
    PNP said: "Hey boomslang...if that is somehow connected to your real name...what I meant by 'pimp'(do I really need to explain this)"

    Actually, no, you don't need to explain it, and honestly, I really don't give a rat's ass what you meant by it, as I never mentioned the word, or inquired about anyone's use of the word "pimp". And no, "boomslang" is not connected to my real name, just like your bringing up the subject is not "connected" to anything relevant.

    PNP said: "...you have your belief system...make no mistake, Atheism is a religion."

    Typical fundy tripe. Atheism, again, means not having a belief in gods. If a person doesn't have a belief in the Tooth fairy, are they part of a "religion"? Do they gather in buildings, hold hands, and sing cute little songs about the Toothfairy NOT existing? Do they tell you that if you don't believe that the Tooth fairy doesn't exisit, that you will burn in some imaginary place? Completely assinine assertion, but yet, not completely suprising.

    PNP said: "They simply became 'witnesses' of what they saw...diseases healed, eye opened etc..."

    *But of course, YOU didn't see jack sh*t, did you? No---so you rely on "Faith" that this all happened---just like your christian hand-book tells you to do. And that's all peachy, but of course, if you rely on "faith", then this is an admition that you do not, and CANNOT, "know", with any degree of certainty, that what the bible tells you is absolutely true. Subsequently, if, by definition, one does not "know" that Christianity is a "truth", then they are agnostic, at best. Conversely, if one claims(falsely) to "know" that what the christian hand-book says is absolutely true, then they negate "faith" in it's fundamental(pun intended) sense, and in doing so, they go against what the bible teaches.(take a fire resistant suit. LMAO)

    PNP said: "..only Christ proclaims himself to be part of the Trinity - part man, part divine. And proved this divinity through miraculous acts."

    Christians claim that their christ is 100% man; 100% god. This is one of the many contradictions within christianity. It fails both in reality, and even in concept. A "square circle" comes to mind. As far as "proved his divinity", please find and re-read here *.(above)


    BTW, when I said "the 'Kingdom' is within you", I didn't mention a "God", but funny how you, being infected with your religious meme, ass-umed I was relating it to something "divine". Afterall, I wasn't being "literal" when I used the word "Kingdom" = )

    God 'less.


















  • PNP · 3 years ago
    What a great day! The US gets an important tie in the World Cup, Mickelson is in a tie for the lead for the Open and we just got back from Prairie Home Companio - great movie...now to some of the earlier points:

    PNP: "My weighted scale happens to go to 11."
    boomslang: :"You're obviously not into a cohesive reality..."

    Now boomslang if you cann't get my "Spinal Tap" reference here, I'm not sure we can continue a dialog...but, I'll try...

    boomslang: "You finally came to a place, where your questions overwhelmed the answers in your life, and instead of you working through the underlying "reasoning" behind the questions, you found it easier to just give up."

    I'm not sure what you mean by "give up"...the only faith worth having is one that is constantly questioned and tested - and mine is no different. But the Christian faith (unlike Buddhism and many of the eastern religions) is a relational faith where like any deep relationship you come to a point where you're asked a question..."who do you say I am?" is the one Christianity asks. Once committed to it this doesn't mean that you stop questioning or testing, but you you say...as in a marriage, which is the central relationship analogy used in Scripture..."'til death do us part". This doesn't mean that there aren't doubts or fighting, but there's also elation, passion and peace.

    What I find interesting about your argument bs is that, between the two of us, you've apparently stopped wrestling with questions regarding Christ's identity and the spiritual world...it is you who have stopped questioning not me.

    boomslang: "I'd rather die on my feet, than live on my knees"--Zapata

    Nice quotation...of course it's completely irrelevant here since (to be literal here) by saying to "live on my knees" meant to live under the oppression of a corrupt Mexican gov't. In the end (which is really important here) Zapata didn't decide how he died...(he died when his body hit the ground after being hit with about 50 bullets). For the rest of us...we will probably have little choice of how we die...chances are here in the lovely west, it will probably be of some disease as we're lying on a hospital bed hooked up to tubes...

    Still it must feel nice having "dano" as a member of the boomslang fan club...
















  • PNP · 3 years ago
    Now to you webmastah:

    WM: Do you mean that the pastor being caught on camera coming out of a motel with a pretty woman (not his wife) is a personal tragedy, and people shouldn't talk about that?

    Absolutely NOT...to reiterate what I said in an earlier post, I hope if Tom's found guilty here that the max punishment is levied...and people are absolutely free to discuss it. Where the NUANCE is here is that when that story is used to somehow prove the fallacy of a religion just doesn't make logical sense. If Bill Clinton has 10 adulterous relationships does that mean that the principals of the democratic party are no longer valid? If Nietszche has a mental break down does that mean that his philosophy is wrong? There are plenty other of reasons for that other than pimping the guy's private life.

    WM: Well, regardless, could you please provide the individual histories of the early apostles and how they were martyred? Please avoid using hearsay reports gleaned from writings developed generations after their departure from history. Please provide reliable historical documentation

    "He (Ananias) convened a meeting of the Sanhedrin and brought before them a man named James, the brother of Jesus, who was called the Christ, and certain others. He accused them of having transgressed the law and delivered them up to be stoned." - Josephus (AD 93) from "The Antiquities"

    "He was the Christ. When Pilate, upon hearing him accused by men of the highest standing among us, had condemned him to be crucified, those who had in the first place come to love him did not give up their affection for him. On the third day he appeared to them restored to life" - Josephus (AD 95-97) from "Testimonium Flavianum"

    "Nero fastened the guilt and inflicted the most exquisite tortures on a class hated for their abominations, called Christians by the populace. Christus, from whom the name had its origin, suffered the extreme penalty during the reign of Tiberius at the hands of one of our procurators, Pontius Pilatus, and a most mischievous superstition, thus checked for the moment, again borke out not only in Judaea, the first source of the evil, but even in Rome." Tacitus, Roman historian, 115 AD

    "I have asked them if they are Christians, and if they admit it, I repeat the question a second and a third time, with a warning of the punishment awaiting them. If they persist, I order them to be led away for execution; for, whatever the nature of their admission, I am convinced that their stubbornness and unshakable obstinacy ought not to go unpunished." Pliny the Younger, Governor of Bithynia (NW Turkey) - 111 AD


    WM: Then, after we've discussed all that data, you can explain how martyrdom is evidential proof of ultimate spiritual truth."

    You're confusing some "ultimate spiritual truth" with a witness. Many of these early Christians of the early Church were not killed for what they believed, but for what they witnessed. Given a chance to renounce what they had witnessed they went to their death. Now a spiritual truth comes out of that witness, but it's more than that. I'm not saying martyrdom is some ultimate proof of any religion, I am saying, that Christianity arose in the midst of persecution and that's definitely unlike the history of Buddhism and Islam.

    WM: "Hitler was quite the charismatic speaker, quite the hero. Osama has a pretty devoted following. Even Bush still has his core dogmatic faithful."

    Now you're comparing the charisma of Christ with Hitler OBL and GWB...I know you're not comparing them personally, but please try to stick with my point...compare their biographies...none of these other comes close to both Christ's biography and the impression he made on his followers...

    WM: Be careful to whom you surrender your mind.

    Please read my earlier post to boomslang regarding this...my request to you is allow your heart to be surrendered and not closed.

    Which makes me wonder...this "ExChristian.Net" thing...does that mean that you are an "ExChristian"?




























  • Dano · 3 years ago
    Hey Boom!
    I apologize for the confusion of PNP for insinuating, that my remarks to "Brutal Questions? Nope!" , were to you.

    PNP has gone the whole rout here from snide remarks about an ex-Christian website that he is using to try and witness to non Christians, to the same circular reasoning that all Christian apologists resort to.

    Even though I admire your tenacity for fighting the Christian "Meme" I think PNP is just picking and choosing comments that he can reply to with another "Jesus loves me, this I know, because the Bible tells me" so answer.

    Although PNP ignored the fact that "Brutal Questions? Nope!", totally obliterated his argument, I see that PNP is starting to look more unchristian with every post. I am sure that he is getting very close to the final post where he says we hate Christians, and he is leaving, and won't be back, but he will pray for us.

    Dano (Your accomplice in fighting the "Fear Factor of religion")








  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    PNP, except for James, the brother of Jesus, you failed to list the specific ends of the other Apostles from history.

    Oh, and generally understood by nearly all modern scholars that the "Testimonium Flavianum" is an interpolation.

    Your question about my ex-Christianity? Why not read my testimony? It's linked on every single page of this site.



  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    PNP said: "Many of these early Christians of the early Church were not killed for what they believed, but for what they witnessed."

    Quotations from 111 and 115 CE likely recount accurate history as to how the Romans were dealing with some early believers, but I sincerely doubt any of those believers were eye-witnesses to your Jesus in 33 CE. In fact, it's unlikely any of these "true believers™" were even alive in 33 CE.

    The Mormons, in the USA, suffered quite a bit of persecution in the 1800's. Large numbers of JW's and Jews were martyred in the USSR in the decades of the last century. Islamic martyrs are dying every day, right now. Martyrdom is evidence of belief, nothing more.



  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    PNP said: "...none of these other comes close to both Christ's biography and the impression he made on his followers..."

    No? Please support this statement. All these men captured the minds of believers willing to lay down their lives for a cause. I see a striking similarity.

    Ghandi was willing to lay down his life, and had quite a following too. He was persecuted too. Hmm.



  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    PNP said: "my request to you is allow your heart to be surrendered and not closed."

    My heart? You are talking about my mind. My heart is a muscle that pumps blood, that's all.

    PNP, is your mind closed? Are you dogmatically convinced that your version of your religion is the one true path, and that all other versions of all other religions or worldviews are false?

    I confess that my mind is closed to Christianity, now. However, your mind is closed to every worldview except Christianity. Look in the mirror. You may find that your intimation that others suffer closed-mindedness is nothing more than a reflection of your own mindset.

    I don't believe in UFO's, Sasquatch, elves, or leprechauns. I would guess that you don't believe in those entities either. Perhaps we're just both too closed-minded?

    For every other type of knowledge, people demand proof. You wouldn't accept my allegation that 3+3=7, no matter how much I claimed it to be true. You would refuse to believe such a statement unless I could absolutely show that it is true. My plea that you be open-minded about the sum of 3+3=7 would be met with considerable resistance, I would hope. Of course if I could show you the math, then you'd have to reassess.

    The near-worship of fallen religious leaders coupled with the angry condemnation of those who point out the inconsistency in slavering loyalty to these people, is interesting to me. This topic has become a fascinating study of the human psyche. Thank-you.











  • Brutal Questions? Nope! · 3 years ago
    PNP: "What a great day! The US gets an important tie in the World Cup, Mickelson is in a tie for the lead for the Open and we just got back from Prairie Home Companio - great movie...now to some of the earlier points:"

    Right, well, although I watched some of the world cup myself, and know the golf tournie is getting hot, I didn't get so over-excited that I placed the wrong quotes under the wrong authors' handle. So, take all that the following questions you directed towards boomSLANG, and make them "Brutal Questions? Nope!" BoomSLANG still may reply to your obvious inattention to detail, but, that comes with the territory when people seem to not need the details to have "faith".

    PNP: "PNP "My weighted scale happens to go to 11."

    That quote is "not "PNP's", that quote would be "Brutal Questions? Nope!'"

    PNP: "boomslang: "You're obviously not into a cohesive reality..."

    That quote is "not boomSLANG's", that quote would be "Brutal Questions? Nope!'"

    PNP: "Now boomslang if you cann't get my "Spinal Tap" reference here, I'm not sure we can continue a dialog...but, I'll try..."

    At this point, I believe you need to get a spinal tap, to check out your methamphetamine level, you appear to lose your place in reality quite easily.

    PNP: "boomslang: "You finally came to a place, where your questions overwhelmed the answers in your life, and instead of you working through the underlying "reasoning" behind the questions, you found it easier to just give up."

    That quote is "not boomSLANG's", that quote would be "Brutal Questions? Nope!'"

    PNP: "I'm not sure what you mean by "give up"..."

    Stop the search, give up, throw your hands in the air, shut down the ol' brain housing group. You know, allow yourself to believe that you have all the answers you really need in life, because you have the one and only "absolute" truth.

    PNP: "...the only faith worth having is one that is constantly questioned and tested - and mine is no different."

    Your "faith", in a supernatural entity, can't be questioned in any valid manner. You can't possibly test an invisible and transcendent deity, its why your religion placed your "god" outside of this reality, so "god" Can't be tested. The only test you can make is, gee, I am thinking of a "god", yep, that proves it, "god" exists. Right, inside your imagination.

    Telling people that you have "faith", in an object that can't be tested or questioned with any valid measure that would render better understanding, is ignorant.

    Your "questions" of a transcendent and supernatural deity, are invalid, period, if your questions are supposed to render new information, for validation, for a closer relationship, for any reason.

    I don't gain one iota of new information about Santa Clause, when I question whether or not Santa Clause is real or not, or if my last act caused him to put me on the Naughty or Nice list. The question, can't possibly lead to answers. To ask questions as you suggest to validate that you test your faith is based on the most ignorant of terms, I hope you really don't believe what you are saying, and you are only poking fun at this issue.

    PNP: "But the Christian faith (unlike Buddhism and many of the eastern religions) is a relational faith where like any deep relationship you come to a point where you're asked a question..."who do you say I am?""

    Say what? You can't have a "relational" faith, when the "other" half of your relationship doesn't talk to you, doesn't give you answers, basically, doesn't communicate to you in any qualitative manner that can be isolated to "just" your god alone. Yet, you have no problem suggesting that the question of "christians" is "who do you say I am?" And, how did you fiure this question out, as, I never asked that particular question when I was a christian of over thirty years. Hmmmmm, seems the questions I would ask were, "is grandma in heaven or hell", etc.

    The "fact" that I, and no other mentally sane person doesn't get an answer, is what makes us different from other christians. So, how often do you ask questions of a transcendent "god", that you by definition can't possibly know, and get your answer?

    PNP: "...is the one Christianity asks."

    Nice, so, you speak for "all" christians on this matter, and not just yourself. I would suggest even the christians that come to this site, would disagree with you on the "question", you propose is "the one".

    PNP: "Once committed to it this doesn't mean that you stop questioning or testing, but you you say...as in a marriage, which is the central relationship analogy used in Scripture..."'til death do us part". This doesn't mean that there aren't doubts or fighting, but there's also elation, passion and peace."

    You could ask a million questions, of that supernatural deity, its a "fact" by its own definition, that your "god", can't answer your questions. Read your religious doctrine, you appear to believe you can actually have a relationship that connects the two of you together.

    Ever wonder why the Legendary Jesus Hero was created? Uh, because "god" could not be said to have been in direct contact with humans, else, humanity would be overcome and perish at the site of such godly perfection. Read the Old Testament, god had to show up as a burning bush, to the non-god jews of old.

    Your Jesus is the only one who had a real relationship in theory, and there is zero proof of "The" Jesus presented by christianity, as with many other Legends. There were a bunch of Jesus' with that name back in the day, but "Not", the one presented by christianity with his Legendary attributes.

    Since, you can't have a relationship, per your own doctrine, than your in-fighting and scratching is within your own imagination.

    PNP: "What I find interesting about your argument bs is that, between the two of us, you've apparently stopped wrestling with questions regarding Christ's identity and the spiritual world...it is you who have stopped questioning not me."

    Okay, let me try while we are here. God, I mean, PNP's God, if you really exist, talk to me, tell me you are real, give me a sign, even though signs in the bible are considered both good things and bad things. Please, throw me a bone, try to help me see what I have missed somewhere? Try and establish the other side of this conversation, so that a "true" relationship can begin.

    Okay, there we are PNP, is that enough questions, I mean, I have had so many questions posed to your god, without a response that its apparent your "god", is the one who doesn't establish the relaitionship connection. You say you have one, but you have "no" answers to provide outside of your own imaginative conscious. You can't determine your imagniary thoughts, from what you want to assign to a deity.

    PNP: "boomslang: "I'd rather die on my feet, than live on my knees"--Zapata"

    That quote is "not boomSLANG's", that quote would be "Brutal Questions? Nope!'"

    PNP: "Nice quotation...of course it's completely irrelevant here since (to be literal here) by saying to "live on my knees" meant to live under the oppression of a corrupt Mexican gov't. In the end (which is really important here) Zapata didn't decide how he died..."

    Uh, perhaps you miss the connection. Living under the oppression of a Mexican gov't, or living under the oppression of a religion, with many authoritative religious figures who hold "absolute" power are acting in their best interest and at the detriment of the people, and humanity.

    Zapata did decide "How" he was do die, which was fighting against tyrannical and absolutist oppression. Now, this is real important... Zapata, like many other people who refuse to be controlled by oppressive religious leaders, also refuse to be controlled by occultist religions such as christianity.

    Occultist: "Supernatural practices and techniques; "he is a student of the occult".
    wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn

    PNP: "(he died when his body hit the ground after being hit with about 50 bullets). For the rest of us...we will probably have little choice of how we die..."

    Yet, in his mind, he knew the truth, as will many others who know the truth of christianity, and its fraudulent beginning, based on historical information in an era where there were plenty of other alternative to christianity per today's standards.

    The fact that "one" religion wasn't established as the "absolute" religion in the "same exact" era that a Legendary Jesus Hero would have lived, means there wasn't enough evidence at that time, yet, we get people such as you, trying to suggest that "you" can get that information today, two thousand years later.

    You call "all" people who lived during that era, as having "less" knowledge, than you, that's pretty arrogant. Perhaps, I should suggest that I know better than you, what you did three days ago, than you do, because you really didn't have your head on straight. No, that would be the epitome of ignorance, and arrogance, I'll let you handle those two departments.

    PNP: "...chances are here in the lovely west, it will probably be of some disease as we're lying on a hospital bed hooked up to tubes..."

    How, I physically pass this life is of little relevance to me, as long as its with an honest mind.

    PNP: "Still it must feel nice having "dano" as a member of the boomslang fan club..."

    Actually, Dano, is a fan of mental stability and those who are committed to that effort. However, it appears that you aren't part of the "mental in-crowd", as you continue to claim that my comments are boomSLANG's. Its a non-exclusive club, even you can join, if you finally reach a point in your life, that you realize that you have been mentally duped, or that you have psychological needs that are driving your to ignore your immediate environment which doesn't support your belief. Uh, no, if you are going to suggest intelligent design, that's Natural, not "supernatural" evidence. But, I think I could at least find a breakthrough if you are capable of seeing your deity as a Natural phenomenon, instead of a Supernatural phenomenon :=)

    Again, what were those "Brutal Questions", you so desperately believe we need to have in order to establish ourselves with a coherent belief system? Oh, "who do you say I am?" is one of those Brutal Questions we need to ask ourselves?

    I am, no more, no less... regardless of what some second party suggests I am. The truest me, is the one I know by experience, not the one described to me from someone who has yet to walk in my shoes.


























































































  • Brutal Questions? Nope! · 3 years ago
    PNP: "Now a spiritual truth comes out of that witness, but it's more than that. I'm not saying martyrdom is some ultimate proof of any religion, I am saying, that Christianity arose in the midst of persecution and that's definitely unlike the history of Buddhism and Islam."

    Okay, I just can't let it slip. No, Christianity arose because early protestors of Judaism began to make their rounds, "They", create the persecution of themselves, by making statements they couldn't support. You have to be a moron to believe that anyone would "refuse" a "god", if they were presented with such evidence.

    The "persecution" came from the inability of those people in the day of the Legendary Jesus Hero, to come up with supporting evidence for their claims, and they were attacking Judaism in the process. Of course, they were persecuted, based on their lies.

    If you publicly tell my child he is going to hell, because he's a non-christian, I'd publicly humiliate you with every bit of vigor I could muster. You'd call is "persecution", I'd suggest you initiated a psychologically abusive attack on a child who has no defense. From you perspectiv, you want to believe you are doing what's best, from my perspective "you" don't have that right, unless you have "evidence" to present. Paul, nor the apostles had such evidence. And, it appears there were many fathers back in the day, that didn't take kindly to such verbal assaults and attacks.

    It appears christians within the early church didn't like it either, when they became the target, hence, many of the early authorities "left" Rome, and started their "own" personal rendition of non-Catholic religion.

    "The most widely known Montanist was undoubtedly Tertullian, who was the foremost Latin church writer before he defected to Montanism."

    It always amazes me, at the half-truths that are presented to support some claim, as if there couldn't possibly be more to the story, that they weren't ever part of.











  • boomSLANG · 3 years ago
    FOR THE LOVE OF BUH-JEBUS!!!!...what's with all the confusion about who said what? PNP dedicated an entire post to rebuting things that I never said. Boy, if he gets lost THAT easily maybe biblegod will subcontract him to write the NEW "newer" Testament!?!?!?! LMAO!
  • Dano · 3 years ago
    Brutal Questions? Nope! wrote:

    "How, I physically pass this life is of little relevance to me, as long as its with an honest mind"

    Dan, Comments to Brutal Questions? Nope!

    I am PROUD to agree with you that neither one of us, along with none of us, who have ever lived, know anything about God, except that it is a noun used to describe a supreme being that none of us, or anyone alive or dead has ever seen any evidence of having existed, other than the fact that we all realize that something created us.(maybe)

    That, surprisingly, is enough for me!

    Dan (An honest mind is a terrible thing to waste, and we must be tolerant of those who can not, or will not love the truth)









  • J. C. Samuelson · 3 years ago
    Sometimes, I wish apologists would be a bit more careful in their research. It makes for a more reasonable, challenging, and accessible debate since most of the web populace isn’t comprised of historians.

    BTW, sorry in advance for the long post.

    In response to PNP’s implied comment that the apostles were martyred, the webmaster queried him for historical data on the fates of the apostles. It is PNP’s position that the men whom the Bible calls apostles died for “what they witnessed.” In reply, PNP provides four quotes from ancient sources to prove his point.

    Unfortunately, only two are applicable and one of those is a bit short on details.

    First, PNP quotes Josephus’ Antiquities book 20, chapter 9.

    "He (Ananias) convened a meeting of the Sanhedrin and brought before them a man named James, the brother of Jesus, who was called the Christ, and certain others. He accused them of having transgressed the law and delivered them up to be stoned." - Josephus (AD 93) from "The Antiquities"

    For the sake of context, here is the portion in its entirety:

    ”AND now Caesar, upon hearing the death of Festus, sent Albinus into Judea, as procurator. But the king deprived Joseph of the high priesthood, and bestowed the succession to that dignity on the son of Ananus, who was also himself called Ananus. Now the report goes that this eldest Ananus proved a most fortunate man; for he had five sons who had all performed the office of a high priest to God, and who had himself enjoyed that dignity a long time formerly, which had never happened to any other of our high priests. But this younger Ananus, who, as we have told you already, took the high priesthood, was a bold man in his temper, and very insolent; he was also of the sect of the Sadducees, (23) who are very rigid in judging offenders, above all the rest of the Jews, as we have already observed; when, therefore, Ananus was of this disposition, he thought he had now a proper opportunity [to exercise his authority]. Festus was now dead, and Albinus was but upon the road; so he assembled the sanhedrin of judges, and brought before them the brother of Jesus, who was called Christ, whose name was James, and some others, [or, some of his companions]; and when he had formed an accusation against them as breakers of the law, he delivered them to be stoned: but as for those who seemed the most equitable of the citizens, and such as were the most uneasy at the breach of the laws, they disliked what was done; they also sent to the king [Agrippa], desiring him to send to Ananus that he should act so no more, for that what he had already done was not to be justified; nay, some of them went also to meet Albinus, as he was upon his journey from Alexandria, and informed him that it was not lawful for Ananus to assemble a sanhedrim without his consent. (24) Whereupon Albinus complied with what they said, and wrote in anger to Ananus, and threatened that he would bring him to punishment for what he had done; on which king Agrippa took the high priesthood from him, when he had ruled but three months, and made Jesus, the son of Damneus, high priest.” (Josephus, Antiquities, Book XX, Chap. IX, Para. I, from The Works of Flavius Josephus as translated by William Whiston)

    This passage is generally considered to be authentic by scholars, even with the somewhat suspicious description of Jesus as one "who was called Christ." The suspicious nature of the particular phrase can be easily dealt with, as the Greek used here legomenos in the phrase tou legomenou Christou (who is called Christ) doesn’t actually imply that Josephus agreed with the title. Sometimes, it is rendered as "so-called." But all this is beside the point.

    Missing from the text is a description of what charges were being leveled against those (plural) that Ananus had brought before the Sanhedrin. Presumably (and I have no problem with this idea), James and his companions (if the others described in this passage were, in fact, his companions) were Christians and stoned to death for it. So, it would seem that PNP is on target.

    However, this does seem to be the action of a recently appointed high priest zealous to pursue his duties. It didn’t go over well with "the most equitable of the citizens" or with Agrippa, and Ananus was removed from his position as a result.

    This doesn’t exactly fit with the typical Christian description of widespread persecution. But that's not the topic at hand so I digress.

    Next, PNP regales us with a quote from Book XVIII of Josephus’ Antiquities, commonly known as the "Testimonium Flavianum." Those who want to read the specific text can follow the link provided and scroll to Chapter 3 and read the text within which this quote is found. Context, people. Context!

    "He was the Christ. When Pilate, upon hearing him accused by men of the highest standing among us, had condemned him to be crucified, those who had in the first place come to love him did not give up their affection for him. On the third day he appeared to them restored to life" - Josephus (AD 95-97) from "Testimonium Flavianum"

    What this has to do with the apostles’ alleged martyrdom is unclear. Methinks PNP thought this would add weight to his argument simply because it mentions Jesus. It would’ve saved him a few keystrokes not to include it since it does nothing for his argument.

    In any case, the majority view among scholars is that the quoted passage is a later Christian interpolation, or at least partially spurious.

    Next is the famous passage from The Annals of Tacitus, Book XV, Chapter 44.

    "Nero fastened the guilt and inflicted the most exquisite tortures on a class hated for their abominations, called Christians by the populace. Christus, from whom the name had its origin, suffered the extreme penalty during the reign of Tiberius at the hands of one of our procurators, Pontius Pilatus, and a most mischievous superstition, thus checked for the moment, again borke out not only in Judaea, the first source of the evil, but even in Rome." Tacitus, Roman historian, 115 AD"

    The part PNP leaves out is that the crime Nero "fastened the guilt" to Christians for was arson. Tacitus, beginning in Book XV, Chapter XXXVIII describes a massive fire that consumed great portions of Rome and the surrounding area.

    It was widely thought at the time that the fire was the result of an order by Nero, who was known to be unstable and prone to outrageousness. In order to appease the populace and deflect guilt from himself, he finds a scapegoat in the religious group known as Christians. See here for a description of Nero that includes a section on the Great Fire.

    In other words, these Christians were not killed for their beliefs or for their witness. They were a group targeted because it was politically expedient to do so. As Tacitus notes, they were widely hated for what is described here as "their abominations."

    In any case, what does this say about the apostles’ alleged martyrdom? Nothing. Is it possible that Peter was caught up in Nero’s dragnet? Sure. But again, this had nothing to do with their beliefs or what they may or may not have witnessed.

    Finally, PNP quotes Pliny the Younger:

    "I have asked them if they are Christians, and if they admit it, I repeat the question a second and a third time, with a warning of the punishment awaiting them. If they persist, I order them to be led away for execution; for, whatever the nature of their admission, I am convinced that their stubbornness and unshakable obstinacy ought not to go unpunished." Pliny the Younger, Governor of Bithynia (NW Turkey) - 111 AD

    Is PNP asserting that the apostles were still alive when Pliny was consulting Trajan on what to do with the Christians in his jurisdiction? Since Trajan ruled from 98 – 117, how many of the apostles remained alive? Furthermore, who among the original apostles would Pliny have had an opportunity to interrogate and then execute?

    History certainly demonstrates that large numbers of people suffered and died for their faith, whatever it may have been. However, PNP has failed to show that the apostles were martyred.

    Back to the drawing board, PNP.



















































  • Brutal Questions? Nope! · 3 years ago
    PNP: "PNP "My weighted scale happens to go to 11."

    BQ?N!: "That quote is "not "PNP's", that quote would be "Brutal Questions? Nope!'"

    Okay, PNP made the statement about a weighted 11 value for ignorant questions, not me. I stated that invalid questions had a value of "zero", and I still hold to that. Well, I wonder if Plug n' Play, is going to come back, and discuss further their views of impossibility and the reasons to hold such views so stringently - not holding my breath ;-)



  • California girl · 3 years ago
    Monsignor Clark: motel and secretary...named in divorce. Perhaps an inspiration in our present circumstance, 1) That the Post ran with the FAPC story as soon as the letter to the congregation came out, not even waiting to name the accuser in the church, which as I recall was never printed it until the civil named Joe the plaintiff. Now it looks like someone who had a copy of the letter chose to provide that info to the press, and may not have known it, or why would it not also have been revealed? Because why wouldn't the Post have printed the source of the accusation, had they had it? And, as an FAPC clergy said to another person, "We never confirmed it was her," and 2) the plaintiff deciding to file a suit, seeing as it had divorce elements as well, which was the end of Oct 2005.

    We can note that this was splashed over the papers BEFORE the FAPC letter to the congregation was sent a few days before Aug 31. The Daily News story ran Aug 11 on Monsignor Clark.

    As long as the monsignor/secretary story (NYC) summer 2005 was raised, here William Buckley's take on it.

    The whole text:

    http://www.nationalreview.com/
    buckley/wfb200509161512.asp

    A piece of it:
    September 16, 2005, 3:12 p.m.
    The Monsignor Clark Problem

    In New York City, and the greater environs of the city, which reach to Rome going east and to Los Angeles going west, Catholic men and women are up against a wrenching problem. It has to do with Monsignor Eugene Clark. How to deal with him?

    Monsignor Clark has had a big tabloid hour. The husband of the monsignor's secretary engaged a private eye to follow them around. The detective made a videotape that showed the monsignor and the secretary entering a motel on Long Island and leaving five hours later, wearing different clothes. The husband turned the tape over as supporting data in a lawsuit asking the court to end his marriage and to assign to him ownership of their house and custody over their two children.
















  • Wyoming woman · 3 years ago
    To follow-up posters about him, in the book
    Hitler's Mistakes (Hardcover)
    by Ronald Lewin

    the author says Hitler had no friends, one reason "why."



  • Curious · 3 years ago
    Has anyone at FAPC learned anything, or is this all about Tom?Because he resigned, so our fate is now in our own hands.

    And none of the people from his New Prov. church, his Houston church or FAPC have commented on how things could change. Because NONE of this was necessary.

    PNP may be from New Providence, I don't know, of course. But I would be curious to know what steps people in New Prov. and Houston have taken to educate the members so the same thing can't happen there. For instance. Or were you aleady doing it long before this?



  • PNP · 3 years ago
    To Ubergeek and Webmaster...to my original point concerning martyr...martyr is Greek for the word "witness" and my usage of it in my first argument was not that it only be applied to the disciples, but to the early (first century) Church. The point is to pose the question as to how a religion based on a historical belief (the life/death/resurrection of a man) could grow when it was so heavily persecuted and would have been so easy to de-bunk.

    UG - thanks for filling out the excerpts first/second century history here. So here's what we've got: there is a historical man Jesus...his brother and one of the first disciples, James, PLUS other contemporaries were killed by a zealous priest. Now these other contemporaries were not disciples per se, but they were, apparently, believers. Could some, like James, have been first person contacts of Christ himself...maybe, maybe not, but to say that it's only relevant that James was the only original disciple martyred here seems to miss the main point of my argument. But let's concentrate on the original 12. You both are absolutely right in your argument that there is not much contemporary evidence - aside from oral Church history concerning their martyrdoms, but here's what we can surmise of some of the others:
    1. Stephen's martyrdom is described in the book of Acts, which most historians date between 60-70 AD - 30-40 years prior to what we've accepted in Josephus. Paul is generally accepted as one of the writers, who, at the time was a persecutor of the Church and witnessed the execution.
    2. James the son of Zebedee is also mentioned as being martyred in Acts by Herod of Agrippa as part of a larger persecution of the Church.
    3. Peter is descibed by the early Church historian Origen (185-254AD) as being "crucified head-downwards; for he requested that he might suffer thus."
    At this point, Fox's Book of Martyrs lists from the Church's oral history and traditions how the others perished:

    Philip - crucified in Phygia - 54 AD
    Matthew - beaten to death Nabadah - 60 AD
    Mathias - beheaded in Juraselem - unknown date
    Andrew - crucified in Edessa - unknown date
    Paul - beheaded under Nero - late 1st C.
    James - crucified in Edessa - 72 AD
    Bartholomew - crucified in India - late 1st C.
    Thomas - speared in India - unknown date
    Luke - hung in Greece - unknown date
    Simon - crucified in Britain - 74 AD
    Barnabas - killed in unknown manner - 73 AD
    John - not martyred - died in exile.

    Now I completely understand if you guys want to discount the oral histories and these last from Fox's, but I hope you also notice that the greater point was that we have solid (given the time period) historical evidence that at least 3 plus many first generation Christians plus Christ were martyred.

    On the Josephus commentary concerning the interpolation in Testomonium it's important that you explain exactly what this means. (context! people context!) First, not all scholars are agreed that interpolation (insertion of text at a later date in order to support Jesus' divinity) actually happened. But even if it did, even the skeptics see that he most probably wrote the following parts: "About this time there lived Jesus, a wise man, if indeed one ought to call him a man. For he was one who wrought surprising feats and was a teacher who wrought surprising feats and was a teacher of such people as accept the truth gladly. He won over many Jews and Greeks." The interpolation questions surround the statements: "He was the Christ", and "on the thrid day he appeared to them restored to life". Again these are disputed, but Jesus' life, impact on followers, death, and following thereafter are not in question.

    On to Tacitus:
    "The part PNP leaves out is that the crime Nero "fastened the guilt" to Christians for was arson. Tacitus, beginning in Book XV, Chapter XXXVIII describes a massive fire that consumed great portions of Rome and the surrounding area."

    UG - This part of the argument doesn't seem to contradict my main point. You're absolutely right, Nero did scapegoat the Christians for the 64 AD fire, but you then dismiss Tacitus' own writing: "a most mischievous superstition, thus checked for the moment, again broke out not only in Judaea, the first source of the evil, but even in Rome." The Christians were a persecuted Church and this was barely 30 years after Christ's death. They were hated by Rome for not bowing before Nero as a God ("mischievous superstition")and by the Jews as a blasphemous sect. Tacitus makes my point - early Christians persecuted - Church grows.

    Just to carry Tacitus further: "Accordingly, an arrest was first made of all who pleaded guilty; then, upon their information, an immense multitude was convicted, not so much of the crime of firing the city, as of hatred against mankind. Mockery of every sort was added to their deaths. Covered with the skins of beasts, they were torn by dogs and perished, or were nailed to crosses, or were doomed to the flames and burnt, to serve as a nightly illumination, when daylight had expired."

    These Chrisitan's were not "{pleading] guilty" to setting the fire, but to their Christian faith...for which they were martyred...was Nero a freak - yes...but that's not my main point here. To re-state: charismatic leader lives/ gets many followers who believe in his divinity/ dies/ church explodes under persecution from the dominant religion and dominant political regime of the era...not logical.

    So, again, with the Pliny the Younger reference - we are not talking original disciples here, but second and third generation Christians. People who still died for a faith, which it would have been fairly easy to disprove.

    Now to you, WM...the Mormons were definitely persecuted, but it's a little disingenuous to compare that early history to Christianity. Joseph Smith, Jr. who, like Muhammad, but unlike Christ, claimed to be a prophet developed a following in NY and parts of the midwest for 10-20 years. Smith was killed in prison in 1844 (and did not rise again), and within 2 years the church had moved to the edges of American civilization at that time (Utah) and for the next 50 years had a rather peaceful period of "incubation" in which to develop without persecution.

    As we've been discussing, Christianity had 300 years (until Constantine) of state and religious persecution and, far, from removing themselves from society, deliberately took the approach of trying to spread this "good news" of a historical man who lived, taught powerful moral truths, performed miracles, was killed, and was resurrected.

    Speaking of which...I haven't (and I'm not being snide here) heard a great explanation for the empty tomb. Why, when it was in both the Romans' and the Jews' highest interest to both guard the tomb and then, once he went "missing" , find the body, were they unable. The entire Christian faith is founded on this single historic principal. There was one simple way for the Jews and Romans to squash this "abomination" of a religion...Scripture states that the Jewish leadership was nervous about this possibility even before the crucifiction and begged Pilate to station guards by the coffin - this makes sense. If Christ is claimed to be divine, of course, it would make sense to try to steal the body - by versus the Romans and Jews, the Christians were a tiny sect.

    The philosopher/economist, Karl Popper, was famous for declaring that any theory, to be deemed valid must have a "criterion of falsifiability" - some event that would deem the theory false. He was not a Christian, but I like this thinking. As it relates to my Christian faith...as much as I've wrestled and read, and tested, and pushed, I must say (even with personal supernatural experiences) that this is my criterion of falsifiabiltiy for Christianity...we know where Mohammad's buried, where Buddha's buried, where Joseph Smith and Brigham Young are buried...where is Christ's body?









































  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    Where is the Apostle John's body? Where is Herod Antipas' body?
    Where is Julius Caesar's body?

    You should rather ask yourself: why were the gospels written so many years after Jesus' demise? I mean, 40-70 years after his death?Think about it!

    Do you suppose the gospels were written to carefully document the life history of Jesus -- GOD ON EARTH -- or were they written as an apologetic literary device for a fledgling religious movement?

    Foxes Book of Martyrs records the Catholic traditional stories of the demise of the early apostles, not eye-witness history. Fox didn't witness these events, Those events were purported to take place centuries before Foxe. Regardless, people have died in droves for all kinds of movements since history began. Many of those early Christian Martyrs were Gnostic Christians, many didn't believe in the divinity of Jesus, many believed things that modern day Evangelicals would consider a heretical cult. Martyrdom is evidence of nothing but belief.

    In a nutshell (no pun) Christianity started small and was persecuted. As a result, people ran from the persecution and spread their beliefs all over the place. The religion grew and spread.

    After a few centuries the religion was declared the official religion of the Roman Empire. Christians took up arms and tried to institute the Kingdom of God on Earth, on pain of death -- for over 1000 years.

    You want to believe that your hero is a god-man who can't be killed, that materializes at will, and that levitates. Fine. Your magical god-man will come back to slay all the unrighteous with a fiery sword shooting out of his mouth and reward you for your faithful service. You believe this. Good for you.

    And you will never believe that Tom Tewell is a womanizer, no matter what evidence, stories, reports, or eye-witness accounts are posited.














  • Dano · 3 years ago
    PNP wrote:
    "Joseph Smith and Brigham Young are buried...where is Christ's body?"

    It's pretty obvious PNP that since brilliant people all over the world have been arguing about the divinity of Christ for two thousand years, God has selected, before they were born actually, (see KJV Bible) a precious few of his creations (mostly graduates of bible colleges in the southern States of the US of A) to be able to truly believe that he impregnated Mary, a virgin, so he could have a boy child by one of his female creations, sans the filthy sex act, and avoid going to hell and burning forever and forever in a big lake of fire.

    God has made the evidence of this event ambiguous on purpose. He wants humans, with their limited reasoning abilities to be forever confounded by the information that they can glean from the myriad of oral and written accounts of the event.

    The reason God with all of his omnipotence decided on this method of communication is this. The whole thing is just a stop gap effort on his part to keep us entertained.

    He knows we understand Pagan "Blood Sacrifices" to deities, and he knows we will do anything to get on his "Good Side," because of our ever present awareness of the fact that we are going to die, and our fear of the unknown.

    He doesn't want us thinking about how silly the whole concept of an omnipotent omniscient supreme being, who needs or wants the sacrifice of anything to him, is.

    He knows that in his great plan for the evolution of intelligent humans, that in another 50,000 years or so we will be able to understand concepts not so primitive as killing people in horrendous ways as sacrifices to him.

    Sometime in the future our descendants may not live with the fear of death their whole lives. It is then that man will be ready for a more realistic understanding of God.

    Dan (Agnostic,homosapienist)
















  • Delaware diva · 3 years ago
    "wom·an·ize ( P ) To pursue women lecherously.

    Men, women have both taken the "can't be true..." but it is up to each woman to determine for herself what she felt. And no one can say that was, or wasn't true. Intent is up to the man, in this case, Tom.

    How anyone can tell anyone else that their experience is invalid...not so!

    I agree. There is a lot of hostility by people who did not have that "response" to his words and mien and those, some of the posters, apparently, who did.

    He may not have been perfect "in the church sense," but that does not make him someone who seduced.

    And I am one of those people who actually wrote or told Tom (some before this news broke, some after), what my evaluation was and if it can help him going forward, so be it. And this strictly on what my response was. Anyone else is welcome to their own. Many postings have been those trying to forcefeed a different viewpoint. I stand by mine.

    Each person is welcome to have their own response to Tom, but you can't reinterpret mine. Get a life! Don't try to live ours!











  • PNP · 3 years ago
    WM: "Where is the Apostle John's body? Where is Herod Antipas' body?
    Where is Julius Caesar's body?"

    I guess I wasn't being clear with the original point of the questions. It really doesn't matter where Herod's body is or the Apostle John's, or George Washington's for that matter since we all know they died and never claimed a divine nature. The central cause of Christ's arrest and execution was this claim. So, of course, you would think that the authorities who oversaw his execution would have been supremely interested in making sure they "had the body". Having this would have effectively destroyed a religion based on a belief in his divinity. There's no relevant correlation to Islam, Buddhism, or Hinduism here, because none of their earthly leaders ever had the audacity to make such a claim.

    WM: "You should rather ask yourself: why were the gospels written so many years after Jesus' demise? I mean, 40-70 years after his death?Think about it!"

    OK, I'll think about it...
    1. Christianity first grew a sect of Judaism, which, also given the tremendous oral history tradition, usually relied on the transmitting of histories told verbally to preserve a civilization. Christianity was no different. Many scholars estimate that at the time of Christ's death there were only 100-300 followers. Why would you have to write anything down?
    2. The Christian style of evangelism was the debate. Most of the first evangelists would go into a town and enter the local synagogue or temple and ask the local religious leaders to debate the validity of Christianity. In synagogues this meant discussing the several dozen OT prophecies that relate to Jesus. It wasn't like they came into town with tracts. They talked...just like we are.
    3. It's not like the Scriptures are that old. First, most scholars believe the book of Acts was written within 25-30 yrs of Christ's death and resurrection. Most believe that Luke wrote at least part of this book. To make it currently relevant, this would mean that Luke and Paul were writing about events, which occurred during the late Carter and early Reagan administrations. You don't think you could reconstruct both from first person recollection and interviews what happened during the Iran hostage crisis even if you didn't have a shred of print/video/other media sources?
    Secondly, the Gospels were, as you say written between 30-70 years after the actual events both from first person and second person accounts. Let's take the outside count for the book of John (around 70 years after). By today's perspective that would be like trying to write a history of D-Day. Again, even with the longer life expectancies of today, you don't think I could put together at least a general historical picture of D-Day from speaking with people who were there - soldiers and local residents?
    4. Now, let's turn it up a notch...look at the claims of Christ compared to others and ask even with a 25-70 year lag time wouldn't there still be major questions? I'm a HUGE Green Bay Packer fan...they won Super Bowl I about 40 years ago. Suppose I wanted to write a history of that game from scratch with no print/media help...only from first person accounts. I checked the roster and about 75% of the players from the Packers alone are still alive today. Now suppose Jim Taylor (Packer RB) who's dead now, claimed after the game that he was God. I could speak with at least 30 guys (just from his team, not to mention family, friends) who could de-bunk this. They could also show me where his grave is. All this and we don't have near the facilities and tradition of story telling and transmission that they had in first century Jerusalem.
    4. It's not just that what they wrote, but what the Church was saying during those 25-70 years from Christ's death to the writing of Scripture. I haven't heard anyone claim that the first books of the NT - especially Acts - contradicted the previously held teaching of the Church - they simply encoded it, which makes sense since this was the time when most first person witnesses were dying off.

    WM: "Your magical god-man will come back to slay all the unrighteous with a fiery sword shooting out of his mouth and reward you for your faithful service. You believe this. Good for you."

    I've noticed this tone from a couple of the posters on this page and from reading a couple of the testimonies you've got on this site. I hope I haven't come across as fire and brimstone in any of my posts here...if so, I deeply apologize. I'm not banking on rewards or hell-fire. I've been trying to talk about the character, person, history of Christ who, while God, considered it nothing submitted himself to a humiliating death on the cross for me and for you. I'm not saying that there's no hell and the Christian life is all lipstick and caviar, but I have seen a real lack of the appreciation of Christ's grace on this site and I can only surmise it comes from idiot Christians out there who honestly do use the faith as a crutch and then beat everyone else over the head with it. Christianity wasn't meant to be that way...

    WM: "And you will never believe that Tom Tewell is a womanizer, no matter what evidence, stories, reports, or eye-witness accounts are posited."

    I'll say for the third time now that I'm completely comfortable with the possibility that Tom is a womanizer. Again, I say this having known him for 25 years. In the very least it certainly appears that he had at least one affair. Again, for this I hope that the Church is sued for the full $5MM or $6MM and is held up as an example to other churches when this type of behavior is known and tolerated.




















  • Dirty Harry · 3 years ago
    PNP: "So, of course, you would think that the authorities who oversaw his execution would have been supremely interested in making sure they "had the body". Having this would have effectively destroyed a religion based on a belief in his divinity."

    Per christian tradition, the authorities "did" have homeslices' body, they chucked him in a hole and threw a boulder over it. Its not until later on that the "non-existence" of the body in this theoretical tomb, uh, written about much later in the "New Testament", that a divine Jesus is being passed around as divine.

    The Ebionites who lived in the area suggested by early christians, believed there existed no such divine Jesus. No body, nothing could really be written, but, obviously the New Testament was written, and Jesus was said to be returning during the apostles time, and numerous times in a short time, but, no! The dude, that was said to be divine, "DID NOT" show up, and has "yet" to show up. So, Paul is a liar at minimum, and the New Testament was built from his letters and travels starting in Antioch. Now, if you want to "prove" that Jesus lived, that he was divine, then you had better pull up something other than the bible as a reference, because I will slice that little book up using its own fallacious contradictions.

    By all means, post your favorite biblical passage, and lets refute the bible as a credible source with tight internal consistency. There are plenty of external sources than the bible, that hold the Legend of Jesus in a much different light, and weren't taken in and synthesized by a Roman Council.

    "Pastor declares kneeling a sin"
    Since Vatican revised instruction on Mass, the argument over kneeling for blessings has arisen."
    http://www.detnews.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20060617/LIFESTYLE04/606170364

    Yeah, I suppose you no longer need to kneel, the Roman Catholics are the purest of christianity.











  • PNP · 3 years ago
    Dirty Harry...you just made my day...

    DH: "Per christian tradition, the authorities "did" have homeslices' body, they chucked him in a hole and threw a boulder over it. Its not until later on that the "non-existence" of the body in this theoretical tomb, uh, written about much later in the "New Testament", that a divine Jesus is being passed around as divine."

    Of course! "christian tradition"...let's make a deal, DH, you put your faith in your "christian tradition", and I'll put my faith in mine. Just so I understand what you believe let me see here...

    Jesus lives, gets a bunch of fanatical followers who get persecuted by local church (Jewish) authorities during the life of Christ because they don't believe he's really God. The Jews are really ticked off that some of their brethren/sisters are following this guy around just because he's a wise guy (or "homeslice").

    The church gets so angry at this guy for being a wise man that they have him crucified with the support of the local Roman authorities. Nobody thinks that Christ has divine aspirations...he's just the smartest Jew in town and they're jealous...nothing that would be called blasphemous or anything.

    Then after he's crucified, because this homeslice has a couple followers who think he's God, the Roman and Jewish authorities know that the one way they can put these people down is by protecting the body, but they fall asleep or get paid off or something and a couple of these right wing Jesus freaks steal the body and, "chucked him in a hole and threw a boulder over it".

    There's a split among the Jesus followers at this point and the Jesus freaks start running around saying, "the tomb's empty! the tomb's empty! yee hee!!" And they start making lots of money from people and get girls and stuff and they all retire in Boca...

    But, wait a minute...if you're right...now there are 3 groups who want to find this body and destroy this "superstition" (Tacitus) before things get out of hand: the most powerful church in the area, the most powerful government in the world, and, now, a bunch of really ticked of Jewish heretics who just thought Jesus was a nice Jewish boy.

    Those Ebionites...hooo-boy!!

    DH: "Now, if you want to "prove" that Jesus lived, that he was divine, then you had better pull up something other than the bible as a reference, because I will slice that little book up using its own fallacious contradictions."

    DH, don't know if you saw it earlier, but I already discussed with Ubergeek and Webmaster sources like Tacitus, Josephus, and Pliny the Younger. I think it's hard to refute that Jesus did indeed exist, that he had followers who followed him after his death, that there was a spiritual element to it (again "superstition") and that these early followers were martyred for their faith. I have trouble believing that any of the Ebionites - since they did, in fact, deny Christ's divinity - suffered any great persecutions from the Jewish church or Rome.

    Now do any of these sources say that Christ was divine...nope...but I still haven't heard a good reason why anyone of his first disciples...even his OWN BROTHER would follow him to death. I don't know if you have any brothers DH, but I do, and if anyone comes at me wondering if my brothers the Christ...I've got some stories to tell.

    And before you go off completely dismissing Scripture please refer to my earlier post to WM...it's not as if these things were written 100 years after the fact and there are perfectly good reasons why there's a lag between Christ's death and the writing it down.























  • Dano · 3 years ago
    PNP wrote:
    "Of course! "christian tradition"...let's make a deal, DH, you put your faith in your "christian tradition", and I'll put my faith in mine. Just so I understand what you believe let me see here..."

    Dan says to PNP:
    It's not you understanding of Jewish history that makes you intellectually mediocre, it is your cred·u·lous·ness.

    Dan (Skepticism is the best brain growth hormone of all)





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    Dan













  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    PNP, you've done some apologetic homework, I'll grant you that. Nothing new, or original, or that hasn't been posted here dozens and dozens of times already, but...

    PHP said: "I guess I wasn't being clear with the original point of the questions. It really doesn't matter where Herod's body is or the Apostle John's, or George Washington's for that matter since we all know they died and never claimed a divine nature. The central cause of Christ's arrest and execution was this claim. So, of course, you would think that the authorities who oversaw his execution would have been supremely interested in making sure they "had the body"."

    Assuming that the "central cause of Jesus' arrest... was this claim," which is only your inference based on anonymously written, apologetic, evangelistic, gospel accounts... the founders of the religion might have had the same urgency to disappear the body in support of their claim of deity.

    Imagine, someone claims to be the REAL King of the Jews. He claims to have the pedigree, the bloodline, the right to the throne. For 200 years Judea had been looking for the Messiah. The Essences were big time into all that, as were the Zealots. Common people expected the messiah to show up. And everyone knew the Herods were not in the Davidic bloodline, so they were impostors. This Jesus makes some comments that some interpret to mean that he is more than just messiah, or "anointed one," but that he is Deity. On top of that, he appears to be rousing up quite a disturbance whenever he comes to a town.

    Here we have this charismatic, inciting, peasant, rousing up the populace in a part of the world where almost any motivation quickly degenerates into violence. What would be an example of a place like that today? Try any middle-eastern country.

    Back to 33 CE: There were at least half-a-dozen self proclaimed messiahs, with followers, who were put to death in the years proceeding and following the time when Jesus supposedly lived. Whether this Jesus intended to be viewed as a political revolutionary or not, it is likely that the Roman government, who couldn't have cared less about local superstitions, would have viewed him as simply another wild-eyed rabble-rouser, and a potential danger to law and order.

    Why would his own brother follow him to death? His brother was the leader of the new religion now! Jesus was the King of the Jews, and after his death, that made James the King of the Jews. The true bloodline of David must be preserved; God had promised that a descendent of David would forever sit upon the throne in Jerusalem. Remember, this is a Jewish messianic movement, it took years before it mutated into a spiritual movement, and if it weren't for Paul, it'd likely have faded away from history altogether, as did all the other Jewish messianic movements.

    "Tacitus, Josephus, and Pliny the Younger are NOT eye-witnesses that Jesus existed. They are eye-witnesses that Christians existed. The existence of Mormons proves the validity of the claims of Joseph Smith? The existence of Muslims authenticates the claims of Mohammad?

    Most of the New Testament was written by Paul of Tarsus, who admittedly never met Jesus, except, supposedly, in a vision. And Paul didn't seem to have much respect for the men who were eye-witnesses, resisting their leadership, arguing with them on points of doctrine, and bragging to have done more than all of them put together! He wasn't an eye-witness to anything, and he was just a little self-important and rude.

    You would like to distance yourself from fire and brimstone preaching, but the fact remains that the form of Christianity that was allowed to survive and grow damns all unbelievers to an eternal existence in horrific agony. There is simply no way around this idea.

    The early Church fathers in the centuries before Constantine disagree on many things. There were many schism and isms that were eventually condemned as heresy, such as Gnostics and Monatists (Tertullian, a well respected, early Church father, followed the Monatist version). Some believed Jesus a god and some didn't. The deity of Jesus was a great topic of argument for years and years! Eventually those within the Church who held Jesus to be divine became governmentally and militarily strong, and those leading that branch of Christianity succeeded in crushing out most of the completion.

    Still, some believed in hell, some didn't. Origen believed that all would eventually be saved, even Satan. His view was that a place filled with millions of humans being tortured under the reign of Satan as an absolute failure for God. Origen was criticized for this belief.

    Nothing in the New Testament is written with the intention of preserving history. There is nothing written about Jesus' life from birth until his "ministry" except one quip from when he was 12 years old. The gospel accounts were written because Jesus wasn't returning like he promised, and so they wrote apologetic works to promote the movement and “prove” the gospel.

    The divinity of Jesus isn't even slightly alluded to in the Book of James, the one supposedly written by Jesus' brother. Over time Jesus became more divine in the minds of many Christians. The earliest gospel, Mark, barely hints at divinity. By the time John is written we have a more bold and comprehensive claim of divinity. John was written at least 60-75 years after Jesus' demise.

    Do you think the Book of Mormon is divinely authored? It claims to be divinely authored! Many, many people believe it to be of divine authorship. I look at Joseph Smith's life history and see a charlatan. Yet those who knew him best, who lived with him, saw him as a prophet. His church is the fastest growing in the world today.

    People believe weird things, they always have, and apparently they always will.

    You have every right to believe in a magical, flying, un-dead, god-man on a stick. You're free to do that!

    Do you believe I am free to disbelieve in your messiah? Or do you believe I'll roast in hell for all eternity for disbelieving in your man-god?

    Do you believe that your man-god loves me unconditionally? Or, do you believe there are conditions on receiving that love? Conditions, like, for instance, believing in your man-god, and not just believing in your man-god, but believing the right things about your man-god. If I think he’s a prophet but not a god, can I still get in on heaven?

    He loves unconditionally unless you don't love him back? Is that it?

    And in that case, he gets upset and tosses me, the infidel, into a nice hot sulfur pot where I can contemplate my terrible sin of unbelief, in torturous agony, forever.

    You can't have “Love Jesus” without “Angry Jesus,” PNP. They go together like heads and tails, like smoke and fire.









































  • Sassy · 3 years ago
    All these non-witnesses. As a fact there was a church auction at a private club in May 2005 for some 250 people who paid $250/ticket. The Viones were also there. Why? May 2005! The accusation was made in March 2005, the "whatever" is the basis for the suit, Jan 2005--and why? So had Joe wanted to take a swing at Tom with 250 witnesses, that was his chance. If he had wanted to hurl loud accusations at Tom, lots of church leaders--what an opportunity. As a pair the Viones are the "showgirl and the short guy" couple. Free world.

    And to the writer who said, "sexy, model type," how do YOU know what Tom finds sexy? Especially since men feast their eyes on 100s of women every day in NYC.

  • Quizzical · 3 years ago
    You can't run into a store and take what you want without paying and expect not to be charged with a crime. But the "crime" is different depending on the "what" it is. Petty larceny and grand theft auto--different things. So the plaintiff's wife wasn't complaining about her church life. The plaintiff's husband was. Why was that? And no one has answered the question as to why they hung around FAPC. When did Joe stop being a happy camper?

    So Tom and Joe are tussling, as sport, because that is what men do.

    Whoever got to the bear first could support his family. So Joe gets more resources, if successful. Very primal. Our church loses resources. The lawyers get some.

    And what did his wife think her future was going to be? Tom's gift was that he was outgoing and remembered names. So, they can't all be "somebodies" to him.

    Let's assume for the moment he has the kind of marriage he wants; then what should his work life be like, the same or different? High maintenance people--he wouldn't have the time. He married when he was 21/his wife 22, and FAPC members get what I said, knowing both female parties in this.

    And the writing here, no one has come out in favor of the plaintiff and his wife, not with positive details...why is that?

    Tom preached at Ab. Baptist church 3/2/03 as part of a pulpit exchange and learned about "willing workers." The plaintiff's wife was put to work! That she chose to think there was more to it, well, that was her problem. Tom just had work to do, and he let her do some! That was his job to get the work done!











  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    response to quizical...

    you have no idea what you are talking about...if tom had the marriage he 'wanted' he wouldn't be in this mess in the first place.

    you're right in saying he is a thief, though.

    tom should have told the truth about his relationship with rachel in the first place, then it could have been dealt with accordingly.

    instead he chose to lie and when his lies caught up with him he ran away like the coward that he is.

    he ran all the way to washington, dc to p.l.p. and the am. red cross.

    what a wolf in sheep's clothing.

    fapc needs to take a step back and ask themselves as a congregation, 'why does this sort of thing keep happening at our church?'

    the answer...pedestal worship. let's hope the next guy who comes to fapc understands that people are not there to worship him.















  • Friend of Tom · 3 years ago
    I still can't believe those of you who write in this blog have so many negative things to say about Tom and others, but can't reveal who you are.... You are always signing anonymous and the like. Why not say who you are and stand up to what you believe and not hide behind the name anonymous.

    Janette Brenner

  • J. C. Samuelson · 3 years ago
    Hopefully my last response to PNP...

    "The point is to pose the question as to how a religion based on a historical belief (the life/death/resurrection of a man) could grow when it was so heavily persecuted and would have been so easy to de-bunk."

    This is a common apologetic, but unfortunately it fails to add validity to the Christian faith. See here for a refutation.

    PNP, your entire premise seems to be that since there were a lot of people who died for the faith, while in the faith, or while associating with people in the faith, that it must be true. If that were really an indicator, Islam would be quite as true as Christianity. And no, I’m not talking about the suicide bombers of today. I’m talking about the Crusades.

    Also by this logic, Judaism would be just as true. How many Jews have died because they were Jews?

    Really though, this is little more than a morbid argumentum ad populum (argument by popularity). Since so many were willing to die for this idea, it must be true. This type of argument is a logical fallacy because popularity is not an indicator of the validity of an idea. Ever hear of a flat earth? A very popular idea at the time.

    As for "easy to debunk," I think this argument is both anachronistic and culturally ignorant. Anachronistic because it places ancient non-believers into the same category as modern day skeptics. Culturally ignorant for a couple reasons.

    First, because it displays a lack of knowledge of how Christians were viewed by their contemporaries. Robert Wilken, a Christian historian who wrote The Christians as the Romans Saw Them (1984), noted that "For almost a century Christianity went unnoticed by most men and women in the Roman Empire. ... [Non-Christians] saw the Christian community as a tiny, peculiar, antisocial, irreligious sect, drawing its adherents from the lower strata of society."

    Even Edwin Yamauchi, a prominent apologist, contradicts this argument when he says, "When people begin religious movements, it's often not until many generations later that people record things about them" (as cited by Strobel, The Case for Christ p. 114).

    In other words, I don’t think the Romans had any more interest in debunking Christianity than I do in debunking Santa Clause.

    As for Jews, their culture and beliefs about the corpse don’t exactly lend themselves to the idea that they went to check on the body of Jesus, assuming that’s what you mean by disproving it. It is doubtful they would’ve paraded Jesus’ corpse around town to prove Christianity false, particularly when the body had several weeks to decay prior to the time Christians began spouting off about the resurrection (Acts 2:22-36).

    Even if they had, Christians could simply deny it was Jesus. There would’ve been no way to conclusively identify the body even in this early stage of decay, and identifying marks (such as the holes in the hands and feet) could be explained away by saying the body was that of another crucified.

    The point being that it is not reasonable to conclude that either the Romans or the Jews would take such steps to discredit Christianity at this early stage of its development. To the Romans, it was a strange cult not worthy of much attention (until they drew attention away from the pagan gods worshipped by Romans). To the Jews, they were another messianic cult that happened to be particularly annoying.

    "...his brother and one of the first disciples, James, PLUS other contemporaries were killed by a zealous priest. Now these other contemporaries were not disciples per se, but they were, apparently, believers."

    Actually, it isn’t apparent that they were believers. That was part of my point. I have no problem assuming they were his companions, or even that they were Christians. However, the text does not clearly say these others were James’ companions, or that they were Christian. The text says nothing about them, the charges, or their beliefs. Any conclusions that we might draw about them are nothing more than assumption. Of course, part of this is because English is such a lousy language for translation.

    The passage focuses on Ananus, what he did, and the consequences he faced. What we do know from this passage is:

    1. Ananus the High Priest assembled the Sanhedrin.
    2. He brought James the brother of Jesus the so-called Christ before him.
    3. He brought others before him as well (who may or may not have been Christian – sympathizers, perhaps?).
    4. James and at least some of these others were stoned to death.
    5. Ananus lost his status as a consequence.

    Still, let us assume (for that is what we are doing) that they were his companions and Christian by faith. Again, where is the widespread persecution and martyrdom that would have prevented your faith from thriving? Some of James’ companions were caught and killed here.

    Considering the biblical report of thousands of converts and/or witnesses, was this really a significant blow to the faith? Furthermore, it appears that Christians had some powerful allies; the most equitable of citizens (apparently numerous or influential enough to attract King Agrippa’s attention), King Agrippa, and the Roman Procurator Albinus. Naturally, these last two were probably more interested in keeping the peace, but if Christianity at this time was so weak and fragile, why would Agrippa or Albinus even worry about one insignificant cult being wiped out by some zealot?

    "Now I completely understand if you guys want to discount the oral histories and these last from Fox's, but I hope you also notice that the greater point was that we have solid (given the time period) historical evidence that at least 3 plus many first generation Christians plus Christ were martyred."

    Fox is dealt with in part in Richard Carrier’s essay that I linked you to above. But, while we may have – accepting Fox’s info as valid – evidence that "3 plus many first generation Christians" were martyred, you have yet to demonstrate your larger point sufficiently; that Christianity could not have grown under heavy persecution unless it was true.

    "…not all scholars are agreed that interpolation (insertion of text at a later date in order to support Jesus' divinity) actually happened."

    It’s not required for "all scholars" to agree. There will never be 100% consensus among humans as to particular facts. All that’s needed is a majority. With regard to the Testimonium, there are three positions:

    1. The passage is entirely authentic – A minority position.
    2. The passage is entirely a Christian interpolation – A smaller minority position.
    3. The passage contains Christian interpolations into Josephus’ original material. – The majority position.

    "…even the skeptics see that he most probably wrote the following parts: "About this time there lived Jesus, a wise man, if indeed one ought to call him a man. For he was one who wrought surprising feats and was a teacher who wrought surprising feats and was a teacher of such people as accept the truth gladly. He won over many Jews and Greeks." The interpolation questions surround the statements: "He was the Christ", and "on the thrid day he appeared to them restored to life"."

    You missed one; "if indeed one ought to call him a man" is usually considered to be an interpolation. One scholar, Schlomo Pines, in An Arabic Version of the Testimonium Flavianum and Its Implications (Jerusalem: Israel Academy of Sciences and Humanities, 1971) the following text of the Testimonium is offered:

    "At this time there was a wise man who was called Jesus. And his conduct was good, and [he] was known to be virtuous. And many people from among the Jews and the other nations became his disciples. Pilate condemned him to be crucified and to die. And those who had become his disciples did not abandon his discipleship. They reported that he had appeared to them three days after his crucifixion and that he was alive; accordingly, he was perhaps the Messiah concerning whom the prophets have recounted wonders." (As cited by Jeff Lowder here)

    Of course, it is still possible to dispute the final sentence. The point being is that a majority of scholars, both Christian and non-Christian, regard the passage as having been tampered with. Mostly because Josephus was a Jew, not a Christian, and any mention of Jesus would not be so overtly favorable.

    In any case, I’m still at a loss as to what this has to do with 1st century Christian martyrs.

    With regard to Tacitus, your argument is that they were persecuted and martyred because they were Christian. I don’t dispute that. What I dispute is that this was the primary reason for it. Nero found a convenient enemy upon which to shift the blame for a major calamity.

    Sure, Christians suffered horrible treatment by Nero. However, this did not appear to hinder the spread of Christianity. On the contrary, Tacitus lends support to the notion that this persecution actually aided Christianity. In the final sentence of Book XLIV, Tacitus relates:

    "Hence, even for criminals who deserved extreme and exemplary punishment, there arose a feeling of compassion; for it was not, as it seemed, for the public good, but to glut one man's cruelty, that they were being destroyed."

    Back to Pliny…

    "So, again, with the Pliny the Younger reference - we are not talking original disciples here, but second and third generation Christians. People who still died for a faith, which it would have been fairly easy to disprove."

    Now, hold on there! You stated quite clearly at the beginning that you were talking about 1st century Christians who either witnessed the events in the Gospels firsthand or were a short distance removed from those events. Didn’t you specifically say, "…my usage of it in my first argument was not that it only be applied to the disciples, but to the early (first century) Church?" Are you trying to pull a fast one?

    Pliny consulting Trajan is also significant in that there were no laws against Christianity. That is, he had no knowledge of judiciary proceedings against Christians or the consequences to be levied against them. Romans weren’t "out to get" Christians any more than Jews were. Pliny was asking what to do because he’d never encountered the problem before. His interrogations and executions were his improvised method of dealing with a heretofore unknown "problem."

    Even though he was largely ignorant of the movement, Christianity was quite widespread in Bithynia. Pliny reports that "…this contagious superstition is not confined to the cities only, but has spread its infection among the neighbouring villages and country." Although Pliny also seems to think it is possible to check the growth of Christianity, Trajan replied to Pliny saying, "Do not go out of your way to look for them." He also said that charges must be proven, anonymous witness wasn’t to be considered valid, and those who recant should be released.

    Not exactly advice that encourages persecution, was it?

    "…a historical man who lived, taught powerful moral truths, performed miracles, was killed, and was resurrected."

    I’d revise this and take out "performed miracles" and "was resurrected." These things are not at all settled.

    "Speaking of which...I haven't (and I'm not being snide here) heard a great explanation for the empty tomb."

    See Historical Evidence and the Empty Tomb Story by Jeff Lowder for a few possibilities.

    "Why, when it was in both the Romans' and the Jews' highest interest to both guard the tomb and then, once he went "missing" , find the body, were they unable."

    Where do you find it was their "highest interest?" What makes you think they went looking for it? Your argument is anachronistic in that it places non-believers of the day into the same category as today’s skeptics. Please cite some materials that support these assertions.

    "...where is Christ's body?"

    Nice red herring. Two-thousand years after the fact this question is answerable in only natural or supernatural terms. Take your pick.































































































  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    Hey Uber, would you please message me and provide me an email to repsond to? I've got a question for you.

    Thanks.

  • Bentley · 3 years ago
    anonymous said,

    "response to quizical...

    you have no idea what you are talking about...if tom had the marriage he 'wanted' he wouldn't be in this mess in the first place.

    you're right in saying he is a thief, though.

    tom should have told the truth about his relationship with rachel in the first place, then it could have been dealt with accordingly.

    instead he chose to lie and when his lies caught up with him he ran away like the coward that he is.

    he ran all the way to washington, dc to p.l.p. and the am. red cross.

    what a wolf in sheep's clothing.

    fapc needs to take a step back and ask themselves as a congregation, 'why does this sort of thing keep happening at our church?'

    the answer...pedestal worship. let's hope the next guy who comes to fapc understands that people are not there to worship him."

    ________________________________________________________

    This is the very thing I predicted on four of my posts.

    2/18/2006 1:02 PM EST
    3/18/2006 11:17 AM EST
    3/20/2006 12:10 PM EST
    6/04/2005 1:12 PM EST

    and you still come up with this garbage!

    "the answer...pedestal worship. let's hope the next guy who comes to fapc understands that people are not there to worship him."

    Untill, Get this! Untill
    You people quit glorifying people(preachers) with praise and money, you will always get the same type of preacher, because this is exactly just what you all want yourself!

    Glorification and Praise!

    This is exactly what you christians are looking for yourself!

    Glorification and Praise!


    That is the only reason that you go to a church!

    You do not go to church to get "Saved" nor "Hear Any Truth" No, you go to get your praise!

    You do not go to a church to praise a god, you go to get your praise!

    You all gladly pay some jackass to tell you all how wonderful you are!

    Thats all you are, a bunch of praise seeking religious zombies!

    As long as you all pretend and are stupid enough to to think and believe that there is someone that "is called by a god! duh!!!" you will always get a silver tongued preacher.

    As long as you throw your money and false praise at the next preacher that is exactly what you will get.

    The next idiot you all elect, tell them you are not going to pay him, and see how long they last!

    It's all about money for the preacher, but it's all about praise to the congregation!


    I know, you all resent truth!




























































  • Not personal · 3 years ago
    To the "anon" naysayers.

    Exactly what negative facts are you reading here? Must be a different place. There are no facts listed, assertions about what Tom did or didn't do, particularly. Where are they, the facts? One person tried to explain the basis for the charge, but no one has followed up on that here except a few about mentoring. Do you actually know what is expected of clergy? Read the "Book of Order," the "Book of Discipline" and google misconduct + pastor and start reading. If you can stand it.

    People at FAPC cried for months. I know I did. I highly resent OOTs (out-of-towners) telling us their truth, and denying us ours.

    And I can tell you that his pastor pals are looking at him through the lense of ethics and how churches are "supposed" to work, but in the end, that of course was his job to do in the way he chose.

    But the people who see black-white...it's a gray world.

    If you want to go to the courthouse in NYC you can make a copy of the suit and maybe see them film "Law and Order" and understand the charges. Whatever Joe and his lawyer decided to submit.

    The point is NOT personal. Change your church process so this NEVER happens again. Have you "named" people made sure that misconduct, the rules under which Tom is charged, is made known to all your members, so no one can ask for and receive so much time, for example?
    Or, are you just accusing the writers here of being wrong?

    The point here is not to detail what we learned from Tom. Write him care of the church, mark it "personal" or whatever current address you have. This is not for that.

    Tom resigned. He didn't ask me first. Did he ask you? Whose opinion did he ask? Maybe Suzanne's. A fair guess.

    He left the New Prov church 20 years ago or so I guess. A lifetime. He left Houston in 1994, over a decade of being an empty nester.

    The point is what we GAINED from Tom stands firm.

    What we have lost at FAPC is huge for many people.

    The only verifiable "negatives" are that people have shared is based on people's feelings--which are inviolate and individual--and opinions--which can be based on anything or nothing.

    I also respectively ask you to consider how much time you spent at FAPC and not criticize those current and recent members. Those few named are either couples or men, I wager, and pls do not extrapolate your experience to those women who wrote.

    Tom resigned. He did not have to resign, and men and women spoke up against the resignation in public Nov 20, 2005 in the appropriately public forum before the vote was taken.

    If he had the tape, he knows who we are. Some voted for the resignation "because Tom asked for it." Many opinions.

    If you want to hear how bad gossip WITHOUT FACTS can get, don't criticize this little list of writings, just go to FAPC and ask a variety of people what they think. And then tell those people what YOU think. If you can stomach the discussion.

    It will weaken your understanding
    of Christian charity perhaps--it has mine--by how many church members "think" they know ill. Not anything from their own relationship with him, no, just what they "know," and will publicly repeat.

    It is a gossip-ridden place,now, and any "named" people should come visit before writing again. Just a suggestion.

    The previous writer makes a good point that if I take it one step further, you are going to have a "people person" pastor then you need a strong system to keep it working.

    All you sunny people. We can be thankful for knowing Tom without thinking he is perfect. Or that maybe he should have made better choices.

    But if you think that the seeds for this are not in your current church today, you are very misinformed. Look up the stats on misconduct and let Tom find his way.

    Pls, you "named" people. When was the last time your church educated you on misconduct? How much insurance does it have. What does it cover? Do you know? Why don't you learn from this instead of talking about what you don't know much about--Tom's most recent church and the people in it!













































  • Quizzical · 3 years ago
    posted: 6/20/2006 3:41 PM EST

    My point abt the "marriage he wants," is this: his homelife is "settled" so who knows what Tom and Suzanne say when the door is shut?

    So, what you're saying is that if he were 1) married to someone else who 2) wouldn't stand for it it or who offered him a different way of being it 3) wouldn't have happened.

    That is a major leap since it assumes he knows what he wants and knows Suzanne isn't giving it to him.

    Suppose he wanted to be the "person he is" and wanted someone to accept it.

    Maybe his marriage is what he wants. And that's a popular position here...maybe not accurate, but popular.









  • Dirty Harry · 3 years ago
    PNP: Dirty Harry...you just made my day..."

    Lets see, what we have, it appears Uber and the WM have provided supple amounts of information as a response to your comments, but... I'll throw out a little more.

    PNP: "Of course! "christian tradition"...let's make a deal, DH, you put your faith in your "christian tradition", and I'll put my faith in mine. Just so I understand what you believe let me see here..."

    Actually, we are what we claim to be, how we act, and the information we possess, and at this time, none of that includes christianity in my life.

    PNP: "Jesus lives,"

    Again, is that a supernatural Jesus, a mortal Jesus, or does Jesus live on in the minds of those who want to create the memory of such a character. Just because someone says "Jesus lives", doesn't make it real in the sense that external information can be presented to suport such a statement.

    PNP: "...gets a bunch of fanatical followers who get persecuted by local church (Jewish) authorities during the life of Christ because they don't believe he's really God."

    Who is presenting this case. Paul didn't know Jesus, he saw him in a vision per his epistles, I have yet to see an "authored" first person rendition showing Jesus' intent, perhaps you have one of those laying around? No. Well, then lets look at the most contradictory and logically "broken" books of all time - the bible.

    Why would the Legendary Jesus Hero be berated? Well, he deliberately broke the sabbath, that didn't make him very many friends. He was idolized, uh, that would be called blasphemy, and a few other things, and if you need a list, I could suggest that the Jesus character didn't honor the "father", while questioning him with "father, why has thou forsaken me", etc., etc.

    There are so many reasons the Orthodox Jews, who by the way, were there first, worshipping their god "first", and in their writings it states that false messiahs and prophets would show up on the scene, i.e., Jesus, one each, etc., Yeah, Jesus fit really nice into the mold of "idolized false messiah", and, he didn't fill any of the major messianich prophecies, else, the Jews are now living in their New Kingdom, and having enjoyed Hitler, they tend to disagree that they are in paradise.

    PNP: "The Jews are really ticked off that some of their brethren/sisters are following this guy around just because he's a wise guy (or "homeslice")."

    If you would like, no, here, let me provide you a link, so you can read, "why" Jesus, was considered in that "era", to be a charlatan.

    http://www.jewsforjudaism.org/jews-jesus/jews-jesus-index.html

    "Jesus", was a stepping stone between Orthodox Judaism, and Roman Catholicism, the Old Testament and New Testament don't line up, in logic, in culture, nor in consistency. The god of the Old Testament was "El", the god of the New Testament was "YHWH", they were not the same god, yet, christians today, actually believe they are worshipping the "same" god as the Jews, making the "bible", one "book", under "one" god. Christians then like to claim that the Jews' god, the bull calf, was a "false" god, yet, the false god was enough, to suggest that the writings of the Old Testament were valid proof for the coming of Jesus, yet again, that is contradictory to the bible if one reads the bible from an historical perspective.

    PNP: "The church gets so angry at this guy for being a wise man that they have him crucified with the support of the local Roman authorities. Nobody thinks that Christ has divine aspirations...he's just the smartest Jew in town and they're jealous...nothing that would be called blasphemous or anything."

    Blasphemy is well established in the bible, if you would care to read the bible that is. If you are too lazy to pick it up, I will provide the passages, as I have, numerous times.

    PNP: "Then after he's crucified, because this homeslice has a couple followers who think he's God, the Roman and Jewish authorities know that the one way they can put these people down is by protecting the body, but they fall asleep or get paid off or something and a couple of these right wing Jesus freaks steal the body and, "chucked him in a hole and threw a boulder over it"."

    Don't know where you are going with this, "the milk carton Jesus picture" that is, but, the dude has to be proven to have existed. The Old Testament presents the description of false prophets, etc., later on, the character Jesus is presented in the New Testament. There is nothing but "words", that say a hole ever existed, or a boulder, or this conspiracy.

    No body, oh, he must have been supernatural or stolen. Yeah, let me know when you find Jimmy Hoffa's body, I mean, obviously, he was supernatural.

    PNP: "There's a split among the Jesus followers at this point and the Jesus freaks start running around saying, "the tomb's empty! the tomb's empty! yee hee!!" And they start making lots of money from people and get girls and stuff and they all retire in Boca..."

    Uh, when was the NT written exactly, did Paul see Jesus and witness this account? No? Well, then, lets go to the next person who would have witnessed this crucifixiion, that would be "Mary", per the tradition? Any book of Mary in the bible? No? Hmmmmm, well, I am sure even Jesus the Legendary supernatural being, would have forseen his death, and "wrote" about it, right? No? Someone else wrote down Jesus' message, that's odd. I don't know, I would have to suspect, that if a "god" were killed on a pole, I would have written it down that day, and everyone would have known about it, but, no... not in his era, many years later, I wonder how "significant" this crucifixion really was? Obviously, not significant enough to write about it in the day.

    The Jews, who would have been the ones to chronicle the play by play, as was their culture and tradition, seemed to have "missed" documenting a Jesus as well, in their Talmud until hundreds of years later. As a matter of fact, the only tellings of a Jesus, by outside sources, other than the supreme authority of the Roman Empire, is almost 'nil, unless one wants to include the gnostic writings, and a handful of coptic writings, that don't present Jesus as a "god".

    PNP: "But, wait a minute...if you're right...now there are 3 groups who want to find this body and destroy this "superstition""

    Milk Carton Jesus, seems to be a strategy of proof that is wearing thin, hopefully you have more than this further on...

    PNP: "(Tacitus) before things get out of hand: the most powerful church in the area, the most powerful government in the world, and, now, a bunch of really ticked of Jewish heretics who just thought Jesus was a nice Jewish boy."

    Don't you find it odd, that the Most Powerful Church in the Area, was headed by the most Powerful Gov't in the world at that time, and that "the" Roman Emperor Constantine I, was the one to "create" and "establish" a council to "vote" on the divinity of Jesus. It would seem, if the Roman Emperor, in an effort to establish a Unified Church using Jesus as a keystone to bridge Judaism, and unite Paganism and Christianity, that "they" would have been chomping it to bit, to have a "body", but... alas, "NO", no body.

    As for the Jewish Heretics, they didn't care a rats', if a body was ever produced, by the "accounts" of the Roman Council, and the divinity that was voted upon at the first council of Nicaea, 325CE, they declared Jesus to be a lie, and "NOT" their messiah, based on their Old Testament, the Non-Unanimous vote on the divinity of Jesus at the First Council of Nicaea, and the Roman Empires' bloody and not so hidden Agenda to unite the empire.

    PNP: "Those Ebionites...hooo-boy!!

    Yeah, hoooo-boy, they were there, you weren't, I suppose there is little else you can say about those who lived in the time and place Jesus was supposed to have lived, yet, called him mortal.

    PNP: "DH, don't know if you saw it earlier, but I already discussed with Ubergeek and Webmaster sources like Tacitus, Josephus, and Pliny the Younger. I think it's hard to refute that Jesus did indeed exist, that he had followers who followed him after his death, that there was a spiritual element to it (again "superstition")"

    I don't associate "spiritual" with "superstition", I consider spiritual to mean metaphysical, which is held by many to be a reality for them. If you care to prove a supernatural claim, to support a "spiritual" connotation per your context, by all means, do so, this should be enlightening.

    PNP: "...and that these early followers were martyred for their faith. I have trouble believing that any of the Ebionites - since they did, in fact, deny Christ's divinity - suffered any great persecutions from the Jewish church or Rome."

    The Jewish Church of Rome? What church are you talking of, The "Church of Rome", became the Roman Catholic Church, and not at all part of Jewish Religion.

    PNP: "Now do any of these sources say that Christ was divine...nope...but I still haven't heard a good reason why anyone of his first disciples...even his OWN BROTHER would follow him to death."

    Dude, first of all, James doesn't elaborate on "following 'til the death", but lets put that aside. Are you suggesting you wouldn't follow or "protect" your brother 'til the death, if you thought your brother innocent of charges levied against him? I would, that doesn't make my brother supernatural, it means I have a value that I support, its about me at that point, not my brother.

    PNP: "I don't know if you have any brothers DH, but I do, and if anyone comes at me wondering if my brothers the Christ...I've got some stories to tell."

    However, as stated, if someone comes towards your brother to commit murder, which was a common occurrence for one committing blasphemy, then you may step in if in fact, your own brother wasn't suggesting he was a messiah but, that he was being labelled a messiah by others. Now, if I were to ask you if you were an idiot, and you refused to answer because you had some passive aggressive tendency to rebel against authority figures (or little ol' me), then, the statement stands, until stated otherwise. Now, if you never come back to this post, it may appear you are an idiot to others because of your non-response, does that "make" you an idiot? No. The legendary Jesus, was given his opportunity, and refused to comment, in law today, that's considered an indirect admission of guilt, nolo contendere, meaning "no contest". The legendary Jesus didn't contest the charges, "why?" That makes no sense at all, for one, who has forseen their own death, who believes they are there to die for humanity's original sin (which isn't in the bible), and wants to pass this information onto humanity for prosperity. Nope, didn't utter a word, but Paul, who never met him, well, he couldn't keep his mouth shut, his pie hole was gaping open and yelling the good news to everyone, uh, ridiculous.

    PNP: "And before you go off completely dismissing Scripture please refer to my earlier post to WM...it's not as if these things were written 100 years after the fact and there are perfectly good reasons why there's a lag between Christ's death and the writing it down."

    Name some "pretty good reasons", and why wasn't there "ever" a statue erected to signify such an event. By all means, explain why "all" historians just missed the boat on this one.

    Again, explain why the authors of the bibe to include Paul, declared Jesus' return, in the lives of the apostles, in a short while, and in the life of the people listening to the apostles. Perhaps, this is why there is no "record" of Jesus, maybe, Jesus was not proven to have existed to the masses of people seeking their messiah, and they were promised if they joined the "true religion", they would eventually "see Jesus" before they died. Right, some did take the bait, but the Roman Emperor didn't like how long it took to try and convert using fabricated lies, so, making it a legal requirement to accept Jesus was the result.

    Oh, thanks for making my day, I really like the Milk Carton Jesus approach, I mean, at least that appears to be more safe than trying to prove something metaphysical, right.















































































  • Quizzical · 3 years ago
    ..."he ran all the way to washington, dc to p.l.p. and the am. red cross."

    OK I give up...what is p.l.p...Personal Loan Program, Pediatric Literacy Program...

  • Father Theresa · 3 years ago
    I suspect P.L.P, stands for "Papacy Loves Pedophilia", but maybe I'm making a guess, like all these people talking about an invisible god.

    I mean, PNP, seems to have a relationship with words that most people don't find in a marriage with a physical spouse. Some need words, and some need a little more, I suppose.

  • Quizzical · 3 years ago
    To Father Theresa,

    In the best possible way, I laughed out loud, and we at FAPC have not had much to laugh about...it could also mean the Progressive Labor Party.

    Too bad you probably live in Spain or someplace, or Italy, since you could probably bring some levity to our church...and perspective..we really need!

    Quizzical (just one of my aliases...depending...) I also like the spelling.





  • Quizzical · 3 years ago
    To Father Theresa,

    In the best possible way, I laughed out loud, and we at FAPC have not had much to laugh about...it could also mean the Progressive Labor Party.

    Too bad you probably live in Spain or someplace, or Italy, since you could probably bring some levity to our church...and perspective..we really need!

    Quizzical (just one of my aliases...depending...) I also like the spelling.





  • Quizzical · 3 years ago
    "I mean, PNP, seems to have a relationship with words that most people don't find in a marriage with a physical spouse. Some need words, and some need a little more, I suppose."

    6/20/2006 7:55 PM

    The woman in question is now 43, hardly a child...age-wise...just to remind everyone. It was her children who were so small.



  • PNP · 3 years ago
    DH: "Lets see, what we have, it appears Uber and the WM have provided supple amounts of information as a response to your comments"

    Uh..."supple"? Let's not get distracted here...

    DH: "Actually, we are what we claim to be, how we act, and the information we possess, and at this time, none of that includes christianity in my life."

    Huh? Maybe we should talk about this over at the Ebionite church down at the corner...

    DH: "If you would like, no, here, let me provide you a link, so you can read, "why" Jesus, was considered in that "era", to be a charlatan."

    Of course he was considered that...I've never disputed this point, but his blasphemy was his declaration of divinity...proved in life through miracles, shown in after death by resurrection. Oh, that site you sent me to has nothing about why the Jews originally convicted him.

    DH: "Blasphemy is well established in the bible, if you would care to read the bible that is. If you are too lazy to pick it up, I will provide the passages, as I have, numerous times."

    I guess you're meaning the OT since you don't believe in the NT...if so...NO ONE picked up the OT or quoted more than Christ and his followers - it was part of Christ's claim to divinity and a central evangelizing tool by the early church to Jews.

    DH: "Don't know where you are going with this, "the milk carton Jesus picture" that is, but, the dude has to be proven to have existed. The Old Testament presents the description of false prophets, etc., later on, the character Jesus is presented in the New Testament. There is nothing but "words", that say a hole ever existed, or a boulder, or this conspiracy."

    Have you seen this God? "Milk carton Jesus"...nice. If you'd like to go back (again) to my earlier convos with WM and UG - even they agree from the historical writings of Josephus and Tacitus that Christ existed. Now if you want to get out on that limb and say he didn't even live, well, my friend that takes a little more faith than what I've got. "Nothing but words"...hmmm...not sure what this means other than if the words are ones you agree with then they're OK if not then it's "milk carton Jesus"-time.

    DH: "Uh, when was the NT written exactly, did Paul see Jesus and witness this account? No? Well, then, lets go to the next person who would have witnessed this crucifixiion, that would be "Mary", per the tradition? Any book of Mary in the bible? No? Hmmmmm, well, I am sure even Jesus the Legendary supernatural being, would have forseen his death, and "wrote" about it, right? No? Someone else wrote down Jesus' message, that's odd. I don't know, I would have to suspect, that if a "god" were killed on a pole, I would have written it down that day, and everyone would have known about it, but, no"

    Bro...please go back to the earlier posts on this...we've got confirmation from Josephus that Christ was killed under Pontius Pilate.

    DH: "Dude, first of all, James doesn't elaborate on "following 'til the death", but lets put that aside. Are you suggesting you wouldn't follow or "protect" your brother 'til the death, if you thought your brother innocent of charges levied against him?"

    Not sure what this means either...James' death is described also by Josephus. Jesus had been dead probably 20-30 years by this point...he's not dying to support his brother...James is a leader in the Church at this point and is targeted by a violent Jewish leader because of it not because he was just helping out his bro...

    DH: "Again, explain why the authors of the bibe to include Paul, declared Jesus' return, in the lives of the apostles, in a short while, and in the life of the people listening to the apostles"

    Finally, I can say...you're absolutely right...the disciples got this wrong...but you've got to ask yourself...why...if there was all this time to come up with this elaborate history of this miracle man with the coming back from the dead thing would you include this crucial mistaken theology in your final book on the faith?? Unless, the letters that eventually comprised the NT were authentic...that's my guess. If I was putting a bible together a couple hundred years after Christ, I would have deleted all that stuff that was obviously wrong...wouldn't you?

    DH: "Right, some did take the bait, but the Roman Emperor didn't like how long it took to try and convert using fabricated lies, so, making it a legal requirement to accept Jesus was the result."

    Dude...now we're talking 300 years after Christ's death...the Roman empire has lasted perfectly well without institutionalizing Christianity, in fact, they've spent most of the previous time attacking it. Why would a Roman Emperor spend so much time enforcing "fabricated lies" unless he really believed them...what does he get for it?

    DH: "I mean, at least that appears to be more safe than trying to prove something metaphysical, right."

    You're so right DH...your approach is much more safe.

    OH...Have you seen this God? Just calling him "milk carton" is cute, but it's not an argument.







































  • Mother Benedict XVI · 3 years ago
    Wow, 43, maybe PLP stands for Preacher Lovin' Playboy, or Pastor Loves Poody, I suppose one must look at the signature of the words to get a deeper understanding.

    So, PLP, what does it really mean? Like Billy Joel's , "Pressure" lyrics, "...sesame street, what does it mean". He's closer to Italy than I, but, maybe I'll go on tour :-) Another favorite song... 'We didn't start the fire', yep, its been burning since the world has been turning.

    Trippin D's speakin' to the Trippin PLP's.



  • Dirty Harry · 3 years ago
    PNP: "Why would a Roman Emperor spend so much time enforcing "fabricated lies" unless he really believed them...what does he get for it?"

    Because, the empire had much infighting among the religious sects. Constantine I, had to unite the empire, because it had stretched so far outward, that he was losing control, hence, the downfall or fizzling out of the Roman Empire. Kind of like the strategy of Hitler, who, also strategically failed because he was too thinly spread over the globe. I'll quit there, I don't personally want to get into the "perfect" strategy to take over the globe, there seem to be plenty of people on the task.

    As well, why do you suggest that Constantine I actually believed christianity... its a well documented fact, as much as one can trust historical record, that big daddy Constantine-I seemed to be fickle in his beliefs on the "truth" of a divine non-unanimous vote.

    "The First Council of Nicaea, convoked by the Roman Emperor Constantine I in 325, was the first ecumenical[1] conference of bishops of the Christian Church.

    The purpose of the council (also called a synod) was to resolve disagreements in the Church of Alexandria over the nature of Jesus in relationship to the Father; in particular, whether Jesus was of the same or of similar substance as God the Father. St. Alexander of Alexandria took the first position; the popular presbyter Arius, from whom the term Arian controversy comes, took the second."
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_Council_of_Nicaea

    The Arians believed Jesus was of a similar (but yet different) substance than "god", kind of like a "mortal" substance leaning. Yet, Constantine-I, sided with St. Alexander, the Father to become the Son, and finally reside as the holy ghost, all of one substance. In the future, the trinity would be founded upon this claim, even though it is not so stated in the bible.

    Not to draw this out, but, Constantine-I, before hist death, was baptised...

    "Constantine died the next year, after finally receiving baptism, from an Arian bishop, and "with his passing the first round in the battle after the Council of Nicaea was ended."[25]"

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_Council_of_Nicaea

    So, obviously you missed the point I made earlier. The Roman Emperor Constantine-I, really didn't care how the vote went, he wanted his empire united, under one banner and under one "rule", hence the bible contains in its New Testament, many pagan, greek mythological, symbols, the Old Testament was kept to pull along the Jews. In the end, Constantine-I was baptised by the bishop of the man he murdered.

    "Indeed, the exact meaning of many of the words used in the debates at Nicaea were still unclear to speakers of other languages; Greek words like "essence" (ousia), "substance" (hypostasis), "nature" (physis), "person" (prosopon) bore a variety of meanings drawn from pre-Christian philosophers, which could not but entail misunderstandings until they were cleared up."

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_Council_of_Nicaea

    They couldn't figure it out then, yet, they created all kinds of documentation to support their votes. Many protested years later, you know, The Protestants, and they disagreed with the votes, hence, there are christian sects that do not agree with the earliest "vote" on christian doctrine. Yet, they had the best chance of knowing the truth. There was so much controversy and death, early on, based on the most simple questions of the nature of the legendary Jesus, that its comical to see it still going on, to this day, between religions who believe their view is the "true" christian view.
























  • PNP · 3 years ago
    UG...

    UG: "PNP, your entire premise seems to be that since there were a lot of people who died for the faith, while in the faith, or while associating with people in the faith, that it must be true. If that were really an indicator, Islam would be quite as true as Christianity. And no, I’m not talking about the suicide bombers of today. I’m talking about the Crusades."

    Well...you're kinda right...but it's a little more than that. It's not just people dying for the faith...unfortunately that's happened far too often (whichever faith), but I'm focusing here on the claims of Christ and how a faith based on the those divine claims (miracles, resurrection) could continue after the death of its founders. Once again, to bring in Mormons, Muslims, Ebionites, Yankee fans really isn't relevant, because none of those faiths are based on the same claims. WM and you are absolutely right to point out that other messianic religions were around during Christ's day, but you're making my point...where are they now? Put better, where were they within 10 years of their founder's death?

    UG:"First, because it displays a lack of knowledge of how Christians were viewed by their contemporaries. Robert Wilken, a Christian historian who wrote The Christians as the Romans Saw Them (1984), noted that "For almost a century Christianity went unnoticed by most men and women in the Roman Empire. ... [Non-Christians] saw the Christian community as a tiny, peculiar, antisocial, irreligious sect, drawing its adherents from the lower strata of society."

    I'm not sure what's your point here...if it's to say that Christianity was a minor sect at the time of Christ's death/resurrection I totally agree and have said so before. That's one of the reasons why I believe nothing needed to be written down during the first decades of the faith's growth. If your point is that nobody really cared about persecuting the Church or finding Christ's body...well, that's another story. Whether the "Roman on the street" knew about Christianity is irrelevant. Rome was and is hundreds of miles away from Jerusalem and Paul was one of the only Christian missionaries there during the first century. The fact is that the local Jewish leaders knew about Christianity and the LOCAL Roman authorities did. Still, enough Romans knew about them for Nero to blame the fire of 64AD on them...only 30 years after Christ's death/resurrection.

    UG: "To the Jews, they were another messianic cult that happened to be particularly annoying."

    Now we've already established from Josephus and Tacitus that Jesus was killed under Pontius Pilate and that he was regarded by his believers as "Christ". So we've established extra-Biblically that Christ was killed...so this is how you treat someone who's "particularly annoying"? Christ was front and center on the radar of the Sanhedrin...because they did not have the power to crucify him they had to force the Roman authorities to do it through rioting...so Christ was "particularly annoying"?

    UG: "It’s not required for "all scholars" to agree. There will never be 100% consensus among humans as to particular facts. All that’s needed is a majority. With regard to the Testimonium, there are three positions"

    This part of argument starts getting into the Ebionite dialog I've had with DH...in the end, you have faith in your scholars and I have mine...we could have them arm wrestle to see who's point would win, but all they do is reinforce your opinion or mine. At one point you mention Yamiuchi...he's one scholar who believes Josephus' line "if you can call him..." as being valid...so I guess you like him when he makes your point and disagree with him when he doesn't...

    DG: "As for Jews, their culture and beliefs about the corpse don’t exactly lend themselves to the idea that they went to check on the body of Jesus, assuming that’s what you mean by disproving it. It is doubtful they would’ve paraded Jesus’ corpse around town to prove Christianity false, particularly when the body had several weeks to decay prior to the time Christians began spouting off about the resurrection (Acts 2:22-36)."

    This part of your argument along with the linked website to Lowder is kinda weak...
    1. the claims of Christ's disappearance began 3 days after his death - not several weeks. He may have appeared several weeks later, but the body was missing in days...
    2. to say that the Jews didn't want to "parade" the body around is a nice straw dog, but irrelevant. These were the same people who's governing council met to convict him and then pushed the ruling authority (who could have cared less) to carry out the harshest punishment possible...the claims were of his divine nature...so I guess this is the way it went down...

    Christ dies...3 days later people claim his body is gone...the Jews say, "wow...that's weird...we thought he was buried over there next to the other criminals...not that I want to look or anything...no we wouldn't want to disprove it or anything...

    Lowder's arguments ask me to wonder if maybe Christ's body was never buried...which means nothing to the story since after 3 days someone could have said, "yeah he's over there in the trash heap...". His arguments, like yours, casually dismiss the interest of the Jews to make sure this thing was stopped...it's just not logical, to go through what they did to have him killed in order to end the heresy then to have it spring back up again less than a week later and not do the simplest (or not be able to do) thing to squash the heresy.

    a "red herring"? You're asking me to believe a lot...

    show me the body.





























  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    PNP, so messiah movements that survive are true and messiah movements that pass out of history are false.

    Good logic PNP, excellent thinking.

    PNP, all you're proving is that you believe in your god-man with a bulldog-like devotion.

    Technically, your Jesus never made any claims, as he never wrote so much as a thank-you note.

    "His arguments, like yours, casually dismiss the interest of the Jews to make sure this thing was stopped...it's just not logical, to go through what they did to have him killed in order to end the heresy then to have it spring back up again less than a week later and not do the simplest (or not be able to do) thing to squash the heresy."

    Ah, the only place you're getting this is from your religious book, the four Gospels. The Gospels were written as an apologetic device to get people to believe. The Gospel of John states flat out, "These things are written so you will believe." The Gospels were written with apologetic, evangelistic intent. There is no doubt that the Gospel writers, whoever they were, frequently misapplied various Old Testament scripture to support their claim that their messianic leader was the correct messianic leader.

    You're using a typical apologetic approach, and that is to avoid every topic except "CHRIST AND HIM CRUCIFIED."

    You apparentlly refuse to answer this question: WHAT HAPPENS AFTER DEATH TO THOSE, WHO FOR WHATEVER REASON, DO NOT BELIEVE IN YOUR JEBUS????

    Please answer this question -- now.















  • Dirty Harry · 3 years ago
    PNP: "Christ was front and center on the radar of the Sanhedrin...because they did not have the power to crucify him they had to force the Roman authorities to do it through rioting...so Christ was "particularly annoying"?"

    Uh, the Sanhedrin had much power to crucify if they wanted, unfortunately for them, it was against their "laws" to murder another one of the chosen, so, they turned the legendary Jesus over to the Roman authorities, per the literature.

    PNP: "This part of argument starts getting into the Ebionite dialog I've had with DH...in the end, you have faith in your scholars and I have mine..."

    Actually, I have faith in knowing, that most literature of that era, shows clearly the vast evidence of conflict when trying to talk about anything regarding the early christian origins, there was no evidence.

    Let me show you PNP. Santa Clause lives, prove me wrong? What, you can't find a body, oh, well there must be a global conspiracy, we all know if Santa Clause's body can't be found there has to be a reason. You have been focusing on something, like the missing body of christianity, to "support" all of its claims.

    So, PNP, where is the body? Oh, please, tell me you "know" where the body is, I mean, you are the apologetic, right. All I need do is ask, where the body is. So, if you can't show me the body, then you have no evidence, just like, I have no evidence of Santa Clause, because I have no body. Lets make it easier, where is a statue of Jesus, like the ones they had of greek gods, etc., No? No, Jesus statues, for the most popular guy in christendom, well, I wonder why not.

    Your entire argument, is based on the "presupposition", that Jesus in fact did live. And you build your argument from there, with no support, except a missing body. You, knew more than those who attended the First Council of Nicaea, 325CE. Your scholars in theory "know more", than the people who lived in that era? That's absurd.

    The Ebionites, didn't believe him divine, many on the council of Nicaea, didn't believe him to be divine, the gnostics didn't believe him to be the divine of Judaism as christianity claimed. How many groups of "that" era, do you need to "show", that there are many people, who did not believe in a "Jesus God". We are not talking of a mortal Jesus, there were plenty of mortal Jesus' running around, it was a common name.

    You presuppose a mythical supernatural Jesus, a god no less, showed up, was crucified, and... fill in the presuppositional blank for the rest of the ad lib story.

    Obviously, you didn't read my link, so, I will post the reasons "why" Jesus was "not" a messiah to the Jews.

    "The Jewish tradition of "The Messiah" has its foundation in numerous biblical references, and understands "The Messiah" to be a human being - without any overtone of deity or divinity - who will bring about certain changes in the world and fulfill certain criteria before he can be acknowledged as "The Messiah"."

    Yeah, unlike the christian verson of godly divine messiah with supernatural powers, The Messiah of the Old Testament which is claimed by christians to be Jesus, is a contradiction of the Jews' term Messiah.

    "First of all, he must be Jewish - "...you may appoint a king over you, whom the L-rd your G-d shall choose: one from among your brethren shall you set as king over you." (Deuteronomy 17:15)"

    Jesus sat on the throne? No, the Jews in fact did "NOT" place him as their king.

    "He must be a member of the tribe of Judah - "The staff shall not depart from Judah, nor the sceptre from between his feet..." (Genesis 49:10)

    To be a member of the tribe of Judah, the person must have a biological father who is a member of the tribe of Judah."

    Uh, if one were to believe in the holy ghost fertility plan, then, of course Jesus didn't have a biological father, period.

    "He must be a direct male descendant of King David and King Solomon, his son - "And when your days (David) are fulfilled, and you shall sleep with your fathers, I will set up your seed after you, who shall issue from your bowels, and I will establish his kingdom. He shall build a house for my name, and I will make firm the throne of his kingdom forever..." (2 Samuel 7:12 - 13)

    The genealogy of the New Testament is inconsistent. While it gives two accounts of the genealogy of Joseph, it states clearly that he is not the biological father of Jesus. One of the genealogies is through Nathan and not Solomon altogether!"

    "He must gather the Jewish people from exile and return them to Israel -"And he shall set up a banner for the nations, and shall assemble the outcasts of Israel, and gather together the dispersed of Judah from the four corners of the earth." (Isaiah 11:12)

    Are all Jews living in Israel? Have all Jews EVER lived in Israel since the time of Jesus?"

    Right, there PNP, there must be some conspiracy going on. Jesus of course fulfilled all of these prophesies in order to close out the Old Testament, so that the New Testament/Covenant could be validated. Oh, that's right, Jesus didn't fulfill the Old Testament prophesies, gee, how was the New Testament created, then. Jesus wasn't ever mentioned in the Old Testament. When was the New Testament put together? If in fact, Jesus was the supernatural messiah, why wasn't he written about during this era, while the Jews were looking for Their Messiah, oh, that's right, the person suggested as fitting their Messiah description, was "NOT" a person named Jesus.

    "He must rebuild the Temple in Jerusalem - "...and I will set my sanctuary in their midst forever and my tabernacle shall be with them.." (Ezekiel 37:26 - 27)

    At last check, there is NO Temple in Jerusalem. And worse, it was shortly after Jesus died that the Temple was DESTROYED! Just the opposite of this prophecy!"

    "He will rule at a time of world-wide peace - "...they shall beat their swords into plowshares, and their spears into pruning hooks; nation shall not lift up sword against nation, neither shall they learn war anymore." (Micah 4:3)

    Have you seen a newspaper lately? Are we living in a state of complete world peace? Has there ever been peace since the time of Jesus?"

    "He will rule at a time when the Jewish people will observe G-d's commandments - "My servant David shall be king over them; and they shall all have one shepherd. They shall follow My ordinances and be careful to observe My statutes." (Ezekiel 37:24)

    The Torah is the Jewish guide to life, and its commandments are the ones referred to here. Do all Jews observe all the commandments? Christianity, in fact, often discourages observance of the commandments in Torah, in complete opposition to this prophecy."

    "He will rule at a time when all people will come to acknowledge and serve one G-d - "And it shall come to pass that from one new moon to another and from one Sabbath to another, shall all flesh come to worship before Me, says the L-rd" (Isaiah 66:23)

    there are still millions if not billions of people in the world today who adhere to paganistic and polytheistic religions. It is clear that we have not yet seen this period of human history unfold."

    "If an individual fails to fulfill even one of these conditions, then he cannot be "The Messiah." A careful analysis of these criteria shows us that to date, no one has fulfilled every condition."

    PNP, your Jesus fails so miserably as the Jewish Messiah, that you coming here, makes you look intellectually inept, and in dire need of self reinforcement for your belief. I am using "YOUR" bible, you know, the one that doesn't support Jesus as the Messiah, in the Old Testament, the one that has all those prophesies, but doesn't mention "once" the name Jesus. The Old Testament that doesn't speak one iota of his name, but states that there will be those who come as false prophets, who do "NOT" fit the requirements of the Old Testament - like Jesus if he lived.

    "Although Jesus claimed to be the Messiah, he died without fulfilling the Biblical criteria that define the Messiah. The essential concept of the Messiah is of a wise and righteous king who will reign over a restored Jewish homeland and bring about a utopian world of universal peace and universal knowledge of G-d. (Isaiah 11:1-9; Jeremiah 33:14-16; Ezekiel 34:23-30, 37:24-28; Micah 4:1-4; Zechariah 8:23; Psalm 86:9 and more.) In light of Jesus’ failure to fulfill these and numerous other prophesies, early Christianity proposed that Jesus would return in the future and bring about a redeemed world. Aside from the fact that this claim could be made for any failed Messiah, this concept simply does not appear anywhere in the Jewish Bible."

    "If a man tells us to commit idolatry, he is a false prophet, no matter how many wonders he pulls out of a hat. G-d warned us about this in the Bible (Deut. 13:2):

    “If there arise among you a prophet, or a dreamer, and he gives you a sign or a miracle. And the sign or miracle comes to pass, and he calls on you, saying, ‘Let us go after other gods, whom you have not known, and let us worship them.’ You shall not listen to that prophet or dreamer. For G-d is testing you, to see whether you love the L-rd your G-d with all your heart and with all your soul.”
    http://www.jewsforjudaism.org/web/pdf/RealMessiahBookPages_v4ab.pdf

    PNP, you have "no body", you have "no messiah per Jewish requirement", you are basically, bankrupt in your knowledge of your religion to a great extent, or you are just ignorantly parroting something given to you. No one need a scholar to choose from. Your "bible", itself, dismisses the notion of a supernatural Jesus as being a potential candidate as the christian lord and savior.

    The Jesus presented in the New Testament didn't fulfill any of the requirements from the Jewish God, the legendary Jesus deliberately shunned the Sabbath which was blasphemy to Jewish Law, there are so many things Jesus failed to do as a Messiah for the Jews, that only a moron would believe that Jesus came to fulfill the Old Testament Prophesy, in order to establish a New Covenant. The New Covenant, wasn't even written by a Jesus, it consists of books taken after the First Council of Nicaea 325CE, and canonized to support the votes of the early Roman Church, which was supported by the Roman Emperor Constantine-I.

    PNP, I can' tell if you are ignorant, or if you actually believe Jesus was the son of a God, that closed out the Old Testament prophesies. In either case, you don't have a body to lean on. You have "words" in a book, and those words as they are read today, suggest your Jesus is a false prophet and not a messiah, because the Old Testament Prophesies never passed. And, the Old Testament prophesies would have to have taken place, "before" a Newer Better Testament could be put in its place as the New Covenant. Jesus failed if you suggest he was the Jewish Messiah, and did so... miserably.










































































  • boomSLANG · 3 years ago
    PNP: "...but I'm focusing here on the claims of Christ and how a faith based on those divine claims (miracles, ressurection) could continue after the death of it's founders."

    How does it continue? *** Gee, here's a clue---it continues because people continue to blindly accept ancient SECOND-HAND information based on this thing called "faith"--and people continue to believe it based on "faith", because they aren't strong enough to challenge the threats of roasting in hell which are clearing delineated in the very book that they take by "faith", in the case that they DON'T believe, and thus, help the "claims" to "continue". THAT'S why it continues. It's circular lunacy, and it needs to be challenged, broken, and abolished from the face of the earth.

    PNP: "Once again, to bring in Mormons, Muslims, Ebionites, Yankee fans really isn't relevant because none of those faiths are based on the same claims."

    They might not be based on the exact same claims, but---with the exception of a baseball team---they ALL support their claims the same way....e.g..SECOND-HAND information based on "faith". See here***, and stick in your memory-bank.

    God'less.







  • Rooting for Right · 3 years ago
    For those who think Tom is perfect and want to support him financially, or don't think he's perfect and want to support him financially, remember:
    The NY Post quoted
    Herb Teitelbaum as being Tom's lawyer, and the public online court site says his current legal team is Bryan Cave in NYC.

    I suggest that one choice would be to have bake sales/car washes, or just those with lots of spare to change to foot some of his legal bills. Let's see, $400/hour x 200 hours is $80,000. The suit was filed Oct 27, 2006.

    If I know tax law, each person can give $10,000 to someone without that person incurring a gift tax.

    Lots of people have lots of money, and rather than just calling us FAPCers wrong, use your ire for good!







  • Straight Shooter · 3 years ago
    In a letter to Tom fall 2005 after the suit was filed, I wrote, "If I were Suzanne and the meeting had taken place in my home [near Central Park/low estimate $2.5-$3 million dollar-church-owned apt including living room, formal dining room, TV room, large entrance hall, study, eat-in kitchen (1994)], I would have said to you, 'If you come within 10 feet of that woman, I will be on the next train to [xx] and you can tell your lovey-dovey congregration why I an not there.'"

    And maybe she did. Who's to say.

  • Dirty Harry · 3 years ago
    Deut. 13:2 - “If there arise among you a prophet, or a dreamer, and he gives you a sign or a miracle. And the sign or miracle comes to pass, and he calls on you, saying, ‘Let us go after other gods, whom you have not known, and let us worship them.’ You shall not listen to that prophet or dreamer. For G-d is testing you, to see whether you love the L-rd your G-d with all your heart and with all your soul.”
    http://www.jewsforjudaism.org/web/pdf/RealMessiahBookPages_v4ab.pdf

    Again, the original god of the Jews was "El" dating back ~1750BCE. The years later, YHWH was created as their new and improved God.

    YWHW = ~1,200 BCE, Southern tribe of Judah.

    The word YHWH was created by the Southern tribes of Judah, to represent an ideal no earlier than ~1,200 BCE, YHWH didn't exist before then? The term YHWH was created as a response to the earlier god El, of the Northern tribes of Judah. El never died and the same Jews that believed in El, believed in YHWH eventually over hundreds of years, because of Southern Judean influence.
    YWHW = ~1,200 BCE, Southern tribe of Judah.

    Lets see, a thousand years later, we get... Jesus, a new and improved god Idol, yet, El was not said to have "not" existed, nor was YHWH "not" deposed of. El was said to be the father of YHWH, per historical records of the Jews. And Jesus, was said to be the "son" of god/YHWH in his era.

    Let us continue, another thousand years pass, In Europe, marriage is now established among the nobility, yeaaah, religion has done something, commercialize marriage.

    As well in that time frame... "The Investiture Controversy was the most significant conflict between secular and religious powers in medieval Europe. It began as a dispute in the 11th century between the Holy Roman Emperor and the Gregorian Papacy concerning who would control appointments of church officials (investiture). The controversy, undercutting the Imperial power established by the Salian Emperors would eventually lead to nearly fifty years of civil war in Germany, the triumph of the great dukes and abbots, and the disintegration of the German empire, a condition from which it would not recover until the reunification of Germany in the 19th century."

    The crusades were going hot and heavy, nice stuff here, I mean, all of this progress of Jesus and all, and so many deaths.

    Roll forward another thousand years, 2000CE, and what do we have... PNP, on a blog stating that Jesus was indeed the son of a god, and why? Because no one can find a body, and... that no one in their right mind would support a religious belief such as christendom's without some rationale. Yes, there was some rationale, it was called, power and the need to control.

    The Northern tribe of Judah lost "El" as the "focus" of worship, and "YHWH" was established. YHWH was booted by the idolized name "Jesus", and said to be one in the same as YHWH by "some", and yet, many others say "nay", that Jesus was "not" the same substance as YHWH. From this point on, there is no conclusion on the matter, outside of a "forced" meeting by Constantine-I to settle the matter. And, from then on, nothing but blood and guts in battle to establish who is more right on their belief than another in regards to this New Idol Jesus.

    The crusades happen, many are murdered for not adhering to Roman Law, which states Christianity is a state supported belief. Follow the timeline from 0CE, and entire religions pop up based on unique interpretation of the bible. In the more modern terms, the Mormons start their religion, based on the bible, in some parts, and based on the writings of a modern day prophet, nothing short of being a modern day Jesus.

    PNP, knowing a little about the New Testament, and attempting to focus all of your belief on that one canonized book, places your belief out of context with the historical picture. Christianity never started as a "solid" religion, even after all the voting, much blood was shed. Christianity never "became" a solid religion, hence the crusades, and the Protestant revolution. And, today, Christianity, is "not", The True Religion, because it says it is.























  • No accounting for taste · 3 years ago
    Tom was the kind of person who ususally responded as though he got what you said. The plaintiff's wife, all fizz, my individual response. Like when you talked, the response sort of dropped like a lead balloon. As if she pranced around enough, well, you get the point, this married mother of 2. The female clergy should have sat her down, but would she have listened? Her goal was employment, what people who would hire you think, matters. As the Post said, she'd been employed as a recruiter, she if anyone would know, theoretically about appearances. These two female clergy I'm thinking of have resigned in 2006, and well, how it is.

    You think I'm critical. As I said. Visit the church. Just my observations.

    In the first letter the church members got by Aug 30, that was the basis for the Aug 31 NY Post story (the first 5 in 6 days), we were told in the letter not to write Tom, but of course many of us, did, since it turned out that the only reason was that the plaintiff and his wife were (at least then) church members, so they thought they had to remain impartial. Why not just leave out the admonition not to write altogether?

    Was that Christian charity, you tell me?

    We're glad you like Tom. Many people did "not know what to think." Open your eyes wide and see his and our reality. And his reality now is that he has a new work opportunity, is waiting to see what happens at the next mtg with the judge, and the longer this continues one could expect the more his legal bills will be.







  • PNP · 3 years ago
    Dh: "Actually, I have faith in knowing, that most literature of that era, shows clearly the vast evidence of conflict when trying to talk about anything regarding the early christian origins, there was no evidence."

    You certainly must, because here's what we know - EXTRA-Biblically:
    1. There was a man called Jesus
    2. He was at the basis of a superstitious belief that He was the "Christ"
    4. His first followers were Jews who were brought to the faith through the arguing from OT
    5. He was killed under Pontius Pilate
    6. The Church grew following his death and at the basis of their faith was the claim that Christ had re-appeared from the dead.
    7. Christians proceeded to get their asses kicked for the next 300+ years yet still the Church grew - based on the central belief that Jesus was the Christ - that he was the fulfillment of OT teachings.

    DH: "Let me show you PNP. Santa Clause lives, prove me wrong? What, you can't find a body, oh, well there must be a global conspiracy, we all know if Santa Clause's body can't be found there has to be a reason. You have been focusing on something, like the missing body of christianity, to "support" all of its claims."

    OK, so we know the history behind Santa Claus right? A Christian monk called Nicholas ("St. Nick") around 280 AD...northern Turkey...did a lot of nice things for people...died with no claims to divinity other than believing in the One who was...not a great argument there...

    DH: " So, PNP, where is the body? Oh, please, tell me you "know" where the body is, I mean, you are the apologetic, right. All I need do is ask, where the body is. So, if you can't show me the body, then you have no evidence, just like, I have no evidence of Santa Clause, because I have no body. Lets make it easier, where is a statue of Jesus, like the ones they had of greek gods, etc., No? No, Jesus statues, for the most popular guy in christendom, well, I wonder why not."

    It's not just about showing the body (although I've said earlier this is my "criteria of falsifiability"), it's about coming up with a logical, rational, explanation of the events. And so far...you haven't done it.

    DH: "Your entire argument, is based on the "presupposition", that Jesus in fact did live."

    As I said in my earlier posts we have excellent EXTRA-Biblical evidence that he did in fact live. The Ebionites who you like to quote believed that...so your logic is: the Ebionites were wrong to believe that he lived, but they were right to believe that he wasn't divine? hmmmmmmm...Plus the fact that different people believed different things about Christ during his time is NOT proof that he wasn't, in fact, divine. The Gnostics thought Christ was only spiritual, the Ebionites believed he was only human...as for me, I like my Christianity "just right"...as did several hundred in the first Christian Church.

    DH: "Yeah, unlike the christian verson of godly divine messiah with supernatural powers, The Messiah of the Old Testament which is claimed by christians to be Jesus, is a contradiction of the Jews' term Messiah..."

    This is where you start getting weak...
    The "seed of a woman": Genesis 3:15.... Galatians 4:4
    Born in Bethlehem: Micah 5:2.... Matthew 2:1.... Luke 2:4-7
    To be born of a Virgin: Isaiah 7:14, Matthew 1:18.... Luke 1:26-35.
    Slaughter of the Innocent children: Jeremiah 31:15.... Matthew 2:16-18.
    Flight to Egypt: Hosea 11:1.... Matthew 2:14-15.
    Triumphal entry in Jerusalem on a donkey: Zechariah 9:9.... John 12:13-14.
    Silent to accusations: Isaiah 53:7.... Matthew 26:62-63, Mark.15:4-5.
    Spat and struck: Isaiah 50:6, Matthew 26:67.
    Soldiers divided his garments and gambled for his clothing: Psalm 22:18... Matt.27:35 (2 Prophecies)
    Crucified, "pierced through hands and feet": Zechariah 12:10, Psalm 22:16.... Matthew 27:35, John 20:27.
    No bones broken: Psalm 34:20.... John 19:32-36.
    Vicarious Sacrifice: Isaiah 53:4-5, 6, 12.... Matthew 8:16-17, Romans 4:25, 5:6-8, 1 Corinthians 15:3.
    Deserted by his followers: Zechariah 13:7.... Mark 14:27.
    The way prepared by John the Baptist: Isaiah 40:3,5.... John 1:23, Luke 3:3-6.
    Rejected by his own people, the Jews: Is.53:3, John 1:11.
    Not believed: Is.53:1, John 12:37.

    DH: "PNP, your Jesus fails so miserably as the Jewish Messiah, that you coming here, makes you look intellectually inept, and in dire need of self reinforcement for your belief. I am using "YOUR" bible, you know, the one that doesn't support Jesus as the Messiah, in the Old Testament, the one that has all those prophesies, but doesn't mention "once" the name Jesus."

    uhhh...well, you're right about one thing...Jesus wasn't much of a Messiah given the standards of many Jews at the time...the problem is many of those standards were not founded in OT prophecy and some, admittedly, have yet to be fulfilled. How you can read the prophetic books of the OT and not see the correlation to man who was at least "like" Jesus, again takes a little more faith than I've got

    DH: "The Jesus presented in the New Testament didn't fulfill any of the requirements from the Jewish God"

    hmmmm...well, I think we proved that he did...but, again, admittedly...some of these prophecies (Lord on an earthly throne, ruling during world peace, rebuilding the temple, etc) have yet to take place. Still, the Christ proclaimed in the OT had to be "pierced for our transgressions" first before he could return in power.

    DH: "Jesus failed if you suggest he was the Jewish Messiah, and did so... miserably"
    ...Zechariah, Isaiah, Micah, David, etc...might disagree with you.


















































  • J. C. Samuelson · 3 years ago
    I’ve got some time, so here’s a cursory response. If you want more, it’ll have to wait.

    "It's not just people dying for the faith...but I'm focusing here on the claims of Christ and how a faith based on the those divine claims (miracles, resurrection) could continue after the death of its founders."

    Yes, I think I understand your premise. It's your position that Christianity could only succeed in the face of massive, widespread persecution if Jesus' claims and the events surrounding his life were true and/or accurate. Furthermore, if Jesus' claims and the events were not true, then first century non-believers could have "delivered the goods" and proven Christianity false.

    On your first point, there is precious little evidence that any persecution suffered by Christians during the first and early second centuries hindered the spread of the faith, regardless of the veracity of Jesus' or the apostles' words or deeds. History demonstrates that what persecution did take place was not akin to wholesale slaughter, meaning that many, if not most, Christians likely felt perfectly safe practicing their religion and spreading the "good news."

    To recap:

    Ananus as High Priest managed to arrange the killing of James and some of his companions. As a result, he lost his position as High Priest. I doubt the message was lost on his successors. Ergo, no mass persecution here.

    The Testimonium Flavianum doesn't add anything except Jesus was killed but his disciples persisted. We already knew that. No persecution described here, unless you count Jesus. Since Jesus was neither a disciple or a follower of himself, I don't think this was really relevant to the discussion.

    The situation described by Tacitus is closest to the death of Jesus, and was arguably the worst case of persecution among those you presented. Yet even this wound up backfiring. Nero failed in his persecution because his actions wound up generating sympathy for the poor Christians among the previously hostile populace as witnessed by Tacitus himself. Ergo, Christianity survived.

    Pliny killed several, I'm sure (he doesn't say). He knew very little about Christians, and more than likely had gotten complaints about them before doing anything, according to Robert Wilken (see here for an excerpt from the book I mentioned last post. This one deals with Pliny). After adjourning his proceedings he wrote to Trajan for advice, and Trajan essentially told him don't bother with them (Christians). Considering how widespread Christianity was in Bithynia as witnessed by Pliny this is hardly a case of widespread persecution that could jeopardize the success of the faith, requiring multitudes of people to confess their allegiance to Christ in the face of horrible tortures and execution.

    As to your second point, that's dealt with below.

    "Once again, to bring in Mormons, Muslims, Ebionites...really isn't relevant, because none of those faiths are based on the same claims."

    Each religion makes supernatural claims that are unique in some way. To say that the only relevant faiths are those that are identical to Christianity is ridiculous. Mormonism, Islam, Judaism - all are perfectly valid comparisons because of the similarities they share with Christianity. All are monotheistic, all of them have primary prophets who have had supernatural events ascribed to them, and all of them have had adherents who have died for their faith. In fact, they all even agree on Jesus as a prophet.

    "WM and you are absolutely right to point out that other messianic religions were around during Christ's day, but you're making my point...where are they now? Put better, where were they within 10 years of their founder's death?"

    So,as the WM observed, according to your logic:

    If a messianic faith succeeds it is true.
    Many other messianic faiths failed, but Christianity succeeded.
    Therefore, Christianity is true.

    Is this what you're saying?

    "If your point is that nobody really cared about persecuting the Church or finding Christ's body...well, that's another story."

    You're welcome to refute the supporting material I presented and the analysis of it anytime you like.

    "Whether the "Roman on the street" knew about Christianity is irrelevant."

    I wasn't talking about the average "Roman on the street." Roman authority was interested in Christiantiy spordadically, and only persecuted the faith when it was either politically expedient to do so (Nero) or in the absence of other guidance (Pliny/Trajan). I think you'd agree that even Pilate wasn't so much interested in the person of Jesus as he was interested in keeping the Jewish population happy.

    "Rome was and is hundreds of miles away from Jerusalem and Paul was one of the only Christian missionaries there during the first century. The fact is that the local Jewish leaders knew about Christianity and the LOCAL Roman authorities did. Still, enough Romans knew about them for Nero to blame the fire of 64AD on them...only 30 years after Christ's death/resurrection."

    Please explain what you're trying to say here. First, you say there were hardly any Christians in Rome during the first century (besides Paul), then point to Nero who arguably killed hundreds, maybe thousands. Which is it?

    "Now we've already established from Josephus and Tacitus that Jesus was killed under Pontius Pilate and that he was regarded by his believers as "Christ". So we've established extra-Biblically that Christ was killed...so this is how you treat someone who's "particularly annoying"? Christ was front and center on the radar of the Sanhedrin...because they did not have the power to crucify him they had to force the Roman authorities to do it through rioting...so Christ was "particularly annoying"?"

    No need to get emotional. We were addressing whether the Jews would be predisposed to disprove Christianity to the general populace by presenting evidence against it. In other words, post-crucifixion, not pre-.

    You have yet to present any material that supports your claim that the Jews and/or the Romans were interested in presenting evidence against Christianity.

    "...in the end, you have faith in your scholars and I have mine...we could have them arm wrestle to see who's point would win, but all they do is reinforce your opinion or mine. At one point you mention Yamiuchi...he's one scholar who believes Josephus' line "if you can call him..." as being valid...so I guess you like him when he makes your point and disagree with him when he doesn't..."

    He does? Funny, on page 79 - 80 of The Case for Christ, Yamauchi says:

    "For instance, the first line says, ‘About this time there lived Jesus, a wise man.’ That phrase is not normally used of Jesus by Christians, so it seems authentic for Josephus. But the next phrase says, ‘if indeed one ought to call him a man.’ This implies Jesus was more than human, which appears to be an interpolation."

    I don't have "faith" in any scholar, except in the sense that I don't have access to much of the material that they do, and generally must rely on their scholarship.

    In any case, I'm well aware of Yamauchi's views on the Christian faith. My point in quoting him here was to illustrate that it can take generations for people to begin taking a particular religion seriously enough to bother with it. I felt that coming from a fellow apologist his word might carry more weight with you than some skeptic.

    Incidentally, just because a scholar says some things I don't agree with doesn't mean I think everything he/she says is garbage. That "all or nothing" attitude doesn't mesh well with reality.

    "1. the claims of Christ's disappearance began 3 days after his death - not several weeks. He may have appeared several weeks later, but the body was missing in days..."

    You missed the overriding point; Christians did not start proclaiming Jesus' resurrection until after the Pentecost - the 7th Sunday after Easter. A missing body is not automatically an indicator of supernatural interference, and the Sanhedrin could quite easily be satisfied with their own explanation - that Jesus' disciples stole the body.

    In fact, this accusation alone could serve a dual purpose; to dismiss the missing body, and to cast an unfavorable light on Jesus' disciples among the general populace. This is because under Jewish burial customs it was considered a great wrong to disinter a corpse, unless it was to move the body to a place closer to the family.

    "2. ...These were the same people who's governing council met to convict him and then pushed the ruling authority (who could have cared less) to carry out the harshest punishment possible...the claims were of his divine nature...so I guess this is the way it went down...Christ dies...3 days later people claim his body is gone...the Jews say, "wow...that's weird...we thought he was buried over there next to the other criminals...not that I want to look or anything...no we wouldn't want to disprove it or anything..."

    Your sarcasm is amusing but no, they needn't have wondered at all. All they have to say is "Those dirty rats his disciples stole the body," and the controversy is settled as far as they're concerned. Again, this argument is anachronistic in that it casts the Sanhedrin as careful skeptics, eager to see/produce evidence. These are people who make pronouncements they expect to be believed and followed, not people who feel the need to convince anyone of anything.

    For them to have taken seriously the claims of a risen Christ would've been to actually give credence to the Christian movement. Then as now, the empty tomb argument is only important to Christians, no one else.

    To summarize, you've thus far provided no supporting materials, and have failed to demonstrate either of your points sufficiently. You've basically applied common apologetics techniques and materials, along with some emotional appeals in an attempt to score points.

    Sorry if that comes off harsh or unfriendly, but I've got heartburn right now and not in a good mood. :/













































































  • J. C. Samuelson · 3 years ago
    By the way, here's an interesting article on Jewish burial practices from The Jewish Encyclopedia. Some of the information presented in my last post was gleaned from this source.

    You might also be interested in another article by Richard Carrier addressing the death and burial of Jesus. Apparently it's since been updated, but is only available in book form. Since I don't have the book this will have to suffice for now.

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    no accounting for taste fits you well....

    why is it that female clergy should look a certain way.

    if male clergy are 'handsome or well dresseed' they get promoted...

    female clergy...well let's just say they look a 'certain' way. did you ever say to male clergy..."hey, ease down on the hair gel buddy, cause your turning on the female members of the church"

    no I don't think so!

    you are all such women bashers it's not even funny!









  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    I gotta hand it to you PNP, you've turned the proof wheel inside out.

    "You can't produce a body, therefore that PROVES Jebus is alive!"

    Show me your living messiah. To heck with showing you a body, show me your living 2000-year-old man.

    Waiting...





  • Showgirl2 · 3 years ago
    If you're going to dress like a showgirl off stage, it's a free country, and it doesn't mean that anyone will hire you as a minister, it's a free country.

    That was the career she was going for, minister. Not go-go-dancer.

    And can't a woman use the word "showgirl?" Why do you think the writer is a man? Someone will see her clothes of those of an "available" woman, which she will be after she's divorced.

    I guarantee you have not 1) met her or are 2) married and attend a church.

    But then we live in "Sex and the City" NYC and dang if that wasn't the title of a sermon, "Sects in the City," although they didn't "get" the difference. Not "in" but "and."







  • Showgirl2 · 3 years ago
    She was gunning for a job in ministry, as a go-go-dancer but didn't look the part. At least not to be expected to be hired in a church where women, too, make the decision.
  • Showgirl2 · 3 years ago
    This just in...
    CALGARY, Alberta - A worker who accidentally tripped a shut-off switch at a major Ontario plastics plant will cost the manufacturer $11 million in lost profit, the company said Wednesday.

    Candian dollars, but even so. xxxx happens.


  • Dirty Harry · 3 years ago
    PNP: "You certainly must, because here's what we know - EXTRA-Biblically: 1. There was a man called Jesus"

    There were a bunch of people called Jesus, yet, none stood out enough to be The Jesus, of Divine Origin, born of a ghost.

    PNP: "2. He was at the basis of a superstitious belief that He was the "Christ"

    Again, not sure I can separate metaphyiscal belief from superstition, I lump all non-Natural assertions into the hypothetical category. As well, I haven't read anything like an autobiography that suggests a Jesus, any Jesus, states they were the cornerstone of a "superstitious" belief system, or "any" belief system for that matter. All comments to such activity, are from second to umpteen hand sources.

    PNP: "4. His first followers were Jews who were brought to the faith through the arguing from OT"

    Do you find it odd in the least, that the Old Testament, does not mention Jesus. I mean, obviously, if Jesus were teaching to the Jews, one would assert that a culturally and historically fanatic community as the Jews, would have noted that little, okay, "Huge" event. They never did, nor did they even engage in the name Jesus, until it had to compete with Christian dogma that was released in the Roman Empire to convert Jews.

    The arguing to the "faith", was started as early as Paul, but Paul never met Jesus, and stated as such. He was arguing totally based on a "vision" he claims to have had, with a person called Jesus. Paul, "taking" the Jewish Tanakh (Hebrew Old Testament), which doesn't mention once the name Jesus, and started preaching his own oral tradition along with the words in the bible. The Jewish religion was based on oral and written tradition.

    The written was incomplete, without the metaphorical explanations through oral tradition. Paul exploited, the oral tradition, by taking the written words of the Old Testament, and filling in the gaps. Yes, kind of like what goes on today, with apologetics. People take the words, like many preachers, and pick and choose which words they want to preach from, and create entirely different stories based on their piecing together of biblical passages.

    Paul, was a liar, and a thief. He started his antics the day he started preaching, with "zero" evidence of a Jesus or "god", as he exploited a another religions' written words based on his own druthers, because "He" didn't believe in their cause, or religious customs and laws.

    The lying, stealing, etc., was the foundation of the christian religion, and Paul was the cornerstone. There is "zero" documentation of a Jesus, "IN THE ERA" that Jesus lived. Jesus as a character, doesn't show up on "any" documentation until much later after his "theoretical" death.

    PNP: "5. He was killed under Pontius Pilate"

    Per what documentation, ya' know, I really don't know which documentatino you pull out, but I'll bet you a cold soda, that whatever you pull out, is "after" the death of Jesus' theoretical life. So, are you pulling from the New Testamet? Why? Because you have nothing to support Jesus, during his theoretical life.

    The only reason someone wouldn't write of a Jesus in his day, is because the "writings" could easily be "checked" for validity. And, there was 'zero' validity, hence, no documentation during his life. Everything of Jesus, was described "after" the theoretical death of Jesus, which left "zero" ability to verify "claims".

    Its called, creating a reality in the past, and asking others to believe, "knowing" that no one can go back in the past to disprove anything, if "no evidence" exists. Christianity, states that Jesus' body descended into some transcendental reality, and couldn't be checked. Transcendental reality, is the "imagination", and, well, how does someone disprove someone elses' imagination? They can't. However, you can't "prove" your imagination either, and the Jews weren't buying, because they were looking for the goods if a Jesus was supposed to have been their Messiah, and carried through the prophesies. Someone's imagination, doesn't overcome the evidence of non-obtained prophesy.

    PNP: "6. The Church grew following his death and at the basis of their faith was the claim that Christ had re-appeared from the dead."

    However, Paul and other authors of the bible, clearly state that Jesus would reappear at different times in the lives of his followers, and... he lied, yet again. Not only did "he", Paul, Lie, but so did the other authors. Paul, didn't care what he had to do, to gain a following, lie, cheat, steal, it really didnt' matter, he believed in his "personal" cause. During Paul's time, christianity did "not" in fact flourish, many Jewish sects that Paul went to, went back to their beliefs, after Paul left their area. Christianity didn't flourish, until the might of the Roman Empire, and the buy-in of Constantine-I was established.

    PNP: "7. Christians proceeded to get their asses kicked for the next 300+ years yet still the Church grew - based on the central belief that Jesus was the Christ - that he was the fulfillment of OT teachings."

    Define Christian. Paul's followers? Jesus, didn't have a following, if you suggest a Jesus did, then, give me the reference for such a statement, and the era in which the document was written.

    PNP: "OK, so we know the history behind Santa Claus right? A Christian monk called Nicholas ("St. Nick") around 280 AD...northern Turkey...did a lot of nice things for people...died with no claims to divinity other than believing in the One who was...not a great argument there..."

    "Saint Nicholas is the common name for Saint Nicholas of Myra, who had a reputation for secret gift-giving. He lived in 4th century Myra in the Byzantine Empire's Lycia, the modern day Demre in Antalya province of Turkey. This is as much as is generally known about him in the West.

    This historical character was the inspiration for a mythical figure known as Nikolaus in Germany and Sinterklaas in the Netherlands and Flanders, which in turn was the inspiration for Santa Claus."

    So far, so good. A mortal no less, doing good deeds.

    "A later writer claimed that after Arius had presented his case against Jesus' divinity to the Council, Nicholas hit Arius in the face out of indignation. Nicholas was kicked out of the Council for this offence, and jailed as well."

    Uh, oh, now... it appears Santie seems to have a little temper, while all of this gambling and rolling the dice was going on when discussing the divinity of the "One"... However, Santa got his wish, even though he was naughty...

    "The council lasted from May 20 to June 19, 325 and resulted in the declaration of the Nicene Creed and the formal condemnation of Arianism."

    "Taking advantage of the confusion sailors from Bari, Italy seized the remains of the saint over the objections of the Orthodox monks then caring for them. Returning to Bari they brought the remains with them. The remains arrived on May 9, 1087. Some observers have reported seeing myrrh exude from these relics."

    Oh, how heavenly. Santa's bones were moved, nice touch, at least they could "find" the bones, if they were indeed his. But, what was one of the gifts given by the wise men? Myrrh? Oh, right, and the sailors declared it was growing right out of his remains. I suppose that makes him deitical as well.

    "A legend (Latin, legenda, "things to be read") is a narrative of human actions that are perceived both by teller and listeners to take place within human history and to possess certain qualities that give the tale verisimilitude."

    "Verisimilitude (from Latin verisimilitudo, from verus true + similitudo similitude) is the state or quality of something which exhibits the appearance of truth or reality."

    Hamlet, is a legend, based on a real person, the mythical Santa Clause is a legend, based on a person who is said to have been a priest, and then... Jesus... is nothing short of a Legend himself, except there is "zero" evidence from his "era", in either bones, or writings from "his" era.

    Santa Clause, was made into a "legend", by attributing magical features to him. Jesus, without a physical body, or any evidence, was given "magical" aspects as well. Santa Clause, however, is much more believable than Jesus, as "there is evidence" for his existence, minus the supernatural powers. Santa smacked Arius, a much mortal thing to do, when trying to establish control of an empire. The legend of Jesus, is only where it is today, because of its "Own" Internal Controversy, among its "Own" followers, and because it has attempted to Externally "convert" everyone on this planet. Christianity is only well-known, because people have attempted to "rid" themselves of the lies, deceit, etc., that was used to catapult such a religion.

    PNP: "It's not just about showing the body (although I've said earlier this is my "criteria of falsifiability"), it's about coming up with a logical, rational, explanation of the events. And so far...you haven't done it."

    Done what? Jesus didn't exist, based on the evidence. What are you trying to figure out? I have provided a step by step explanation for the things that have come to pass, using your own bible. Take into account, the Roman Empire, and its influence of The First Council of Nicaea, and the many following synods, etc., to discuss and vote on Jesus, and rules of the church, and you don't need to hold a degree. By all means, ask me a question, and I'll provide a plausible answer. You have "yet" to provide a question that hasn't been given a "most" rational answer. Where did Jesus go after death? That presupposes that Jesus lived. How about, "What information do we have during Jesus' life to show, that he lived, so that people can "form" presuppositional questions on Jesus?" Now, good question, and here is the answer. "There is zero information, about a Jesus during his theoretical life, period, to establish a foundation to even assert that he lived, period."

    You, assume without any information, except what was posed later on and in a highly controversial, even to this day, debate on the "divinity" of a hypothetical person. Those who lived when the News of a Jesus broke, as Paul and his followers were trying to "spread the good news", created their own writings, to counteract the blasphemy, that Paul was engaging in. Paul, like a good story teller, states that Jesus didn't partake of the Sabbath, and proceeded to use the name "Jesus", to break all of the Jewish laws. Why? Oh, glad you asked. Because Paul, didn't agree with the Jewish religion, and "that", was well known, by his own actions.

    PNP: "As I said in my earlier posts we have excellent EXTRA-Biblical evidence that he did in fact live. The Ebionites who you like to quote believed that...so your logic is: the Ebionites were wrong to believe that he lived, but they were right to believe that he wasn't divine?"

    First of all, I would call the Ebionite writings, "counter claims" to Pauline christianity. The Ebionites don't declare they "knew" Jesus either. Again, "No One", in their writings, state, "They" knew Jesus, first-hand. Give me a reference, oh please, in that era. Oh, that's not going to happen.

    PNP: "hmmmmmmm...Plus the fact that different people believed different things about Christ during his time is NOT proof that he wasn't, in fact, divine. The Gnostics thought Christ was only spiritual, the Ebionites believed he was only human...as for me, I like my Christianity "just right"...as did several hundred in the first Christian Church."

    The first few hundred, had no knowledge of Jesus, just the voice of Paul, and some of his followers. Again, all "documents" cited, after the fact of a Jesus' theoretical life, is nothing short of "counter claims", to prevent christian dogma from spreading into the smaller or more exclusive religious sects.

    PNP: "This is where you start getting weak..."

    You're kidding, right. Your entire argument has been destroyed based on evidence, you have provided nothing, not one shred of evidence during the lifetime of a theoretical Jesus. Therre is "zero" evidence based on archeology, temples, statues, etc. Jesus' own divinity had to be "voted" on... That Was How Weak the evidence for Christianity was...

    PNP: "The "seed of a woman": Genesis 3:15.... Galatians 4:4
    Born in Bethlehem: Micah 5:2.... Matthew 2:1.... Luke 2:4-7
    To be born of a Virgin: Isaiah 7:14, Matthew 1:18.... Luke 1:26-35. Slaughter of the Innocent children: Jeremiah 31:15.... Matthew 2:16-18.
    Flight to Egypt: Hosea 11:1.... Matthew 2:14-15.
    Triumphal entry in Jerusalem on a donkey: Zechariah 9:9.... John 12:13-14.
    Silent to accusations: Isaiah 53:7.... Matthew 26:62-63, Mark.15:4-5.
    Spat and struck: Isaiah 50:6, Matthew 26:67.
    Soldiers divided his garments and gambled for his clothing: Psalm 22:18... Matt.27:35 (2 Prophecies)
    Crucified, "pierced through hands and feet": Zechariah 12:10, Psalm 22:16.... Matthew 27:35, John 20:27.
    No bones broken: Psalm 34:20.... John 19:32-36.
    Vicarious Sacrifice: Isaiah 53:4-5, 6, 12.... Matthew 8:16-17, Romans 4:25, 5:6-8, 1 Corinthians 15:3.
    Deserted by his followers: Zechariah 13:7.... Mark 14:27.
    The way prepared by John the Baptist: Isaiah 40:3,5.... John 1:23, Luke 3:3-6.
    Rejected by his own people, the Jews: Is.53:3, John 1:11.
    Not believed: Is.53:1, John 12:37."

    Weak? In any of those passages, where is Jesus "named", in any Old Testament scripture? Nadda, you're comment was extremely weak. Thanks for making my point.

    PNP: "uhhh...well, you're right about one thing...Jesus wasn't much of a Messiah given the standards of many Jews at the time...the problem is many of those standards were not founded in OT prophecy and some, admittedly, have yet to be fulfilled."

    Uh, no. All of those standards were founded in Old Testament prophesy, and "none" had been fulfilled. As a matter of "fact", if "any" of them weren't fulfilled, then Jesus the character was "not" the True Messiah of the Jews, as portrayed by Paul, and the Roman Emperors' clergy.

    PNP: "How you can read the prophetic books of the OT and not see the correlation to man who was at least "like" Jesus, again takes a little more faith than I've got"

    Because, I am reading the bible, as it is written... not as I want it to appear. I could place a number of people in that era into that same spot and make an argument, as a matter of fact, there is an entire list of "false messiahs" of that era, who stated that they fitted the bill as the "True" Messiah.

    DH: "The Jesus presented in the New Testament didn't fulfill any of the requirements from the Jewish God"

    PNP: "hmmmm...well, I think we proved that he did...but, again, admittedly...some of these prophecies (Lord on an earthly throne, ruling during world peace, rebuilding the temple, etc) have yet to take place. Still, the Christ proclaimed in the OT had to be "pierced for our transgressions" first before he could return in power."

    No, you didn't prove Jesus fulfilled prophesy, if you do show that to be the case, then we should be living in the Jewish New Kingdom. If Jesus was a false prophet, then we would "not" be living in the Jewish New Kingdom. So, which is it. The New Testament has "zero" authority, until the Old Testament prophesy was fulfilled, because a "GOD", gave that prophesy.

    Are you going to suggest that the Jews' GOD somehow made a mistake, uh, coldn't see far enough ahead to make the right call regarding his laws, etc. This should be great, please expound on how the "Jews'" god, just up and messed up the entire Old Testament and prophesies, and had to "edit" his word so that a Newer and Better Testament could be created, where gentiles could be part of the great salvation army plan.

    DH: "Jesus failed if you suggest he was the Jewish Messiah, and did so... miserably"

    PNP: "...Zechariah, Isaiah, Micah, David, etc...might disagree with you."

    :-) Show me in the Old Testament in Zechariah, Isaiah, Micah, etc,. where Jesus' name appears. Oh, you don't have that. And, again, the Jews of the Old Testament were looking for a mortal Messiah, its in their words, not mine. "All" of those old testament writers, would have spat in the face of anyone who declared they were the messiah, without having filled the prophesies. Paul tried making up his story, and what happened to Paul, right, stoned, lashed, and almost murdered a few times.

    Paul is the shining cornerstone on which many Christians have placed their faith, as without Paul, stealing, lying, and exploiting, christianity would never have gotten off of its feet. It was the lack of evidence, and honest support from Paul, or his followers, that caused much of the controvery during the vote within a few hundred years of his preaching. Not having "any" reliable record, a "vote" had to be taken, that is what Christianity is built upon, weak, assertions from its onset, and because of this "lack" of "any" evidence during the time of Jesus' life, "faith" is required.

    The "faith" that the person who told "YOU" PNP, that Jesus was real, knew something you didn't, and YOU have chosen to believe that person, or writing, whoever that would be. I have chosen to accept that the person who told me of a Jesus, did not in fact have any more knowledge of Jesus, than those who had to "vote" on his divinity.

    The First Council of Nicaea "voters" on the divinity of Jesus, with insurmountable resources in their day, who could have conquered, taken, stolen, etc., entire countries to get evidence to support the existence of Jesus, for Roman Emperor Constantine-I, couldn't come up with "anything". Its "why"... they "voted", and was why, there was heated debate with Santa Clause, and all of the other priests at the voting booth.

    PNP, you believe what you believe, because you have "faith", that you were not "lied" to, by someone who told you of Jesus. I believe, I need to know the truth, that has yet to be provided by "anyone" who claims to be a christian on this site for a Jesus having ever existed.

    Unlike you, I have no problem calling someone a liar, if they make a statement of "fact", yet, hide under rhetoric without providing any substance to their claims. To me, they are no better than Paul, who himself, was a liar. If Paul approached me today, and asked me to believe something, and proceeded to tell me, that I'd have to take his word only, because he had a vision. I'd have to say, "no". You, may accept someone elses' delusions, and that's all the difference.































































































































  • PNP · 3 years ago
    DH: I really do want to get back to UG and WM here, but after looking at your last post I'm a little awestruck...

    DH: "In any of those passages, where is Jesus "named", in any Old Testament scripture? Nadda, you're comment was extremely weak."

    Is your point that the OT was supposed to prophesy a man by the actual name of "Jesus" or just the events that surrounded his life, death and resurrection? If so, that might be the goofiest argument I've ever heard...

    First you ask me for proof that there's a connection between OT prophecy and Jesus's life. I give you about 10 or so out of dozens of other possible ones and you say "weak"? Did you actually read these verses?

    I'll get back to the rest of your post later, but please tell me you're not saying this...







  • PNP · 3 years ago
    UG...

    UG: "Each religion makes supernatural claims that are unique in some way. To say that the only relevant faiths are those that are identical to Christianity is ridiculous. Mormonism, Islam, Judaism - all are perfectly valid comparisons because of the similarities they share with Christianity. All are monotheistic, all of them have primary prophets who have had supernatural events ascribed to them, and all of them have had adherents who have died for their faith. In fact, they all even agree on Jesus as a prophet."

    I guess we're just not understanding the difference between a messianic religion that's based on prophecy (ie Islam, Mormonism, etc.) and one in which the supposed prophecy and messianic figure are one in the same (Christianity, Branch Davidians, recent beliefs of some in the Lubavitch community).

    I think I've been pretty clear about the fact that lumping all these religions together is either an attempt to obfuscate their crucial differences or honest misunderstanding. For the first time in any of my posts I'm going to fully quote a verse from the NT...I don't think I'm saying to much to state that Paul's writing in his letter to the Church at Corinth (15:13-15)

    "If there is no resurrection of the dead, then not even Christ has been raised. And if Christ has not been raised, our preaching is useless and so is your faith. More than that, we are then found to be false witnesses about God, for we have testified about God that he has been raised from the dead."

    The entire Christian faith rests on the belief in one man and his resurrection from the dead...no other major religion has bet EVERYTHING on this supposition. Now, again, that doesn't make it true, but to keep going on and on about, well they say weird things about a lot of people...this is more than weird...this is a belief in a God man who after living a life curiously close to OT prophecy, was killed and raised again. The question really is...where's the body?

    1993 - David Koresh is killed at Waco...some of his followers believed that he would re-appear on Dec. 14, 1996...then, it was supposed to be Aug. 6, 1999, now we're looking at March 2012.

    1994- Rabbi Schneerson dies, yet some believe that he's coming back to life at some point...so far nothing.

    It's the resurrecting that would make these religions true (and all of us look pretty stupid).

    UG: "If a messianic faith succeeds it is true.
    Many other messianic faiths failed, but Christianity succeeded.
    Therefore, Christianity is true.

    Is this what you're saying?"

    YES...that's what I'm saying...what other criteria could there be...looks like a duck, acts like a duck, might be a duck.

    UG: "Please explain what you're trying to say here. First, you say there were hardly any Christians in Rome during the first century (besides Paul), then point to Nero who arguably killed hundreds, maybe thousands. Which is it?"

    You had made an earlier point that nobody really seemed to care about Christianity throughout it's first century...I was just agreeing that might have been the case in some instances, but certainly not the case by 64AD or earlier in regards to Jewish authorities.

    UG: "You have yet to present any material that supports your claim that the Jews and/or the Romans were interested in presenting evidence against Christianity."

    Let me quote that link you sent me to on the burial: "the fact that the Jews enjoyed the practice of their laws at the time, especially ones taken so seriously as this, and the fact that Josephus writes as if the law was both observed under the Roman peace and regarded as especially vile to break..."

    So the Jews only cared about killing him, they didn't care about all his followers that started circulating a rumor that this guy had risen...chop off the head and kill the snake...but not so here. You want me to believe that the Jewish authorities only cared about Christ's blasphemy but not that of his followers who continued to preach it? So Stephen was stoned because...and James was killed because...?

    Just find the body, baby...we knew it was missing 3 days after...an entire branch of blashphemous Christianity is based on it...and you want me to believe that they just stopped caring about it?

    UG: "don't have "faith" in any scholar, except in the sense that I don't have access to much of the material that they do, and generally must rely on their scholarship."

    You're absolutely right about this...my bad.

    UG: "that Jesus' disciples stole the body"

    Finally! an explanation...let's test the logic...

    Jesus dies, disciples really bummed out, come up with a plan to steal body even though the Sanhedrin would not want this to happen. They steal the body, and then start running around saying (again) "yeehee...He is Risen!" then the base a whole religion on it, make lots of money and retire to Sarasota...













































  • Dirty Harry · 3 years ago
    Yes, the point of the matter, is that "Jesus", by name was not named. In the midst of all of that prophesy of the Old Testament, from an omniscient and omnipotent, god, no name was given for the Messiah, imagine that.

    And, just to get the party started, as you want to attempt to make a connection between the Old Testament and the New Testament, let me just go ahead, and shut down Matthew's virgin birth scenario.

    Matthew attempts to suggest that the prophesy of Isaiah, and the messiah's coming (a mortal messiah per Isaiah), is established based on Matthews' statement that a child was actually conceived. Well, lets see what Isaiah, actually says, shall we.

    "Question: Isaiah 9:5-6 says: "For a child has been born to us, a son has been given to us; and the government is upon his shoulder; and his name is called A wonderful counselor is the mighty God, the everlasting Father, the ruler of peace; that the government may be increased, and of peace there be no end, upon the throne of David, and upon his kingdom, to establish it, and to uphold it through justice and through righteousness from henceforth even forever. The zeal of the Lord of hosts does perform this." Who is the child the prophet speaks about?

    Answer: Isaiah is known for the method by which he presents many of his messages through the use of prophetic names (Isaiah 7:3, 14; 8:3). In the verse under study, the prophet expounds his message by formulating a prophetic name for Hezekiah. The words of this name form a sentence expressive of God's greatness, which will become manifest in the benefits to be bestowed upon the future king in his lifetime. Thus, the name, though borne by the king, serves, in reality, as a testimonial to God.

    Hezekiah is called "a wonderful counselor" because this name is a sign, which foretells God's design for him.

    The Lord of hosts has sworn, saying: "As I have thought, so shall it be, and as I have purposed, so shall it stand, that I will break Asshur in My land, and upon My mountains trample him under foot; then shall his yoke depart from off them, and his burden depart from off their shoulder." This is the purpose that is purposed upon the whole earth; and this is the hand that is stretched out upon all the nations. For the Lord of hosts has purposed, and who will annul it? And His hand is stretched out, and who shall turn it back? (Isaiah 14:24-27)

    Be not afraid of the words that you have heard, with which the servants of the king of Assyria have blasphemed Me. Behold, I will put a spirit in him, and he shall hear a rumor, and shall return to his own land; and I will cause him to fall by the sword in his own land. (Isaiah 37:6-7)
    Hezekiah is called "the mighty God" because this name is a sign that foretells God's defense of Jerusalem through the miraculous sudden mass death of Sennacherib's army.

    Therefore thus says the Lord concerning the king of Assyria: He shall not come to this city, nor shoot an arrow there, neither shall he come before it with shield, nor cast a mound against it. By the way that he came, by the same shall he return, and he shall not come to this city, says the Lord. For I will defend this city to save it, for My own sake, and for My servant David's sake. (Isaiah 37:33-35)
    Hezekiah is called "the everlasting Father" because this name is a sign, which foretells that God will add years to his life. "Go, and say to Hezekiah: Thus says the Lord, the God of David your father: I have heard your prayer, I have seen your tears; behold, I will add to your days fifteen years" (Isaiah 38:5).

    Hezekiah is called "the ruler of peace" because this name is a sign, which foretells that God would be merciful to him. Punishment for lack of faith in the Almighty will be deferred and peace granted during the last years of his rule. "Then said Hezekiah to Isaiah: 'Good is the word of the Lord which you have spoken.' He said moreover: 'If but there shall be peace and security in my days'" (Isaiah 39:8).

    The fulfillment of the above-stated declarations is foretold in Isaiah 9:6, when, after the Assyrian defeat, Hezekiah's glory increased and peace reigned for the rest of his life (2 Chronicles 32:23). Archaeologists have found that there was a sudden expansion of Judean settlements in the years following the fall of the northern kingdom. This indicates that many refugees fled south, thus giving added significance to the statement "that the government may be increased."

    Hezekiah's kingdom is declared to be forever, for through his efforts to cleanse the Temple ritual of idolatry, even though apostasy followed under his son Menasseh, the Davidic dynasty was once more confirmed as the only true kingly rule that God would accept over his people "from henceforth and forever." The greatness of Hezekiah lies in his setting the stage for Israel's future. Hezekiah was a true reformer. He cleansed religious worship of foreign influence, purged the palace and the Temple of images and pagan altars, and reestablished pure monotheistic religion.

    In the long run Hezekiah's achievements would outlive him, leaving an everlasting, indelible impact on the history of his people. Thus, God, through Isaiah, bestows upon Hezekiah this name which honors the king by proclaiming the great things God will do for him, and, through him, for the people of Israel."

    By all means, there PNP, please continue this, I'm almost amused. This site, alone, has heard about every iota of someones' suggestions to "their truth". The Jews, did "not" believe in the New Testament, Hezekiah, was "not" Jesus, and Matthew's account, if taken by his words is fraudulent.



























  • Dirty Harry · 3 years ago
    PNP: "I guess we're just not understanding the difference between a messianic religion that's based on prophecy (ie Islam, Mormonism, etc.) and one in which the supposed prophecy and messianic figure are one in the same (Christianity, Branch Davidians, recent beliefs of some in the Lubavitch community)."

    Once again, the Authors of the Old Testament, the Jews, believed "their Messiah", was a mortal. The christian version is a messianic "God". Do you not, understand the difference between a man, and a super-being, a supernatural deity who can perform magic tricks beyond human comprehension? The only way you can connect the Jewish Messiah meaning to the Christian Messianic meaning, is for "you" to lump them together as if the term Messiah means the same thing. You, attempting to do this, is obfuscation.

    "In Judaism and Jewish eschatology, the Messiah (Hebrew: Mashiah, Mashiach, or Moshiach, "anointed [one]") has traditionally referred to a future Jewish king from the Davidic line who will be "anointed"... with holy anointing oil and inducted to rule the Jewish people and bring about the Messianic Age. In Standard Hebrew, the messiah is often referred to as... literally meaning "the Anointed King."

    King, a mortal, a Jewish mortal nonetheless. Christianity, messiah, a "god". So, I suppose god didn't believe he could send a Jewish messenger/messiah to fulfill his plan, nope, god had to come down here, and commit euthanasia, because he screwed up humanity, and didn't have enough power to correct his act, so goes the christian logic.

    And, just to be sure we put this into context. God, made himself Jesus, by impregnating his daughter Mary with his ghost sperm - deitical incest. His other son, Joseph, becomes his uncle, but, he himself is illigetimate, as he is his own father.

    Anywho, PNP, I hope you are not actually looking this stuff up, I mean, that does seem to challenge your blind faith that seems to have kept you in the dark all of these years.









  • Dirty Harry · 3 years ago
    PNP, I found out that if Jesus was a god, then, you still have the ability to search for his body parts.

    "Christians claim that in the birth of Jesus there occurred the miracle of the incarnation of God in the form of a human being.

    To say that God became truly a human being invites a number of questions. Let us ask the following about the alleged truly man- truly god Jesus."

    The Holy Foreskin trick...

    "What happened to his foreskin after his circumcision (Luke 2:21)? Did it ascend to heaven, or did it decompose as with any human piece of flesh?"

    The amazing ascension of foreskin, foretold...

    "During his lifetime what happened to his hair, nails, and blood shed from wounds?"

    Yeah, what about those nails on the cross, and all, the pole and nails didn't fly off into space also, did they? Perhaps, they transformed into sparrows, and followed the dove... and the foreskin was like, an "albatross"...

    "Did the cells of his body die as in ordinary human beings? If his body did not function in a truly human way, he could not be truly human as well as truly God. Yet, if his body functioned exactly in a human way, this would nullify any claim to divinity."

    Uh, oh, lets look up in the bible, where it gives the recipe for the foreskin rule, and blood, etc. By the way, did Jesus use the bathroom, in all of his days? I wonder if all that passed, was divine as well.

    "It would be impossible for any part of God, even if incarnate, to decompose in any way and still be considered God."

    And there we have it, that's why the bible talks about covering ones' fecal matter with a hole and some dirt, his fecal matter was infinite...

    "Deuteronomy 23:12 Thou shalt have a place also without the camp, whither thou shalt go forth abroad: 13 And thou shalt have a paddle upon thy weapon; and it shall be, when thou wilt ease thyself abroad, thou shalt dig therewith, and shalt turn back and cover that which cometh from thee."

    Bury that dung, or the lord will not be pleased, good advice for the most holy of holy books.

    Continuing...

    "By definition, not mystery, the everlasting, one God, in whole or in part, does not die, disintegrate, or decompose: "For I the Lord do not change" (Malachi 3:6). Did Jesus' flesh dwell in safety after his death? 1 Peter 3:18 states Jesus was "put to death in the flesh, but made alive in the spirit." 1 Corinthians 15:44-45 claims Jesus was "raised a spiritual body," that is, he "became a life-giving spirit." No mention of the survival of the flesh is alluded to. In Acts 2:31, it is claimed Peter stated that following the alleged resurrection Jesus' body did not see decay. Paul is alleged to have also made this claim (Acts 13:34-37). However, unless Jesus' body never underwent "decay" during his lifetime he could not be God, but if it did not undergo "decay" then he was not truly human."

    And if Jesus wasn't truly human, he could not really have been tempted, now, could he, there PNP, but, I'll wait for you to come to some decision, of course, without biblical reference, as usual. Ciao































  • Dirty Harry and Clueless Mary · 3 years ago
    Hello PNP, well, here, some light reading material.

    "Question: Did Mary and Joseph claim that Jesus was conceived in a supernatural way?

    Answer: Who more than Mary and Joseph should have remembered the "miraculous" events surrounding the birth of Jesus? One can reasonably expect that when a woman goes through a virginal conception, she would remember it, and that a man whose wife becomes pregnant while they are engaged, without any effort on his part, does not easily forget it. Yet, the evangelists relate several strange lapses of memory.

    According to Luke, Mary finds Jesus in the Temple teaching the teachers (Luke 2:42-50). She scolds him for causing so much trouble, whereupon he replies with the enigmatic questions: "Why is it that you were looking for me? Did you not know that I must be concerned with the affairs of my Father?" Luke's Gospel adds: "And they did not understand the saying which he spoke to them." Mary does not understand; Joseph does not understand. If Mary and Joseph were both visited by angels before their son's birth, how is it that they are so completely surprised only twelve years later? Does not Mary remember that Jesus was supernaturally conceived in a way never experienced by any other creature?

    It is inconceivable that Mary would forget Elizabeth saying to her: "Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb. And why is this [granted] to me, that the mother of my Lord should come to me?" (Luke 1:42-43); and especially her own words: "My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit has rejoiced in God my Savior. For He has looked upon the humble state of His slave girl; for, behold, from now on all generations will call me blessed; because the Mighty One has done great things to me; and holy is his name . . . (Luke 1:46-49). After all this, she still does not know what Jesus meant when he said that he must be concerned with his Fathers affairs!

    Mary and Joseph did not remember that the wise men (Magi: Members of the Zorastrian priestly caste variously associated with interpretation of dreams, astrology, and magic) worshiped Jesus and presented him with gold, frankincense, and myrrh (Matthew 2:11). They did not recall how an angel appeared to Joseph telling him to go to Egypt with Mary and Jesus (Matthew 2:13), and that Herod slew all the children two years of age and under in Bethlehem (Matthew 2:16). Besides the fact that it "fulfills" Scripture (Hosea 11:1), why did they have to flee to Egypt? According to Luke 2:39, they went to Nazareth and were not even in the dangerous vicinity of Bethlehem when Herod allegedly had the children slain. Perhaps Matthew's placing them in Egypt in order to fulfill Scripture was too quick for Joseph and Mary to remember, for Luke 2:22 has them in Jerusalem forty days after the birth (cf. Leviticus 12:1-8), and then in Luke 2:39 they return afterwards to Nazareth. Yes, they forgot how the shepherds "made known the saying which had been told to them about this child" (Luke 2:17). Mary and Joseph even forget how they marveled ten months after the angelic visitations, that is, only one month after the events surrounding Jesus' birth. At that time they already were surprised when Simeon and Anna, the daughter of Phanvel, spoke of Jesus' future while he was yet a mere infant (Luke 2:25-38).

    If these events are historical, why is it that later, during Jesus' active period, no one, not even his family, seems to know of his marvelous origins (Matthew 13:54-55)? If a virginal conception took place would it not carry for Mary some implications as to who Jesus was? Would she not convey this vital information to at least her nuclear family? Yet we find that Jesus' relatives, who come to seize him (Mark 3:21, 31), are not told by Mary who joins them) that, contrary to what they think, Jesus is not crazy. The Gospel of John explicitly states: "For neither did his brothers believe in him" (John 7:5). Did Mary not inform them of his divine origins? Is it conceivable that Mary would not have informed them that Jesus was the Messiah so that they too might believe in him and thereby enjoy salvation? And what of her own reaction toward Jesus?

    In the few appearances Mary herself makes in the Gospels, during Jesus' lifetime, there is no indication that she showed any understanding that Jesus was the "Son of God" by virtue of a unique conception (Mark 3:31-35, John 2:3-4). She certainly communicated no such understanding to his followers. In fact, Jesus' earliest followers proclaimed that Jesus had become Son of God through the resurrection and never mentioned a virginal conception. Paul declared Jesus to be "the son of God with power by the resurrection from the dead" (Romans 1:4, see also Acts 13:33 where Psalms 2:7 is applied to the resurrection). The doctrine of a virginal conception seems to have had no effect upon Christian teachings prior to its appearance in the last third of the first century. On the basis of the New Testament record it is doubtful that Jesus' family, or the first Christians, and, most of all, Mary herself knew of the virginal conception she is alleged to have undergone. "Did you not know that I must be concerned with the affairs of my Father?" No, Mary and Joseph did not know it. They did not know it because they had never heard of their son's "miraculous" conception. There is no doubt that the story of the virginal conception came into circulation long after the deaths of the principal participants in this drama."













  • Dirty Harry All Over Hosea · 3 years ago
    Here, is Jesus really a sinner, per Hosea?

    "Question: What are the implications of the author of Matthew using Hosea 11:1 to describe Mary, Joseph, and Jesus being called out of Egypt?

    Answer: Matthew 2:13-15 makes the claim that Mary, Joseph, and Jesus fled to Egypt until recalled by an angel. This is supposedly in fulfillment of a prophecy: "Out of Egypt did I call My son." The source of the so-called prophecy is Hosea 11:1. However, in the context of the verse as found in Hosea there is no prophecy, but simply a restating of Israelite history.

    What is more, the following verse in Hosea is a continuation of the prophet's statement. It says of those called out of Egypt that they sinned against God: "The more they [the prophets] called them, the more they went from them; they sacrificed to Baalim, and offered to graven images" (Hosea 11:2). The application of Hosea 11:1 to Jesus would, on the basis of verse 2, describe him, as well as Mary and Joseph, as sinners. If one reads Matthew's so-called fulfillment of prophecy within the context of that "prophecy" then one must consider that Jesus was a sinner."





  • Dirty Harry & Jesus The Si · 3 years ago
    Hmmmm, maybe Jesus was a sinner, uh, that would have made him "mortal", right, I mean, a "god", can't be tempted or sin, right?

    "Pronouncement about the Sabbath - Of all the problem passages plaguing the New Testament, Mark 2:23-28, Jesus' pronouncement about the Sabbath, surely ranks as one of the most troublesome. It reads as follows:

    "And it came to pass, that he went through the corn fields on the Sabbath day; and his disciples began, as they went, to pluck the ears of corn. And the Pharisees said unto him, Behold, why do they on the Sabbath day that which is not lawful? And he said unto them, Have ye never read what David did, when he had need, and was an hungered, he, and they that were with him? How he went into the house of God in the days of Abiathar the high priest, and did eat the showbread, which is not lawful to eat but for the priests, and gave also to them which were with him? And Jesus said unto them, The Sabbath was made for man, and not man for the Sabbath: Therefore the son of man is Lord also of the Sabbath."

    Here the disciples were clearly breaking the law of the Sabbath as the Pharisee correctly pointed out. But Jesus defended them by saying that they were hungry and needed food. So their situation made an act that would otherwise have been wrong proper for them to do. This story has Jesus advocating situation ethics, an anathema to most Bible believers. Situation ethics denies the doctrine of absolutism so fundamental to the devout Christian. But there are other problems with this passage more serious than that of the application of situation ethics. Jesus here condones the breaking of the law - - 4th Commandment. It reads - Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy. Six days shalt thou labor, and do all thy work: But the seventh day is the Sabbath of the Lord thy God: in it thou shalt not do any work. How does this square with Jesus' famous statement in Matthew 5:17-19? While delivering the hallowed sermon on the mount he declares with passion, "Think not that I am come to destroy the law, or the prophets: I am not come to destroy, but to fulfill. For verily I say unto you, Till heaven and earth pass, one jot or one tittle shall in no wise pass from the law, till all be fulfilled. Whosoever therefore shall break one of these least commandments, and shall teach men so, he shall be called the least in the kingdom of heaven."

    The writer of Mark obviously did not do his homework before composing this passage. He has Jesus make two statements that are inconsistent with the Old Testament story to which it refers. This story is found in I Samuel 21:1-6. In it the high priest is Abimelech not Abiather as Jesus says. Also according to I Samuel, David was not in the company of other men. He was alone. He only pretended to have others with him. It makes Jesus appear foolish."







  • Dirty Harry on Matt & Luke · 3 years ago
    "The Birth of Jesus - The birth of Jesus, as crucial as it is to the Christian belief system, is described in only two places in the entire Bible, the first chapter of the Gospel according to Matthew and the second chapter of the Gospel according to Luke. The miraculous virgin birth and the circumstances surrounding it were apparently not deemed worthy of mention by the writers of the Gospels of Mark and John nor by Paul who said simply that, "Jesus was born of a woman, born under the law" (Galatians 4:4). Why? Could it be that they never heard of it?

    A key question is, "If Jesus lived, when was he born?" The accounts recorded in Matthew and Luke could hardly differ more drastically from each other in practically every detail. According to Matthew 2:1 Jesus was born during the reign of King Herod the Great who is known to have died in the year 4 BCE 3a. Also, Herod issued that infamous order to "Slay all children in Bethlehem and in all the the costs thereof, from two years old and under." So, that puts the birth of Matthew's Jesus at between 6 and 4 BCE. Luke, like Matthew, gives no definite date for Jesus’ birth saying only that it occurred when Quirinius was the governor of Syria (Luke 2:1-2). Quirinius became governor of Syria in 6 CE4. Therefore, if Luke is to be believed, Jesus could have been born no earlier than that date. So, there is an eight to ten year discrepancy between the Gospels of Matthew and Luke in regard to the date of Jesus' birth. Neither of them, it should be pointed out, support the conventional concept of the BC/AD dating boundary. So, what are we to believe concerning this most significant event other than that it is an element of a larger fiction concocted by the gospel writer's themselves?

    In regard to Mary and Joseph, Jesus earthly parents, one would expect that they would be venerated throughout the New Testament, especially Mary since out of all of Israel she was the one selected by none other than God himself to be the mother of his son, or so we are told. However, this is far from the case. Outside of the two birth narratives, Jesus’ parents are practically ignored. Joseph is mentioned only three times, once in Luke 3:23 and twice in the Gospel of John, 1:45 and 6:42. In these passages Joseph is referred to as "the father" of Jesus. Mary, his mother, is also mentioned only three times outside the birth narratives, Mark 6:3, Matthew 13:55 (obviously copied from Mark) and Acts 1:14. In none of them is she referred to as a “virgin.”

    In a book called the Wisdom of Solomon, Israel's most opulent king is quoted as having said, "When I was born I was carefully swaddled for that is the only way a king can come to his people." This line clearly shaped Luke's birth story of how the infant Jesus was wrapped in swaddling clothe (2:7).

    The only two accounts we have of Jesus’ birth are hopelessly contradictory and cannot be historically verified."







  • Dirty Harry Who Knows His Fath · 3 years ago
    Hmmmm, deep thoughts, perhaps, a few of us have read the bible, and yet, it appears others haven't done enough reading. I will continue to present the case for stupidity in the bible, in all of its eloquent contradiction a comedy.

    "Jesus in the temple -The only reference of Jesus life between his birth and his baptism as an adult occurs in Luke 2:41-51. When Jesus was 12 years old he went with his parents to Jerusalem to celebrate Passover. While there, his parents lost track of him and did not find him for three days. As it turned out he wasn’t lost. Had been in the temple all that time questioning the elders, who incidentally were astonished at his depth of understanding. Upon locating him his mother rebuked him saying, "Your father and I have been looking all over for you.” Note that Mary refers to Joseph as his father. Had she forgotten all about her insemination by the Holy Ghost, or was that her way of admitting that Joseph was his real father after all? Jesus further confuses things by replying, “Why were you looking for me? Don’t you know that I must be about my father’s business?” So, the old question arises, “Who was the real father, Joseph or the Holy Ghost?” Anyway, the writer of Luke goes on to say that Mary and Joseph didn’t know what he was talking about. Now that is indeed strange. Had they forgotten all about the virgin birth and the angel Gabriel informing Mary that Jesus was the son of God?"

  • Dirty Harry Cleaning House · 3 years ago
    Jesus, playing the lotto with a womans' life, nice going there hero...

    "The Adulteress - John 8:1-11, the story of the adulterous woman, is intriguing. Some Christians are quick to declare it to be a testimonial to Jesus’ compassion toward women. But is that true? First, it appears only in the Gospel of John. However, the oldest manuscripts do not contain it.7a Second, it breaks the natural sequence of the narrative. Third, it does not appear in any New Testament manuscript prior to the fifth century7. Fourth, this story was long considered a forgery until the Council of Trent declared it "divine truth" in 1546. For those reasons this story is considered by most New Testament scholars to be a late Christian forgery. But let us set that bit of historical fact aside for the moment and consider the story itself and its implications.

    To quickly review, it seems that one day while Jesus was teaching in the temple the scribes and the Pharisees brought a woman before him who had been “caught in the very act” of committing adultery9. After reminding him that the Law decreed that she be put to death (Leviticus 20:10 and Deut. 22:22), they asked him, “What do you say?” After giving it some serious thought Jesus replied, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to cast a stone at her.” As a result, no one cast a stone indicating that they were all sinners. Later Jesus tells the woman that although she's guilty of breaking the law he will not condemn her. With that he tells her to go and sin no more. On the surface this story does appear to confirm Jesus’ compassion for women. Upon more rational reflection, however, it reveals a glaring contradiction.

    If Jesus was anything, he was a stickler where Mosaic Law was concerned. In Matthew 5:17-18 he says, “Do not think that I come to abolish the Law or the Prophets: I did not come to abolish, but to fulfill. For truly I say unto you, that until heaven and earth pass away not the smallest letter or stroke shall pass away from the Law until all is accomplished.” In Matthew 5:19 he warns that, “Whosoever breaks one of God’s laws will be the least in the kingdom of heaven.” In Luke 16:17 he says, “But it is easier for heaven and earth to pass away than for one stroke of a letter of the Law to fail.” In John 10:35 he says, “Scripture cannot be broken.” Also, we must remember that according to the doctrine of the trinity, Jesus actually wrote these dastardly laws.

    To be consistent, shouldn’t Jesus have recommended that the woman be put to death in accordance with the law? He could have effectively demonstrated his often professed dedication to the law by casting the first stone at her himself thereby putting his money where his mouth was. But maybe there is another explanation. Perhaps Jesus was not without sin.

    When considered objectively, this little story presents some truly formidable problems for those Christian advocates of female compassion. First of all, it is not so much about compassion as it is about Jesus' credibility. As Elizabeth Cady Stanton points out in The Woman's Bible, it was conceived by the scribes and the Pharisees as a way to trap Jesus thereby expose him as a fraud. So, Jesus had to be very careful how he handled this situation. When asked what he would do with her had Jesus said the woman should either be killed or set free; he would have been assuming the power of the state. Had he refused to offer an opinion his credibility as "the son of God" would have been ruined. So, in a flash of political insight he took a chance. In order to save his own skin, he literally gambled with the woman's life. That, my friends, is immoral."









  • Dirty Harry & The Fishy St · 3 years ago
    Something smells fishy about the New Testament...

    "A Fish Story - In Mark 6:30-44 we are treated to the story of the loaves and the fishes, one of Jesus’ awesome "miracles." The author of Mark was so impressed with this story that he deemed it worthy of repeating, albeit with a few alterations, in 8:1-10. This story appears again in Matthew 14:13-21 and 15:32-38; Luke 9:12-17, and John 6:9-13. Since standard scholarship recognizes Mark to be the oldest of the canonicals, let us proceed from there.

    It seems that one-day Jesus and his disciples found themselves out in the desert at sundown hosting a great multitude of followers. According to the Mark's chapter 6 version, the crowd numbered about five thousand. However, in chapter 8 the crowd has shrunk to about four thousand. With only five loaves of bread and two fishes (seven loaves of bread and a few small fishes in the chapter 8 version) Jesus succeeds not only in feeding the multitude, but there were twelve baskets full of leftovers (only seven baskets of leftovers in the Chapter 8 account.) But apparently his rather slow witted disciples forgot all about these two mind boggling performances because a few days later Jesus has to remind them of it (8:18-21.)

    This story is often cited by Bible believers as a convincing testimonial to Jesus' awesome supernatural power. But, did it really happen or is this story just another tall tale inspired by certain Old Testament renderings? In that regard, a strong echo of this "miracle" occurs in 2 Kings 4:42-44 where we read: "And there came a man from Baal-shalisha, and brought the man of God bread of the first fruits, twenty loaves of barley, and full ears of corn in the husk thereof. And he said, Give unto the people, that they may eat. And his servitor said, “What, should I set this before an hundred men?” He said again, “Give the people, that they may eat: for thus saith the Lord, They shall eat, and shall leave thereof. So he set it before them, and they did eat, and left thereof, according to the word of the Lord."

    The famous story of the loaves and fishes and the so-called miracle related thereto is an obvious forgery."







  • Dirty Harry on Rhinestone Cowb · 3 years ago
    Hey, PNP, what about Jesus Cowboy...

    "Jesus, a rodeo trick rider? ~ The account of Jesus’ triumphal entry into Jerusalem is recorded in all four canonical gospels and is recognized as one of the principal accomplishments of his short ministry. But, there’s a problem!

    The source of this story is Zechariah 9:9: Rejoice greatly, O daughter of Zion; shout, O daughter of Jerusalem: behold, thy King cometh upon thee: he is just, and having salvation; lowly, and riding upon an ass, and on a colt, the foal of an ass. (KJV) According to this prophecy, the king will come riding on a young donkey, i.e. a foal. The gospel writers claim that Jesus fulfilled this prophecy by way of his alleged triumphal entry into Jerusalem where, according to Mark, Luke and John, he does indeed come riding in on a young donkey. But, the writer of Matthew, apparently in his overzealous determination to prove prophecy fulfillment, apparently misread Zechariah 9:9 and in so doing creates what can only be seen as a huge embarrassment.

    From Young’s Literal Translation of the New Testament. Mt. 21:2 ". . . you will find a donkey tied there and a colt with her; untie them and bring them to me." 3 ". . . ‘The Lord had need of them and immediately he will send them." If there was only one animal, why didn’t Jesus say "it" instead of the plural, "them?" And all of this came to pass so that it might be fulfilled what was spoken through the prophet saying, (here Matthew repeats Zechariah 9:9.) Verse 7: and brought the donkey and the colt and laid upon them their garments and sat him thereon.

    So according to the writer of Matthew, Jesus road triumphantly into Jerusalem astride two mounts, an ass and her colt. That must have been quite a sight. Maybe Jesus was an early forerunner of the rodeo trick rider."







  • Dirty Harry & The Stutteri · 3 years ago
    Speaking of godly Jesus foreskin, and its everlasting glory, what about those glorified cocks...

    "Peter’s Denial - Of all of the New Testament stories that of Peter’s denial (Mark 14:66-72 and parallels) is one of the most well known. In summary it says that following Jesus’ arrest by agents of the chief priest Peter is identified by three people as being one of Jesus’ followers. Peter vehemently denies this accusation rejecting Jesus in the process. After the third denial a cock crows, and Peter suddenly remembers Jesus predicting that he would deny him err the cockcrows. Peter wept. This story has provided the text for many sermons and Sunday school lessons, but did it really happen?

    One of the main problems with the denial story lies with Jesus' prophecy. It's indeed hard to take this account seriously when different versions of it appear in all four gospels as follows:

    Mark 14:30, "Truly I say to you, that you yourself this very night, before a cock crows twice, shall three times deny me."

    Matt. 26:34, "Truly I say to you that this very night, before a cock crows, you shall deny me three times."

    Luke 22:34, "I say to you, Peter, the cock will not crow today until you have denied three times that you know me."

    John 13:38, "Truly, truly, I say to you, a cock shall not crow, until you deny me three times."

    As one can see, Jesus allegedly says four different things, yet these are given as direct quotes. Why, for example, did the author of Mark, the oldest gospel, omit Peter's name while the writer of Luke, who obviously plagiarized Mark, includes it? Also, the writer of Luke assures Theophilus (1:4) that what he is about to tell him is the unvarnished truth yet when compared to the other versions he leaves out some very important details. The whole thing is obviously bogus.

    Paul’s position as leader of the Christian community at Antioch was challenged by Peter. Paul discusses this dispute at length in the second chapter of Galatians considered by most Bible scholars to be one of the few Pauline epistle judged to be authentic. In Galatians 2:11-13 Paul openly accuses Peter of hypocrisy but fails to mention the denial. This is highly significant because it would have been a powerful weapon Paul could have used against Peter. Peter’s denial coupled with Jesus’ stern warning in Matthew 10:3312, would have easily won the day for Paul. So, we can only conclude that the denial story is a late Christian invention."















  • Dirty Harry & NT Creative · 3 years ago
    The trinity? Or not...

    "The Johannine Comma - In First John 5:7-8 of KJV and some other versions there occurs what is known as the “Johannine Comma19.” These verses read as follows with the Johannine Comma bolded: For there are three that bear record in heaven, the father, The Word, and the Holy Ghost: and these three are one, and there are three that bear witness in earth, the spirit, the water, and the blood: and these three agree in one. Although Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are associated in the Great Commission (Matthew 28:19.) and in the apostolic benediction (II Cor. 13:14), this passage is the one most often cited as confirming the doctrine of the Holy Trinity, but does it? First, this epistle is judged to have been written not by the legendary apostle John, as is claimed, but by an unknown scribe sometime early in the second century20. Second, the Johnnine Comma does not appear in the earliest extant copies of the New Testament. Third, remove it and the passage reads logically. The Johnnine Comma can be traced no farther back than the eighth century21. In almost all recent versions of the Bible the Johannine Comma has either been greatly altered or eliminated altogether because it is an obvious forgery."

    Nothing like adding to the word, throughout history, to keep it fresh and alive, right there PNP. I mean, Paul lied from the beginning, why keep up the pretense.



  • Dirty Harry & Deep Thought · 3 years ago
    On the topic of lying and stealing, and well, Jesus...

    "The Two Thieves?: All four gospels say that on the day Jesus was crucified two others were crucified with him, one on his right and one on his left. In the non-canonical Gospel of Nicodemus we even learn their names, Demas and Gestas. Two questions come to mind regarding this situation, “What was the nature of their crime, and why were they executed with Jesus?” As to their crime, John 19:18 does not say. Luke 23:32 refers to them simply as malefactor. However, Matthew 27:38 and Mark 15:27 identify them a thieves. The problem here is that thievery was not a capital crime under either Jewish or Roman law. So, why include such a fanciful story?

    The reason for the two additional executions is not given in Matthew, Luke or John. In Mark, however, it is. Mark 15:27-28 reads: And with him they crucified two thieves; the one on his right hand, and the other on his left. And the scripture was fulfilled, which saith, "And he was numbered with the transgressors." Now we understand. The two additional executions were included in order to further justify the claim of prophesy fulfillment. The prophecy in question is Isaiah 53:12 - He was numbered with the transgressors; and he bare the sin of many, and made intercession for the transgressors. There you have it. Placed between two thieves he was indeed numbered among the transgressors. The last phrase of the prophecy, made intercession for the transgressors, explains why in Luke 23:41-43 one of the two fellow executionees defends Jesus and asks for his help whereupon Jesus says to him, "Today shalt thou be with me in paradise." It is interesting to note that in Mark 15:32 and Matthew 27:44 both of his fellow executionees curse and taunt Jesus and neither is saved.

    This story has no credibility. It was obviously concocted as a means by which a false claim of prophecy fulfillment could be justified."

    Palm of hand under chin, elbow on knee, and tapping bottom lip with forefinger... deep thoughts, I wonder how much more in the bible just don't add up? Hmmmmmm....







  • Dirty Harry & Last Words · 3 years ago
    And, just what did Jesus say in his last words, in case a christian, who has the faith of a child, and the literacy of one as well...

    "Jesus' last words - Near the end of the account of Jesus alleged suffering on the cross, his "last words" are recorded in all four gospels.

    Mark 15:34 says that Jesus cried out, "My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?" He then gave a loud cry (v37) and breathed his last.

    Matthew 27:46-50 is a repetition of Mark’s version. Since Mark is the older, it is reasonable to conclude that the writer of Matthew was a plagiarist.

    Luke 23:46 says that Jesus cried out in a loud voice, "Father, into thy hands I commend my spirit" and gave up the ghost.

    John 19:30, says that when he had received the wine, Jesus said, "It is finished" and bowed his head and gave up the ghost.

    Simple logic tells us that there can be only one set of last words. In neither case is Jesus being quoted out of context because these verses are independent of context. Translation errors can not be to blame because the words are quite clear and quite different. Also, since there are no first hand accounts, just who heard and recorded these alleged last words? If there is any truth at all here it is that one, and only one, of these quotes is correct, which means that the others are obvious inventions."











  • Dirty Harry & The Divine P · 3 years ago
    Oh, it can only go on for so long, but, what about that tea party with god...

    "Face to face with God? Has anyone ever seen God? In John 1:18 we are told, “No one has ever seen God.” However, in John 6:46 we learn that there’s an exception. Here it says, “No one has seen the Father except the one who is from God.” In 1st John 4:12 it says again, “No one has ever seen God.”

    The writer of 1st Timothy 1:17 tells us that God is invisible. In that regard, I remind you that the invisible and the non-existent look very much alike. In Exodus 33:20 God warns Moses,“ . . . no one can see my face and live.” Then God proceeds to contradict himself. According to Genesis 16:13 God appeared to Hagar, and she admits to having seen him. Hagar did not die. In Genesis 26:24 we learn that God appeared to Isaac yet he did not die.

    In Genesis 32:30 Jacob gets the best of God in an all night wrestling match after which he brags that he saw God face to face and lived. But to compound the confusion, in Exodus 24:9-11 we learn that Moses and Aaron, Nadab and Abihu and the seventy elders of Israel not only saw God, they had a lunch with him."





  • Dirty Harry & Dirty John · 3 years ago
    Good ol' John, what can I say...

    "The 21st Chapter of the Gospel of John - Did you ever, when reading a book or an article, come to what was obviously a natural ending before the piece actually ended? Frustrating, isn’t it? Well, that’s exactly what happens in the Gospel of John. This gospel is composed of twenty-one chapters but consider the last verse of chapter twenty:

    But these are written, that ye might believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God; and that believing ye might have life through his name.

    This verse succinctly states the writer’s purpose. It was obviously intended to serve as a concluding remark. Yet, the gospel goes on to chapter twenty-one. The forgery is in fact admitted in John 21:24 where the writer says,

    This is the disciple which testifieth of these things, and
    wrote these things: and we know that his testimony is true.


    The work we now call the Gospel of John, ostensibly written by "the beloved disciple," is actually a composite of two lost gospels -- the hypothetical “Signs Gospel” plus another much-enlarged version thereof. The Gospel of John dates from the close of the first or beginning of the second century, long after the alleged time of Jesus. The addressees are Gentile Christians. The Jews are identified as enemies of Jesus (John 10:31). By the time the Gospel of John, as we know it today, was written, Jesus’ followers had been bared from the synagogues (John 9:22), an event which did not occur until the late eighties. The final chapter is, without a doubt, a later addition whose purpose is to explain why the Parousia (second coming) did not occur as promised."

    I suppose if I were banking my "life" in a bunch of words, I would actually read the bible, and know every detail, oh, that's right, I did "read" the bible, and objectively speaking, it made "zero" sense.












  • Dirty Harry & A Resurrecte · 3 years ago
    Jesus, must have had company being resurrected, he wasn't the only one who came back to play checkers with friends...

    "The Resurrection of the Saints - Matthew 27:52-53~ And the graves were opened; and many bodies of the saints which slept arose, and came out of their graves after His resurrection, and went into the holy city, and appeared unto many.

    This astounding account appears in Matthew's narrative immediately following Jesus’ death. That means the saints were resurrected sometime late Friday afternoon thereby contradicting Acts 26:23 which says that Jesus will be "the first to rise from the dead." Having risen, the saints did not go into Jerusalem until after Jesus was resurrected. The exact date and time of Jesus alleged resurrection is never given. It can only be assumed that it took place sometime prior to the following Sunday morning when the women discovered the empty tomb Therefore, we are to believe that these resurrected saints were content to just sit in their open graves from Friday afternoon to Sunday morning. Be that as it may, however, this event, if true, ranks as the most electrifying miracle ever recorded. By rights it should consume whole chapters of contemporary history. Had it really happened, it would be reviewed at length in official government documents as well as in religious scriptures. It would have been the chosen theme of all New Testament writers because it would have proven their doctrine, their cause and their apostleship. Yet we find that it is mentioned only in an offhanded manner by a single gospel writer and totally ignored by everyone else. What is most revealing, however, is that both Mark and Luke contain in sequence the passages immediately preceding and following Matthew 27:52-53 almost verbatim.

    The writer of Matthew did not bother to tell us who those resurrected saints were. Nor did he deem it important to tell us what happened to them afterwards. Did they return to their graves? If they did not, where are they now? According to the passage they appeared to many. But where are the eyewitness accounts? Did they go to claim their wives and property which they had owned at the time of their death? If so, how were they received? It is strange indeed that not another word was ever written about what undoubtedly ranks as the most amazing event in all of history. But why was such an outlandish statement included?

    In Zechariah 14:4-6 it prophecies that when Israel is under attack God will come to the rescue and all the saints will come with him. Because the writer of Matthew was obsessed with the need to have Jesus fulfill Old Testament prophesy, he was compelled to somehow include saints. Because there were apparently no recognized saints living at that time, his only alternative was to resurrect some. So, out of sheer desperation he simply inserted verses 52 and 53 at the appropriate place in chapter 27. His clumsy attempt to deceive is obvious. This so-called miracle never happened."







  • Dirty Harry & Da' Cath · 3 years ago
    The early Christian, I mean... Catholic church & religion...

    "The Ordination of Peter - In Matthew 16:17-19 Jesus blesses Peter pronouncing him the "rock" upon which he will build his church while giving him the "keys to the kingdom." Peter, therefore, stands as Jesus' undisputed successor. In fact, Peter's recognition by the Roman Catholic Church as the first pope is based primarily on this passage. However, the evidence of forgery is undeniable. First, although it constitutes an essential element of the Christian religion, the ordination of Peter is mentioned nowhere else in the New Testament, not even in First and Second Peter, the epistles allegedly written by the great apostle.

    Second, excluding this passage, Jesus never attempted to establish a "church." Such a project would have been absurd in view of the fact that he assured his followers that the world would end and he would return in glory during their lifetime to establish the kingdom of God. In fact, the use of the word "church" suggests a level of organization not acquired until long after the event allegedly occurred. In that regard, it is interesting to note that throughout the four gospels the word "church" appears only twice thereafter, and both are in the same verse, Matthew 18:17.

    Third, and perhaps the most revealing, although Mark and Luke do not contain the ordination, they do contain duplicates of Matthew 16:16 and 16:20, the verses immediately preceding and following the ordination13. The so-called ordination of Peter is without a doubt a later insertion, i.e. a forgery."





  • Dirty Harry & Jesus' D · 3 years ago
    On, the even tempered and intellectual Jesus...

    "The Accursed Fig Tree - Mark (11:12-14) tells us that on his way home after cleansing of the Temple, Jesus spied a fig tree in the distance and went to it seeking figs. This is strange indeed since fig trees do not bear fruit in late March when this is supposed to have taken place. Upon finding no figs Jesus became irate and proceeded to curse the fig tree.

    Now to curse a fig tree for not bearing fruit in March is not unlike kicking a dog because it cannot speak English thereby punishing it for the inability to do the impossible. Mark concludes this story by telling us that due to Jesus' curse the fig tree withered and died. By destroying a fruit tree Jesus broke God’s law (Deut. 20:19). The writer of Matthew (21-18-20) repeats this story but says that the unfortunate tree withered and died instantly.

    Although he mentions fig trees in a couple of places (13:6, 21:29) the writer of Luke wisely skips this story, as does the writer(s) of John. The concluding point emphasized in Mark and Matthew is that with enough faith one can literally move mountains. But, it’s indeed hard to get the connection."

    A god, cursing a fig tree?







  • Dirty Harry & Divorcing Go · 3 years ago
    Lets see, PNP, what do you believe the bible says about divorce? I mean, there can only be "one" right answer per a perfect god's writings, right?

    "Divorce - Biblical pronouncements on divorce are so convoluted, contradictory, impractical and gender biased as to be downright nonsensical. Let us examine them beginning with Mark 10:11-12, where Jesus says, "Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery." This passage clearly states that both the husband and the wife have the right of divorcement. Once divorced, however, neither can remarry without committing adultery, a capital crime. No exception is made even in case of the death of a spouse. So, according to Mark both parties in the divorce must remain unmarried for the rest of their lives.

    Jesus again speaks to the subject of divorce in Matthew 5:31-32, but here he says something entirely different, "Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement. But I say unto you, that whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery, and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery." First, notice that in contrast to Mark, the right of a woman to divorce her husband is not acknowledged in Matthew. But, the man who is unwary enough to marry a divorced woman, joins her in committing adultery. The original husband, oddly enough, is held responsible for the whole thing. The clause, saving for the cause of fornication, is indeed puzzling because in this case to fornicate is to also commit adultery. Because adultery is a capital crime, the fornicating woman would automatically be put to death thereby making divorce unnecessary. Apparently the husband is free to fornicate to his heart's content.

    The writers of Luke and John wisely avoid the problem by never mentioning divorce.

    Paul gives his rules of divorce in Romans 7:2-3. In this short passages he says, "For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law." According to these rules, which show, among other things, Paul's contempt for women, only men have the right of divorcement. A divorced woman can not remarry until her ex-husband dies because to do so would be to commit adultery. If she does, it clearly says that she will be called an adulteress. Again, I remind you that adultery carries the death penalty. The men involved are not held responsible for anything. However, Paul does make an exception for women in I Cor. 7:15 where he says that unbelief is grounds for divorce by either party. Paul was obviously unaware of Jesus' pronouncements on divorce as set forth in the gospels of Mark and Matthew.

    What does God have to say about divorce? Well, as usual he contradicts himself. In Malachi 2:16 God makes this uncompromising statement, "I hate divorce." However, in Deuteronomy 24:1-4 he shows a degree of toleration. Here it states, "When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favor in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house. And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife." Note that wives are not granted the same right. In contrast to Mark, Matthew and Paul a divorced woman is free to remarry right away without being labeled an adulteress. But, in agreement with Paul and Matthew, the right of divorce is granted to men only. This raises a question regarding Mark 10:12 in which women have the right of divorcement. Why would the writer of Mark have said such a thing? One possible explanation is that who ever wrote the Gospel of Mark was unfamiliar with Jewish law and customs. The passage reflects the Hellenistic culture where women have always had the right to divorce their husbands.

    The biblical divorce laws obviously reflect the whims of a changing culture. They have no practical relevance in today's world."

    Maybe god was just confused when he was moving the pen of those biblical authors, I mean, how else could there be so much chaos, in one writing, if it indeed came from "one" god...













  • Dirty Harry But, Not A Dirty D · 3 years ago
    Lets take a break from the obvious forgeries, but, I will return, I just like to mix and match the obvious stupidity...

    "But Rabshakeh said unto them, Hath my master sent me to thy master, and to thee, to speak these words? hath he not sent me to the men which sit on the wall, that they may eat their own dung, and drink their own piss with you?" (II Kings 18:27)

  • Dirty Harry & Dirty God · 3 years ago
    I wouldn't led children near a bible, if they were actually going to read the filth...

    "Yet she multiplied her whoredoms, in calling to remembrance the days of her youth, wherein she had played the harlot in the land of Egypt. For she doted upon their paramours, whose flesh is as the flesh of asses, and whose issue is like the issue of horses." (Ezekiel 23: 19-21)

    "and lusted after her paramours there, whose members were like those of donkeys, and whose emission was like that of stallions." (Ezekiel 23: 21, NRSV)

    The story of the sister whores, Aholah and Aholibah gives a moral lesson against the sins of the flesh. But why does God have to describe their adventures in such pornographic detail? Does God love porn?

    What parent would want their children reading verse 21 about comparing the size of men's penises to donkey genitals and the sperm flow to that of horse issues?







  • Dirty Harry & Gods' Cu · 3 years ago
    Oh, the bible, how sick does it really get... let me count the ways...

    18:5 But if a man be just, and do that which is lawful and right,

    18:6 And hath not eaten upon the mountains, neither hath lifted up his eyes to the idols of the house of Israel, neither hath defiled his neighbour's wife, neither hath come near to a menstruous woman,

    Well, I suppose one need not get near women during their period, so, PNP, do you casually ask women about their period, I mean... in order for you to remain "pure"?





  • Dirty Harry & An Abusive G · 3 years ago
    Female Births Get Penalty? No, say a "just" and "loving" god wouldn't do such...

    "Speak unto the children of Israel, saying, If a woman have conceived seed, and born a man child: then she shall be unclean seven days; according to the days of the separation for her infirmity shall she be unclean." (Leviticus 12:2)

    "But if she bear a maid child, then she shall be unclean two weeks, as in her separation: and she shall continue in the blood of her purifying threescore and six days." (Leviticus 12:5)

    A woman who gives birth to a child must undergo a purification ritual lest her "uncleanness" contaminate others. This not only entails her isolation, but also payments to priests for the ritual acts. Thus the male dominators had even made birth dirty.

    Notice here that if a woman bears a female child, her isolation must last twice as long as that if she gives birth to a male child!







  • Dirty Harry & God's Pr · 3 years ago
    God on "Female Inferiority"...

    "But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God." (I Corinthians 11:3)

    "For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man. Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man." (I Corinthians 11:8-9)

    Comment
    The Bible's decree of male supremacy has kept woman inferior to men for centuries. For the religious, it comes as a sad fact that a human must have a penis to receive any respect or power within the Church.

    All woman should realize that such phrases in the Bible has justified for many Christian men, not only their supremacy but a reason to sexually abuse women.

    This is a god, I don't think I would present to anyone with any moral fortitude...










  • Dirty Harry & The Bigot Go · 3 years ago
    PNP, I have done the research, I have read the bible, I have reverse engineered, cross examined the pages, and have undertaken many hours of religious study at the university level. When I say, your god sucks, I say it with "your bible", not mine. You, need to read your bible, "you", need to put it into historical context, and "you" need to live with the words in that book, that you should be ashamed to show children.

    If you want to continue "your belief" justification, understand, you are suggesting that you support "every one" of those biblical passages, and... don't test me, my cut and paste antics are hardly started, and there are literally hundreds if not thousands of "gross" contradictions and porn stories I can pull, but... of course you probably know that, right. Yet, you still love a good story, enjoy your belief, I don't have the stomach for your evil god.

    "Rape My Daughter"

    "Behold, here is my daughter a maiden, and his concubine; them I will bring out now, and humble ye them, and do with them what seemeth good unto you: but unto this man do not so vile a thing. But the men would not hearken to him: so the man took his concubine, and brought her forth unto them; and they knew her, and abused her all the night until the morning: and when the day began to spring, they let her go." (Judges 19:24-25)

    Judges 19 describe a father who offers his virgin daughter to a drunken mob. When the father says "unto this man do not so vile a thing," he makes clear that sexual abuse should never befall a man (meaning him), yet a woman, even his own flesh and blood, or a concubine belonging to a perfect stranger, can receive punishment from men to do what they wish. This attitude against women still persists to this day and we have the Bible, in large part, to thank for this attitude against women.

    Verse 25 describes the hours long gang rape of the poor concubine. The Bible gives not one hint of passion or concern for the raped girl. Considering that many people believe that every word in the Bible comes from God, it should not surprise anyone why people still use these verses to justify such atrocities.

    PNP, these words reflect "you", you are the christian, therefore, "you" are a sick individual, christianity is an "all" or "none" affair, literally speaking. I refuse to claim association, hence "ex", enjoy your evening, whatever you do in your evenings, rape, eat feces, drink urine, question women relentlessy about their menstration periods, etc.











  • J. C. Samuelson · 3 years ago
    "I think I've been pretty clear about the fact that lumping all these religions together is either an attempt to obfuscate their crucial differences or honest misunderstanding."

    I can’t speak for anyone else, but it seems to me to be an honest misunderstanding. This is simply because theists and skeptics measure religion using different yardsticks.

    On a technical note, it looks like you used the NIV for your quotation of 1 Cor. 15:13-15. This probably sounds a bit preachy coming from a skeptic, but you may want to consider a more literal translation. There are some problems with the NIV that have never been resolved, not the least of which is bias. Ironic, no? This article covers some of these issues rather well.

    "The entire Christian faith rests on the belief in one man and his resurrection from the dead...no other major religion has bet EVERYTHING on this supposition."

    Ah, yes. The cornerstone of the faith. Here, you and I agree – and hit the wall separating naturalism from the supernatural. About the resurrection itself we can have no real discussion as long as either of us is unwilling to consider the opposite view as potentially valid.

    "The question really is...where's the body?"

    When you make a statement like this, you’re shifting the burden of proof as the WM observed. Since all of us would agree (with the exception of the Christ myth crowd) that Jesus had a physical body, and we would also likely agree that all human bodies decay after death, our answer would surely be that as his body would’ve long since decayed.

    It might also be considered argumentum ad ignorantiam, because you’re arguing the resurrection must be true because no one can prove it false.

    Christians are the ones asserting that Christ alone among all humans was bodily resurrected. The onus is on the Christian to give proof that Jesus defied everything we know about death. Where is Jesus now? What’s his email address?

    If you are again saying the Jews should have – and would have – produced it when they had the chance, once again I invite you to produce evidence from history that they had the inclination to do so. Merely saying they wanted to squash the heresy isn’t enough. Up until the apostles started making claims of a risen Christ, Caiaphas most likely assumed the heresy would die out following Jesus’ death. Is a full treatment of this really necessary? So far I’ve only touched on the basics in the past few posts. If so, let me know and I’ll be happy to oblige you.

    "UG: 'If a messianic faith succeeds it is true.
    Many other messianic faiths failed, but Christianity succeeded.
    Therefore, Christianity is true.

    Is this what you're saying?'

    YES...that's what I'm saying...what other criteria could there be...looks like a duck, acts like a duck, might be a duck."


    So Christianity is validated by its success. Unfortunately the premise is false, partially because what constitutes success is subjective. For this argument other messianic faiths can surely be used for comparison since individual claims are irrelevant to the logic. Judaism is a messianic faith and it’s a success. Mormonism is messianic, and it’s also a success. In other words, using this logic also affirms any other messianic faith that can be considered successful.

    This type of logical fallacy is called affirming the consequent, by the way.

    "Finally! an explanation...let's test the logic...>

    Jesus dies, disciples really bummed out, come up with a plan to steal body even though the Sanhedrin would not want this to happen. They steal the body, and then start running around saying (again) "yeehee...He is Risen!" then the base a whole religion on it, make lots of money and retire to Sarasota..."


    Funny. However, I wasn’t offering it as an explanation (though it might be a possibility). I was commenting on what the Jews (meaning Caiaphas & Co.) might have been satisfied with as an explanation, thereby precluding an extensive investigation into the matter.

    Again, if you really want a full treatment of this issue, let me know.





































  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    PNP!!!!

    Why won't you answer my question?

    WHY?

    After death, what happens to those people who simply do not believe in what you consider to be the correct version of the right religion?

    What happens to all those millions and billions of people?

    Well?

    Oh, and BTW, where is the body of John the Baptist? Hmm?

    Where is the body of Paul, Jude, Simon, Judas Iscariot, etc.?

    Again, WHAT DO YOU BELIEVE HAPPENS TO THOSE WHO DON'T BELIEVE IN YOUR RELIGION WHEN THEY DIE?















  • Dano · 3 years ago
    When the Romans decided what the official version of Christianity would be, the concept of hell may have been included by only one vote.

    Think about it. If one person had been in a better mood that day, and voted for exclusion of "Burning in a lake of fire forever," as punishment for the sin of disbelief, Christianity would have been a more "User friendly" religion!

    Dano (Agnosticusabecedarianist)



  • J. C. Samuelson · 3 years ago
    Dano,

    That's pretty damn funny! I was just reading something about voting that talked about the difference one vote can really make. What a trip that would be, huh?

    WM,

    Good observation - where are the bodies of those men?

    Dirty Harry of the Morphing Username,

    No offense, but could we try and tackle one issue at a time? Also, when you cut & paste (or type in word for word) text from other sources, it's called plagiarism unless you cite the source.









  • Dirty Harry & Paul on Wome · 3 years ago
    PNP, are you finally going to answer the WM, or comment on the obvious forgeries of the New Testament, I have plenty more when you get through them. Where are all of those saintly bodies the WM asked you about? Hmmmmm, perplexing isn't it.

    "Wives, Submit Yourselves!"

    Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything." (Ephesians 5:22-24)

    Comment
    These words of Paul describe another instance for the calling of the submission of women to their husbands. Note that the all inclusive "everything" could allow husbands to submit their wives to anything, including rape, beatings, slavery, etc.

    (See also I Cor. 11:3-12, I Cor. 14:34-36, I Timothy 2:8-15, I Peter 3:1-7, Col. 3:18-19.)








  • Dirty Harry & Missing Link · 3 years ago
    Oops, well, Uber, my freewill got in the way, the links have been posted many places on this site, here they are again. And of course, you posted the SAB link, but, I haven't pulled from there.

    http://skeptically.org/bible/id2.html

    http://www.nobeliefs.com/DarkBible/darkbible7.htm

    Have a great day.





  • J. C. Samuelson · 3 years ago
    Sorry, Dirty. Didn't see those links posted before.

    Wasn't trying to be an ass and get in the way of your freewill either. My long-windedness is deceiving; I can only handle so much information before I implode. ;)

  • Dirty Harry - Farewell Tour · 3 years ago
    As well, PNP seems to believe that the New Testament is solid as a reference authority for their belief, they only see a few verses obviously, and are clinging to those words without seeing the entirety of the bible as a canon, compiled of books ranging from a thousand plus years BCE, until at least second century CE.

    Debating over "one" incident, is missing the bigger picture, that the bible is a pieced together canon, and wasn't established as such until 369CE, much later than the vote of Nicaea. The "votes" created the New Testament... The New Testament, did not guide the "votes". If the bible contains just "one" passage that was a forgery, if there were messianic prophesies that were "not" fulfilled, then, its obvious no one can suggest that the bible should be used to support anything for certain, especially that a supernatural Jesus lived.

    The New Testament was canonized to remove the Old Testament, and picking and choosing passages in a book full of biasness and creative writing is absurd.

    Now, "which" issue is trying to be tacked here? What is your focus?

    Plagiarism: "A piece of writing that has been copied from someone else and is presented as being your own work the act of plagiarizing; taking someone's words or ideas as if they were your own."
    wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn

    Dirty Harry hardly suffices for taking credit for someone elses' writing. I would think a "blog", is not where I would be focusing my work if I were trying to impress someone for profit. The passages placed in the posts, were quoted, and not shown to be the work of Dirty Harry. The bible, I cited the passages, who knows who the real authors are, and I doubt they will be making a fuss anytime soon for their royalties.

    If you find it frustrating to see a big picture view of the bible, and want to focus on "one" topic or pixel of the painting, then, you have the floor, Dirty Harry will kindly back away from the keyboard. Enjoy your day. Harry Out.












  • Dirty Harry · 3 years ago
    Uber, not trying to be the ass either, but obivously there needs to be some scope and you and the WM have provided that for PNP, if PNP wants to continue. My only point... the bible can not be picked apart to find those "literally true" gems. Take Care...
  • J. C. Samuelson · 3 years ago
    Dirty,

    I'm sorry, mate. I've offended you and that was not at all what I intended.

    You're absolutely right that looking at only one pixelated issue doesn't completely address the many problems with the Christian faith.

    You needn't yield the floor to anyone, especially me. It just seemed that covering all the perceived issues at once would be too much to ask of anyone. But don't let my personal preferences get in the way of your right to bring up the issues you'd like addressed.

    Hope you stick around!







  • Dano · 3 years ago
    Now that you two have yielded, maybe I can get some more "One Liners" in here.

    (I wonder if Dave8 really is on vacation?)

    Maybe PNP is taking his que from the great search for "Jimmy Hoffa" Maybe the FBI will turn up Jesus.

    Does anyone know what the fuck difference it makes whether they find Jimmy's body or Jesus's? At least Jimmy was a real living mortal, Union leader.

    Jesus was nothing more than the latest mythological "son of a God who was born of a mortal virgin, and killed in a Pagan sacrifice to his father" Nothing original there!

    Dan (Whose God is disgusted by blood sacrifices)









  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    response to annoymous answering quizical on 6/20 3:41 Boy talk about a twisted negative portrayal!

    Yes you are right about looking up to someone rather than watching out for them which is exactly what FAPC session and deacons did. This was realized immediately last August and many in the church were angry with them - everyone has blind spots especially when they are overtired. We are to be accountable to one another because we all do things that we need to be called on that we do not see properly.
    We also need to be merciful to each other and loyal when any one of us in FAPC trips up including the minister.
    There was a serious problem with someone starting slander with the past two ministers which played a big part in Boyd leaving as he was pushed over the edge losing credibility that he was an adulterer. And Tom was very concerned that Rachel not be unfairly treated because of the rumors that were deliberately started again about adultery by no doubt the same person in an attempt to undermine his ministry.

    Could that be you ???? The real wolf in sheeps clothing spreading lies deliberatly and perhaps even encouraging Joe to go ahead?

    Tom stayed in the manse until the very last day allowed him (6mos)in order to work with the lawyers
    and he has to earn a living somewhere doesn't he? It is good that he is situated close to his grandchildren and he landed a very good job indeed that will help the Red Cross-he raised $30MM
    for FAPC and was debilitated 6/04!
    To me that says that God is taking care of Tom since Tom was good to many and made a real difference.

    Tom was ready to go to a smaller church where he could concentrate on ministry not politics as well as write and teach.
    The agenda people were getting very intense that fall and winter and I believe that it may have had an effect on his marriage because of the stress Tom was under as he was already in not good shape and could not take another year like the last year of fundraising (from a very very good source that fall).

    You are obviously dislike Tom intensely. Why? because you are an evil person who wants to destroy and tell lies to those who do not recognize you for who you are.















  • Dano · 3 years ago
    Anonymous wrote:
    "To me that says that God is taking care of Tom since Tom was good to many and made a real difference"

    "Tom was ready to go to a smaller church where he could concentrate on ministry not politics as well as write and teach"

    "You are obviously dislike Tom intensely. Why? because you are an evil person who wants to destroy and tell lies to those who do not recognize you for who you are"
    posted: 6/22/2006 3:48 PM EST  

    Dan comments:
    What we need to do is ask our selves: Is tom just a poor brilliant teacher of morals and ethics, who is just over worked, or just another shinnin, grinnin, lying, stealing, cheatin, child molesting, hick preacher who has been foolin everbody all these years?

    Dan (Who needsta go put all in my truck and change the tars, so it don't ketch far)










  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Dano-

    What a vicious waste of words.

    Tom is a wonderful person. If he slipped and fell with Rachel Vione (and this is by no means clear), then he made the mistake of his life. We all make mistakes. A comprehensive review of the personal curriculum vitae of Mr. Dano would no doubt bring to light things of which you are not very proud. Of couse I would have the same problem as I suppose would all of us. You must know that. So why the venom towards this special man? Because (assuming the allegations have any basis in fact)
    he is human and made a mistake?

    The point is this. Even if Tom made the mistake of judgment as Joe Vione suggests in his lawsuit, this does not make Tom Tewell a "hick preacher" nor any of the things which you have suggested. Thopugh his special ministry, Dr. Tewell touched the souls of many, many people at FAPC and all over this country. His extraordinary work goes on now in Washington D.C. And long after the greedy Vione entourage has spent the dollars which they gleaned from the coffers of a church that is trying to help the needy people of New York and the world, Tom's mesasge, God's words from his mouth, will be with the people that know the goodness of his heart and the purpose of his mission. And you, my friend, will still be Dano. I'll choose to break my bread with Tom.

    The old football player inside me wants to punch your nose for the comments you made of my friend. But I'll just pray for you instead. That's what Jesus Christ told me to do.

    Friend of Tom










  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Those of you who are his "men" friends. He gave me a lot, too, as a church member. But his immaturity (and other people near to him) regarding how he comports himself with people. He is too old to act silly and he did.

    More general than any one person, those of you who were actually at the church. Stop living in denial.

    As a matter of fact when clergy are in these situations they are sent to therapists, and no doubt not just him.

    Let us pray he has seen the light and will live as good.

    As one pastor close to him said to me, "We are keeping him accountable." People need to know what they want in life, and that he has left town with his wife showed that is the choice they are making.







  • Dano · 3 years ago
    Anonymous wrote:
    Dano-
    What a vicious waste of words.
    Tom is a wonderful person.

    Dano responds:
    I will admit that I have never heard one of his sermons, but I assume that he is a Christian preacher. He is telling people in public, no doubt within earshot of young children that they are going to go to hell and burn forever, if they do not accept the illogical, irrational, immoral concept of God creating a son by some mysterious union with the betrothed woman "Mary," in order that he can arranged to have him murdered as a sacrifice to himself.

    The early childhood's of countless people have been devastated by this asinine pagan concept.

    The death cult called Christianity is making millions of people miserable as we speak, because it tells them that they are sinners, trash, not worthy of being happy in this life.

    Our insane asylums are full of people who go around thinking Satan is real and controlling their lives. Women drown their children because they want to save them from hell. People follow these charlatan preachers right up to the end, and drink kool aid laced with cyanide at their direction.

    If you read the testimonies of the people on this web site and I doubt that you will, you will read story after story by people whose lives have been made miserable by this death cult.

    I call all preachers "hicks", because it best describes those who make their living by instilling fear into people with the teachings of the worst book of fiction ever written.

    The webmaster publishes these stories about preachers who do all of these illegal, immoral things, to demonstrate that all too often Christians are the most unchristian people in the world.

    Read Anonymous, READ, on this site, read, and have you eyes opened. You are not special for being a Christian, you are just another robot who has shut you brain down because your book told you to.

    Dan (Praying that American government becomes separated from religious influence)





















  • J. C. Samuelson · 3 years ago
    To the anonymous "Friend of Tom" who feels like punching Dano...

    I don't know you or Tom, and can't comment as to the particulars of the case against him. Furthermore, I personally believe that some portions of the complaint are overblown. Suing for loss of faith is something many of us might like to do (especially with the lucrative nature of many suits nowadays), but this is plainly ridiculous.

    That said, apparently Rachel Vione admitted the affair, and Tom has admitted to "making a mistake," as he puts it. While I might agree with him that he made a mistake, and is merely human, your God considers him a sinner worthy of death. As a matter of fact, if the Bible is to be believed, God may wish your aggression to be directed toward Tom.

    According to the Bible, adultery is a heinous crime (Job 31:9-11), in violation of the seventh commandment (Ex. 20:14 and Deut. 5:18). Under God's Law, the adulterers are to be put to death (Lev. 20:10.

    Jesus broadened the definition of adultery outlined in the OT (Lev. 18:20 to include the mere thought of it (Matt. 5:28).

    In addition, your Jesus explicity stated that the law is still in effect (Matt. 5:17-20), regardless of the alleged atonement. This is further expanded upon by James (James 2:10-12).

    I'm well-aware that you might object with verses by Paul about justification by faith, but I would ask you, does Paul rate higher than Jesus for you?

    So, is Tom really a special man, or a mere sinner in your God's eyes, unworthy of being in God's presence? Is he not worthy of death according to your faith? He may have touched many hearts (among other organs), but according to your Bible this doesn't make up for any one of his sins.

    Perhaps you should question the justice of your God, instead of getting upset at us skeptics.

    Have a nice day.

















  • Dano · 3 years ago
    Anonymous wrote:
    "The old football player inside me wants to punch your nose for the comments you made of my friend. But I'll just pray for you instead. That's what Jesus Christ told me to do"

    Dan responds,
    What does the game of football got to do with suppression of free speech?........

    and Jesus didn't tell you shit. A collation of oral and written scribblings put together by the Roman empire for the purpose of solidifying their control over the empire has Jesus saying all kinds of things, even though it is all second hand stuff. Many people doubt that your Jesus even existed.

    READ! Anonymous, READ!

    Dano (Inspired by Agnosticism)









  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    UberGeek: Rachel Vione has not admitted to an affair in her testimony before an investigatory committee of the church; nor has Tewell. What her husband may say in the middle of a divorce proceeding and a multi-million dollar lawsuit is another matter. It is not about “touching organs”—just too much socializing, forming friendships, crossing boundaries, boring stuff like that.
  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Friend of Tom: Dano doesn’t know Tom and, like most of the unbelievers on this site, is just shooting off. They claim to be discerning thinkers and skeptics, but, for all their suspicion of “the Church,” they limit their cynicism in this case to an Elmer Gantry-like caricature of preachers. They are somehow willing to see church member Vione as lily-white and the corrupt Presbytery system as above-board just to satisfy their interest in the prurient. The real damage has come from the person I call “McCarthy-Anonymous,” whose postings I can easily recognize. She does her lying and scheming within the church and has at least one powerful ally at work with her. I’m glad someone else (Anonymous, 6/22, 3:48 P.M.) can see it also.
  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    If I'm reading this right, then Tom is an amazing wonderful man that is absolutely above all reproach, no matter what anyone ever says. In fact, it is absolutely intolerable for those who know the true Tom™ to read of any kind of accusations levied against Tom, because Tom is just too wonderful to describe in words.

    What I'm getting is that Tom is..., well..., he's just more fantastic than any skeptic or unbeliever will ever understand.

    I think I've got it now. Thanks.

    And it was in New York that they were first called Tewellians.





  • J. C. Samuelson · 3 years ago
    "Rachel Vione has not admitted to an affair in her testimony before an investigatory committee of the church; nor has Tewell."

    I stand corrected. My initial comment about Mrs. Vione and Mr. Tewell were based entirely on the news update from 27 May and the available court papers, in which Mrs. Vione is alleged to have admitted the affair in January, 2005.

    If, however, the allegation is true it will not matter to the Christian God whether the affair was of the heart or physical. At least, if the Bible is to be believed.



  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Webmaster: I am giving you the benefit of the doubt and assuming you can read. Where did I say that Tom was fantastic or even a good guy? I just implied that there is a good deal of falsehood and ignorance in the reporting of the CASE, and I am sorry that your innate skepticism hasn’t nosed it out (I happen to have more facts than you, and I can’t help it if you don’t believe that). I also meant that the real damage comes from those who tell lies within the church structure (I had thought the atheists would recognize that there is plenty of evil within churches beyond an occasional charlatan preacher), and not from folks who speculate from the outside. So, better to clean house than dream of punching a taunting unbeliever.
  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    And they'll know we are Tewellians by our love, by our love... Yes they'll know we are Tewellians by our love...

    If Tewell-ians can...(bump, bump) make it there, they'll make it (bump, bump) any...where, it's up to you... New... York... Newewew... YORK!

    (Drum roll, cymbal crash)



  • anonymous6000 · 3 years ago
    anonymous said,

    "Though his special ministry, Dr. Tewell (touched the souls of many, many people at FAPC and all over this country). His extraordinary work goes on now in Washington D.C. And long after the greedy Vione entourage has spent the dollars which they gleaned from the coffers of a church that is trying to help the needy people of New York and the world, (Tom's mesasge, God's words from his mouth, will be with the people that know the goodness of his heart and the purpose of his mission.")


    Here's the whole problem!

    We have people that think that someone can "touch the souls of many"
    by voluntarly believing such lies, no one will ever be able to perceive the truth about anything!

    Then we have this nonsense,

    "Tom's mesasge, God's words from his mouth, will be with the people that know the goodness of his heart and the purpose of his mission."

    Why can't you see that this is total nonsense garbage that you've all heard repeated out from the book of lies bible?

    What is wrong with you people, had you never heard of the bible, or heard a preacher repeat such nonsense, you would not be repeating it here.

    Why have you all let a silly book, written over 2000 years ago by totally insane people, influence the way you think and act in 2006?

    You're all INSANE, encluding TOM TEWELL!

    It's only a BOOK with words written in it, ONLY written by IDIOTS, it would take an IDIOT to believe such insane BS!

    You've all let this CONN MAN TEWELL, dupe you all into an insane oblivion.

    He's just a man, he farts and smells just like everyone else that has ever lived, he's no different than Ossama BL, as a human, no different than Hitler, as a human, no different than Pee Wee Herman, as a human, he no different than Hugh Hefner, as a human, he's just an idiot that has conned you all into believeing he's different.

    Tom Tewell is no different than any human being that has ever walked the face of the Earth!

    Any preacher is no different than any other human being that has ever walked the face of the Earth!

    They all fart and smell just like all other human beings!

    Grow up and get real for once in your lives.

    I know you refuse to, you're a sick bunch.



































  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    To Mr. Dano,

    Why are you and others so threatened by the fact that many people believe in this man and respect him for who he is and what he has done for so many others?

    The only thing clear about the Vione situation is apparently that it is not clear at all. Yet to me and apparently many others who believe that redemption is the cornerstone of Christian life, whether there was an affair or there was not an affair makes no difference. For whatever reason, Tom has stated that he made a mistake and that he was sorry for the same. He has handled this situation in a way that shows sensitivity and class. He has aked his God and your God to forgive him for whatever sin he has committed. While this means nothing to the atheist mind, it means everything to the Christian one. And there's where your east will never meet this west.

    You and the other caustic, hateful contributors to this site should have so much class.

    There are many, many people who are friends and supporters of Tom Tewell. I am just one of them but I am resolute in my defense of this man. If you never heard him speak, you would not be able to understand how very special he was and is. I have seen him give and give and give of himself so many times. I've observed his genuine love of human beings without any regard to whether they were the well-heeled Fifth Avenue type or a homeless person with nowhere else to go. He put his heart and very soul into his work which stands the test over whether he made a mistake in judgement or not with Rachel Vione.

    Say what you will in this shallow arena, Tom is a great man and a true inspiration to many. I've lived a bunch of different lives in my fifty plus years and have never met anyone like him. He has the ability to speak to a congregation of thousands with each person feeling that he is speaking directly to him or her. And he brings God's word when he speaks to them. Pretty important stuff indeed!

    So toss your bricks Mr. Dano and others and fear not a punch in the schnozz for your cheap shots on this special, gentle man. Not that you don't deserve one. But that's the beauty of the Christian life. Jesus taught us to cast off this feeling of enmity and to love our enemies and to pray for them. And that is what this friend of Tom will do tonight.

    Friend of Tom













  • anonymous6000 · 3 years ago
    Dear Brainwashed Disciple of Tom,

    Why do you worship this man? I believe it's more than basic human love, I believe there's hidden lust for this man, apparently you think he's super human, we all have the propensity to be just like Tom Tewell, we just choose not to, and you've been fooled by his performance as being called by an invisible god.

    Let me remind you that before 1492, god and jesus had never been in the Western Hemisphere, where where they hiding all those years?

    Before 1492 there had never been a church or bible on American soil, where was god and jesus all those years?

    And now we have this fundy preacher that has convenced you that he has some secret powers or a secret message to give to the world, or that he has received a blessing from an invisible god.

    Why do you find comfort in believing a lie? For some reason you find comfort in words, words gently spoken to caress your childhood fears, you are a scared man and a little boy that never grew up, it's called Peter Pan syndrome.

    Both you and Tom Tewell have never mentally fully grown up and you both prefer to live in a mental fantasy.

    The Bible and it's mental fallous fantasy, you both have been conned and duped by the insane writtings of the bible.

    The bible is nothing more than a bunch of writtings from fear based, drug over dosed, mentally insane scribblings, from sand desert rag head gypsies.

    You've based your very being on a book that was written over 2000 years ago, just because you've been told it was from a god.

    Who told you it was from god? God himself? No! another brainwashed idiot just like yourself.

    Look to your right, it shows a boy pissing on jesus, what does that tell you? It's says that you and Tom Tewell are full of piss, we piss on you and Tom Tewell and all believers of the lie-built bible.





















  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    "...Tom is a great man and a true inspiration to many...have never met anyone like him. He has the ability to speak to a congregation of thousands with each person feeling that he is speaking directly to him or her. And he brings God's word when he speaks to them. Pretty important stuff indeed!"

    And had the Koolaid been passed around, apparently no one would have thought twice about it.

    Talk about surrendering your will to a hypnotic, charismatic speaker. Charisma is not God. All good salespeople have charisma. Successful politicians have charisma. The best leaders have charisma. Charisma is a talent, perhaps an art form, but it is not divine.

    Good grief, this TT worship is just absolutely astounding. People really are sheep.





  • Dano · 3 years ago
    Dano here,
    I read a couple of Tom's sermons, and will agree that he writes some stuff full of cute homilies, platitudes, similes, cliches, and metaphors about Jesus and the Christian experience, but that doesn't change the fact that he doesn't know one damn thing more about God than any of the other characters in his sermons, he doesn't know any more about God than you, or me or Billy Graham, or the wino on skid row.

    He just pretends that he does!

    He isn't your average hick preacher, but his references to himself as Dr., minister, pastor, teacher, and how he cleverly positions himself as the subtle enabler of good things in others, sets off an innate feeling of suspicion in me that makes me want to research his credentials.

    That said Anonymous, I will tell you this; Your preoccupation with hitting people, puts you in the category or I should say company of several other people that I've known who were quick to use physical violence toward people who didn't agree with them. One is a thief and in prison, one became a hopeless alcoholic, one is a sick lonely old man with no friends, and one became a priest.

    Dan (Just a humble heathen doing what he can)








  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    anonymous 123

    have any of you who think tom made a "mistake" with rachel ever stopped to think that maybe the "mistake" was not what you think it was? those of us on the ic think this truly was a love affair...an affair of the heart...on both sides...not just on one side.

    to those of you that think he "handled this with class" here's what was said in the ic...he [tom] showed nor moral courage in the way he chose to handle this...had he told the truth and not lied [similar to lying under oath in a court of law] the outcome would have been different than it was.

    tom used the pulpit to further his own agenda...not that he didn't preach some fantastic sermons...but he wanted all of you to believe that he was the wonderful caring, husband and perfect person, so that none of you would believe that this human man with the perfect life would ever have inappropriate feelings for another woman and more importantly, act on those feelings.

    apparently...it worked!







  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Dano-

    Wow! The punch-in-the-nose comment touched a nerve, didn't it?I never struck another person in my life except on the football field where it was done in a legal fashion.

    You miss the point. I don't worship Tom, I care for him. I respect him. Because he is a friend, because he is a friend to many. Because of what he stands for. Dr. Tewell's message was Christ's message- love. I am glad that you have read some of his sermons. Read more of them and focus on what he said in those fifteen or twenty minutes each Sunday morning. He gave a simple message of hope and love and goodness and did it with such clarity and style. In this world so filled with hate and greed and anger, he brought the lessons of Jesus to our very ear in a way that moved ordinary men and women and inspired them. Thousand and thousand of congregations all over the world know the message he brought because they believe what this Man from Galilee spoke of over two thousand years ago. Tom, as has so many others, was called to bring this message to the world and he has done a magnificent job in heeding this call. Whether or not he fell to human temptation with Rachel Vione has nothing to do with the fact that he has brought God's word to the masses in such a spectacular manner.

    All men are sinners. Tom is a man and a sinner. But that is exactly why Jesus Christ came and died on this earth. If you are an atheist or an agnostic, so be it, but please respect the fact that we who are not and who have accepted Christ's message believe that a man can be redeemed from sin. Again, only a very few people know exactly what happened in this situation, but Tom has been forgiven by his God for whatever he did, if anything, and his call to bring God's message goes on. And I know he will continue to follow this call and to do wonderful things in his ministry.

    So much hate and venom from you and Anonymous6000 and others. What a shame. What a waste of time.

    Read the sermons again. And have a good weekend. Christians pray for those who love and hate them. And I am praying for you.

    Friend of Tom











  • anonymous6000 · 3 years ago
    All men are sinners. Tom is a man and a sinner.

    Why are all men sinners? Aren't women sinners also?

    Just these statements alone, show the male chauvinist jackasses that wrote the bible.

    What sin are you talking about? The only place in the world that the word "Sin" exists is in the bible or the dictionary, but the bible was written first, before the dictionary.

    To say that all men sin, is like saying that all people that breathe air, are sinners.

    Who gives you or anyone on this planet, the right to call anyone a sinner?

    You are a brainwashed zombie zealot bigot!











  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    To Mr. Anonymous6000,

    Your tirade against me falls on deaf ears. I know who I am and I am beginning to understand who you are. Not that either one of those things makes much difference. It's just that I try to show some class in my posts.

    And of course women are sinners also. Men, to the uninitiated in the world of journalism which apparently includes yourself, is a term used historically to embody all people. So excuse me. Perhaps I should have used the words "person" and "people". I meant no disrespect to the fairer sex.

    I've volunteer work to do this morning and have no time to engage in a volley of shots with someone who is apparently eager to spread his seeming unhappiness with his own life.

    Friend of Tom







  • carol · 3 years ago
    Friend of Tom is a fine example that religious belief is a mental disorder. Then in typical fundie fashion, he runs away when he cannot post anything to debate the folks on this site that have their brains in tact. But, of course, it is because we have no class, are angry, hostile, hatefull, etc, etc, etc. They must have a list of excuses somewhere.

    Christianity is most dispicable because it tells people they are bad for just being human. Ugh.

    Friend of Tom wants to hit Dano for not what Dano says, Friend is certainly a true xian!!! Why don't you go ahead an hit Dano? Won't your jeebus forgive you if you just ask? Then Dano can have your ass thrown in jail and do the world a favor.

    Dano, you should also file a civil suit angainst this fucktard and get his $, that will hurt more than anything. I can help, I am a former insurance adjuster and know a bunch of good lawyers.

    Regards to all my friends on this site, carol







  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    "Friends of Tom" are true Tewellians™ and generally happier, wiser, and better than anti-Tewellians.

    Further, aggressive sounding rhetoric is only reproachful when directed against Tewell or his devotees.

    I get it.



  • FAPCer · 3 years ago
    Tom loves EVERYONE and whoever wrote to defend him, should remember that the plaintiff's wife has now changed her statement on her feelings once she washed out of the system Jan 2006 and no longer expresssing positive feelings to the Presbytery. Reality bites.

    That business about Christian friend "as in the Bible," is how Tom would talk about you, or me.

    Ministers are "actors" who put out positive vibes, so I would take anything anyone tells you about the testimony with that grain of salt.

    So, he called me, "Babe" and "Dear," and other women, age mid 30s-50s as I overheard and could identify. He accepted and wore clothing gifts from me, which I saw him wear in public, as late as summer 2005, and what conclusion should I draw from that? He got up on a chair in front of a single man he knew I "liked," and said, "This is how I hug [him]," and I thought, this man is the senior pastor? Why is he doing this?

    So the aspects of how he was a minister that were inappropriate should be the focus going forward of how he will be different as a minister, and hopefully what he and Suzanne have learned from their professional support as part of the rehab the church requires (for Tom, in the Book of Order).

    They didn't do a good job of ameliorating Joe's concern, and spoke from the point of view of the seminary "charity." Of course he ended up suing.

    Oh, and the above critique I wrote him 8 months ago, as soon as I had really learned what misconduct in a church is. And the church knows, too, that I think their job of running the show was not good.

    So, whatever Tom might want to think about her, her current actions have showed a lack of gratitude and appreciation. Just in case anyone was wondering. Again, I think the writers are at the church and never met the people.













  • Dano · 3 years ago
    Carol!
    I have nothing but admiration for any woman who can use the noun "Fucktard" as effectually as you did in your last post. Wouldn't the world be a better place if more people called these sanctimonious fucktards, sanctimonious fucktards, more often?

    Jeez!
    All I did was ask a rhetorical question, sort of like: I wonder if "Friend of Tom" really was a "jock" like so many Americans seem to admire, or is he, actually a nerdy type who has an unhealthy fascination for the game and the "quarterback" in particular?

    What the f--k, didn't the writers of the bible have Jesus asking a lot of pointed questions?

    It's a very effective literary device. It keeps people like Tom and "Friend of Tom" sucked in doesn't it?

    Dan (Rhetorically Agnostic, who questions whether "Tewellians" actually exist?)









  • friend of rachel · 3 years ago
    response to fapcer

    i too attend fapc and know both tom and rachel very well. i think it is about time that a friend of rachel's spoke up.

    why is this tom vs. rachel, anyway? can't we support tom and rachel too? afterall...rachel did not file a lawsuit, although she clearly had a case?

    rachel did not "wash out of the program" as you have stated. she obviously could not stay in the nyc presbytery any more than tom could have.

    you state very correctly the problem tom tewell had with boundaries in the ministry. clearly he was inapproprate with many people in the church...why didn't any of us call him on it before this?

    and what about suzanne? you don't really think that she was ever going to leave him, do you? no way! not after 35 years together? where would she go? what would she do without him?

    as far as rachel's gratitude goes...
    you need to understand that she, unlike he, did not have a platform to express her feelings in any way. that's where the real power differential is plain to see. he was able to [as sr. pastor] address the session/staff and congregation at fapc. rachel was not allowed to do any of those things. i know she asked in writting to do so...i helped her write the letter.

    she has not changed her story one bit. in the beginning, she did not want to disclose all the 'gory' details in order to protect tom. once the ic was formed, she had no choice but to tell the truth and we [as her friends] encouraged her to do so. that's what she expected tom would have done as well. but he didn't until he knew he was caught.

    there;s a difference between admitting you did nsomething wrong and being "caught" one is a choice, the other is not.

    rachel has admitted her 'mistake' in this and that is that she trusted someone so completely [as do most of you.] who betrayed her and hung her out to dry...not once but TWICE!

    he loved her, but in the end he loved himself more.

    i love him too, but i also love rachel and her family and know how much they have suffered. it's interesting that none of you "christians" have expressed any concern for her or her family.






















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Well...I did call him on what I could see...but again...it was up to each person to do that.

    How could this end well? Again, Tom said time and again he had no money...now less.

    It didn't take me one minute to diagnose that there was a problem spring 2002. You could tell he was more interested in being liked than appropriate. And his comment to me when I told him my mother died was totally not helpful.

    In retrospect what should have happened is the question?





  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Women always lose. Why did she think he was any better a man than most men?

    Why did her friends not tell her to get counseling and change things and report him with the first "advance" or whatever?

  • Real world? · 3 years ago
    Betray

    v 1: reveal unintentionally. 2: deliver to an enemy by treachery 3: disappoint, prove undependable to; abandon, forsake.4: be sexually unfaithful to one's partner in marriage.5: give away information about somebody. 6: cause someone to believe an untruth.

    He disappointed us at the church.

    What would anyone "believe" that he could deliver something to an invidual in this case? That's just silly to believe someone who's married when they say, "I love you." Could be a career buster for him, if he did, but he had nothing to back it up with--so he's staying married.

    What did her parents say about it? If she has relatives in the ministry I wonder what they say.

    Exactly what "untruth" did he cause her to believe? Words? He couldn't give her a job, it doesn't work that way; he couldn't marry her unless he got divorced. So exactly where's the betrayal? The "let develop?" We have all felt accepted and then said, what if? And then we realize what the real world is.

    When will people stop believing words...what the point of this blog is! A married man is by definition not someone to be trusted unless in a work role--possibly--about work. No any other man when single.

    I guess she still held out hope so came to the Auction in May 2005 with her husband and where the Tewells were.

    Yes, he seemed like he was a bit edgy in July and August 2005, one day before the Princeton resignation took place, at his summer preaching spots.

    How did the two of them think this was going to affect their respective careers? No one could be too surprised when everything tanked--"worse case scenario."

    How many married people have gotten AIDS by trusting their partners?

    I can't believe anyone would think that a married man (or woman) could deliver anyone any bit of happiness past whatever excitement one was getting around someone.

    Who believes men anyway? That's why they made laws in and outside the church!

    Tom once preached again doing things "to be thanked." Same thing. Why would anyone take him seriously over the age of 10?

    You can't trust men...anywhere... look at the stats for these problems in the clergy.



























  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to friend of rachel who posted earlier:

    did you ever see how Rachel hung around Tom so much so that it was a concern for many? That Rachel had such a crush on Tom that she could not stay away as she wanted the attention and was obviously used to getting what she wanted in life? This is what got her in trouble !
    Tom was not the initiator of this situation.
    As hundreds witnesses can attest to
    in the congregation.

    The reason Rachel is changing her tune is because she tried to present herself as not being at fault at all that it was all about Tom because she has not been able to finish her studies at seminary due to her husband creating this situation - not very nice of him to mess things up for her months before she was to graduate - now was it?
    Rachel is trying to present her self as without fault in order to be able to complete her degree. And she made a big mistake by doing so because it takes two to tango as they say and Rachel was not a young woman easily taken advantage of being over 40. She should have apologized for her part in it and repented - then she would have stood a better chance at finishing seminary. But she showed her immaturity by how she tried to blame Tom for it all in official circles. And by doing so showed that she was not fit for the ministry because of her lack of understanding of the basics as well as not being truthful by being willing to make Tom look bad so as to salvage her career.

    Also she shows strong delusional tendencies by saying that Tom was in love with her. Tom is a caring person but to say that he was in love with her? You have got to be kidding - get real! Tom was being his usual helpful self taking an interest without looking out for himself which is where he slipped up. There were a few people who warned Tom to watch out for Rachel that she would be trouble. But Tom did not listen because he was too trusting. He has learned his lesson the hard way.It is a shame that more people did not speak up about the danger that they saw to Tom as many did feel that way - they did not trust Rachel.

    Rachel testified last spring in the investigation that what happened was NOT adultery - nothing really terrible happened
    and both testimonies fit together in such a way that the investigators knew they had the picture of what had gone on which was very borderline so as to be negligilbe.
    Rachel thought that at that time when she explained what happened
    that this would allow her to continue on in her studies.

    Now that she sees it did not
    she is using a different approach
    out of pure self interest.

    Don't kid yourself - Rachel is out for Rachel. This much is clear
    and after all that Tom helped her with without a thought for himself. But that is what happens when you get involved with someone who is not a good person.

    Rachel has shot herself in the foot twice - she should have learned her lesson about behaving appropriately.
    Rachel and Joe make quite a pair !

    I am not usually wanting to blame the woman as I understand completely how easily people put down the woman but in this case it is completely appropriate.

    It is also fair to say that Rachel did not mean to do Tom any harm can also be said - she just wanted to spend time with him.




























  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    "...what had gone on which was very borderline so as to be negligible."

    Are people removed from jobs and college based on negligible goings on?

    Here's what've gotten so far:
    1)Tom is completely above reproach.
    2)For Tom to do anything wrong, ever, is impossible.
    2)Anyone and everyone who speaks negatively about Tom, even so much as a single word, is a very bad person whose words should be silenced.

    Does that about sum it up?








  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Rachel was in the middle of a failing marriage and because of this she was prone to misreading what Tom said to her being delusional. This is very common for people in her situation that they tend to misread because they are emotionally needy.
    Because of her changed attitude emotionally towards Tom inwardly Rachel was looking for more than before and put Tom in a compromised situation by getting together in a public place for an activity that certainly was inappropriate to be doing with a minister trying to set a certain tone/make him less inhibited in order to get closer to him no doubt. If it was two lay people it would not have been damaging really as many spouses would not worry as there is trust. The governing board back in 8/05 was told it was very borderline and could be taken either way what happened.
    I think that people get the idea as to what lessens ones inhibitions - a big hint and Tom did not engage in this as a rule like the Baptists !!! It was out of character - I bet he only had club soda !

    Tom as the responsible adult in this no doubt realized that this was not a good idea because it would be misconstrued in not a good way even though there was no affair going on.
    And now Tom cannot prove that there was not an affair and people are prone to think the worst especially as it has not come out yet which breeds false rumors like they both admitted to it - not so as they both denied it spring/05.

    Tom knows that God brings good out of situations when you confess and repent acknowledging your error(his letter to the congregation) and so has not stooped to blame anyone else but himself.

    Rachel shows what kind of person she is by how she is behaving selfishly by being only too willing to do harm to the person who had been generous and trusting in order to salvage her own life. Rachel obviously does not know when you do what is right that things work out because God blesses it. She has chosen to take the way that leads to her own destruction - very short term thinking.
    Everyone at FAPC knows that it is Rachel who was the aggressor without a doubt as they have seen her over the years.
    This is a lesson on how one can think - oh it is just friends and boundaries can be kept - but when one person is in not in good shape and weak -that all falls apart which is just a matter of time.
    Tom has learned this the hard way
    and now will have his guard up much more regarding women like this being more discerning and listening to a responsible person's concern about someone next time for sure even if it is going overboard out of self protection !!












  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to those who call people Tewlites
    and other negative comments

    by what you are writing you clearly do not understand what it is to stand up for someone you care about. It also would seem that you do not have real friends who would stand up for you when needed.

    Truly you are living in a hell on earth and it is very sad to see
    how you carry own with spewing your venom with Tom as a target
    of your needing to have an outlet for your anger.

    You truly are in bondage to your anger.

    There is one thing to disagree with Christians or share a hurtful experience happening in a church but quite another to use the website as an outlet to vent hatred and certainly Christianity is not the only way you do this
    certainly there are others who are the object of your negativity.

    But there is a way out of this to a life of freedom and fulfillment if you will reach out and admit your need.

    put your abilities into making a difference in the world. You can do it with God's help to overcome your unhappiness no matter what has happened in your life and find God's love for you!!















  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    So, if I'm reading correctly here, Acrimonious commentary is synonymous with hellishness when directed against Tewellianism.

    However, when such language is directed against those who dare to doubt Tewellinaism, that would be called righteous indignation.

    Got it.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to rachel's friend

    if you want to be a real friend to Rachel then give her good guidance by sending her to someone who has mature understandings who can help her turn her life around the right way. But that takes Rachel changing the way she views life in general - she was used to getting her own way over the years and now is resorting to tactics hoping that will work.

    you obviously are not well equipped enough to do so.

    When I say that everyone at FAPC knows it was Rachel who was the agressor - I mean people in leadership positions. This is why people in official circles would not go along with Rachel's carrying on as a reaction to their denial of not consider her request to continue in her studies by being sponsored by a church.

    Wake up friend of Rachel's !!

    The persons I and many others feel sorry for are Rachel's children.
    They are the real victims in all of this. Joe and Rachel should be ashamed of themselves. Even if Rachel and Tom would have had an affair it would have been between two consenting adults over 40
    Get real Joe! Rachel was not some young easily impressionable adult
    she would have known what she was getting into. And if she had - it would have been alot to do with you living with another woman wouldn't it (NY Post article 9/05)

    And dont drag Suzanne into this
    trying to say that they stayed together because what would Suzanne do. She has four beautiful grandchildren and has a very close relationship with her son and daughter in law.
    Tom and Suzanne are very devoted to each other - it is not just a matter of convenience that she stays. It is out of love and loyalty and it has made the family closer not further apart. That is what happens in crises.
















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to Rachel's friend concerning
    the person who posted on 6/24
    at 4:34 PM

    is known to be a person who is angry about Tom leaving FAPC
    and cannot handle it needing to place blame somewhere/somehow and shifts from blaming Suzanne, Rachel, Tom, as her thinking shifts from one to the other.

    People understand what it is all about and have been very gracious to this person on the whole.

    And of course there will always be people who are so self centered that they will take this situation and use it claim things about Tom with regards to themselves that he behaved inappropriately. This is to be expected unfortunately when a person has dealt with so many over the 10+ years in a place like NYC where the risks are higher and the pressures much worse from people being more aggressive than back in the early 1990s.

    We certainly do not hear anything like this from his previous congregations. It is known that a person has a history in these kind of behaviors. It just doesn't start in one place all of a sudden.










  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    so webmaster
    you did not answer my question !!!

    are you a happy person ?
    (I highly doubt it)

    do you have friends that you believe in and they in you?
    who would stand up for you and you for them when under attack

    not blindly but admitting that they made a mistake but that you would not abandon them for a slipup.
    Who could hold any kind of position without making some kind of mistake anyway? Especially one involving dealing with so many people?

    I could understand it if you threw darts because Tom was a deliberatlymean & selfish person

    But clearly that is not the case













  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    My surmise is that the Webmaster and others don't know Tom at all. Never met him, never heard him, know little or nothing about this matter other than the sensational garbage in the papers last year.

    The members of FAPC, of which I am one, know how Rachel absolutely idolized Tom. I always sat in the front on the left and often times next to Rachel. Her body language was pretty unmistakeable when Tom was in the pulpit. Whatever. Whatever happened has happened.

    Tom is gone and I believe that FAPC is the poorer for it. i doubt many members would disagree with that statement but perhaps I would be surprised. There is obviously another school of thought on this point and you have to respect those people who feel that way. Yet both views come from FAPC people who were certainly affected by this sad situation. I doubt that includes the Webmaster or the inane Anonymous6000 or a few others. So the mean and/or vulgar thoughts mean as much to me as the lint I pick from my suit and toss to the pavement.

    I came to this site to get information about Tom and to commiserate a bit with fellow FAPCers. The cheap shots leveled at Tom raised my hackles a bit and I suppose I was a bit out of line for suggesting that my college football mentality would have possibly handled this matter in a different way. I know better and am sorry I said that. But Tom Tewell is a great guy and a good friend to many, many people as well as an extraordinary minister.

    And I guess I am the kind of person who sticks by his friend, in good or in bad times. And for that, I offer no apology whatsoever.

    Friend of Tom









  • another friend of rachel · 3 years ago
    let's clear things up a bit shall we?

    first of all...it is a FACT that rachel did indeed graduate from Princeton Theological Seminary in May of 2005. she graduated with awards given to her by the seminary [not by tom]

    obviously she could no longer stay under care of the session at fapc...too bad, because she also did a lot of good work in ministry there as well.

    yes...she did look up to tom...she believed in him and his ministry...just like many of you.

    rachel has repented...she told the truth from the beginning...something that was not easy to do...she stood a lone in the truth, until the ic got the information they needed to "prove" that he was lying.

    let's also be clear and this WILL come out when the ic report is made public...tom was the AGRESSOR is this situation. rachel was not even involved at fapc when all this happened...she was working at another church and not involved at fapc or with tom at the time.

    he asked to see her and told her about his feelings for her. they then started "dating" a fact that again can be proven when the ic report comes out.

    i think if tom had told the truth in the beginning we could have worked something out where he could have stayed at fapc after he got the counseling he needed.

    joe found about about this relationship in feb. 2005 and confronted tom about staying away from rachel. tom continued to 'see' rachel [the dates, times, places...included what they had to eat and drink...and it wasn't ginger ale...will also come out in the ic report]

    tom also contined to call rachel even after the investigation was underway...continuing to express his love for her...it's all on tape.

    this is hard to hear about a man who we all love...but the facts are the facts...not because I say so, but because that's what's come out of the ic.

    i think that we all know what a busy man tom tewell was while he was at fapc...how did he have time to spend 3-4 nights a week with rachel?

    if she were really that 'needy' as you say, why wouldn't the miniterial candidates committee have dealt with her?

    yes...tom did have a good heart and did a lot to help people, but tom spent time with rachel because he wanted to spend time with rachel. period.

    this has turned into such a sensationalized mess. non of rachel's friends condone what joe has done in terms of filing the lawsuit, but we also don't condone tom's actions either.



























  • Dano · 3 years ago
    Webmaster!
    If you ever take this soap off the web, you are going to make a lot of people unhappy.

    I am just a fascinated bystander, observing the events taking place in this "Greek Tragedy," but many posters to this thread are real people, intimately involved and intertwined in the lives of these "larger than life" characters.

    I suspect that there will be spinoffs though, one being titled, "Rachel," subtitled:

    (Can the "Leggy" devotee of the charismatic, founder of Tewellianism, who brought him down through "Counseling," find love and happiness with a career in the religion business, and live happily ever after?)

    Dan (Who is fascinated by anything mythological)








  • anonymous6000 · 3 years ago
    Since my screen name was mentioned, let me just say, since I believe in Freedom Of Speech.

    I do not know Tom Tewell, nor could I recognize Tom if he walked into the same room as I, all my comments were based on my own observations of having lived and seen the same shinanigins going on in churches the very same thing in the area where live which is 600 miles away.

    We had a Baptist preacher at age 51, to be caught in Bed with a 21 year old girl, discovered by his wife, some members where so ready to forgive him and move on, but out of shame he left on his own accord.

    Now the Bible as I have read it, maybe I've read it wrong, says adulterers will burn in Hell!!!!

    Now I'm an Atheist, I've been married for over 35 years and I have never commited adultry as described in the Bible, here's why.

    When we married, I believed the bible to be the truth, we both took an oath and a pledged to be married and to be faithful to each other until Death do us part, this oath I believed at that time, was to God, and we've both stayed by that oath to this very day.

    Now we read about people put on high places and preach and put on a big show and take people's money and tell how much they love the lord and that you should too, but when tempation comes sneaking in, it's perfectly OK to break one or two of god's holy rules, because you can always run back to jesus 24/7 and get forgiveness.

    When people elect people to live by the rules of god and they preach about adultery and tell other people how they should live and suddenly get caught breaking those godly rules, this is what breaks down all of religions credibility, it speaks loudly BOGAS!!! It denounces the bible and religion a whole and it speaks loudly of Fraud!!!

    What my happiness and the WM happiness has absolutely nothing to do with Tom Tewell and anyone else on the face of the Earth.

    FOT said,

    The members of FAPC, of which I am one, know how Rachel absolutely idolized Tom. I always sat in the front on the left and often times next to Rachel. Her body language was pretty unmistakeable when Tom was in the pulpit. Whatever. Whatever happened has happened.


    Here's the whole problem in any church anywhere in the world!

    The bible and religion is all a lie, it will always continue to be a lie, you cannot turn a lie into the truth.

    You've all been lied to so much you cannot recognize truth now, if you had to.

    The bible has never been true and it never will be, you all are trying to make a lie become true, it cannot happen.

    You all worship a lie, you gladly pay people to get before you and tell you lies that you want to hear.

    You all are trying to make a lie, the bible, become true.


    You all are trying to make a lie, the bible, become true.


    You all are trying to make a lie, the bible, become true.

    You all think that the more people you can convence that the bible is true, that it will become true.

    There's not one truth in the bible, not one! Find it, I challenge anyone to find one truth in the bible and print it here.

    And not Israel will become a nation, I hardly call Israel a nation, or that we all die, I know this, without having to read a bible.

    I'm waiting for one truth that is in the bible.

    Post one truth found in the bible below!

    1.


















































  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Well, the word no is useful.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to who posted on 6/25 1:27

    how would you feel if someone said that all aethists were awful people because they met a bunch whom they did not like?
    So you must be awful too!
    that is a terrible argument indeed by any standard and you do not know of all the wonderful giving people out there who are in the ministry obviously. Yes there are some who are not good agreed but that is in any profession.



  • anonymous6000 · 3 years ago
    You never read anything that was said!

    I never mentioned anything about anyones feelings, what does anyones feelings, have to do with anything in the world?

    I'm talking about TRUTH!!!!!!!!

    None of you could recognize truth, if it smacked you in the face, it has nothing to do with anyones feelings.

    Where does anyones feelings have to do with truth?

    Your feelings may have been hurt because you let yourself believe a lie.

    Read what I wrote, not what you want to believe.











  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to friend of Rachel

    Rachel could have stopped hanging around Tom if he had done things of which she plans to tell all the gory details. Yes there is a word -no. Since she was interning at another church she had no real reason to see Tom except for mentoring.
    And where are the people who would be credible witnesses to corroborate her stories as well as supporting evidence. The answer is there is none.
    There were a number of people at Princeton seminary to whom Rachel told that she was going to work with Tom closely in the future.
    Little did she know that Tom was
    applying to churches far away that were smaller so as to have more time to spend with his family.
    That's right !!!!

    And to say that Tom had an advantage as Sr Minister - no he did not because he is considered the responsible adult in all of this. Also he was cut off from any contact with the congregation and staff as of September going on a leave of absence. Rachel had the opportunity to have another shot at continuing at seminary if another church would sponsor her and she appeared in front of a committtee telling them it was all Tom's fault trying to make herself look totally innocent. Not very mature behavior or smart - she should have realized that everyone there knew how much she hung around Tom and were not going to buy into that line. And by doing so she closed the door on any chance of going back to seminary as this is not the kind of person who is trustworthy and can hurt other people. Difficult situations bring out who a person truly is when they respond and Rachel gave the committee quite an eyeful/earful of carrying on without any humility when she did not get her way.

    So now Rachel is trying to say that Tom acted very badly because she did not get what she wanted in that meeting. It is possible that in an argument she said to Joe that she and Tom were having an affair just to get back at him for living with another woman. In so doing she dragged Tom into her marital difficulties and did great harm to the church. She said that she was very sorry in the cover letter to the congregation but has changed her tune because of her predicament that is self inflicted.
    Also a friend of hers said to the Post back in September that "this has nothing to do with Tom Tewell -Joe has been living with another woman"
    she has no remorse about the tremendous damage her actions has done to the church by wanting to go into the gory details better she should be ashamed. Better that she just keep her mouth shut and stop the game playing - damage control - hasn't she done enough harm to alot of other people not to mention her children? How can she live with herself with what she is doing?

    If Joe had not brought the civil suit Tom would have been able to remain in the presbytery but once that front page article appeared in the Post - it was all over for Tom. But they gave Rachel a chance to speak for herself to get back into seminary - and she blew it.

    Now she is throwing in with her husband to get money obviously.
    Joe figures that he has hit paydirt
    with trying to say marital counseling was given - so as to solve his financial problems.

    Hopefully the parties involved will hold strong and not give into this since no marital counseling was given just referral to existing programs. The case is built entirely on this. Ministers cannot be sued for inapproprate conduct which is why joe is trying this angle.

    It is time for Rachel to take responsiblity for her own actions.

    And Joe it is God who gives security and protection - you have made money your God !!
    In the end it will destroy you and may even extend to your loved ones-there is such a thing as consequences and don't think for a minute that you can escape that.

    I would not want to be in your shoes not for anything considering the anguish and regret that you will experience for the rest of your life.

    If I were you I would turn from this while there is still time to save yourself. It is very clear - revenge is mine says the Lord and that Christians are not to sue each other. God does it better than we ever can if we leave it to him.





























  • anonymous6000 · 3 years ago
    That's the whole problem anyway isn't it? You all know that no one can live up to the bible standards, and commandments and therefore you're off quickly to forgive anyone regardless of the crime or sin.

    This is exactly what is wrong in America today, we've all been told to Forgive anybody of any crime or bibilical sin, because everyone knows they cannot live by the bibilical standards.

    This is the reason we cannot hold anyone accountable for anything, we do not want to punish the people that commit heinous crimes, we're wanting to quickly forgive Lee Boyd Malvo and John Muhammad, we can't kill them now, because you bleeding heart jesus forgivers are so quick to forgive, lets forgive Hitler and Ossama Ben Laden and anyone right on the spot, we should turn all criminals loose, maybe jesus will enter their hearts!

    What a bunch of brainwashed fools you christians have allowed yourselves to become, you and your folly mythical jesus and your instant forgiveness has totally ruined this country, it's not even safe to be outside now, because we cannot put people to death for crimes, because all have sinned and we all need to find jesus, what a bunch of bullshit.

    Tell that to the people who were walking around in Washington D.C. and when their husband or wife's head exploded and blood and brains were spilled all over the ground, where the fuck was jesus then?

    You're the one's that are sick, just totally sick in the head.

    Your belief in a false fairytale will continue to destroy this country, what do you think makes up this country? People, and if you keep screwing up people's heads with false myths, this counry will soon be taken over by another country, because they may find jesus, and we do not want to hurt anyone's feeling do we?











  • .:webmaster:. · 3 years ago
    To all the anonymous FAPC drones (or Tewellians, if you prefer): Instead of posting under the vague "anonymous" title, please notice that there is another radio button aptly labeled "other." By clicking the "other" button, posters are given the option to sign their posts under a pseudonym. Posters are still technically anonymous, but using a pseudonym facilitates conversation. When there are half a dozen "anonymous" posters, it's pretty tough to keep up with which anony said what.

    To one of the many anonymous posters, the one who believes I am unhappy or without friends because I don't worship Tewell, I respectfully decline to defend myself. Why? Well, it's irrelevant to the topic, and it's not a soup question. (Those who've found Forrester will understand.)

    This pathetic drama confirms and illustrates that there is no magical Hokey Spittle (err, Holy Spirit), inhabiting the breasts, I mean uhm, hearts, of Christian leaders. The magically mysterious HS doesn't lead any pastors or protect any flocks. Whatever the length, depth or thrust of this pastor's relationship with his female cohort, the HS didn't give anyone a clue about it.

    Obviously everyone who has lived four or five decades can list things from their life that aren't the prettiest or the best choices. That reality is beside the point. The issue here is that this pastor wore the mantle of Tewellian high priest, someone in direct daily communication with Deity -- an apostle of righteousness and a spiritual leader of HIS children.

    Well, sarcasm aside, isn't that what he proclaimed himself to be? Your spiritual leader?

    TT was a good pastor because he was a good entertainer. He made you feel good -- that's it! He had a charismatic flair with words and a charming personality. You liked it and you paid him to keep doing it. Now the show is over because of his own actions and choices. Some people mourn, some mock, and some are mad.

    This situation, perhaps more than many of the situations involving pastors who have fallen, dramatically illustrates that Christianity is phony. Christians will tolerate deception, lies, robbery, etc., as long as they feel good while it's happening. If Christians are fed something that makes them feel bad, they regurgitate, repulse, and reject it... Truth that hurts is irrelevant—gushy feelings reign supreme.

    Loyalty can be a positive or a negative force, it depends on the situation. Loyalty toward a friend won't deliver that friend from the consequences of his actions. Public figures risk public disgrace when they willfully screw up. TT is publicly disgraced and everyone who worships him was deceived.

    That's the truth.















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to "another friend of Rachel's
    who wrote on 6/25 at 11:30 ish

    This is obviously an imposter
    posing as a friend and also someone on the IC committee earlier on and also as a CURRENT staff member spreading disinformation

    While it is true that Rachel did graduate from Princeton she has yet to complete the requirements for ordination in the Presbyterian Church. And she needed to get an opportunity to appear in front of a committee of the NYC Presbytery
    to remain under the care of the Presbytery. So Rachel at this point is not able to complete the requirements since they did not want to keep Rachel under the care of the Presbytery because she is not a viable candidate.

    Also why would Tom continue to call Rachel after Joe confronted him? You are the one who needs couseling in fact psychiatric.

    I will admit that you may have access to what has been going on at the IC level but you are committed to spreading falsehoods.

    taking advantage of the report still remaining under wraps because of the Presbytery wanting to keep it secret (not only Tom)
    until the civil suit is over - this is to protect the church as it will open the way for a real free for all.













  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    since rachel was so needy with regards to Tom
    she was placed in another church to do her internship
    According to a friend of Rachel's (for real) Joe and Rachel were upset at Rachel being transfered out of FAPC for her field work
    because of the rumors. So that was most likely the purpose for the meeting at the manse. Isn't it interesting that Joe tries to make out that the main focus was concern about clearing Rachel's name through an investigation rather than their discontent with the decision to transfer her out of FAPC for her field work. (Rachel was still very much around at FAPC on Sundays every week as she could not stay away from Tom.)


  • friend of rachel · 3 years ago
    why would tom continue to call rachel?

    because he thought he could get away with it that's why! he thought that the rules didn't apply to him.

    btw...rachel's field education was in 2005-2006 not in 2002 when the meeting at the manse occured. get your facts straight!

    all of this is easily verifiable, and in fact has been via phone records, tapes and credit card receipts.

    the ic did not want to keep the report under wraps...they complied with tom's request to do so, because of the civil suit. that report is clearly damaging to tom because a] it shows that he initially lied and b] because of what the charges are in the report.

    btw...tom also called rachel while he was on vacation with suzanne. what a jerk he was to his wife.

    again...these are the details that will come out in the end.

    so were all the other trhousands of people who showed up on sunday mornings to worship also ther because they couldn't stay away from tom? from what i understand, church attendance is down since he left. what do you make of that? who were you all there to really worship, anyway?

    rachel is no longer under care of the nyc presbytery...hope could she be given the noteriety of the case and the fact that her ex husband sued the chuch and presbytery? it doesn't take a presbyterian genius to figure out that there was no way for her to stay under care there. she didn't appeal the decision, because she knew it was the right one.















  • friend of rachel · 3 years ago
    oops! correction...rachel's field education was from 2004-2005.

    she graduated in may 2005.

  • Not born yesterday · 3 years ago
    No "friends of Rachel" have said she had any interest in God or religion. So she abandoned her children to go to seminary. Wanted to see if she could "get" Tom. Oldest "man trap" ploy in the book. Amanda was 2.

    Pretty obvious, but now you have proved her specious interest in religion. And her language classes--did she pass them, no? And her ordination exam--did she take it, no? At least one other FAPC person has been ordained who graduated with her in May 2005. Why is she not ordained?

    Even a "friend of Tom's" (not here), said, "He was very naive, I hope he learned something."

    Men NEVER see that "interest" in their interest is a sham. If it's "free" they may take it. But they also "take what they can get," if it's interest or someone to do their work. That's how he was supporting his wife! She just played into that. Wow...someone who would anything for him! Maybe not as naive as we think. Maybe Suzanne was not very naive either. Someone who would work as hard for her husband as she did. Pretty smart if you ask me.

    Same person said, "Who would trust a married person 'away' from their spouse to be faithful to them?"

    So you are presenting someone who was a "married virgin" with no experience in the outside world, and more's the pity, actually think people are trustworthy. And there are several pathologies--all about what people "think" is true, is not.

    So, you are fishing, and anyone can make a tape from Tom's CDs and that is easily found. Anyone can figure out it was a trumped up tape, and if he said the word "love" on a tape that was pretty stupid, but then he said it all the time.

    How could we believe a married woman who is upset about a man not leaving his wife for her, and that's what this is all about. Seems like a deal, they have delayed their divorce proceedings again until the judge meets with the civil suit plaintiff and defense again. Pretty obvious.

    So any woman not under the care of a legal guardian who claims someone said the word "love" to her and expects anyone to care, is really not experienced in the world. Because why would any married woman expect any married person to be honest with her when she is not being honest with her husband. That is simply not logical and even if she produces 1000 letters (and no one has said there are any), professing "love" it is not a contract in a court of law, and she would still be exactly where she is now. Out on her own.

    So, friends of Rachel, you have spent no time outlining anything that would make her seeem interested in God's work...I rest my case.

    "Taping" someone is illegal in NY unless the person knows, and these "FOR" have still not quoted Joe on how he felt about his wife leaving the children.

    She put Him pretty far down the list.

    She could have become a minister, perhaps, but not this way. God actually has to come first.

    Not one FOR has tried to persuade us of our dedication to the Lord.

























  • chicago observer · 3 years ago
    so...rachel went to seminary just to see if she could "get" tom? mmm...that's a little far fetched isn't it?

    rachel went to seminary part time so she wouldn't have to 'abondon" her children as you put it. she commuted a great distance to go to princeton...she could have gone some where else to seminary, but tom sat down with both her AND joe to convince her that princeton was the best plave for her to go.

    it was a very careful and prayerful decision on both her and joe's part, and yes tom was very influential but to say that she went to get him is a lie.

    those of us who knew rachel in chicago, knew of her dedication to serving the lord...none of us was surprised when she followed God's call [yes, God's call, not tom's] to go to seminary.

    i know i probably shouldn't waste my time defending her on this site, because all of you christians have condemned her already.

    why is it that God's grace and forgiveness should be extended to tom but not to rachel? it doesn't work that way.

    her dedication to the lord is not something that any of us need to "persuade" you of.

    tom and rachel both made mistakes..we all do. stop condeming someone when you have no idea what you're talking about.

    if you are a member at fapc and had concerns about all of this, then instead of turning a blind eye...you and others should have said something at the time, then maybe things would be different for everyone right now. hind sight is 20/20 you know.















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "if you are a member at fapc and had concerns about all of this, then instead of turning a blind eye...you and others should have said something at the time, then maybe things would be different for everyone right now. hind sight is 20/20 you know.."

    Absolutely right...I couldn't have said it better.

    And then why did anyone take any steps that could 1) put Tom is this position and derail his career and 2) put Rachel in this position and derail her career?

    That is exactly the question "Chicago" person...exactly right! So why was this a problem for anyone?





  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I still don't understand what prompted the two suits. If Joe and Rachel's goals were being met by her going to the seminary, then what was the problem? Joe, Tom and Rachel knew each other. Joe didn't approve of Tom and Rachel talking? At what precise moment? It's all too confusing.

    Tom and Rachel must have forgiven each other since that is what Christians do.

    So, why we have spent over one year embroiled in suits when everyone was happy?

    Certainly if Rachel were in a difficult situation and that prevented her from getting ordained as quickly as her peers, then I, too, would seek remedies to fix that. No one should let fear of someone's authority get in the way of doing God's work.

    And if people truly felt that this problem were pervasive, then there are legal remedies for the "group."

    So maybe that is the ministry she has been called to do, to let people know how churches should be run.

    So, if that is her belief, that people should have stepped in and insured that she was able to be ordained on time, then, certainly, she should move along on her path.

    And, certainly, if she asked for help and didn't receive it, then certainly she should get credit for trying to do the right thing, and stand up for herself and not let the fact that we don't know how to run churches be the deciding factor in her goal of ministry.













  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    when the letter first went out to the congregation last August
    I asked someone who had been employed at FAPC until a few years ago about it. This person(who was very respected) told me that the woman involved was a PREDATOR
    and this was well understood.

    Also if Rachel was such a solid person and fit for ministry she would not now through a friend be threatening to release the gory details. Which is really an attempt to blackmail as well as put pressure on the insurance company to settle on behalf of the church and Tom.

    Rachel has behaved in such a way as to show that she is not fit for the ministry. Yes she has a very positive personality that makes a person feel uplifted and which she used to her advantage. No doubt Tom was inclined to spend time with her because of this. But to say that when saying I love you it was not agape love is ridiculous.
    I heard many times on receiving line "I love you".
    And it is a well known secret among staff and session that Tom was actively looking for another position not in the local area.
    Rachel was going around Princeton Seminary telling people that she and Tom were going to work together closely after her graduation.

    Rachel has shown by her behavior in front of the committee that she was not suitable for the ministry.
    That is why she did not get to be ordained. And they had every reason to do this.

    Rachels friend saying that she held back on gory details because she did not want to hurt Tom is also ridiculous. It was out of self interest as Rachel was hoping things would blow over and she would be able to still work with Tom (or perhaps she was hoping that Tom would divorce Suzanne
    a result of Rachel's own messed up marriage and delusional mindset)

    This is not a nice person who is capable of causing much damage and did by pulling Tom into her marital situation. She was not careful to keep Tom out of her deteriorating personal situation with her husband who was living with another woman.
















  • High in the sky · 3 years ago
    Ladies and gentlemen, and children of all ages, everyone whom Tom said "love" to, raise your hand!

    Everyone who made something of it, grow up!

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Ladies and gentlemen, and children of all ages, everyone whom a second hand party said "god" to, raise your hand!

    Everyone who made something of it, grow up!

  • just askin... · 3 years ago
    to those of you that have posted that tom was actively seeking a job in a smaller church, which by the way seems insignifigant in all of this, if that's true then why did tom state in his letter to the congregation that " I ENVISIONED BEING YOUR PASTOR FOR MANY YEARS TO COME"???

    just another contradiction for an already troubled and confused man, i guess, huh?

    another point of clarification...tome has always said that he would like to be on staff with rachel [somewhere other than fapc]because of her energy and enthusiasm and passion for the ministry...something he clearly didn't have in his colleagues at fapc.

    if he did...why would they all be leaving now that he's not there anymore?

    just askin...







  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    So...Rachel had an uplifting ersonalit and energy that made you feel good

    and Tom had charisma and gave sermons that made you feel good

    that's what you Christians like...someone who can make you feel good

    sounds like these two belong together! It's a match made in heaven!





  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Would you tell the congregation at a painful time like that that you were considering leaving?
    It was a time to try to comfort
    and say that you care about them.

    And who knows perhaps Tom would have worked something out where
    he could delegate more and therefore have more time for his family at FAPC.

    I understand he was working towards that direction - he had been candid about that.

    But perhaps his family wanted him to leave NYC which most likely was the case - not his decision/desire.








  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to rachel's "friends" who posted

    From what I understand - Rachel was at FAPC every Sunday - up front and center of the pupit

    yes her internship was transferred to another church and for good reason which she was not happy about at all! But she could not help herself so it had to be done.

    Also many times I heard people on line tell Tom "I love you"
    which is agape love that is meant as an encouragement/validation
    of each other. Remember we are
    to LOVE ONE ANOTHER that is how people will know we are Chrisians.

    By my speaking up I am trying to bring some clarity and hope that Rachel will reconsider her ways.

    Regarding what Tom had to drink
    I stand corrected! Yes I was told that he had a glass of wine (not a non alcholic drink)but this is not allowing onself to lessen inhibitions or judgement which is what I was addressing really.
    It is within reason.














  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to the person who said that both Rachel and Tom forgive one another

    were it only true with regards to Rachel!!

    To try to put the blame on Tom entirely that she was not at fault at the committee meeting - she has the mind of a vulnerable child who is unable to make adult choices?

    Of course everyone there realized it was ludicrous in light of her behavior over the years.

    Rachel by her trying to portray her self as entirely innocent revealed what she is really like.
    Testing has a way of showing what we are made of / mind set which lead to a huge error in judgement -showing that Rachel does not even understand the basics. That the truth will set you free - if she had just expressed some sorrow for her part and she has learned from it - that may well have enabled her to have continued her work so as to be ordained. But Rachel showed that she is not a person of faith - looking for the best angle to employ.

    A person coming out of seminary definitely should be above this kind of behavior (as should any mature adult)There was no self assessment. And now she has no one to blame but herself and her friends who encouraged her in this.

    Posing proudly for the NY Post was another example of poor judgement and said to many that Rachel was not the least bit sorry or ashamed or humbled by what happened or even worried about people in the church and how they had been affected by this. She just wanted to put the best face possible for herself. Very telling !!

    Rachel graduated with honors -well one has to be able to understand and integrate into daily actions
    and this did not happen. Yes Rachel was good at "doing" but obviously did not get it that tactics and now trying to change her story in order to be ordained
    does not work in the end (as per a friends posting a few days ago).

    By doing so Rachel has lost credibility especially when she tried to put all the blame on Tom
    (using as the basis that the minister is the responsible adult most likely)

    In the beginning last August
    I was willing to be open that Rachel just did not use good judgement. But now she proves that she is not trustworthy.
    Rachel had her chance to tell the story in the beginning - too late now to decide to make a change.
    Fortunately the investigation was very conclusive (by the insurance company I am told) - only something very borderline occured.
    All the testimonies and evidence matched in such a way as to give confidence.

    Lets hope that Rachel comes to her senses and repents for her own sake



























  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "Testing has a way of showing what we are made of / mind set which lead to a huge error in judgement -showing that Rachel does not even understand the basics."

    On the basics.

    Romans 8:29-30 "For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate.... Moreover whom he did predestinate, them he also called: and whom he called, them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also glorified."

    Tom & Rachel were predestined to engage in their acts as part of god's will.

    2 Th.2:11-12 "God shall send them strong delusion, that they should believe a lie: That they all might be damned."

    Tom & Rachel's god, per the record has a history of lying and deluding people to conform to his will. Basically, choices in life, are only an illusion, per the christian bible.









  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "Would you tell the congregation at a painful time like that that you were considering leaving?
    It was a time to try to comfort
    and say that you care about them."

    Revelation 21:8 "All iars shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone."



  • GC FRIEND · 3 years ago
    I am a friend of Rachel's from Garden City. I have walked with her through all of this and know how very painful it has been for her.

    I'm not sure what exactly you want her to change her ways about.

    First...she has told the truth from the beginning...her story has not changed...that's what happens when you tell the truth.

    Rachel NEVER expected that Dr. Tewell would lie about their relationship...not to anyone. He basically stabbed her in the back, by allowing all of you to portray her as the aggressor, and by lying about his feelings for her.

    Rachel has said she was sorry...in fact in the letter to the congregation from the clerk she expressed her deep regret for her involvement in all of this.

    She even called tom's wife to apologize to her...not many women would do that.

    This is not "all Rachel's fault" anymore than it is "all Tom's fault." They both made a huge mistake, but Tom made an even bigger one by lying about it.

    As far as the NY Post in concerned...it's a tabloid newspaper...of couse they will portray her as "posing" How rediculous that is.

    What about Tom jogging on the beach in New Jersy a couple of days later...was he posing too?

    Rachel is working hard to get her life back on track and those of us who know and love her will stand by her as she does so, knowing that God isn't finished with her yet, either.

















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "But perhaps his family wanted him to leave NYC which most likely was the case - not his decision/desire."

    Luke 14:26 "If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children,and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple."

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "Rachel is working hard to get her life back on track and those of us who know and love her will stand by her as she does so, knowing that God isn't finished with her yet, either."

    1 Corinthians 14:34-35 "Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law. And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church."

    1 Timothy 2:11-12 "Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence."



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "In the beginning last August
    I was willing to be open that Rachel just did not use good judgement. But now she proves that she is not trustworthy."

    Romans 2:1 "Therefore thou art inexcusable, O man, whosoever thou art that judgest: for wherein thou judgest another, thou condemnest thyself; for thou that judgest doest the same things."


  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "Regarding what Tom had to drink
    I stand corrected! Yes I was told that he had a glass of wine (not a non alcholic drink)but this is not allowing onself to lessen inhibitions or judgement which is what I was addressing really.
    It is within reason."

    Galatians 5:21 "Drunkenness ... and such like ... they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God."

    Proverbs 20:1 "Wine is a mocker, strong drink is raging: and whosoever is deceived thereby is not wise."





  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "What about Tom jogging on the beach in New Jersy a couple of days later...was he posing too?"

    2 Peter 2:18 "For when they speak great swelling words of vanity, they allure through the lusts of the flesh, through much wantonness, those that were clean escaped from them who live in error."

  • Follower of Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Anonymous,
    Oh Anonymous from which great wisdom cometh, you who are wise and possess the spirit of his word. You who are the wisest of all the Anonymouse's. Great giver of the word as it was written from God.

    Please continue to minister to we Tewellians, for we are lost in verbosity, and have put our trust in mortals, and have become the most simple minded group of personality cultists that ever played the game of Christianity!


  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "Please continue to minister to we Tewellians, for we are lost in verbosity, and have put our trust in mortals, and have become the most simple minded group of personality cultists that ever played the game of Christianity!"

    2 Timothy 3:6-7 "For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts, Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth."

    1 Timothy 5:13 "And withal they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house; and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not."

    "Please continue to minister to we Tewellians, for we are lost in verbosity, and have put our trust in mortals,"

    Genesis 5:2 "Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created."

    Jeremiah 15:6 "I [God] am weary of repenting."









  • preacherman · 3 years ago
    Dear Anonymous...the one who apparently has memorized the Bible so that it might be used as a two-edged sword, to destroy and injure and kill...how many prophets, how many innocents, how many gentle souls - like Jesus - have you and your ancestors slain to protect your own sick brand of righteousness? Almost thou persuadest me to NOT be a Christian.
  • Life after life · 3 years ago
    The way the church works is that pastors are restricted in their associations with church members, but not the rest of city dwellers.

    So Rachel is expecting a man with problems to be "honorable", by her definition. Well, you can't have it both ways. She was plenty happy with how things were going before, when she thought she was in the catbird seat for a swell job. Now that dream is gone, so what? Life's a beach.

    And when was she planning to complain about his behavior and report him to the Personnel Committee or the Session, if that is her stance.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "Almost thou persuadest me to NOT be a Christian."

    Genesis 1:31 "God saw every thing that he had made, and, behold, it was very good."

    Genesis 6:6 "And it repented the Lord that he had made man on the earth, and it grieved him at his heart."

    Genesis 7:23 "And every living substance was destroyed which was upon the face of the ground, both man, and cattle, and the creeping things, and the fowl of the heaven; and they were destroyed from the earth: and Noah only remained alive, and they that were with him in the ark."





  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "The way the church works is that pastors are restricted in their associations with church members, but not the rest of city dwellers."

    Galatians 1:10 "For do I now persuade men, or God? or do I seek to please men? for if I yet pleased men, I should not be the servant of Christ."

    A servant, doesn't please anyone, except god.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "So Rachel is expecting a man with problems to be "honorable", by her definition. Well, you can't have it both ways. She was plenty happy with how things were going before, when she thought she was in the catbird seat for a swell job. Now that dream is gone, so what? Life's a beach."

    Genesis 29:30 "And he went in also unto Rachel , and he loved also Rachel more than Leah, and served with him yet seven other years."

    "And when was she planning to complain about his behavior and report him to the Personnel Committee or the Session, if that is her stance."

    Leviticus 20:10 "And the man that committeth adultery with another man's wife, even he that committeth adultery with his neighbour's wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death."





  • Devout follower of Biblical An · 3 years ago
    To Biblical Anonymous:
    There are some pretty good bibles out there that are written in modern English.

    It would be a big help if you would buy one and deliver your messages to us, your disciples, in language more understandable, simpler, without all the thee's and thou's, and thus more easily, and quickly understood, by your humble followers.


    For instance, instead of saying that "He did not go into her," it would be nice to just hear, that he did not consummate a physical relationship with her.

    "He did not have sexual relations with that woman!"

    Thank you,
    Devout follower of Biblical Anonymous










  • Upfront · 3 years ago
    How any graduate of a seminary can defend her putting someone she claims to have feelings for--once upon a time--we know what happened in the Presbytery in January, so don't pretend she didn't say what she did then--in harm's way in January 05--and how did her husband get HIS information, is straining our credulity.

    We know what her most recent "statement" was and yes, we do not feel sorry for her one iota. And the Tewells have had 1 1/2 years to deal with it now and plenty of time to spend days and nights together without having to go to work, and so can forget and think about all the special times. Just think about how much romping good time sex they've had since then, with all the leisurely days and nights to walk in the Park and think sexy thoughts.

    I'm sure they can handle anything because they got smart and had sophisticated help.

    Tom was a naif and he and Suzanne are well matched and will deal with their response in their life. And no doubt it was pointed out in therapy.

    A 21 year old who has a subnormal IQ might have an excuse. What excuse are you giving her?

    Tom strikes me as probably being a a great lover to his wife and that's no doubt one reason why there is so much between Tom and Suzanne, a major reason she wasn't going anywhere...she had it made in the shade.

    He's kept himself in shape now and wouldn't be surprising if his wife feels 21 again, too.











  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "He did not have sexual relations with that woman!"

    2 Peter 2:14 "Having eyes full of adultery, and that cannot cease from sin; beguiling unstable souls: an heart they have exercised with covetous practices; cursed children:

    2 Peter 2:15 "Which have forsaken the right way, and are gone astray, following the way of Balaam the son of Bosor, who loved the wages of unrighteousness;"

    2 Peter 2:16 "But was rebuked for his iniquity: the dumb ass speaking with man's voice forbad the madness of the prophet."

    A new bible? Even our biblical talking dumb ass knows adultery can be in thought alone.

    Revelation 22:19 "And if any man shall take away from the words of the book of this prophecy, God shall take away his part out of the book of life, and out of the holy city, and from the things which are written in this book."

    All editors are in hell, I'm not changing nothin.

    Revelation 22:20 "He which testifieth these things saith, Surely I come quickly. Amen. Even so, come, Lord Jesus.

    Surely, he must be retarded for some reason.















  • Answerman · 3 years ago
    What 2 words that rhyme are Tom's favorite disciple and favorite current Yankee?

    And when did his parents die and how old were they?

  • Answerman2 · 3 years ago
    As teenagers, what did Tom and Toby experience that Tom and Ryan did not? G rated.

    What did Tom temporarily lose at Toby's graduation from MBA/law school?

    As a golfer, Tom would say he is excellent, good, fair, poor.

    And, the bonus round, what was the name of the ship that Ryan served on during his deployment in Iraq?

    Some info from sermons, other my conversations with him.

    As a book reader, he reads 1) narrowly or 2) widely?









  • Answerman3 · 3 years ago
    In college, what in addition to football and his studies was a significant interest of his?

    How many marathons has he run?

    What foreign languages (in addition to Greek or Latin) can he speak?

    What's his favorite movie?

    And what was his DMin thesis about?







  • Answerman4 · 3 years ago
    Know your Tewells:

    After the age-12 Suzanne's father died suddenly, what occupation did Suzanne's mother pursue to support her 2 daughters?

    What is Suzanne's hobby? Hint: it's related to a miniature old-fashioned "tool" in the manse and a large cloth object that was hanging in the entryway of the manse.

    What organization does Tom credit with helping her develop character?

    And, here's an answer. Suzanne wanted her 1970 wedding dress remade so she could wear it later (in the 20s my grandmother dyed hers navy), but her mother couldn't see it, and 2003 discussed that with me. Obviously it still bothered her and wanted to keep the happy memory of her wedding day as a living visual reminder, for a while longer.

    Suzanne is staying because she wants to; she could get a job teaching in a heartbeat--there's a teacher shortage--and she would get half of his pension were they not together, so working together to pay their way through life--it's their life! And when you are in a lifeboat with each other, you find ways to go back to your honeymoon days.









  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "He's kept himself in shape now and wouldn't be surprising if his wife feels 21 again, too."

    Ezekiel 23:19-21 "Yet she multiplied her whoredoms, in calling to remembrance the days of her youth, wherein she had played the harlot in the land of Egypt and lusted after her paramours there, whose members were like those of donkeys, and whose emission was like that of stallions."

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Joe's father died and men can get testy and irritable--how men's grief presents.

    And why did Joe file for divorce? If she wasn't happy and had such great plans, why didn't she file herself in spring 2005?

    Read the amended complaint, the suit. It's pitiful in a "Christian way" and the most emotionally truthful part of it is she wasn't very helpful in his hour of need, read between the lines.

    His wife wasn't there when he needed her to be and it just all hit him. Not that that makes a case, but it could explain why he would try to make one.

    If she was so miserable, what was she doing about it? Why did it all happen in the order it did?

    Who to sue? The church didn't make his grief go away, and apparently held more attraction for her than he did. Of course he didn't think so when she asked for his support in this venture.

    And the alleged comments, a response to her "grief" over her marriage falling apart? Men say things to get a woman to stop crying and making a scene. Life lesson. But don't take their words to the bank.

    Joe might have chosen another way to resolve his marriage issues, but none of us were in his shoes, and who knows what more tolerant methods he had tried before, to no avail. We don't know what was said to him that got him going, but maybe unless we have faced it, we can't know the energy of the rage that one would feel.













  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "Joe's father died and men can get testy and irritable--how men's grief presents."

    Luke 9:59-60 "And he said unto another, Follow me. But he said, Lord, suffer me first to go and bury my father. Jesus said unto him, Let the dead bury their dead: but go thou and preach the kingdom of God."

    Jesus suggests that Joe quit pouting and sticking out his lower lip. Family doesn't even come close to the glory of god, let them rot where they fall, and damned those who think differently.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "After the age-12 Suzanne's father died suddenly..."

    "Luke 9:59-60 "And he said unto another, Follow me. But he said, Lord, suffer me first to go and bury my father. Jesus said unto him, Let the dead bury their dead: but go thou and preach the kingdom of God."

    Suck it up.

    "what occupation did Suzanne's mother pursue to support her 2 daughters?"

    1 Timothy 5:5-6 "Now she that is a widow indeed, and desolate, trusteth in God, and continueth in supplications and prayers night and day. But she that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth."

    If she had pleasure in anything, damn her saith the lord.









  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "Suzanne is staying because she wants to; she could get a job teaching in a heartbeat--there's a teacher shortage--and she would get half of his pension were they not together, so working together to pay their way through life--it's their life!"

    Leviticus 27:3-4 "And thy estimation shall be of the male from twenty years old even unto sixty years old, even thy estimation shall be fifty shekels of silver, after the shekel of the sanctuary. And if it be a female, then thy estimation shall be thirty shekels."

    She is only half as valuable in that relationship, she needs to submit herself, without pride.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    And then what?
  • Wondering · 3 years ago
    Tom has a flaw--what the clerk of session told us Nov 20, 2005 when we accepted his resignation.

    So, that was that.

    If she cared, how come she couldn't steer him to the counseling he needed? Because she didn't think it was a flaw, are we to conclude?

    We tend to think it's not because of a flaw if someone is giving us what we want.





  • Dateline · 3 years ago
    The court date with Judge K set for July was postponed until August.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "Tom has a flaw--what the clerk of session told us Nov 20, 2005 when we accepted his resignation."

    1 Corinthians 1:19 "For it is written, I will destroy the wisdom of the wise, and will bring to nothing the understanding of the prudent."

    Prudent decision.

    "The court date with Judge K set for July was postponed until August."

    1 Corinthians 6:1 "Dare any of you, having a matter against another, go to law before the unjust, and not before the saints?"

    1 Corinthians 6:12 "All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any."

    To include any nation's laws.











  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    when presenting the congregation with Tom's resignation - they wanted to have the congregation vote for it and so put a spin on things so as not to discourage the congregation from voting for Tom to stay as that was a real possibility.

    In fact there was so much discussion that finally the person who had represented Tom to the Presbytery had to get up and say to the congregation that Tom has his mind made up that he is not coming back.
    Then the congregation took the vote 200 to 100 for approval of Toms request. If they had thought that Tom wanted to come back - would have been an interesting situation.


  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I meant that the negative spin was done so as to

    discourage the congregation

    from voting to reject Tom's request for resignation.

    many wanted Tom to stay

    and also negative talk was not discouraged so as to allow the congregation to distance themselves from Tom - a tactic.
    That was a lack of trust/faith.








  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    so who does not have a flaw of some kind?

    Tom was not using enough discernment with regards to Rachel
    who had a positive personality

    Tom met with her for a drink or dinner - she was a seminarian
    and he was mentoring her.

    It really was nothing more than that - Rachel was the person who had an emotional attachement.

    Unfortunately....

    This will be an opportunity for Tom to step back taking time for himself not going non stop all the time to evaluate himself.
    One of the main things is to realize that he has to be more aware of women who have crushes on him since he did not take it into account before and "allowed an inappropriate relationship to develop".

    Tom will come back better than ever after this is done.

    Rachel and Joe will suffer for their selfishness. The beginning is already happening with Rachel not being ordained.
















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Interesting how the selfishness of Joe and Rachel exhibits

    Joe confronted Tom in March
    just months before Rachel was to graduate and later be ordained

    He could not have held back until things were in place for Rachel after all the hard work for years


    Rachel instead of carrying on at the annual review by the Presbytery that she wanted to be ordained saying that it was all Tom
    should have known that they could do nothing until the process was finished with regards to the investigation, etc.

    but her husband Joe has really stretched things out with his civil suit.

    So now she is threatening to put together a list of "gory details"
    as per a posting by a friend last week. In order to put pressure on the presbytery and settlement by the Insurance Company.

    Aren't we relieved that she did not make it into the ministry to do harm to others?















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "Tom will come back better than ever after this is done."

    1 Corinthians 5:9 "I wrote unto you in an epistle not to company with fornicators: Yet not altogether with the fornicators of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or with idolaters; for then must ye needs go out of the world."

    1 Corinthians 5:11 "But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat."

    A follower of christ will not only shun a fornicator, they will never eat dinner with suce vile company.





  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "Then the congregation took the vote 200 to 100 for approval of Toms request. If they had thought that Tom wanted to come back - would have been an interesting situation."

    Truly, wonder if the vote would have been scripturally based, or based on personal idolatry of Tom.

    1 Corinthians 8:5-6 "For though there be that are called gods, whether in heaven or in earth, (as there be gods many, and lords many,) But to us there is but one God, the Father, of whom are all things, and we in him; and one Lord Jesus Christ, by whom are all things, and we by him.

    8:7 Howbeit there is not in every man that knowledge: for some with conscience of the idol unto this hour eat it as a thing offered unto an idol; and their conscience being weak is defiled.

    1 John 5:21 "Little children, keep yourselves from idols. Amen."

    Tom is obviously an idol to some, if some are willing to look past the scripture in order to accept him.









  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    the scriptural basis for this is
    that we all fall short of the glory of God

    You are a self righteous, sanctimonious person who feels that they have never done anything really bad. Sin is Sin.

    And a person who is close to the heart of God knows that there but for the grace of God go I

    and are merciful to the person
    especially when that person is learning the lessons that God has for him in allowing this. Tom has been on the potters wheel making him more into the image of Jesus.

    You are the worst kind of person
    (I cannot call you a christian as you have no love in you just quotes from the bible being judgemental which is a serious sin)
    And you are thinking the worst rather than giving the benefit of the doubt and when the truth comes out you will be ashamed.

    God has a plan for Tom to prosper him whether you want to believe it or not in your warped mind because Tom has acknowledged his sin and repented (however slight really)













  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I recently heard an annointed sermon by a highly respected preacher worldwide
    of a biblically based church.

    He said that ministers have the need to sit down with someone in the congregation to just talk not about church or theology but just for a good talk.
    Amen.

    What Tom did was not to recognize or use discernment about Rachel's motivation - she had an emotional attachment to him - a crush.

    Yes it was good to be around Rachel as she was very positive and uplifting but...

    It was not so much of an affair of the heart for Tom or an emotional affair just not using good judgement which is what Tom said in his letter to the congregation. Which is the truth.


    He has to use more discernment as women can develop crushes to recognize it when it is a problem. Then he should not encourage
    that by meeting with anyone like that.

    God gave his confirmation to that in this sermon. God always provides.















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    aren't we educated people enough to not go along with a sensationalized headline in the
    NY Post designed to see papers?

    Jogging is a good way to release tension and get the endorphins going as well as keep in good shape physically health wise

    It is very important to keep in shape so as to be better in one's job - energy levels and concentration and endurance and keep ones weight down - heart health.

    It is just mind boggling that people have not been able to realize this and instead went with the NY Post headline writers.






  • Anchors Away · 3 years ago
    This was about someone having feelings for Tom and expecting anyone to care. Tom doesn't, why should we. Men don't have feelings, they do things. Women have feelings.

    Sniff, sniff, pass the Kleenex.

    Does your church tell clergy not to take rides in cars, for example. And for some free advice, if you run a taxi service don't complain if you are taken for a ride.

    Did Joe know 1) before,2)during or 3) after the situation that proved to be the investigated incident?

    Mystery!

    And FAPC should have gotten Tom the help he mentioned in his letter and forbid any association, and set forth consequences were that not to be the case. FAPC could have hired a detective (which is legal), since she was a church member and anything not within clergy conduct "rules" was grounds for suits.

    The FOR should congratulae the Tewells on their new, better life.

    I am sure the plaintiff's wife remembers how much he complimented people on their honesty.

    So the plaintiff's wife took the fact that Tom didn't beat her away from him with a stick as suggesting something meaningful.

    Again, it is the flaw which made him not use the verbal equivalent of a stick that is the point.

    His flaw. Get it...his flaw. He made people think he had feelings for them and that is what ministers do. If you gave money or time to the church because you thought you had a future with Tom, that was stupid. When people are stressed they read into it; when life is on steadier groud, they do not. Otherwise you "got what you got."



















  • Anchors Away · 3 years ago
    The Post headline that caught him running in Ocean City was NOT posed, he was running on or near the boardwalk and someone snapped as he ran by.

    The Post sent writers and photographers to the Viones' home in Garden City, NY the Tewells' home in Ocean City, NJ and tried to get interviews at the manse on Fifth Avenue and called ministers at other churches for comment. They tried to thoroughly research the story. And based on that research and how many writers, what did we read? The Times ran one story regurgitating the suit, and the only "fact proven" was the "fact" of the suit. And since this all became public in Aug 2005, what have we learned to date?

    And where was the Personnel Committee of the church when it could have done some good?

    From Tom's point of view, how did the plaintiff's wife demonstrate an understanding of keeping a minister out of harm's way? And she expected him to think she was something good?

    She should read the Book of Order/Discipline, it's very specific about the vows. Or is her position that she hadn't taken any ordination vows yet so was not yet subject to their stringency?

    That's what I am not clear on. How someone in the seminary can claim to have "cared" about a minister when the way she showed the world her "caring" cost him his job.

    He is responsible. And she demonstrated the level of caring that a 5 year old might when anticipating the consequences of your actions is weak.

    So I think it was fortunate he said as little as he did in the letter, because then he might have mused about how someone could contribute to his downfall this way and what that really said about his judgment. He said, "error in judgment," so nothing good there.

    And that's what that means.

    And no doubt he has replayed in his mind what he could have done differently.

    When he's not making love to his wife now.



















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "the scriptural basis for this is
    that we all fall short of the glory of God"

    2 Th.2:11-12 "God shall send them strong delusion, that they should believe a lie: That they all might be damned."

    Rom. 8:29-30 "For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate... Moreover, whom he did predestinate, them he also called: and whom he called, them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also glorified."

    "You are a self righteous, sanctimonious person who feels that they have never done anything really bad. Sin is Sin."

    Acts 10:34 "God is no respecter of persons."

    Matthew 10:34 "Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword."

    "And a person who is close to the heart of God knows that there but for the grace of God go I and are merciful to the person especially when that person is learning the lessons that God has for him in allowing this."

    "Revelation 19:11 "And I saw heaven opened, and behold a white horse; and he that sat upon him was called Faithful and True, and in righteousness he doth judge and make war."

    "Tom has been on the potters wheel making him more into the image of Jesus."

    Judas was also on the potters wheel, he was an authentic disciple, picked by Jesus himself.

    "You are the worst kind of person
    (I cannot call you a christian as you have no love in you just quotes from the bible being judgemental which is a serious sin)
    And you are thinking the worst rather than giving the benefit of the doubt and when the truth comes out you will be ashamed."

    How dare you question my christianity, but all to the will of god.

    Matthew 10:35 "For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.

    Matthew 10:36 "And a man's foes shall be they of his own household."

    Matthew 10:37 "He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me."

    "God has a plan for Tom to prosper him whether you want to believe it or not in your warped mind because Tom has acknowledged his sin and repented (however slight really)"

    Matthew 22:14 "For many are called, but few are chosen."

    Use scripture to show how Tom has proven himself to be one of the chosen of God.




































  • NYCer · 3 years ago
    How does Rachel know what Tom said to the IC? It's not her suit.

    Had there been something between them Tom would have demanded that she resign from the church so that there would be no church oversight.

    If the church had wanted to do a history of Tom and any particular person that wasn't what the allegation was. An allegation is specific in date, time, place, and if Joe's accusation was a global one then at that point it was up to any investigation to find out what, if anything, gave Joe the idea that that was happening. So it makes sense that since there were no facts to back up the accusation, the accusation was "rewritten" to reflect the actual date/time scenario. And the standard of "misconduct" is "anything that a reasonable person would think could contribute to the impression of trying to create a personal relationship." Think teacher and a 15 year old. What sinks a minister is exactly that. The "adult woman" or "adult man" is reduced to a minor and because of that it becomes something that the church forbids and disciplines.

    So by staying church members there was a level of church protection with publicity potential not available in the outside world.

    For discipline purposes it could have been 2 women, 2 men, or a female clergy and male congregant. The 2nd most litigated group is female-female.

    And "boundary crossing" as a poster has written would encompass under what circumstances people spoke to each other and is specifically "forbidden" for ministers. It is not recognized for corporate employees. So that's why things are so serious for ministers and don't go anywhere in civil court.

    And needless to say if someone is going to ask you for facts that are career-defining one should have a lawyer present. So if he didn't seduce anyone, the answer to that question would be no and there would be no facts to back it up. Then does the committee "find facts" or investigate "alleged facts." The two objectives are different.

    But therapy is mandated, and could have gone something like this:

    Therapist:
    Why did this happen...what now? That's almost the first question a therapist would ask so they know where the person's head is then.

    Tom: (letter): ...with my wife.

    Therapist....
    "Ministry provides you with the opportunity for attention and adulation."

    And that's why the clerk of session said, "Flaw" in his speech to the congregation Nov 20, 2005, why Tom and Suzanne are together. And the church's official position before the civil suit was they did not confirm who the woman was.

    And legally it wasn't up to Tom to do anything but report the facts, so I rather doubt that the emotional spin was in the investigation some posters have claimed. And he had an advocate so it is possible that he didn't answer any questions directly, but that the advocate actually responded, in which case there wouldn't have been any emotional tone to it.

    So the fact that Tom is married, staying married and by all accounts never had any other intention but being married to Suzanne is hardly a problem for anyone except women who thought he was marrying them. And I think these socalled friends did not sense the "crush" aspect to this and did not know enough to counsel her--or she did not have any other mentors in Princeton to advise her--as to what the downside of a crush would be for her.

    And the fact that Joe accepted her comings and goings--apparently--until something changed. Who told him something that changed that, and why was she not able to calm her husband so that this was handled a different way. Did his "information" come from her or someone else? Certainly it wouldn't help his wife's potential career that he had sacrificed for--but it could hurt Tom's career. Why would he want to hurt Tom, at this particular point? If Tom's career was decimated how would that help Joe? Well if he thought his wife was going to leave him for Tom, then Tom's not having a career would satisfy that objective. There would be no "there" there. But if he wanted to divorce R and pay less maintenance and child support it would be better if she had a job.

    Or was this "on principle" and then it goes back to why the church couldn't prevent this and why she would think anything positive would come from knowing Tom. That's what this is really about. She EXPECTED something positive and all we have is today.

    So, life lesson. Don't plan for things to happen that include other people.

    That's the betrayal I would look at. Who that knew her at Princeton cared enough about her to see that her feelings could get in the way of her having a career? Didn't she have advisors? What about the people at FAPC? Didn't they care about her either? Or does no one understand what's required in the ministry? Or does no one know anything about people at seminaries and FAPC? Because only people with no insight into the way the world works could have said, as the acting head of staff on TV, "Like in a car crash and being in a ditch." The lack of sophistication in order to generally and specifically prevent this million dollar debacle was appalling and the same thing could (and by odds 1/5 of your churches or more) happen to you!

    So if everyone had been doing their job they would have never had conversations and she could have never claimed she was betrayed because she would "be a stranger to him." And no doubt that is what everyone now wishes had been the case. 1000s of people.





































  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
  • Rainy day and Sundays · 3 years ago
    Tom thinks about his parishioners as "children of God" and when he talked to her as a "peer" that was a boundary violation.

    Nothing that was discussed would have been actionable had this been two people in a corporation. They stayed at the church and that gave them causes of action, which Joe seized on at the Presbytery.

    As others have pointed out on other blogs, they were supposed to be clergy-ethics sophisticated, her being a seminarian. So either she is a peer or she isn't. The fact that he was found to be guilty of an ethics violation is only possible because she is a "child of God" and NOT a peer, or any word that looks like a peer.

    However, the fact that she was a a seminarian and presumably "knew the consequences of her actions,"
    should any there be any boundary crossing over the years she was in seminary makes me question the source of her anger, should there be any, and is to my mind a significant aspect of this.

    If she resigned from the church, any association would have been Suzanne's problem to deal with, unless there was sufficient gossip that his annual contract was not renewed.

    But there would have been NO opportunity for any lawsuits.

    So in evaluating the circumstances, look at the choices each person had and then consider their motivations and the timing of the actions.

    The activating circumstance happened in January 2005, when she was in the home stretch of her degree, and Tom should have considered that she was NOT a peer, "or any word that looks like an equal" in the eyes of the church law.














  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    So if she had friends who cared if she got her degree and had a career in the ministry they might have found a way to insure that she didn't take actions to make her timely ordination less likely.

    If Princeton or FAPC let her down, that's too bad, but what about her so-called friends? Was the suit the first time they had heard Tom's name? And the friends at FAPC, what about them?

    Sounds like she was let down by everyone. So maybe she needs new friends.



  • FAPC3501 · 3 years ago
    So what do they teach at Princeton now? Professionalism--does anyone know what that means?

    So either she didn't know what misconduct was, so that doesn't speak well of her, or she didn't care what misconduct was and acted in disregard of ethical principles.

    Why is she suprised at the the consequences?

    Many church people did not know what to do when they witnessed the non-professional behavior.

    The solution is to hire detectives to follow ministers every time they leave the church or manse? Cheaper than lawyers and million dollar suits.

    We obviously couldn't expect people to police themselves, but we members of FAPC expected better of the Session, the assoc pastors, and the congregants who were trained in misconduct, few as there were.

    A minister, for example, should never take a ride from congregants, and just go to the Habitat for Humanity site, where their founder was taken out, and see how the anonymous quotation specifies just that.

    By having frequent reminders of what misconduct is, many people would have stepped in, and at least the judge couldn't say that the Presbytery was negligent in supervision, which so far she has.

    So why she isn't getting any sympathy at FAPC. Show us how she's the victim. People have eyes and they should have had bigger mouths.















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    So now both the Vione divorce and the Vione civil suit are supposed to have meetings with the judges on the same day. Not likely. The civil suit is being appealed since some was allowed to move forward.

    Nassau: 03-AUG-06 COMPLIANCE CONF

    TEWELL, THOMAS K., DR. 03-AUG-06 PRELIMINARY CONFERENCE/NYC, where they film "Law & Order."



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    from www.mcc.org
    Professional/Clergy
    misconduct is not a new problem. It is only recently however, that church officials, congregations, and professional organizations have begun to deal openly with it.

    Professional/Clergy misconduct is a violation of professional ethics, a violation of personal boundaries, a violation of trust and power. Where an imbalance of power exists, there can be no authentic consensual relationship.

    Professional misconduct can also include lay and/or volunteer church leadership or representatives of a faith community




  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    To anon,
    posted: 7/02/2006 2:32 PM EST

    It's exactly the point that there is NO reason to "have a real talk" with a congregant. It's a helping profession not a sharing profession.

    Because of course she wasn't a peer, or else no one could be suing anyone. The child of God.

    aggressor

    n 1: someone who attacks [syn: attacker, assailant, assaulter] 2: a...person who acts as instigator

    FAPC was his workplace so if someone makes a point of going to his workplaces, various church settings, how does that make him the aggressor? Don't think the fact pattern would support that conclusion.

    And if she truly felt imposed upon, why wait for her husband to file a charge? Why not stand up for herself and file her own, I mean, if that is what she believes.












  • Planet Earth · 3 years ago
    And there is never a professionally appropriate reason to share with a "child of God." Automatic foul should word get out. And how was it this became a problem?

    The person who comes to the other person's workplace is the instigator. The person whose workplace it is, is the victim.

    In "28 Days" Sandra Bullock goes to rehab and wears a sign that says "I must ask for help." Well,funny thing, there are daily AA mtgs in the FAPC building and Tom used to mention visiting and he used that phrase in his letter, "Ask for help more clearly," or similar. Anyway it's an expensive lesson for him and for us all. Thinking that onn one can "tell" you something. Well, billionaires pay 1000s of dollars for advice. Is tht why they are billionaires? Maybe so.



  • Anti-Tewellian · 3 years ago
    In Norway, it is always the pastor who is considered at fault, because they are in the position of leadership and trust. To make TT out as a victim is pathetic.

    From here: Pastor charged after sexual relations

    The encounter with the young woman began with 'spiritual comfort' and developed into a sexual relationship. The 62-year-old is charged with violating paragraph 193 of the penal code - "obtaining sex through the abuse of his position, a relationship of dependency or a relationship of confidence".

    The violation carries a potential penalty of five years in prison, and the pastor has already forfeited all possibility of holding a position in the Norwegian Church.





  • Free will · 3 years ago
    The example doesn't say her age. In our case, middle age describes her age and she has not claimed any mental deficiency. Nor was there any sex. So none of that is relevant.

    If you want to build a case you have to do things like take down license plate numbers and pay your state DMV to give you the addresses. Or at least prove it's a limo service and not a private car. Because as she knows having worked in HR, there should be a series of escalating penalties, and Tom's mistake was not taking the worst view of his, getting an attorney to make a statement and working out a "deal" with the church, which would certainly have included no further conversations of any sort with her. Because that is key to the solution. Because he knows what misconduct entails and that includes seeking or accepting any "sharing." So if you are hanging around, the word "aggressor" might apply you.

    So it's pretty important to recognize that she ALWAYS was where she was of her own free will. Unless she wants to make case otherwise.

    Had she filed her own grievance against Tom, certainly she would have been asked how it was the grievance had any grounds at all. It's all in the official misconduct policy, about things "souring" or a similar word. One key thing is she was someone's wife and he was too willfully (Tom and Joe could each have seen a shrink) and ignorant to not appreciate the lengths this woman was going to be around Tom--going to school, work at the church--that it was not about Christ or faith but about a future. Otherwise she would have just done her work, been with her family and understood that his sincerity was tinged with stubborness that prevented him from taking advice for his own good from clear-thinking people.

    The business about "not being clear headed because being in counseling is proof of it," does not apply because she was NOT in counseling so can't use that to prove she was in a weakened emotional state and so unable to be "strong"--so she can't use that "counseling" angle to sue.

    She could have gone to Union or another NY based seminary that was closer to her NY home, for an easier home life, but that Tom had no association with, for example.

    So had her family been her first priority there were many ways a degree could have been achieved with less time away from husband and children.

    She would have to prove that his reasons for contacting her had nothing to do with her CCS and other work at the church, also consider the statute of limitations (and since there was no sex, there is a statute of limitations), and say at what moment she went from being the eager-beaver seminarian to the put-upon misconduct victim.

    She is trying to prove this was more than an expedient situation to him and that's not a battle you can win in court. And let's not forget all the people she told about her future plans. Did no one tell Tom about her yapping? But no doubt once they read the newspaper story no one stayed silent--of course people wrote him and supported him--and so as the days pass he has less and less reason to feel regret--except for as it affected his wife and life.

    And Tom's mentor, the previous long-standing sr pastor at FAPC, Dr. Kirkland married his long-time secretary after his wife died and he'd spent a year as an interim in the South. She is still alive today. And people tell stories of how when Dr. Kirkland (decades to the early 1990s) shook hands in the line after church, his wife was on one side of him and his secretary on the other. To "protect" him from the voracious women of the church no doubt. There were many women who wanted to get to know him when he was an intermin but he married his office wife. Tom hugged people freely and Suzanne was not by his side. So maybe Mrs K had the right idea. Just use enforcement and you don't have to worry about trust.

















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    response to free will...

    you are so wrong on so many things, but let's just clear up a few...

    forst of all there is NO statute of limitaions on sexual ABUSE, which is different than sexula misconduct...

    look it up!

    second...rachel has not filied ANY lawsuit of her own, although she clearly does have a case [see above statement] it is joe who has filied the lawsuit as well as filing for divorce from rachel...therefore the two are not together in the lawsuit...no where has rachel's name been associated with the lawsuit..it is vione [as in joe] vs. tewell/chuch/presbytery.

    again...look it up.

    how do you explian all the phone calls made to rachel from tom at 2 am or 3 am from his cell phone to hers?

    sounds like a bunch of jealous women in that congregation that tried to have the relationship with him that she did...

    what a bunch of sickos!

    by the way...as far as what rachel said about working with him...you should check with the admissions office at princeton to find out what he wrote about her in her letter of recommendation.

    again...look it up...of your own free will, of course!



















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    annonymous of 7/7 2PM
    how ridiculous of you to say that there were calls at 2 or 3 AM

    also there are very reliable sources about Rachel saying to people at Princeton that they were going to work together closely
    (in her dreams)

    yes her name is not on the lawsuit
    but she certainly helped create the situation by bringing up Tom's name in such a way as to enrage Joe

    But since Joe was living with another woman while still married
    he really had no valid reason to get angry - even if his allegations were true.

    Regarding Tom's letter of recommondation at Princeton
    Tom is usually very generous with his praise
    so that means absolutely nothing.

    It is so obvious that you are a well placed person who is very very ill mentally and wants to
    destroy Tom with whatever you can think up to say.

    Fortunately your time will be up in the future when the results of the investigation reveal how slight the situation was
    and how understandable that Tom did not at first regard it as a problem to admit to.

    As contrasted with persons in the church like yourself who deliberately do harmful things to others.





















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    wow did someone stike a nerve?

    phone calls at 2am and 3am via cell phones are very easliy verified...something that was done by the ic.


    why would it be in rachel's dreams to work with tom? it could never have happened at fapc anyway.

    everything that was said is verifiable, if you just get your head out of the sand...or wherever it is any pay attention to the facts.

    another question...why would rachel ever have been in tom's apartment [ie the manse] with him a lone? while his wife was out of the country? twice? mmm

    you are obviously unaware of what the ic uncovered last year.

    and tom not coming clean about it in the first place, has nothing to do with him thinking that it was no big deal and everything to do with him thinking he was going to get away with it.
    think bill clinton.

    another question...why did tom come to princeton to assist rachel when she preached there? some of us thought that was pretty strange for someone who is as busy as he is [was]

    i guess he was just being generous with his time...since he really never wanted to be with her in the first place, right?

    why is it that rachel is evil and tom is good?

    why is it that you're so interested in their lives?

    if rachel would have wanted to file a lawsuit she would have done so on her own already...

    there's one person who could put an end to all this bickering and tell the truth. what will all of you do when the pjc makes their report? mmm

























  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Several people have been quoted as walking by Tewell's office with the door partially open and seeing Rachel's top pulled off and her breasts free and bent over his desk with her skirt up and panties down and Tom having his way with the long legged blond.
  • The only real bonafide Anonymo · 3 years ago
    Anonymous

    Are you saying that, just because they weren't seen in the "missionary position" that they should be treated like dogs?

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    anyone who knows anything about tom would know that his door was never "partially opened" it was always closed...nice try though.

    good thing you're so pre occupied with other people's sex lives at 1:45 in the morning!

    must not have one of your own, huh?



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Excerpts from Tom's resignation letter 11/3/05:

    "…Even now, I would much rather say these things in person to each of you but that is not possible.

    "First and foremost, I apologize from the bottom of my heart for my errors in judgment that lead to the
    nightmare that we have all been experiencing…I have repented of my sin and have asked God, Suzanne,
    our family and the pastors for forgiveness. Today I am writing to ask for your foregiveness as well. My behavior has called forth feelings of shock, sadness,
    anger and anguish in the congregation. I am more sorry than I can express in words. I would give anything if I could go back and correct my errors in judgment, but I must rely on the redemptive grace of God…

    "…lessons about…setting boundaries, and learning to ask for help more clearly."

    "We all need to move forward and now is the time to do just that…

    "Although I'm sorry that I have disappointed many of you…God is always at work…It is my fervent prayer that God will use this sad situation to draw every one of us closer to Jesus Christ. I pray that someday will all look back on this difficult time in our church's history and realize that God used it for good.

    May it be so!"














  • Go jump in a lake Tom T. · 3 years ago
    Tom Tewell, you filthy low-lying snake!

    You stood before God and made a verbal pact, a contract with your wife and God that you would be faithful until death do you both part.

    You've never been faithful and truthful a single day in your life, and you know it and you've played people along to believe in you and stand by you and what do you do?

    You try to turn your infidelity into a blessing from God, you filthy scumbag!

    If you want to make amends to God, then return all the monies that you've stolen from your congregation, and sell everything that you have and live on the streets like a beggar, I know you will not, because you are a lying scumbag fake, and you damned well know it.

    You think you've got your sheep fooled and most likely have, but you have not fooled me, nor have you fooled God.

    You will continue to spread your self-serving bullshit and then try to pass it on as a message to be learned and then sweep it all under a rug, just like all preachers that get caught with their pants down do.

    Tom Tewell, you are a fake phoney fraud, give back all the monies you've stolen, see what it's like to live like jesus, you have not the balls, you weak worthless troll.

    Your commitment to God with your marriage certificate is not worth the paper it was written on and you know it, you worthless fraud.

    You make people that try to live right, sick to their stomach.

    Tom Tewell if you want to make amends, give up your foolish nonsense, do you think there's a God that would believe one damned thing that you say now? Hell No!

    Why should any God believe anything you say now?

    Just continue to spread your foolish nonsense and continue to buffallo your captive audience, the only reason that they are willing to forgive you now, is because most of them have done the exact same thing as you.

    Tom Tewell, you need to pay for your misleading people all those years, and you'll burn in Hell forever! You filthy rat!

    Tom Tewell you're a natural born liar! And I know it and so does God! You will burn in HELL!



























  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Oh, and have a nice day!
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Oh yeah, BTW go out and get a real job and earn an honest living, a days work would kill your ass, you lying skunk.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Since the FAPC clerk of session announced at the congregational mtg 11/20/05 that Tom had a flaw, that's consistent with the "tone" if not the substance of the suit alleging "women," she was a data point of his problem.

    So in that her husband and the church now have the same story about that, in effect. If she thought Tom was doing her harm, she had many years to file a grievance.

    "Counseling" implies "weaker" and she wasn't being counseled.
    Did she ask Nora or Jan for help (assoc or consulting pastors) at FAPC?

    A grad school recommendation might be an opinion that Tom had at the time, but that would not stand up in court as meaning anything. What was this recommendation
    really based on? Fatuous to make anything of that.

    Suits have no substantiated facts, but it's interesting that the church and Joe ended up in
    the same place about there being no basis for making this out to be personal. If you insist on being "liked" then you are going to be manipulated and upset when it turns out that it wasn't about you, at all, and, in effect, it could have been anyone who showed up. But she was married and how much sympathy can we have for her being upset? Shouldn't she have known better? He had a career, she didn't, so had a lot more to lose, since we don't live in a society that permits women in seminaries to act in a way not conducive to following ethics. No one is going to laugh it off.

    Even though Joe filed for divorce, who knows what his reasons are, really. Was she trying to make the marriage work?












  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    If it wasn't her dream she told people she was planning to work with him, so that's what she said.

    And the doormen at the manse certainly hadn't seen Rachel there. It's not that big a building and they know everyone in the 40 apts. They know full well who Suzanne is and when this broke it was a surprise to them.

    Even to get on the floors, each with only 2 apts, the doorman has to unlock each elevator, so it's a big deal to "go back home."

    And Suzanne, "out of the country" without Tom? Hardly.

    Before Tom resigned as chair, and on the Bd of Trustees of Princeton, he was on 3 committees, including financial and personnel, so he had many reasons to be down in Princeton.

    He never had daughters or sisters and it's easy to rescue people who fill in the place of your grown-up sons. It's all in the literature on misconduct. You're missing a part of your nurturing self, so you "adopt" a child in some ways, one way to not face the reality of your empty nest.









  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    And most of us assume people who know us can't see into our apartment windows. The placement of the apt meant it was like a mural to people who would have noted anything unusual.

    So between the guarded front door, the locked elevators, the only 2 apts per floor, so their neighbors knew who lived in the apt, pretty not-private. And it's a very wealthy building, so many people wouldn't be working but in and out frequently. And they've lived there since 1994 and people knew he was a pastor and he used to joke in sermons abt how people didn't know "how to talk to Suzanne and me."

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    She won a preaching award and maybe delivered a sermon at the same time, so angry as I am, it would make sense if he were there to see it. Not everything is misconduct given that he is a trustee. He probably saw 10 other people at the same time. As someone pointed out, he knew many, many people! And they knew him. Not like he had privacy at Princeton.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I wonder if anyone has seen him this summer attending church and spoken to him. Not like we have the new mailing add.
  • Reader · 3 years ago
    www.lbc.edu/public/Academics.03/
    Library.07...
    to find the author. This is a lucid, well reasoned discussion based on studies on the website of a Bible college in PA.

    The question is, how to make what we know, what we do?

    And if you don't want to go through this in your church, or temple, or mosque, maybe read it!




  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    http://www.courts.state.ny.us/
    ctapps/newca...
    the appeal notice will be filed, Vione vs Tewell...how it will be referenced.

    Tom's side filed an appeal (church/Presbytery) June 30, 2006 to have the case entirely dismissed. Some of the causes of action were allowed to move forward in the May decision by Judge K.

    People who say things like "start paying attention..." well, had we been less forgiving of people's actions before we would have little need to forgive now.

    And for those of you who dislike substantiated confrontation, that is entirely the reason we are in this mess. People did not have the courage of their convictions to not let ANYTHING go by. And if the January whatever had repeated itself no doubt the consequences would have been correspondingly more severe, and they are pretty severe now. Even an assoc pastor's sermon a few years ago seemed to send a msg, but, so what. Nothing was done to make the church not liable, legally. Read the above document in the previous post and see what is really involved. Early intervention way to go, not wait and see. That NEVER works, which is why DWI and DUI put pts on licenses and they are taken away. To avoid killing people. That's we need, the equivalent in the church.






  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    [Tom's side filed an appeal (church/Presbytery) June 30, 2006 to have the case entirely dismissed. Some of the causes of action were allowed to move forward in the May decision by Judge K.]

    --------
    Actually a notice of appeal...

    The challenge is stepping in at the "write-up" and "this behavior is forbidden at this level" before it becomes a true situation that could create a grievance. The challenge is 1) teaching people what they need to know in congregationosa and 2) setting up personnel functions in the churches/temples/mosques that direct people can and can not spend their time, and the escalating punishments should they discregard their official warnings.

    Anyone who has worked for a union, or a corporation, or been in the military knows how regimented the work world usually is.

    You're not a free agent as a clergyperson. Do you have a pension? Clergy do.

    So because it has been left up to clergy until it all falls apart, obviously the answer is to make accountability to the congregation the answer. If everyone had had their concerns respected, from Joe on down to individual congregants, then a hard line could have been taken.










  • Misconduct Policy Reader · 3 years ago
    From the PC USA (Presbyterian) 1993 Sexual Misconduct Policy and its Procedures (as online today):
    excerpts--
    Purposes:

    1. Set and enforce standards of ethical behavior...
    3. Serve as a guide for the prevention of sexual misconduct...through appropriate training and supervision of employees, education of laity and clergy...

    "Offenders generally will continue in such behavior unless they are confronted and receive treatment. Apart from intervention, these offenders will not recover control of their actions."

    "Healing requires breaking the denial."

    "There is a painful overlap between survivors of child sexual abuse and those abused as adults."

    "Through quick discernment of the facts and through preventive education, the congregation...may be less likely to respond by blaming the victim."

    "Since those experiencing crises in their own personal or professional lives are more vulnerable to acting in inappropriate ways, governing bodies need to be ever more caring of their ministers' personal and professional lives. The more knowledge of its ministers that a presbyery or employing entity has, the more responsive that body can be in averting potential crises."*

    --was the congregation trained?
    --did anyone speak up and force everyone to change things?

    What is says is that someone with abuse in their past may find it again.

    *And clergy may find themselves set upon by troubled people, so clergy need to find ways to safeguard themselves, another way to read it.

    So anyone who thinks they were abused should not take it but get the appropriate counseling and see what courses of action there are.

    A minister's gift is affirming people, and who would take that personally--it's why he was hired!

    And the report is going to say rebuke or suspsension (with or without rehab). You will never know any more unless someone does a Pentagon Papers and gets it out there. That's the confidential part, and all this "see the report..." is just not going to happen. No one has actually been willing to say what it was...where, when and how Joe found out.



























  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "Parishioner Sues Fifth Avenue Presbyterian Church, Saying Pastor Seduced Wife" NY Times headline
    se·duce ( P ) Pronunciation Key (s-ds, -dys)
    tr.v. se·duced, se·duc·ing, se·duc·es
    To lead away from duty, accepted principles, or proper conduct.

    Anyone can file a grievance at any time, so why is everyone so silent on why none was filed before this if these people were miserable and the church was making their marriage miserable? How come we only hear about it after Tom went on administrative leave summer 2005? Did she or did she not file a grievance in the spring 2005?

    And from a recent "O" (magazine) story, "[Two] habits strike me as playing with fire, 1) flirting with others, which can be too intoxicating to give up and...3) hanging out with emotional cheaters who make what they're
    doing seem like no big deal."

    No question, pastors shouldn't talk to individuals in any way, that "leads" the listener to think they "care" because suits are what you end up with, and people who think they are "cared" about, 1000s of them.

    But no one should think that "caring" is what they are hearing. Just put it in perspective.

    If you've ever talked to a woman, you know how women "analyze to death" people's behavior with the goal of a "future." That's why they say, "...or get the milk for free." True about time, too.













  • Brooklyn babe · 3 years ago
    And a review starts on the cover of the NY Times Book Review tomorrow, too.

    From the Washington Post

    The Gospel of Love
    By the 1850s, an inspiring Brooklyn preacher was breaking new ground in celebrity and faith.

    Reviewed by Jon Meacham
    Sunday, July 9, 2006; Page BW03

    THE MOST FAMOUS MAN IN AMERICA

    The Biography of Henry Ward Beecher

    Author/Debby Applegate

    Doubleday. 527 pp. $27.95

    From the book review by
    Jon Meacheam

    After dinner one evening in December 1847, Susan Howard, daughter of a prominent Brooklyn family, wrote a letter to her brother to apologize for a long silence. Much had been happening, she said, but "were I to reduce them all to the first elements . . . I verily believe they would all come down to Beecher, Beecher, BEECHER ! He seems to be a subject of universal interest, and he is a curiosity, that is a fact. Don't ask what I think of him, I can't tell you, for the life of me. I only know that I am intensely interested."
    -------------------------------
    The less he preached of God's wrath, and the more he emphasized the pleasures of God's love," Applegate writes of Henry, "the more people came to listen."

    And how he relished that. Congregants from Manhattan came to his Plymouth Church in Brooklyn in what were known as "Beecher Boats," and Beecher's embrace of abolition during the Civil War era earned him the privilege of delivering the first remarks as Union troops reclaimed Fort Sumter. He raised money to buy rifles -- called "Beecher Bibles" -- to arm antislavery forces in Kansas. Abraham Lincoln believed his support of emancipation essential to the Union victory.

    The NY Times Book Review says our current preachers' styles come from his.


























  • Summer in the City · 3 years ago
    The church doesn't own Tom's cell phone, so there would be no reason to supply his calls until the civil suit moves forward and the judge permits it. And if Joe has his wife's cell phone bills, with incoming numbers, then they wouldn't need Tom's, or be able to prove whose phone it is, until it became relevant.

    You can't just go fishing for evidence in the civil court system. You can't "prove" you didn't call someone; there are pay phones, other people's cell phones, disposable phones. Although it's possible Joe had a copy of her cell phone bill. If the phone is in her name, he wouldn't be able to call and get it.

    So, the question is whether Joe had access to that information when he filed the suit, since leaving a cell phone message would look the same as a conversation in many instances.

    And even if the appeal fails and the case is allowed to move forward, there's an "intelligent man" theory of law that says, if you did not have reason to think a person was doing the right thing, you can't expect them to do it. So if there was too much time being spent, then at least 3 people already knew that, so no one was surprised, by reading Joe's own suit.

    So, the suit says that there were "church meetings" that Joe knew about because it's his suit, so, if everyone had the same idea, when did they start to be a problem? Where's the surprise?

    In criminal law, if you walk down the street in a high crime area, you still are protected by law if someone commits a crime against you.

    In civil law, while "breach of trust" would be a cause of action, then "when did they know..." comes in.

    Those of us old enough to remember the Watergate trial, learned the phrase "What did he know and when did he know it?" about Nixon knowing about the break-in, or not, of the Watergate offices of the Democrat National Committee.
    Ironic, that's where Tom is now.

    So what with photo phones and all, and increased awareness, people can email a photo around the world in seconds.

    What was Tom doing to protect his reputation? And why did she want to talk to him anyway, and chance sullying her own reputation when she wanted to be a minister? So what was in it for her? Maybe there is nothing to prove much...just because Tom resigned, that doesn't prove much. Unless you are privy to his career plans.

    Win some, lose some. Risky business, thinking a reputation is easy to keep. But with every case that makes the paper like this, congregations will get smarter and these things be be stopped at the pass. Because this is one of the few pension jobs with so much free time left, and there is no shortage of people who want them!

    Congregations are in the driver's seats and should act accordingly powerful!






















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    In the CCS Catalog for fall 2005 Tom and Suzanne were going to teach a class “Parents, Christ and Kids” with another assoc pastor and his wife. So they were obviously on a path together.

    And Tom mentioned boundary issues in his letter, and a class taught in Nov 05 explains the dangers of not respecting them,”…ways to protect ourselves from being injured…or by activities and people that are harmful to us.”

    There are many ways a person can tell their truth and a blog is one of them. Does she have one?



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Re Brooklyn babe:

    When I would leave FAPC after Tom preached, I always knew that God loved me. That God wanted the best for me. And God did forgive me.

    I always wondered if Tom believed that, too.

    Friend of FAPC





  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Anonymous,

    I just tried to look up the appeal of June 30 2006 and used your link and did not see the case under appeal by either Presbytery, Tom, or Vione.

    Was it actually filed?

    Yes, I think Tom did believe that God wants the best for him and forgives him as should we all.





  • E. G. · 3 years ago
    "Anyone can file a grievance at any time, so why is everyone so silent on why none was filed before this if these people were miserable and the church was making their marriage miserable? How come we only hear about it after Tom went on administrative leave summer 2005?"

    So, are you suggesting that "abuse" can only be validated by the number of filed complaints?

    Uh, perhaps you should ask all the battered spouses, children, etc., from all religious faiths, why they don't file lawsuits. If you read this one thread as well as many others, you'll see that many christians find it contemptible to sue or "charge" another "christian" with a crime.

    1 Corinthians 6:1 "Dare any of you, having a matter against another, go to law before the unjust, and not before the saints?"

    And, if you aren't scum, you may want to reconsider how you would approach a child who was molested by their "priest", but had to wait until later on in their life to come forward, because their "religion" was so powerful that it could circumvent a nations' legal system, quite effectively. There is a reason, there no longer exists a statute of limitations to most sexual crimes.

    1 Corinthians 2:15 But he that is spiritual judgeth all things, yet he himself is judged of no man.

    Christians can judge everyone, they can take non-believers to court every day of the week and be praised for it, but nobody should legally charge a christian with a crime according to the bible.

    There are many christian based "religious cults" that disfellowship their members for reporting abuse, Jehova's Witness would be a great example, etc. Who wants to be part of an organization where the individual is sacrificed daily, in order to keep the organizational "name" clean. Its been the theme of religion for thousands of years... the "religion" is far more important than the individual, and if a few individuals get "abused" along the way, its a small price to pay for godliness.













  • Reviewer · 3 years ago
    http://www.courts.state.ny.us/
    ctapps/newca...
    goes all on one line.

    The notice of appeal was filed by the defense. That allows the plaintiff to decide, among other things, if they want to withdraw the case. The next step would be for the appeal to be filed. The "notice" and the "appeal" are not the same thing.

    And we're not talking about children and abuse, so why bring it up.

    So by checking back one can see if the plaintiff's name appears and one can read the results.

    The only reason I know there was a notice of appeal is a non-computer way of getting the information, and Tom's lawyer told the Post and the Daily News to expect an appeal.

    So going to the website will list the appeals as they make their way through.










  • Updater · 3 years ago
    The "Notice of Appeal" was filed July 12, which means that in due time a decision will be made, so that's that for now. The whole case could be thrown out, or one of the two causes of action that were allowed before.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    The more people understand the concept of boundary violations, the less likely there will be future suits. Basically, since Tom was NOT responsible for the seminarians, had it been made clear to her that she would not be talking to him about anything regarding the ministry, should she choose to go to Princeton, just as an aside, then everyone would have been on the same page and there could be no suits.

    So since the plaintiff's wife chose the ministry for its value to her life, not talking to Tom could have had the salubrious outcome of allowing her to potentially be ordained at the same time as others in her graduating class at Princeton, after she passed her language classes and passed the 5-part ordination exam.

    So in the future, quite simply, the lines will be drawn more clearly about how pastors can jeopardize their jobs and seminarians any thought of a career.

    If Tom was irrelevant to her decision to go into the ministry,
    as the poster has said, then not talking to him would be no hardship. He couldn't help her.






  • E. G. · 3 years ago
    Anonymous: "Anyone can file a grievance at any time, so why is everyone so silent on why none was filed before this if these people were miserable and the church was making their marriage miserable? How come we only hear about it after Tom went on administrative leave summer 2005?"

    Okay, to the non-observant "reviewer", I quoted anonymous' statement, and referred to it per the below response.

    E.G.: "So, are you suggesting that "abuse" can only be validated by the number of filed complaints?"

    The inept/situationally delinquent anonymous, who made such a claim that there is some suspiciousness by the timing of the claim, is ridiculous, people come out all the time in their "own" time. When some idiot makes a generalization, using everybody, then its appropriate to use the same logic in a generalized manner, and if one doesn't like it, then it appears they need to become more aware of their dialect, or... do everyone a favor, and not post meaningless jibberish that causes multiple posts to define the persons' thought.

    When logically speaking in generalizaztions, then its apparent that the same logic can be extended to other cases, in the same manner, and equal results should be expected, thus, I personally applied the idiotic generalization to other cases with manyof the same legal limits, to include sexual abuse, etc.

    So, if for those who are obviously too obtuse to get the point, "The timing is not clearly an indicative and clear-cut modus operandi for "all" people, generally speaking." Generally speaking because of the word "EVERYONE" in that anonymous idiots' remark. And those who think in those type generalizations, are the ones who would make such idiotic statments when confronted with cases of likeness, i.e., a sexual abuse case, etc. In essence, "Oh, why did the charges just pop up now, while the priest was on vacation, that seems suspicious", kind of stupidity. If this isn't clear enough, I'll attempt a scratch and sniff on the website, so those who are cerebrally challenged, can follow. Perhaps, a bouncing dot, on the words with audio.

    It would appear that anyone wanting to discuss anything intelligent, would not use openly loose rhetoric to make "specific" claims, or even grossly childish insinuations, but then, we are talking to a group of people who have as much proof of their god as they do Santa Clause, and so... its quite expected, right.

    Please, by all means, continue to speculate on the motives of people whom you have no clue about, and I mean "no clue", as until you enter their "mind", you have "no clue", what is clearly being discussed is what the "resulting" actions should be, and how to place control mechanisms in place to prevent those of the cloth from taking liberties that are not supposed to reflect a religion's values.

    Its not to protect Tom, its to protect the church, and religious farm from public relations damage. Religion "expects" humanity to "fail", its why they have plan "B", the "salvation" plan. So, having the individual covered and expecting people to do commit sin, its all about how to cover it up, or place "people" in little boxes with control mechanisms to prevent them from putting their fingers in the cookie jar.

    What's most interesting to me in this entire soap opera, is that there are "two", in theory, devoutely religious people involved, and well "educated", again, in theory, but... they appear to be telling different stories, meaning one of the two of them is lying, or one of them was incapable of understanding the expectations of the other, meaning, they were not really educated. So, either one of them is truly uneducated, especially in the area of human endeavors, or one is lying deliberately, in either case, why would "anyone" follow the "rube" or "deceiver".

    Someone who has to follow someone they know to have questionable values, is overtly displaying their lack of confidence in their own life, they are in essence suggesting that they feel better when some second party tells them how to live their life, even if its coming from someone with questionable values, than to accept responsibility for ones' own life and navigation. That is what is really being displayed in this scene between two "gladiators" for "god", a god that neither of these two people can "define", but one, that both can say with confidence is on their side, I wonder how many gods there are, or is god more like Janus.



















  • NYC1 · 3 years ago
    The husband filed a civil court suit, so speculation isn't relevant. What is relevant is that Dr. Tewell resigned from Princeton Seminary as the chair of trustees, and as a trustee, and as a trustee of a religious training institution might be called upon more than most to defend ethical decisions about his behavior, independent of the results.

    Also, there are laws on the books that cover how you conduct your professional responsibilities and the judge is not going to tell you that you might have a case that stands up in court with another cause of action. His case was claimed there was marriage counseling, and that's what the judge looks at, not adding a cause of action that might win the case.

    So, the beauty of civil court is that the individual belief system doesn't matter, it's all about "did you do what was appropriate?" But the way the court case defined it misses the entire point of how ethical behavior--and "behavior" was a word Tom used in his ltr to us--is defined.

    So there might be a case to win in civil court, just not the one that was put in the complaint and amended complaint. Because there are laws on the books and it has nothing to do with your belief in God, Jesus Christ, or any specific religious beliefs, but how people conduct themselves as any professional.

    So if everyone just looked at the ethics of the facts, there might be real change going forward. Might Joe win in court--maybe. Might he get money. Maybe. Might the houses of worship pay attention and start enforcing misconduct policies. Again, maybe. If it takes Joe getting money to make people act right and report the "off" actions of clergy and church members, then it will all have been worth it. That's why there is a claim for punitive damages in the suit. Just that reason.

    At what point might everything have stopped short Tom resigning. At what point would it have started becoming "inappropriate?" When you answer that, you will know how to create a policy that is tight as a drum.

    The answer is pretty simple. The clergy never has a reason to be very "helpful."

    So that is the question. What was the first occasion that was inappropriate. And then how many more were there? Find that out and you'll know how to write policies that work.













  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    point of clarification on what NYC1 wrote...

    Tom was a member of the Bd. of Trustess at Princeton Seminary for many years before he was asked to resign in 2005. Prior to May of 2005, he had not been the Chair...which is a very important distinction in talking about the issue of ethics in all of this

    He became the Chair of the Bd. in May of 2005, while in the middle of the investigation at FAPC. He said nothing to the President of the seminary, nor to the other members of the Bd. about the investigation...knowing full well what he had done. Those are not the actions of an ethical man.

    Tom was asked to resign from the Board...he did not do it voluntarily...yet another example of his ego and narcissism getting in the way of ethical responsibility.

    If he had told the truth...the whole truth from the beginning...then we could talk about ethics.

    Tom and truth telling don't belong in the same sentence.

    He lied to his family, to us as a congregation and to the Board at Princeton.

    He had us all fooled, but he was really fooling himself in thinking that he could get away with it.













  • Fol up to ethics · 3 years ago
    I appreciate the comments of the "ethics" person above, and certainly people at Princeton could confirm whether or not it is true. I saw him shortly before the Princeton announcement was made, and he certainly was not the outwardly vibrant person (if you knew him as well as FAPCers did) that we knew. His family was with him, and he made a point of talking about how long people in the audience had been married he recognized and how long he had been married.

    How come no one stepped in, all the "think they know" trustees, deacons, elders, staff, assoc pastors. How come no one? What was wrong with everyone else.
    The denial IS appalling. But the blindness of all those supposedly observant people--how can that be?

    Previous poster 6/27
    The members of FAPC, of which I am one, know how Rachel absolutely idolized Tom. I always sat in the front on the left and often times next to Rachel. Her body language was pretty unmistakable when Tom was in the pulpit.

    Some of his resignation letter had the phrases in here, but the key, "
    ...protect ourselves from being injured...by activities and people that are harmful to us."
    PTCL327 • Facing Up to Boundary Issues
    Joy Carol
    Saturday, 9:00 am – 3:00 pm
    November 19
    As compassionate and caring people, we often try to respond with kindness to the countless demands of people who are in pain. We may not know how to say “no” to the many requests for help that we hear every day. We may be people who suffer from being “boundary-less.” Without boundaries it is not possible to know where our responsibilities should end or someone else’s should begin. Without boundaries, we end up worrying, spinning our wheels, doing things we shouldn’t, and using up a lot of extra energy. Our options, choices, and possibilities become limited. What’s worse is that we are not free to do what God may be calling us to do. Often we discover that we are suffering from burnout, that we have turned ourselves into prisoners – mostly because of our own doings.

    In this one-day workshop, we explore ways to protect ourselves from being injured or overwhelmed by requests for help or by activities and people that are harmful to us. We learn how to define “adaptable boundaries,” how to avoid suffering from burnout, and how the word “no” can be a positive and freeing word for ourselves as well as for others. We are introduced to spiritual exercises and prayers that will help us have firm but compassionate and caring boundaries.

    So, there in our own publication, the words "harmful" and "injurious." And how can it ever be appropriate for a married mother to "present" as she did. A lot of people idolized Tom, and that was probably part of the problem. If you want to act like a giddy schoolgirl there's no law against it, but that doesn't mean the "idolee" shouldn't be protected--by whatever church-appropriate means.

    10 years ago the legal charge of "negligent supervision" wasn't recognized by the courts. Now it is. Churches are more liable, so if congregations don't step in, the poor judgment of empty nest men and women (and some cases are woman-woman, or other combos) will happen again and again!



















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    question...

    why is it that tom is "vibrant" and "outgoing" and rachel is "a giddy school girl?"

    seems like a sexist double standard to me.

    body language in the pew? come on...

    what about tom winking at her and looking at her when he preached, when she was sitting with her family?

    point of curiosity from those of us who pay attention to sermons at FAPC...

    listen to or read tom's sermon from March 6, 2005. See if any of you can catch the reference that he used, that he never used before and clearly was her influence.

    let me know what you come up with!













  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    correction...

    it was his sermon from march 13, 2005.

  • Sermon reader 2 · 3 years ago
    He smiled and winked at me, too, and when it stopped in the spring of 2005, it was obviously (as we now know) because of the investigation's start. And that sermon is not online. What does it say? Pls tell us because eventually everything whatever there may be, little or much, is going to come out, anyway.

    What was bad in one sermon was the "you can't have just one friend," and even when I heard it (not knowing), got chills.

    No question, churches need a zero tolerance policy, but no one wants to think a minister would indulge himself in this way, and that's the word, not even considering that he wasn't never planning to leave his wife--I know, I know, how do I know. But let's assume. So if someone gets off on women going nuts about them, and were it possible that was the "flaw" our clerk of session meant, then of course, for what reason would it stop. Or did he think it was a "harmless" way of being on her part and so what.

    What would have happened had Suzanne asked for help? Did no know reach out to her, or did she, too, think it was fine?

    But no question to me, either. Once the chair business came up, for what reason would he accept it? Did he not talk to anyone or just fly by the seat of his pants hoping it would all go away because of how he saw it? Would an atty say, sure, no problem, just sign up as a chair, when he might have been better off initiating his resignation in the spring from the Bd of Trustees totally.







  • Picnicer · 3 years ago
    "Ever" planning as I meant to say...

    A friend couldn't believe all of his smiling and winking at different areas of the church from the pulupit, when I brought her to church, and when she had met him on another occasion was blown away by his attractiveness. I said, "See..." Anyway, I guess it did foretell a problem and why did no one see this as a problematical way to be?

    I think because people come to church broken, and start out vulnerable, and what often characterizes people who become ministers, as one told me, "wanting love." Give it to get it. The Houston Mem Dr clerk of session told the FAPC clerk of session in 1994, as was said fall 2004 and no one asked themselves if that could be a problem, because the odds of new hires being psychologically evaluated probably wasn't that high before. Now, maybe the lawyers will make us get smart.

    Tom could be giddy, too. Ask anyone who was at the FAPC picnic in the Central Park June 2004, but that was around different people, so maybe he adored us all, so relaxed around us.

    When I asked to take his picture, he said something about his own smile, so I thought, "get over yourself..." He was like a kid on vacation. But we don't want pastors who act like kids. Least I don't.

    So when you go back and see where the focus was. Was anyone seeing the big picture, or just a limited one. And what characterizes people who think only of their own concerns? So it's an interesting study in how people were finding ways to cope with their lives which made whatever problems they had worse--and created new ones for them. We can hire a new minister, we'll be fine. But it proves that knowing someone "high up" won't help your life--no one can protect you. And the civil laws are stricter now than they were when people Tom's age started out in ministry and nothing shows any indication of reversing.









  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Different posters are using different words. I would have liked to see him take himself seriously and not try to act like the kid he's not.

    Remember when he said he didn't want to be a grandfather, he was too young, he thought. Suzanne embraced it, and told everyone. He was like, can't be true. Maybe an uncle.

    So absorbing reality of life. All of our jobs!



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    picnicer, I am past member of MDPC and guess I missed out on what the clerk of session MDPC told his peer in FAPC and am curious if you could share.

    I never noticed at MDPC Tom winking in all directions but maybe I was not observant. He is very charismatic and certainly had most of us in the palm of his hand. I also know he was full of himself but a lot of ministers of big steeple churches are. I think many have delusions of Godlike grandeur.

    Just this morning I pulled out one of his tapes from 1992 on the book of James and listened to it. Almost made me cry.



  • Picnicer · 3 years ago
    Certainly. Occasion was Tom's 10th anniversary celebration in the main sanctuary after a service Oct 2004. Tom and Suzanne received presents and people spoke about them. Suzanne was given a quilt; I think maybe handmade. And Tom gave her a dozen red roses in front of the congregation. He did not single out anyone from the pulpit for special attention. Our PR person cried when he described some of the ways Tom spoke to people on the staff and ministered to them.

    A man who was on the search committee that found Tom, sort of alluded to his effect on women (which for the record I found inappropriate, his comment). He also said that Suzanne had made it clear it was not a "2 for 1 deal"--my words, that it wasn't "her" to be hugely involved, kind of thing, although she did teach Sunday School at one point, and in other activities people mentioned to me, but maybe not recently. I emailed Tom later I thought was TOTALLY inappropriate to comment about Suzanne's communication in what she no doubt that was a private conversation.

    Then, the coup de grace, was "And the Houston Mem Dr Clerk of Session, told the then-FAPC Clerk of Session, "TOM NEEDS A LOT OF LOVE."

    He didn't go on to say what that means, but a "big ego" might be interpreted as someone with a self-image problem so to act "big" because you feel "small" compensation, but that was the quote and people reminded me of it once this hit the fan 11 months later. Neither of his parents graduated from college and he was the shining star, only child, with nary a cloud on the horizon. Had he actually found someone smarter than he was--and we are all stupider than others when we are afraid, worried or at wits' end about something, then it might all have been fine. But no, he had it all "under control." So, don't know if he that busy, busy walk, but he always seemed to be in a hurry!

    But when he talked to people there, how did he do that--a lot of hugging and kissing, terms of endearments--or was he more standoffish before he got to NYC?







  • Picnicer · 3 years ago
    "Smarter..."

    The man doesn't exist who gets help before he hits the wall, to use a phrase Tom used, too, as runner, although he should have listened to his friend who he told us, said he should run a marathon. And him with Central Park across the st from the manse.

    The church requires it; it isn't a choice these situations.

    Churchill wrote, "Men occasinoally stumble over the truth, but most of them pick themselves up and hurry off as if nothing ever happened," but the heavens are bigger than us all and the church larger than us, but smaller than the heavens.

    He's not the play.

    How did his ego evidence itself in his Houston church? He certainly had even more people than he did in NYC/one person who visited said there were 4 Sun. services he preached. At FAPC after he came, it went from one to two.









  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Summer 2004
    “Pioneers in the church’s Family Ministry program"......Sunday school,Kindership, Junior and Senior High programs, Family Ministry program...the Family Ministries Committee, Worship Committee. Joe currently teaches 5th Grade Sunday school and serves on the Sunday School Committee to create curriculum, and most of all is a strong support to Rachel in her Steering Committee initiatives." She also served as a deacon, and on the Couples Club Steering Committee. This was the summary summer 2004, published in the church VOICE...covering 10 yrs, so how could it go south so fast a mere 6 months later when Joe was around too. And it's not that large a building. Mem Drive people would be amazed at how compact it is!
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    picnicer, thank you for your response.

    I can only speak for myself in regards to Tom's terms of endearment because I was only in that church for 2 years. We were transferred there knowing it was only 2 years and I did not get actively involved except for worship and classes which are the only contact I had with Tom.

    I will say this that he treated me like I was a key church member although I was not.

    The personal instance that comes to mind is this. I always sat on the aisle and many times when he would walk up the aisle after the benediction he would squeeze the hand of some sitting on the aisle and I was a recipient several times. He never winked at me though. Maybe it was because I am about 10 years older than he. :) He always greeted me by name in his classes too. One of his women's Bible study classes in middle of the week in early morning had over 200 and I bet he could call each by name.

    I saw him twice after our leaving Houston once in 98 and once in 2002.In 98 he hugged me and called me by name and I was amazed at his memory since it had been 10 years since I had seen him.

    Then in 02 I was in NYC and went to the main worship service and stood in line at the front of the church after to say hello. As soon as he saw me he hugged me and again called me by name. And he recalled one of my favorite associate pastors and gave me news of him. BTW, FAPC building is wonderful. I love the architecture etc. MDPC is modern.

    Some people are huggers and enjoy personal contact and not in a sexual manner. I think he is one of those. I know many like him in that regard.

    I was telling my husband about this and he said that I had also met Clinton and he was the same way. I met WJC in a group and told him that my cousin had been in his Ark administration and he grabbed my hand in both of his and started reminiscing about my cousin. He talked to me like he had all the time in the world and as if I were the only person there. Clinton also is charismatic and has a fantastic memory. I'm not saying this is analogous but I think you get the idea.

    One thing I have found interesting which has nothing to do with this situation is that Tom was what I would call a conservative at MDPC. But when I talked to him in 98 he told me he had grown and changed as result of his ministry at FAPC. So I began to go to your website and read sermons etc and realized he was a different pastor than he had been in Houston and I applaud him for that.

    When I think of Tom, I mourn for the loss to him and also family and church. But I prefer to think of the good memories. If I could speak with him I would tell him that I support him in this difficult time. Well, you can see what kind of effect he had on me that here I am participating in this forum. I guess I'm trying to come to an understanding of how this all transpired.

    BTW, those 92 tapes I have were sent to me by a Houston MDPC friend.



















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    you "mourn for the loss" are you kidding me?
    clinton...tewell...both liars.

    i guess that's ok...as long as he remembered your name.

    pathetic!




  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Thanks for your insights, “Houston Visitor;” they sound quite true to form. On one thing I disagree: I would not applaud Tewell for becoming less conservative once coming to New York. I do NOT go so far as to say that he stumbled because he gave up Biblical standards of sexual behavior, but the change in him here was a little too abrupt to be healthy. Part of it was his genuine softheartedness, part of it was his eagerness to please his new congregants, and a big part of it was the pressure to conform to the rigid liberalism of the New York City Presbytery. He seemed not to be true to himself and that helped in his losing his way. New York City was not a good place for him and Suzanne, so my prayer is that he can return to the ministry elsewhere. I say this even though I call myself “New Yorker
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Yes, Tom was for a while affected by the liberal thinking that was around him in NYC. But in the last two years Tom started to turn around. You could say that Tom went through a phase realizing after a time that it was all rationalization and not obedience. Tom during one of his classes in late 2003 said how he was now listening to different conservative preachers on the radio.
    Tom surely was pressured to go along with covenant (a theology of the culture) at a time when he was under investigation taking advantage of the situation and then they dropped Tom in the summer after he had gone along.

    Two reasons exist for this - they did not want Tom's name to be associated with covenant because they did not want even a hint of immoratilty to be associated with the newly established covenant (theology approving of gay miniters in teaching positions)even though they had gone on and on how much they loved Tom trying to influence him for their agendas.

    Also they must have put two and two together realizing that Tom
    really had not been in favor of covenant (a reading the article in the July Voice is a giveaway in how badly it was written that Tom's heart was not in it) and so they wanted to get Tom out of his position.

    I saw Tom's body language during a service in April of 2005 and he looked like a thoroughly discouraged and his facial expression was heartbreaking. He looked like a beaten man. This was exactly the time that covenant had been approved to be on the agenda and Tom had not come against it most likely fearing that if he did not then they would tear the church apart with the accusations (which happened anyway)

    He truly had lost his way being very afraid to talk about anything conservative in the fall of 2005
    even in conversation as the liberals were making a very big push to make FAPC a liberal church.

    I believe that Tom being worn out while feeling he was losing control of the direction of FAPC becuase of the aggressive
    determination going on
    was a huge factor in Toms stumbling
    and not using good judgement

    He really did tell the truth in his letter that he was burned out and lost his way. I was told by someone who would know in Sept '04
    that Tom could not take another year like the last year - fundraising - he was worn out.

    Then Tom had to be subjected to accusations about having an affair which was not in his mind to do at all. No wonder he denied the charges but later realized that he had behaved inappropriately
    within very narrow limits imposed on clergy. Also he must have been distracted with the liberals
    (who call themselves inclusive evangelicals to cover it up)
    taking over FAPC and so was not able to really think it all through clearly until the dust had settled after the vote in the session (which was kept secret from the congregation deliberately by liberals in key positions.

    In fact it is fair to assume that the NYC presbytery leadership took Joe's assertions seriously in order to take advantage of the situation so as to cement the liberal powerbase at FAPC.


    It is these people who should be under investigation for their dirty politics. Tom made a mistake in judgement that is all.

    Regarding Clinton - Tom was a selfless person always putting others before himself. The way he put himself out to raise money - around $30MM for the church to grow was truly remarkable. And in the end he paid dearly for it being debilitated with liberals taking advantage of his being caught up in fundraising and his being worn out afterwards.

    Clinton only thought of himself
    before he thought about this country. He wanted to look good
    at the expense of anyone.
    A big difference indeed - there is no comparison.



































  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    two corrections on the previous posting - in the fall of 2004 is when Tom was very much afraid to talk about anything conservative.

    and Tom was certainly concerned that if he did not go along with the pressure to put covenant in place then the "progressives"
    (again another word for liberals - a coverup - deception)
    would tear FAPC apart going after him.

    Their agendas matter more to them than the person whom they said they loved. Very destructive behavior indeed on many levels for Tom and the church.





  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Very silly those postings about winking and smiling etc.

    There are four main personality types that exist and Tom is one of those who truly care about others but also needs to feel that people like what they do and say.

    To be in NYC where there are people with agendas is very difficult for someone like this.
    The desire is there to try to please everyone.

    It is not so much about ego as what personality strengths and weaknesses come with the type you are.

    This is well known to be true as people either use this knowledge to take advantage using the person's inherent weaknesses or to help the person by offsetting this. There were a number of people who played into praising Tom in order to influence him and get their agendas in place.

    And who have shown their true colors once they realized that Tom was no longer an asset to their cause.

    One can only hope that these people are weeded out over time.
    The process has already begun with God's cleaning things out at FAPC.

    In NYC to be a pastor in a large church the type of personality needs to be a dominant type who keeps these people in their place so that they are not able to take over. You cannot please everyone
    and keep the teachings that are life saving in place.

    Certainly this was a lesson that God had for Tom with all of the bad publicity - that Tom should not care about what people think.

    Trials are allowed to burn the dross of so that one is more used of God. Tom has had the right attitude in this being humble and God will be able to use him
    even more powerfully in the future.





















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    To Anonymous (previous post): What do you mean by "cleaning things out at FAPC"? What has happened?
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    This is just another example of liberals taking over a church
    in large part because of the lack of solid understandings within the congregation.

    People do not really spend much time in the bible and are therefore susceptible (lack of discernment) to harmful teachings. An example of this is what was taught that all ideas have equal weight such as homosexuality and that we are not to use the bible as the standard (Christian Communication class) This is playing into people's comfort levels to make them feel included(inclusive evangelism = permissiveness). This is not what the church of Jesus Christ is about.


    All one can really do is not to spend much time in being critical
    of this teaching of darkness and deception (we know who the deceiver is who works in the mind who is the real enemy of our souls)
    but instead to stand alongside the ditch (as in the blind leading the blind into the ditch) to help those who want to get out as they see there is nothing solid to hold onto or different from the culture that surrounds them.

    The culture has always been pressuring the church to bend
    and since the 1920's this has been gradually occuring with recent dramatic downturn approving of the gay lifestyle which they are going all out to present as acceptable giving out all kinds of misinformation to justify giving into their weakness.

    These churches will not flourish as they are not attached to the vine and will wither because the churches with life changing teachings attract people.

    The vote on covenant was deliberately kept quiet from the congregation to prevent any kind of opposition - whereas in 1999 there was a letter written to the congregation promising that FAPC would not go under any organization because the church should not be defined by something like this.

    Jesus talks about the narrow way that leads to blessing as opposed to the broad way that leads to destruction.

    Amazing how the progressive inclusive people ignore passages in the scripture such as the one above and still believe that they are doing God's will. They also believe that the end justifies the means.


















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    what has happened at FAPC in the way of cleansing?

    the recent resignations of people who pushed very hard for FAPC to be a "liberal church"

    who were unfriendly (understatement) to conservative viewpoints being expressed or even allowed.

    One who whom is going where she belongs to a seminary that is of the denomination "where anything goes". It is a perfect fit for her





  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    The two recent resignations is what I am referring to as God cleaning house or at least the beginnings of that at FAPC hopefully.

    Both of these people were aggressive and instrumental in putting into place programs where conservative biblical thinking was not welcome at all.

    I am not saying that they deliberately were out to undermine Tom but they certainly were determined to do whatever it took to make FAPC a "liberal church".

    One person was a follower of the other because of a lack of solid understandings.

    Tom was going to take care of the situation in a way so as not to disrupt the church but he never got around to it in the winter/spring of 2005.

    The leader of these two people is going to be teaching in a seminary of the episcopal denomination where anything goes. It is a perfect fit for this person who is the personification of a false teacher as spoken about by Peter and Jude appearing to be so friendly and concerned but all the while really looking to spread their teachings and wanting to destroy those who stand in their way.

    Tom did not realize that this person had agendas because this person did not reveal it until they were in place in the position. He was in a hurry to find someone before the fundraising began and made this person a part time consultant only.
    But this person being strong willed used it to deliberately become in charge - this was her goal as I saw how she was sitting in the main chair after Easter '04(tom was away) clenching her fists being determined that she was going to be in control in this church instead of Tom.

    It speaks volumes that no teaching at all went on with the congregation allowed to carry on with negative talk and false rumors.
    Nothing about how we all fall short of the glory of God or about the dangers of gossip.

    Both of these people were very influential and should have done something to give perspective.


    So with the new interim about to start it is good that they are leaving because they would want to
    justify themselves and thus hinder the needed confession and repentance of the congregation
    once the report comes out about how minimal Toms misjudgement was.

    The plan was to allow the congregation distance themselves by being critical of Tom which surely they were in agreement with.

    what kind of theology is that??

    Also it is a terrible thing to say by one of these people recently that "we may never know what happened" when it is known that the investigation was conclusive
    in how things came together to confirm the findings which was a relief.


    They needed to be out of the church in order for FAPC to do the healing process and be able to move on.
    Because they are not being helpful.

































  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    it was common knowledge among Presbyterian ministers in NYC
    last summer that Tom had been banged around badly by the NYC Presbytery. Details were not known as to why or how - only that Tom had been given a very rough time.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    In MDPC they understood Tom and gave support and Tom and that church flourished as a team.

    But in NYC the liberals (inclusive/progressive) undermined Tom taking advantage of his desire to please and take care of everyone

    That should explain about MDPC saying that to FAPC that Tom needs to be loved. Don't we all really?

    Tom through this trial will understand more about how not to be manipulated in this way. It was a lesson he needed to learn.

    Tom will land on his feet and probably will go to a smaller church that is at the very least moderate but not liberal.
    But perhaps Tom will have been so convicted by all of this that he may well come full circle having gotten deeper understandings and return to a conservative church.

    That is a wish of many who know how gifted Tom is to teach and help a great number of people.










  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "The two recent resignations is what I am referring to as God cleaning house or at least the beginnings of that at FAPC hopefully."

    God isn't cleaning house, people using civil law and peer pressure are bringing about change. Unless, you want to call people "gods", to include those who "resigned". If you are one of those "god" is responsible for everything parrots, then your god is responsible for baby abortions, infantile disorders, breast cancer, etc., your god seems to be busy destroying humanity. I suppose not "all" people are "good" christians, right, some people need to be put in their place, and your god is the one to do it, right.

    If your god, has to hurt people in order to get things done, your god seems to be really shallow and not all that omnipotent, but... that's just an outsider looking at the comments being made by the obviously self-appointed, god approved, righteous.



  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Interesting observations; I hadn’t known that Tewell was returning to his conservative convictions. And there is no getting away from the fact that the sudden decision, in an agenda meeting of Fifth Avenue Church’s elders, to join this liberal, pro-gay “Covenant Network” came within a week or two of the Presbytery’s formation of a committee to investigate Tewell. For those who think these interpretations smack of paranoia, it might be helpful to compare this to what happened on the west coast, at Hollywood Presbyterian Church. Two popular co-pastors at a thriving congregation were ousted by their (liberal) Presbytery, leaving their congregants stunned. One member of that congregation thought this should serve as a warning and posted a thoughtful analysis that can be read at: http://www.layman.org/layman/letters-editorials... realize that this is too much “inside baseball” for non-Presbyterians and non-Christians, but it is worth the read. And I hope the writer will forgive me for paraphrasing her main points of warning. She gives absolutely no hint of being aware of what was happening simultaneously at Fifth Avenue Church, so the inferences are mine. In the California case, the pastors were done in by an Administrative Commission before being dragged before investigations, and their supposed infractions dealt with financial rather than sexual matters. Nonetheless, some of her too-late warnings might sound ever so slightly familiar to FAPCers:

    The goal, she explained was to “turn” a traditionally orthodox church to the liberal agenda:

    Beware of thinking your pastor is “safe,” no matter how successful his ministry; he is in fact only a complaint away from being removed.

    Beware of obediently following the Presbytery’s rules and thinking they are well-meaning, that is the surest way to “lose.”

    Beware of letting anyone put your pastor on administrative leave, implying he had committed some terrible, but not fully specified sin.

    Beware of draconian efforts to silence your pastor or even brief attempts to separate him from his flock.

    Beware of thinking your pastor has the overwhelming support of the congregation and Session because your elders will ultimately try to preserve the church at the expense of justice for the pastor.

    Okay, just food for thought. And believe it or not, the national Presbyterian Church has just decided that they want more—not less—of this internecine warfare within its regional bodies. The Culture Wars are lethal, utterly deadly. Tom Tewell, one of the bright stars in the Presbyterian pantheon, was just one victim.













  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    a previous posting talks about how could the higher ups not take responsibility for not seeing what was going on? When the session first heard about it their first response was remorse that they did not look out for Tom because he was so worn out and thus used poor judgement.

    Since it was such a minor incident
    and Tom at that point when accepting the chair of Princeton
    had not yet come to terms about it being a mistake. It is not a fair statement to make that he should have turned the chair position down The presbytery if they had not had an agenda with regards to FAPC would have not followed up on Joe's complaint the way they did.

    Regarding the judge she was deciding if it was applicable to go to trial under the law. She was not making any kind of judgement but since Tom had asked for a summary judgement the judge
    had to accept as true what Joe states.

    But it is good that FAPC did not get away with saying that they did not see anything and was found to be liable. So many people saw Rachel hanging around Tom and did not say anything to help Tom with a blind spot he had.

    Regarding Joy Carol - it would have been much better to have focused on the congregations attitude and lack of communicating what they saw about Rachel than making Tom look bad by focusing on how Tom violated boundaries - very inappropriate
    and since Joy is close friends with the aggressive person who is leaving FAPC
    this certainly was part of the
    attempt to distance the congregation from Tom putting the focus on Tom alone.
    If Joy Carol were more solid in her understandings instead of thinking that the bible was written by a bunch of men
    she would have known better.

    Lawyers will tell you that judges often give decisions that really are not good basis trying to force a settlement.

















  • down with FAPCnow! · 3 years ago
    If you people could read the ridiculousness of your bickering and whining and crying.

    You all sound like a bunch of 3 year olds and I'm being generous at that.

    You all are trying believe a lie and a myth that cannot be proved, this is the reason all churches are bickering, backstabbing, whining and crying within themselves all over the world.

    You all have elected a human to represent an imaginary god, it just will not work, it never has and it never will.

    You've decided that there exist a human being that can represent an imaginary god, you've all been fooled and taken to the cleaners.

    You've all had your money and your time taken, and your common sense have been depleted by this swindler, charleton, liar, ______________________________placeany preachers name here!

    You've all been conned, tricked, slighted, fooled, lied to, and you all know it, but you refuse to admit it, instead you blame your imaginary god, jebus, or satan, instead of yourselves.

    You're all a bunch of broken down fools, thanks to your local god called preacher, you've all been sold a load of shit and was told it was a load of gold.

    You people have not the mentality of a 4 year old child, you're all jesus whipped and preacher whipped and running scared, if an emergency came up and you had to use your brains, you'd all flop over dead, becuase you're all abunch of braindead fools.

    But so is 90% of all Americans that are christians, so I guess you all feel normal, but you're all braindead and worship a myth and worship a human being telling you the myth is real, and you're stupid enough to believe it.

    You braindead cowards!

    All churches are falling and collapsing in on themselves and you stupid people are blaming your imaginary gods, all churches are built by a man, and they will fall, because they represent a lie, a lie cannot stand on it's own, it has to be spread by a fool, so a fool will believe it, just as you all.





















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I very much appreciate the recent posts by FAPC members. They are enlightening and thought provoking with civility.

    I do know some of your church history as am quite familiar with Dr. Kirkland since he was pastor of First Pres Tulsa when called to FAPC. He was a traditional Presbyterian and your church followed his lead. I am not familiar with subsequent pastors but supposed the church gradually became more liberal. I was surprised Tom went to FAPC because that was my impression of FAPC at the time. Evidently I was mistaken in believing it was then a more liberal church.

    I took Tom at his words when he told me that he had grown in his ministry at FAPC and I believe at the time that he was sincere.

    If in fact he remained a moderate in his heart or was returning to previous convictions then he must have been experiencing great inner turmoil the past year or so.

    I am a liberal but respect your opinions. Heck, I was a liberal when at MDPC and was content but then I was not actively engaged in comittees etc so was happily on the periphery.

    These are difficult times for the PCUSA and as we speak the New Wineskins delegates are meeting in Tulsa-400+ strong- and vote tomorrow on action to be taken at this juncture. But I digress and don't wish to debate the decisions of the GA.

    Tom's tape from the book of James series that I listened to for the first time in years startled me with irony.

    Tom was talking about integrity, walking the walk, being the same person inside as outside etc. So much of what he said is relevant to his current situation. He concluded by saying that if a person needs help in changing then he/she needs to seek counsel of a Christian mature in faith. He gave example from his time in New Providence when he was frustrated about finding time for family. He asked a friend to pray for him but the friend did not stop there and was proactive rather than passive and asked to the point questions and helped him set a 3 month calendar with blocks of time for family.

    I wonder if he sought the advice of a mature Christian in this instance or if he even thought he should.

    BTW, don't want to debate Clinton either. I do want to make clear that I do think Clinton is a people person and enjoys interaction just for the joy of it and for satisfaction of his need to be liked. He certainly had nothing to gain by engaging me in a 5 minute conversation about my cousin and her family. My point is that Tom is a charismatic people person who enjoys human contact and like Clinton may crave adulation. Anyway the reference was my husband's so I threw it in. :)

    You FAPCers are a good group and I have enjoyed this dialogue.



















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    thank you for your kind comments.
    I do try to not have a critical spirit but rather to help gain a clearer understanding of what went on - it is important so that FAPC recognizes how they did not support their last two senior pastors being so ready to believe the worst about them when an issue arose that needed them to be loyal.

    yes, you are right about Tom being in inner turmoil which happened when he came back after the summer of 2004 being afraid to talk about anything conservative. He was absolutely petrified.

    The Liberals had gotten very determined and entrenched putting liberal perspectives in place within small bible study groups and classes that even you as a liberal would be astonished at how unbiblical/unchristian they were.

    This happened because Tom was delegating when fundraising the previous church year and they took full advantage of the opportunity which is a breach of trust.

    The spring of 2004 Tom was very much into putting the right biblical approach into place - not giving into any agendas while being open to listening to needs expressed to see what was going on with people. Which was good management to understand what he was dealing with first and then formulate a response that would be helpful.

    But something happened during the summer to make him very afraid to come against all of this when he came back in the fall. Perhaps he saw how they would stop at almost nothing to get control of FAPC.

    But Tom did want to handle this situation and had a plan in mind that would have worked if it were not for the false allegations of adultery.

    Regarding Tom looking to someone for advice - I would think that he spoke to minister friends outside of FAPC but not to people within FAPC as he must have been feeling isolated dealing with the liberal onslaught of agendas and needing to be careful as to whom he could trust since they had made great inroads in the session and staff.

    Which is most likely why Tom did not ask for help - he acknowledged in his letter of resignation that he did not ask for help and has learned that he must ask for help more clearly - but I believe that this is mainly because of the dynamics existing within the church at the time. The liberals would have just grabbed for more power and Tom needed to maintain some control in order to put things back on track. And look at how they turned on him so easily believing the worst rather than giving Tom needed support being loyal. Instead they said they felt betrayed, etc. A very sorry comment on them to kick someone when they are down and encourage the congregation to do the same.

    Little wonder why Tom held back asking for help. He had seen how a minister who had a nervous breakdown (weakness) was treated by his congreation and Tom gave a sermon about it - why do the churches shoot their wounded?
    He could see how that could happen to him no doubt.

    As I understand it Tom now surrounds himself with ministers
    to whom he is accountable who came to his side once this situation became known in August/September.

    Tom did bring onto the session some very good people with solid understandings back in May of 2004
    which was another indication of
    what he wanted to do at FAPC.


























  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    a correction - Tom brought on solid people onto the session
    so that it would be less liberal
    back in May of 2005.
    which was most likely part of his plan to turn FAPC around.


  • Tom Supporter · 3 years ago
    If you people could read the ridiculousness of your bickering and whining and crying.

    You all sound like a bunch of 3 year olds and I'm being generous at that.

    You all are trying believe a lie and a myth that cannot be proved, this is the reason all churches are bickering, backstabbing, whining and crying within themselves all over the world.

    You all have elected a human to represent an imaginary god, it just will not work, it never has and it never will.

    You've decided that there exist a human being that can represent an imaginary god, you've all been fooled and taken to the cleaners.

    You've all had your money and your time taken, and your common sense have been depleted by this swindler, charleton, liar, ______________________________placeany preachers name here!

    You've all been conned, tricked, slighted, fooled, lied to, and you all know it, but you refuse to admit it, instead you blame your imaginary god, jebus, or satan, instead of yourselves.

    You're all a bunch of broken down fools, thanks to your local god called preacher, you've all been sold a load of shit and was told it was a load of gold.

    You people have not the mentality of a 4 year old child, you're all jesus whipped and preacher whipped and running scared, if an emergency came up and you had to use your brains, you'd all flop over dead, becuase you're all abunch of brain dead fools.

    But so is 90% of all Americans that are christians, so I guess you all feel normal, but you're all brain dead and worship a myth and worship a human being telling you the myth is real, and you're stupid enough to believe it.

    You brain dead cowards!

    All churches are falling and collapsing in on themselves and you stupid people are blaming your imaginary gods, all churches are built by a man, and they will fall, because they represent a lie, a lie cannot stand on it's own, it has to be spread by a fool, so a fool will believe it, just as you all.

    You all run from the truth, you wouldn't recognize truth if it bit you in the ass.























  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to our Houston visitor at FAPC

    It would be a very helpful to let the Senior Pastor of MDPC about the postings that were done these past few days
    sharing about how the liberals did a hostile takeover of FAPC and the church out on the West Coast. And then they tried to destroy the ministers with negative portrayals.

    Since the conservative presbyterian ministers are meeting to decide upon a response to what was passed in the GA.
    They should definitely be aware of what went on at FAPC and NYC presbytery as well as Tom's turnaround theologically which he was not able to put into place at church because of the challenge to his authority in setting the direction there in 2004.

    There is a book that has recently been published by a NY Times bestselling author
    Ann Coulter

    the title of the book very accurately describes the type of liberals that exist in NYC

    The Church of Liberalism
    GODLESS

    These people will go with liberal ideas that are in opposition to solid teaching because their first allegiance is to their agendas.















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    the reason that the staff said they felt betrayed by tom is because he did betry them.

    the staff reqested the investigation in the spring of 2005...if tom had been honest with them about what happened they could have protected him and helped him.

    but he chose to sit down with them and "look them in the eye" to tell them it was absolutely not true.
    they believed him and backed him up...turning their backs on rachel and her family...thinking that there was no truth to what had been said.

    when they later found out that there was truth to what was said...they felt betrayed and rightfully so.

    they believed in him and he lied to them in an effort to cover his own ass.

    as far as the princeton board goes...he absolutely should not have taken the chair postion without at least informing the president and the rest of the board about the investigation. then they would not have been blind sided by what happened. it was a potential black eye for the seminary.

    most ministers who tom has asked to hold him accountable think he should have done so long before now.












  • Wondering... · 3 years ago
    So, the filthy slanderer is back. It really doesn’t take a literary detective to identify your postings. At least you are not pretending to be someone you are not right now: A member of the Investigating Committee (hey, why not? The system is corrupt enough as it is) or one of three “friends” of Rachel (as if the woman did not have enough troubles as to have you as a friend. You, the same person who has been slandering her and other FAPC women for years!).

    At least you are not pretending that you had nothing to do with getting those staff members to encourage an investigation. Because you knew you had something so minor (having a glass of wine with the woman!) that Tewell would hardly think to mention it. And then, Bingo! You could point him out as a liar, which you have done in every single one of your score of postings so far. You, the most pathological liar of them all!

    And you are not pretending that you don’t have any friends, close associates, um, VERY close associates involved in the judiciary process, are you? And didn’t they make sure that Tewell was not allowed to discuss the investigation at all, for months? So, how much could he explain to his colleagues at Princeton?



  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Well, I think there is a bond between us: When I was visiting a friend in Tulsa a few years ago, I asked if I could worship at Dr. Kirkland’s old church! Even though I hardly knew Dr. Kirkland. And I must add, in every one of our phone conversations, my Tulsa friend and I debate whether it is more isolating to be a conservative in a New York mainline church or a liberal in Tulsa. She usually wins the argument, but, please, have some compassion for us moderates here in New York!

    Maybe we all have a nominee for the “Tewell sermon we would listen to again now.” Mine is the one someone just alluded to, given in Advent 2003, about his friend, an extremely successful preacher in one of the largest churches in the denomination, who takes on too much, burns out, has a nervous breakdown. He gets a sabbatical, but when he returns he is not quite the same, and his “loving” congregation asks him to leave (where Tom asks, “Why does the church of Christ have this tendency to shoot its wounded?”). So, he loses everything, professionally, at least. But he tells Tewell (who, to his credit, kept up with him), that he has gained in fact, that the trust, the closer walk with God, and the peace that passes all understanding was worth it.

    I don’t keep much “stuff,” and that is only one of two or three of Tewell’s sermons on tape that I have. When, in the last six months or so, I offer to let FAPCers listen to this “foreshadowing sermon” they always decline, saying it would be “too sad.” Well, poignant it is, but it is rather a comfort: That Tom got the point intellectually then and would get it “deep down” now. Especially with those good friends who are holding him accountable, among them maybe even the fellow who had the nervous breakdown.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    yep, that is the party line being spouted by those in positions of leadership at FAPC - if only Tom had come clean right away they could have helped him !

    What is the difference in a few months time being able to help Tom or not in the situation especially when they know that it is a very minor incident - hardly worth mentioning even.

    Well they certainly did not need to turn on him either which they did - not very caring of them to kick Tom when he was down allowing false rumors to circulate around FAPC without any direction given as to Christian behavior.

    Certainly a much worse behavior in the eyes of God and by those who sit in judgement of Tom Tewell !!
    God help us !!






  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to the posting of 7/22 12:17

    It was common knowledge among the presbyterian ministers in NYC
    that Tom was being banged around very badly by the NYC Presbytery.

    So how can one think clearly when in the midst of such intense negativity on top of being burned out (not being able to take another year like the last year)

    Once the dust settled when covenant was approved and the stress level down - Tom obviously was able to think more clearly
    and realize the minimal mistake he made.

    The problem is that people like yourself are saying that it was a major issue lieing to staff and congregations members alike.

    Saying that it is major and also saying that since Tom is a LIAR that we will never really know what happened because we cannot trust Tom as he lied / betrayed us.

    It was a process for Tom to get to that point as he at first did not think of it - remember he was being accused of adultery - a far bigger issue.

    The church leadership allowing and even contributing to false rumors flying around FAPC as being true

    This is the real issue in all of thisand kicking someone when they are down and saying we didn't see anyting trying to put the blame entirely on Tom.
    Which websites by insurance companies say is the way churches try to approach it so as to be self protective of themselves

    when in reality it is the failure of the entire church which certainly is the case as many many people saw Rachel and were concerned seeing the kind of person she was. But said nothing to Tom or a member of session because they were more into taking from Tom who was a selfless person
    who loved to help and care.

    In the eyes of God this is the far greater sin. At least Tom confessed and repented of his behavior and with the new interim it is time for the congregation to get better direction from someone who has nothing to hide.

    How can a few months of coming to a realization of something done wrong that was minimal - "borderline and can be considered either way"
    prevent the church from helping Tom?

    This is a dishonest approach to say as opposed to Tom just needing some time.




























  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to posting 7/22 12:17 PM

    It was common knowledge among the presbyterian ministers in NYC just before the news came out that the presybtery had been beaten up Tom very badly.

    This at a time when Tom could not take another year like he had during the previous one as he was very worn out from fundraising (the session realized this when they first heard the news and felt remorse that they had not looked out for Tom which was appropriate)

    In the midst of all that pressure to go along with covenant Tom was not able to think of something as slight as what happened until the dust settled - he had been accused of adultery - something the NYC leadership should not have paid attention to but grabbed onto because they had agendas they wanted to put into place at FAPC.

    The investigation found that the incident was "borderline and couild be considered either way"
    And that the evidence fit together in such a way as to give complete confidence that there was not more to it than this small infraction.

    Tom was humble enough to admit even something so slight and be open to what he needed to learn from this as God had allowed all this to happen for a reason.
    (what you meant for evil God has allowed for good)

    However if you and your cohorts had not called Tom a LIAR the staff would not have felt betrayed.
    Although they should have been more loyal even though lead to believe what went on was much worse than a misjudgement.

    Tom lost credibility because of this and in a sermon in June it was said that "we may never know what actually happened" which is again kicking someone when they are down.

    False rumors have been allowed and even encouraged to fly around FAPC by those in leadership positions who say that they did not know what was going on - a comment on them.

    Websites exist by insurance companies that explain how churches tend to try and blame the pastor when in actuality it is a failure on the part of the entire church. Many, many people saw what Rachel was all about but did not say anything to warn Tom
    as they were more into taking than giving or caring about his welfare.

    Many of those who proclaimed to love Tom have not been loyal who received much from Tom. Again a comment on them.

    The attitude that FAPC is a great church has produced a pridefulness that is destructive.

    As ye judge so shall you be judged should send all to their knees seeking Tom's and God's forgiveness for their arrogant attitudes that Tom did not measure up to their standards of holiness which they themselves cannot even measure up to.

    You all need to take the log out of your own eyes before you can say anything negative.

    Tom was not deliberately doing something wrong whereas in comparison the behavior in response to the news has been
    even by secular standards deplorable - so ready to believe stories about Tom that are untrue.

    The only good thing is that this behavior and lack of appreciation must make it easier for Tom to leave FAPC behind and look forward.

    And in the end people will realize how badly Tom was treated and those who encouraged this out of self interest will hang their heads in shame




































  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    response to wondering...

    why is it that you resort to name calling whenever someone expresses an opinion that you disagree with? kind of immature don't you think? the purpose of this blog is so that people can express their thoughts and opinions, yet you call someone a name for doing just that. you are entitled to your opinion just as others are entitled to theirs. it doesn't make someone a "filthy slanderer"
    just because they disagree with you.

    there are only two people who know what really happened. none of us on this blog REALLY know the truth. we can speculate and assume things, but we don't really know for sure.

    i don't think that tom would have been asked to resign from the church or the seminary, if all he did was to "have a glass of wine with the woman." so something more must have happened.

    i do think that had tom told the whole truth to the staff right from the beginning [which he even admitted that he didn't do.] things might have been different. i think he had the staff convinced that there was no truth whatsoever in this situation, and when they found out otherwise, they felt hurt and betrayed, especially since it was from tom.

    one of my favorite sermons was entitled 'The Most Important Ingredient in Leadership." according to tom in that sermon, the answer was "integrity" i think that's what he staff expected from him.

    has anyone out there talked to either tom or rachel? are there any more 'facts" out there regarding this whole thing, or is it true that we may never really know what really happened?












  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    He was not asked to resign from the seminary. Just one more lie...He took that logical step when the investigation dragged out (purposely, it appears), and it became likely that he would have to take administrative leave from FAPC.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Just One More Lie...

    Well, the reason the investigation "dragged on" as you say...is once again due to the fact that Tom didn't tell the truth in the first place. If he had...there would have been little to "investigate" and the process could have been completed much faster.

    And, yes he was asked to resign from the seminary...he didn't take the "logical step" of even informing the President that there was an investigation. He then wrote a letter to the entire board telling them that he was stepping down as chair [not resigning from the board] so he could devote more time to his congregation and his family. More lies.

    Some of the Princeton Trustees even applauded Tom for making this wise decision...only to find out later the real reason for his resignation. Again...more betrayal.

    He was asked to resign form the Borad altogether when it was found out that he not only was under investigation, but that he would be charged and would resign from FAPC. Again...had he told the truth to the president and the board in the first place, just like the staff at FAPC...things may have gone differently.

    Tom's real problem in all of this was that all along he lied to the people who trusted him the most, which doesn't mean they won't or shouldn't forgive him, but it does mean that he did betray them.









  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Not much point disputing your lies and misleading narratives. Yes, it is true that Tewell did not publicize the main reason for his resignation as chair at the seminary. As mentioned, he was absolutely forbidden to discuss the investigation (by your "friends" involved in the process), and his resignation was a public statement, literally a press release. Most normal people would pity a man in that position. His Princeton colleagues are either supportive, or merely patient and fair. You were not able to manipulate them as you did the staff of FAPC. That must really sting a personality such as yours.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    That is an attempt at trying to distract by saying it is not nice to call someone names because one disagrees.

    What you are writing is deliberate falsehoods designed to turn people against Tom Tewell.

    Tom took a leave of absence becasue the investigations were in process and the session was told
    that Tom would be back by the end of October at the latest by the presbytery.

    But Joe had other plans and a front page article in the NY Post
    late October trying Tom in the newspapers with his civil suit
    ended any chance of Tom being able to return to FAPC. And Tom realized this as soon as he saw the headlines.

    And if the congregation had not been told that Tom was resolved not to return the vote may have turned out differently - voting to keep Tom on. Also negative portrayals such as yours also contributed to Toms demise which people are so ready to grab onto and believe.

    That is why people like you are so dangerous and why the other person has called you a slanderer.

    Regarding the question is there anything else that was going on to what was said in the sermon that "we may never know what went on"
    The session was told late August
    that the evidence had fit together in such a way as to give COMPLETE CONFIDENCE in their findings that only something very borderline happened that could be viewed either way. A reliable source reveled that it involved having drinks in a public place - remember that Rachel was a seminarian due to graduate shortly and how she was supportive of Tom and how much undermining behavior was going on at the time at FAPC with liberals taking over.
















  • reader2 · 3 years ago
    In "If Love Could Think" by Alon Gratch a NYC-based
    psychologist published in 2005, "…if you claim to be free
    but act like a grounded teenager who secretly or subversively
    enjoys breaking the rules, changes are you are under the
    influence of [the] Forbidden.
    The people who actually could sense her growing emotional dependency, as evidenced,
    did they make it possible for him to keep his job and her to become ordained.
    No. So maybe the point is not that she isn't getting support now, but maybe
    that she never did get support at FAPC to correct her in the errors of her way. So what do FAPC people do with their time?







  • reader2 · 3 years ago
    In "If Love Could Think" by Alon Gratch a NYC-based
    psychologist published in 2005, "…if you claim to be free
    but act like a grounded teenager who secretly or subversively
    enjoys breaking the rules, changes are you are under the
    influence of [the] Forbidden.

    Had Tom not married at 21 perhaps he could have have
    anticipated the denouement.

    He knows that you don't let people become emotionally dependent
    on you and that that is ethically wrong. That no one interpreted
    her actions (see the "adoring" describer poster above) is NOT their fault. Someone should have been seeing more clearly. What is FAPC's explanation?










  • Fed Up With Bullshit · 3 years ago
    Tom was told that he needed to resign last summer....well before the front page article in The Post. There is no such language in the IC report as to indicate that "something very borderline" happened.
    Who is your reliable source that said they only had drinks together? Was that person there with them?
    Come on people...pay attention. The session was kept in the dark until the IC could make their report. The IC gave their report to the PJC who as of yet has not made their recommendation as far as censure goes. [due to the stay]

    The point about Tom resigning from Princeton can be debated, however, one thing that we should agree on is that he had no business taking the chair position without informing the president that there WAS an investigation. He could have done that without discussing the details of the investigation. To have kept the new Princeton President in the dark about all of it, was not the right thing to do, especially not to an institution that he said he loved so much.

    If Tom was so beloved at FAPC why are you all saying that there was some sort of conspiracy against him by the liberals? What was the reson people had for turning against him?





  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    "Come on people...pay attention. The session was kept in the dark until the IC could make their report."

    Okay, fair enough (a big concession since I think you are never fair)...So WHO then told Tewell to resign last summer? The Session, most of whom knew nothing? The Personnel Committee (a rather small group)? Or the IC that had not yet finished its investigation (or was dragging its feet issuing the report)? Or was the Permanent Judicial Commission intervening prematurely? You are the expert on Presbyterian polity, so you know that "resignation" is not one of the sanctions. So, then just a reasonable question that I asked you a long time ago.

  • Clergy Commenter · 3 years ago
    A "charge" has one date/time/place. It doesn't take "history" into account, but of course without "history" could "it" have happened?

    "Borderline" was one poster's characterization.

    A person close to the source reported on the drink that was the specific incident.

    The "report" does not trace back every conversation from the time they joined the church. The presbytery actually sent some people an email saying that, in so many words.

    The Presbytery misconduct policy is quite clear as to what "proof" constitutes. And obviously if she either told her husband or their was a witness, then the wheels would start turning.

    That's the whole point is that 1) people delude themselves, and 2) churches and people minimize things. So 100s of FAPC members might have been in a position to step up to the plate, as Tom might have said, but didn't, and the longer a situation has to "develop" to use Tom's word in his ltr, the more denial, in the face of actual photos (which no one says there are), or testimony under oath (which there now presumably is), the harder it is going to be to fix.









  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    To Fed Up:

    I admit that I am not privy to what Tom Tewell told the President of Princeton Seminary when. But I daresay, neither are you. So stop pretending you are! I do know that many of his colleagues at Princeton were aware of the false stories about adultery and threats of investigation that plagued him since 2002. So both Tewell and they would have reasonably thought the 2005 investigation was more of the same…And it was, except that he needed some correction in the matter of spending inappropriate time with someone in a mentoring relationship and in “feeding” the obvious and undisciplined crush of a congregant and protégé. Correction, maybe even quiet reprimand. That’s all it is about, folks. Except it was set up to make it look far worse than it was, and to make Tewell look like he was hiding something terrible—when actually this case turns on the things members of FAPC had observed all along, not something behind closed doors.

    So, yes, it is slightly more than a glass of wine. But that was the great “smoking gun” of this case, the so-called “incident early in the year” that the Clerk of Session hinted at so darkly. Why make it seem worse? Probably that Hollywood Presbyterian strategy at work, “hint at some terrible sin your pastor has committed.” And easy enough to do in this case—given that it deals with a charismatic man and an attractive woman who hung around too much together!

    A giant conspiracy of Liberals? No, not necessarily. It only takes a few really rotten ones (and it’s no secret that I number you among them). Tom was accommodating to liberals, but I think he recoiled at the instances of slander, ideological blackballing, and manipulation of appointments that he observed in his own church. And that was enough to make him a marked man to a sick mind. And the rest—well, our Reformed faith tells us we are totally depraved, and in the matter of how we gossip, believe the worst, and turn our backs on our friends, I guess we all are. So, we need the atoning mercy of God through Christ, can we agree on that?





  • fed up · 3 years ago
    OK-New Yorker...

    I'm not sure why you're grouping me with "the rotten liberals" just goes to show that you have no idea what you're talking about or who you're talking to. Nothing could be further from the truth. I have been against the liberal agenda in the church for a long time.

    And I actually do have insight on the timeline of what was said to the President, including what was said to the new Chair of the Board. Tom became the Chair of the Bd. at the May 16, 2005 board meeting. If you know anything at all about the timeline of the investigation, then you know what an unwise decision it was for him to even consider taking the position. He could have easliy excused himself from taking the Chair by saying he was too busy...something he said all the time. Why not then, knowing what was ahead in the investigation? Sounds like a bad decision to me.

    The difference between the "rumors surrounding Tom and adultery" from 2002 and this situation is that obviously there was /is SOME truth to this situation. Maybe not Joe's truth, but SOME truth. We have said many times and continue to say...there are two people who know the truth...the rest of us may never really know what happened in terms of their relationship. We can only speculate.

    I do believe and others do as well, that SOMETHING inappropriate happened in all of this. What that was I don't know, but neither New Yorker do you. I think a glass of wine between two adults is not really a "Smoking Gun" Do you? What about tapes and phone records...do they exist? If so, I would think they would be considered much more of a "Smoking Gun" don't you agree?

    I do agree with you, however, on one MAIN point; We ALL need the atoning mercy of God through Christ.

    It's good to agree on one thing anyway.











  • Dano · 3 years ago
    If you read this thread from beginning to end, and then took yourself within a mile of this church, you would be one brave SONOFABITCH!

    These are the craziest Mo---r F---kers I have ever seen on the net.

    Dan (Ex- Presbyterian)








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  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    responding to the posting of 7/25
    if you are on the inside track of the goings on in the presbytery then you definitely are a liberal

    no question about it !!!

    so you are full of deceptions trying to disguise yourself in order to make New Yorker (who is honest and well informed) look ridiculous and lies and are so obviously out to twist things around on Tom Tewell trying to destroy his credibility.

    That posting really was more about who you are than anything else.
    Very telling indeed.







  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Tom Tewell has no credibility!
  • reader2 · 3 years ago
    Suzanne taught Tom to create Word docs and email summer 2005 so he can reply, forward, attach docs with the best of them--but didn't know how to turn a PC on before at FAPC! He typed his own DMin papers, so he has the skills! At FAPC his sec printed all his email out and organized them. His friends get email from him now, but that's since summer 2005, so no doubt he and they may read this to see what's what. So that let's that out investigation-wise.
  • Reader2 · 3 years ago
    "Tapes"--what is this, the Nixon White House? Of course there aren't any tapes. Tom may be wired from the high-test Starbucks coffee he lauds, but "wired?" hardly.

    Phone records. Easy enough to pull all the FAPC phone records to her cell phone and home phone, should they exist, and you can bet the lawyers have already exchanged documents to show they think they have, or the other does not have, a case.

    And the only reason the plaintiff might use them is to prove any connection between them at all. However, the defense would then show the judge how many times he called other people who did work at the church, in order to prove she was one of many he called from FAPC or his sec called on his behalf.

    And if she has a cell phone in her own name her husband can't get access to the numbers called unless he has it already. And since he wasn't living with her at the time he filed the suit--was he?--he'd already filed for divorce, not so likely he has too many docs. It's well known Tom didn't answer his phone himself at FAPC. And that could cost $1000s of dollars, so has probably not be done yet to go through FAPC phone records, and since they have a main number and everything is extensions, it's even more blurry, just to go by extensions assuming the old phone system can retrieve that info. Which it may not.

    But that's what kind of evidence the defense will offer if necessary. But if the judge allows the case to move forward, it all hinges on whether or not there was marriage counseling. The church suit has a narrower focus and the issue of marriage counseling is not relevant to it. Or need not be.







  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to 7/25 at 10:43

    there's the party line again
    "we may never know"

    the session was told back in September that the testimonies fit together in such a way as to give "complete confidence that they had the correct story and that it was borderline"

    You said in a previous posting that the report says it all and wait till it comes out
    then you will see the truth how badly Tom behaved.

    Now that it is closer to the time of becoming public knowledge you are saying one cannot be sure what went on and also that there must be some truth to Joe's accusations.

    Leadership at FAPC knows that when the report comes out people will be upset at how minor the incident was and how the church did not rally around Tom but instead accused Tom of denial, etc

    Now really !!
    A man who is living with another woman while still married to his wife when their marriage is having difficulties? Who has financial problems and certainly looking for a big payday to solve them?
    Look at the posting by an experienced lawyer who attends FAPCn who posted on 5/31 and see how he says that
    at the end of the day the problems the Viones had will have had nothing to do with Tom. That this man was willing to destroy a church in order to satisfy his greed.

    He is to be believed at all?

    You certainly are not a conservative but one of the desperate liberals trying to put doubt in people's minds about Tom
    in order to cover up what went on.





















  • TimesNewsPost Reader · 3 years ago
    "...he needed some correction in the matter of spending inappropriate time with someone in a mentoring relationship... and in 'feeding' the obvious and undisciplined crush of a congregant and protégé. Correction, maybe even quiet reprimand."

    Which brings us back to why did no one actually apply the policy that every NYC Presbyterian pastor has to sign? So we have a charge of "negligent supervision." There's also a "ministerial exception" which means that there is a bit more legal leeway in favor of ministers, in NY State. To pledge to protect each other--they signed. One assoc pastor resigned, a consulting theologian is resigning. Just the facts. And we're about to get a new Interim who has been in distressed church situations.

    It's a fxxxxxx dxxx shame that no one spoke up when she could be sent home to her husband and children, and maybe they would have an intact family, since their son and daughter did not ask for this. And in a church. Well, that's what a sin is, something that creates a problem. The "sin" is thinking that a man can give a woman "time" without her making it personal. Women don't. Fuel for the coveting fire. Major commandment.



  • FiveofTen · 3 years ago
    1. Thou shalt have no other gods before me.

    7. Thou shalt not commit adultery.

    8. Thou shalt not steal.

    9. Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbor.

    10. Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor anything that is thy neighbor's.







  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    New Yorker, I know many at First Pres Tulsa who have wonderful memories of Dr. Kirkland. He was before my time though.

    As an outsider I would like to say that I don't think all liberals can be painted with a broad brush and I know most of you are not. I was for 30 years a member of a sister church to First Pres and there were liberal and conservative and moderate groups and most of the time we got along fine. I was on session several times and it was never dominated by either group. We really did try to work with each other and most of the times successfully. Our church had other issues which cut across the liberal/conservative/moderate lines and these times were difficult such as younger vs older members. But I easily coexisted with all groups on the liberal /moderate/conservative issues. However before my time there had been splits so not saying everything historically was rosy.

    I believe the majority of any congregation is moderate but also passive. It is the liberal/conservative activists who roil the waters just as in the General Assembly. Most congregations just want to continue on with their local concerns for each other and not get into idealogy. I imagine that is true of FAPC.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    So Rachel had a crush, Tom had a glass of wine with her...and because the liberals were against him, he had to resign.

    Sounds like bullshit to me.

    One thing that you are dead wrong on is that FAPC leadership knows how small this was, and will be sad that they turned on him for such a minor thing. Most in leadership now know that there was more to what happened than what was said in the beginning.

    Not quite as simplistic as that really.

    Sounds to me like there's enough blame to go around for everyone.







  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    "Most in leadership now know that there was more to what happened than what was said in the beginning."

    Yes, I agree that they think they "know." That was your strategy from the beginning, make this seem like the tip of an iceberg, but there's no big glacier there. That's a common strategy in slander. Thanks to you, people at FAPC were also left thinking that Tewell's predecessor was an "immoral man" long after he was gone.

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to 7/25 @9:39

    The leadership of FAPC felt very badly knowing last fall that as this dragged on without the report being released that

    the false stories and rumors would grow worse and worse about Tom that are going around.

    This is what happens in these kind of situations. And they KNEW that it was very minor = "borderline and could be considered either way".

    Certainly these false rumors are encouraged by yourself being seen as a person of stature presenting yourself as someone who has credibility because of your connections.

    Regarding the ministers who have been an accountability group
    it is a basic rule that whatever is said does not go beyond the group and this is a group of ministers who are very solid
    who came around Tom to help not to give info to people such as yourself about what their advice has been.
    You are such a liar trying to take advantage of people who do not have enough background to understand.

    Thankfully we are here to help come against your deceit.














  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    thank goodness that there are some people who know enough to come against these false stories carried around FAPC by yourself posing as someone who is well connected enough to know.

    The leadership of FAPC knew once it was clear that it would be a long time till the report would be released (the presbytery does not want it out there either at this point)

    that false stories and rumors would be rampant in all levels

    They felt badly about this considering how "borderline the misjudgement was"

    Also an accountability group has as a main ground rule that nothing said goes outside the group and the members of the accountability group were all solid ministers
    would would never dream of sharing what they thought with someone like yourself who is out to do harm

    It is highly unlikely that they were critical of Tom as one highly placed minister was very sad that people did not understand how it took time for Tom to realize something needed to be confessed as it was minimal. This is indicative of what others close to Tom after September felt.










  • reader3 · 3 years ago
    The church made a big mistake in my mind by the original letter. There was ABSOLUTELY NO reason to say "married woman." The letter should have said "FAPC church member," since that was the literal truth, and she was an adult. Because that set exactly the wrong tone. And then the congregation could have been taught the general parameters of misconduct, from minimum to maximum without a lot of hysteria.

    Because the real finger pointing goes back to why no one established these guidelines with the Session and the adult congregation in the first place. But the more people point to Tom, and make it personal, the less opportunity there is for learning. Every other proverb in Proverbs points to being foolish, and ministers in other churches in the Presbytery, can they claim any closer attention? So my guess is that people can't be pots calling the kettle black. How well are all of them teaching their congregations and stop gossip before it can start...by not doing what isn't perfectly ethical.

  • clear sky · 3 years ago
    People are guessing about what Tom "thought." And maybe if more of these "misconduct" investigations had been done by the Presbytery, they wouldn't have had to go so slowly. So what kind of expertise did either FAPC or the NYC Pres have in accomplishing this investigation.

    And if Joe or Rachel had actually thought that the Tom's mentoring was lacked something, there is a way to bring that to the Presbytery's attention without the hysteria of what the charge was. And that gets to the heart of it. If this had been about how she was going to be ordained, and her conduct was getting in the way of that, then, Tom, as the one in the leadership role was responsible. But by going for the story that the newspaper would seize on, such as it was, rather than the necessity for two people to be told not to talk to each other or face disciplinary sanctions, then no one is really going to win. There might have been a way for J to get a measure of satisfaction, sooner, and for her to go through the system, but not by the choices they made. Had a dif charge been filed in the first place, and a different attitude been embraced, the element of "reprimand" or "rebuke" could have happened, and honest change requested, without the meaningless and senseless hysteria that ensued.

  • Blue skies · 3 years ago
    He said, "Ask for help more clearly" in the letter which suggests to me that he was trying to take a stand, but wasn't and needed someone to be the "heavy." So my guess is he's way past thinking it wasn't worthy of being staunched early on. It could and should have been by anyone with eyes and ears as one can deduce from earlier comments.

    But to say it was so minimal as to defy belief that anyone should intervene suggests that a minister's office does not deserve respect and protection rather than being informed by liberty and laissez faire attitudes. The position needs protection, regardless of who is in it. It was news to many this year that you can't play favorites or appear to do so. But my guess is that even with an interim, there won't be any education, since it means pointing to mismanagement. Sort of like not telling on a doctor or nurse who does things that harm people. We want hospital rules enforce, don't we? My guess is yes.

  • boater · 3 years ago
    No minister worth his or her salt would call anything "minimal" about which they actually know nothing. Even the ones in his accountability group wouldn't have the full story just because most won't sit still long enough to hear the history, but, in true male fashion, want to get the conversation over with. And who could risk what's going on in the investigation getting out by sharing much with too many?

    The ministers don't want you to learn just how much that don't "have it all together" on any given day without a lot of hard, steady work. And unless everyone is called to account it's just a matter of time before it happens again. But now people can see how easy it is to 1) sue and 2) not excuse it. So that's the PR value.

    And my information is exactly the opposite of at least one of the posters. Minimalization was what any thinking person can see CREATED the problem. Minimizing wasn't going to solve it.

    So it's some feel good thinking to think that NYC ministers think it was nothing, but my guess is most are scared xxxxless that a few too many conversations with someone already could land them in similar straits.

    Because a civil suit costs only $210 in NYC and if you say you haven't gotten satisfaction from the Presbytery (which shows the court you have tried "due process") then off you go!

    So no one is sleeping quite as well, because anyone who looks at their calendars and sees how much time they are spending with anyone individual (and that can be ordered produced for trials) is just hoping it won't happen to them.

    So wishful thinking more than true thinking. How can any minister be seeing this really clearly when the congregants are in the dark and not calling them on their appointment books! Which is what this would mean.

    Assuming you actually wrote it down. But as we see, once the dominoes start to tumble, there's no telling how many will fall. Which is why the church mgmnt has been so quiet my guess.

    The last time an FAPC minister left the Session was ousted. All of it. But these people are still there.















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Thank goodness there are people like all you annonymouses out there who jave the inside track to set the record straight. What would we do without all of you to enlighten us about the truth?

    So really...this is everyone's fault but Tom's. Afterall HE did everything right. Right?

    Why don't you guys call him up and ask him what the truth is. Bet he won't tell ya!

    As far as phone records...you don't really think he only made phone calls from his office phone, do you? Come on people, get real!

    What do you think the IC found when they looked at the credit card receipts from Tom's use of the church's credit cards?

    The problem is that you all [all of us at FAPC] deserve to be told the truth...from Tom. Then we can decide how minimal the incident was.

    Tom has a problem with telling the truth...both his letter and the clerk's letter said so. The IC report will most likely say so also.

    We are divided as a congregation because we have not been told the truth by our pastor, so we are left to speculate and debate each other. Each of us wants to say that we have all the facts or inside information onthis situation, but none of us do. That's my whole point...we don't realy know for sure what happened...we just know that something did.

    I guess we're left to wonder and debate each other on websites such as this.















  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    “we don't really know for sure what happened...we just know that something did”

    Strange remark from someone who had read the IC report and was touting it last spring as akin to the Word of God that would show Tom Tewell’s terrible guilt to all. That Tewell was so frightened of its contents that he would have it suppressed for years. A little backtracking, perhaps?

    I have this on good authority from sources on Session and those close to Tewell: Tom wanted very much to speak to whomever would speak to him—Session, all officers, or congregation at large—at the point of his resignation. Remember, except for his resignation letter (which the Session felt they had the right to edit word-for-word), he had been silenced for six months on the matter being investigated (and for three months on everything else). The Executive Presbyter and the Clerk of Session both publicly affirmed that such a conversation would finally be allowed. It seems, however, that this never happened (Correct me if I am wrong). It was the Session’s choice to keep themselves in the dark and not avail themselves of the opportunity of asking Tom whatever they wanted. There was plenty of time; wanting to hurry up and “move forward” was not an excuse because Tewell would not be released from the Presbytery for another nine or ten weeks. Yes, “Slandering-Anonymous,” I know what you are going to say, so don’t bore us with it…”Tom is a liar, so what would be the point?” but the real reason for this neglect of duty on the part of the Session must have been legal caution, self-protectiveness, or just plain meanness. So, in this instance at least, put the blame where it belongs.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to 7/26 3:25
    Sure lets let our minds wonder and think the worst, right?

    you are so far down in the gutter
    and part of a group of people who want to think the worst
    in order to justify the injustice done to Tom Tewell by themselves
    of spreading false stories.

    As someone posted recently it was common knowledge about Tom being on friendly terms with Rachel
    including her husband who definitely did not discourage it.
    And the presbytery took this up because it suited their purposes to do so.

    now these same people are trying to camophlage all that went on by saying how can we know?

    Again the session was told that it was very fortunate that the testimonies given during the summer and the way they fit together gave FULL CONFIDENCE
    that it was very borderline.

    In the end the truth will come out and Tom will be able to rise above it because he remained humble whereas FAPC will not look good at all for the way they treated him being so quick to condemn.

    I feel that this is a good example of how one should not really get too caught up in arguing with Satan because he always comes back with another twisted argument which one can get too caught up in. We must remember that Satan is a defeated foe. Satan may put on a front that he has power/influence but God will have the last word in all of this to be sure.


















  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Just a slight clarification on the post from 5:23: a typo, or rather, a wrong preposition. I meant "released BY the Presbytery" [from his pastoral relationship with FAPC]. Tewell would still be under the jurisdiction of the Presbytery for purposes of discipline.
  • Numbers runner · 3 years ago
    We covered the issue of the phones. There isn't a trial yet, so he would be under no obligation to disclose. If Joe had evidence he would present it to keep any summary judgment from being made.

    Church credit cards--expense accounts--now you really think that would happen?

  • Quiet camper · 3 years ago
    He had a "flaw" according to our clerk of session 11/20/05 so how does that make his behavior look--merely that of a flawed person who behaved (and Tom used the word "behavior") as he should have not if he 1)didn't want to risk rebuke or worse or 2) wanted to contine to work as a pastor.

    Pretty clear that the clerk of session was not making this about an individual at all, but about Tom and his inner being and outward behavior. So people who thought their sterling qualities might be causing him to throw his career away and run away with them or whatever dream anyone might have had might be throwing hissy fits right about now, but for the rest of us, as our clerk of session might have said, the train has left the station. And I say "anyone" since the word "flaw" is a generic one.

    But we all want people to make us think we are special, although most of us outgrow thinking anyone does once we've left our parents' home. And for married people to think that, well, that's how people get you to do their bidding, I guess.

    Tom used to say the first stage of marriage was "enchantment" implying then the real work begins.
    He spent a lot of time with his books, sermon and TV sports and conversation with him was precious to Suzanne (as it would be for most women with husbands), so we can pray that she has had ample time now to catch up!






  • Ask not · 3 years ago
    The problem with churches and other houses of worship is that no one forces people to be appropriate as the laws tend to do at work. When I started working, swearing was ok, now it can put a company under the legal gun for creating a negative workplace.

    So it's best to assume that none of the congregants are particularly "perfect" and the misconduct policies assume that pastors are not, and that the "laws" are there to keep them in line.

    But if you don't teach the congregants what to "demand" and that people will call pastors on their behavior through in-church personnel committee "write-ups" then what you get is chaos. And FAPC is not unique in that. Have any of our assoc pastors come out on the side of "right" and even so much as suggested that they took Tom aside, and if that wasn't effective, they were more assertive? No. So any churchgoers among the readers, ask not what FAPC did wrong, but what your church is doing right. And share the PDF or URL of your online misconduct policy at the church--not Presbytery or other governing body level. And Houston Mem people--how about you? Haven't seen it on your website, and I looked. Or New Prov, etc. etc. So, ask not why FAPC failed, but how you are, even today, failing yourselves.



  • Former FAPC member · 3 years ago
    I read all of this commentary with great chagrin. I would just like to respond to the commentary regarding the general direction -- liberal vs. conservative -- of the church in general, and the supposition that it has anything whatever to do with Tom Tewell and the sad mess he has helped to create: Tom Tewell explicitly stated in his letter to the congregation that his relationship with the woman in question (unnamed at that time) was inappropriate. Nothing ambiguous there. No conspiracy theory needed. And as far as the Church's direction and its influence on Tom Tewell as regards this matter -- quite a stretch. This is a very old story -- no? Charismatic preachers and women other than their wives behind closed doors -- explosive combination.

    And while I'm on Tom's letter to the congregation -- I will add two comments of my own:

    1. His insistence that he had the "Innappropriate relationship" but that it didn't involve actual "adultery"? -- way more information than I wanted to know. I thought at the time -- "oh great. Now I have to visualize what did or did not happen when a simple 'I've made a serious error in judgement' would have sufficed."

    2. His insistence that "If you love ME (caps mine) you will immediately vote to accept my resignation." ...if you love me... Not, "if you love this church" or "if you love God" ... if you love ME.

    These two sentences contained a world of meaning to me. In both cases they reveal that even in this horrible time, writing to a congregation in pain and reeling in shock -- the focus remained on him, not on his congregants and what they might need after he had let them down.

    I'm done with rock star preachers but I'm not done with God. And I'm grateful knowing that He is not done with me. For those of you who are disappointed to the point of questioning your faith, Tom Tewell is a person with a problem. That's all. He did a very bad thing for a man in his postition. But he is not God.

    For me, it has caused me to question my real needs in a church and in a pastor. What I have discovered for myself, is that I need to abandon the notion of experiencing big, stirring emotions from a sermon in church as the main reason to go. I had to examine my own motives for going to church at all. Why am I there? I had to begin to ask -- what can I give?

    There are wonderful, faithful, emotionally healthy pastors out there in churches who are in tremendous need of active, involved parishioners. Don't lose the faith. God Bless you all.













  • Former FAPC member · 3 years ago
    I want to add one more comment -- in addition to God not being done with me -- He's not done with Tom Tewell either. Like everyone, Tom Tewell is living a life that continues to unfold and as long as God is in His heaven and we ask His help, He will give it -- that includes Tom. I pray for him and his family and for the FAPC. God Bless.
  • Never FAPC Member · 3 years ago
    Hey, I think God has done enough with Tom, he's basically made him Satan's squeeky chew toy. Perhaps. So, God wasn't using Tom initially, maybe he was pawned off to Satan for a little abuse. However, now that Tom has been broken in, maybe its your God's turn to abuse him. If your God wasn't there for Tom, during this crisis, what makes you think your God will ever be there.
  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Former FAPC Member: I do agree with you about moving past the need to go to church for big, stirring emotional sermons. Fifth Avenue was just a “stage” on the journey for many of us.

    A point of information that may or may not interest you or others: Tom Tewell was not “insisting” that he did not commit adultery in his letter; he was giving us the finding of an investigatory committee of the Presbytery that took a very long time and was very hard on him. That part of the letter was not special pleading, but informational (I have this on good authority). He was providing information that, because of the lawsuit, was being denied to us. You say you do not want to know this information, but I very much did, and I was as much a part of the FAPC community as you. So I hope you will respect that it is not only about your needs and desires here.

    It does not at all require you to imagine what went on beyond close doors. This case did not revolve around that. “Inappropriate” is a technical term in misconduct policies that does not necessarily signify physical actions or even romantic talk.

    Tom Tewell (not you or I) was the one who was in the deepest of trouble, the one whose career and reputation were ruined. Yes, he did something wrong (Without more facts—and I do know more than you—I am not as ready to say how “very bad” a thing). He was the one who endured an ordeal that involved newspaper stories that were false and what his own well-respected colleagues in the Presbytery have labeled a lack of due process (at least in the lack of swift justice, if nothing else). I cared about him and wanted to hear from him and know how he was faring after he had been silenced for so long. I was not so interested in critiquing his letter.

    I am glad you feel so certain that other factors do not enter in the case. I believe you are dead wrong. I concede that the whole truth about this aspect of the case that may never emerge. But if it does, I hope you will admit somewhere, in this forum or elsewhere, how wrong you were. In the meantime, I wish you the very best in finding a better and richer Christian community. You are right in that there are many more out there, and, as others have advised me on my way, “There is life beyond Fifth Avenue.”







  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    New Yorker...

    Tom Tewell should hire you as his PR person...or maybe he already has. You are so strong in your defense of him...notice how I said defense of him and not truth telling.

    You are entitled to your opinion, but so are the rest of us on this website. It doesn't make us "filthy slanderers" just because we don't agree with you.

    Yes...there WAS a romantic relationship; Tom would tell you that, if you asked him. He has told his wife and family the same.

    Yes, the IC does know that it was a romantic relationship.

    I agree with former FAPC member that his letter was all about him. To say something like "I permitted an inappropriate relationship to develop" is very cowardly. It makes it sound like he just sat there and let it happen. It does take two you know. He was hardly an innocent bystander or a victim in all of this. He did do a very bad thing for someone in his position.

    Where was/is the apology to the family in the congregation who were under his care, that he helped ruin? What about an apology to the woman and her husband and their children.

    It was said in an earlier post that the woman apologized to Tom's wife for her role in this. She also apologized to the congregation [in the clerk's letter]

    I have it on good authority that she also wanted to address the staff, session and congregation and requested to do so in writing, but her request was denied.

    Good for you former fapc member...don't let this destroy your faith in the One whom we should all put our faith in the first place.

















  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    That is why the Apostle Paul tells us that Christians in community should not take each other to civil court. Of course, Tom should have apologized to this family, and I am sure he has or will in another forum. But, alas, lawsuits prevent much reconciling talk...Remember, he is not the only defendant in this suit, so everybody is constained.

    Yes, it is fine to give an opinion such as this, but when you give demonstrably false "facts," I do call you a slanderer, not merely because of your lies on this website, but because I know what you have done to this church over a long period of time.

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Here are some more facts...

    1-Joe found out about the "inappropriate relationship" between Tom and Rachel in Feb. 05.

    2-Joe confronted Tom about it then.

    3-Tom continued in a relationship with Rachel.

    4-Joe confronted Tom again [after waiting one month] in March 05 in front of the staff at FAPC [thus prompting the letter to the presbytery because of FAPC personnel policy to report such alegations.]

    5-The investigative committee was formed at the end of March 05

    6-Tom, Joe and Rachel gave their statements to the IC in June 05.

    7-Joe filied his lawsuit in October 05.

    Thus there was plenty of time for reconciliation between the time when Joe first found out [Feb. 2005] and when he filed the lawsuit [Oct. 2005] Why didn't Tom contact Joe then?

    Tom was encouraged by many people to tell the truth right from the beginning and to apologize to Joe and their family...perhaps then there could have been reconciliation for everyone involved includung the FAPC staff and congregation.

    In order to have done that, though, Tom would have had to admit that he did something wrong. He wasn't willing to do that[until he was forced to] so here we all are.



















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to 7/27 11:18

    the liberal permissive / tolerant view of things had much to do with Tom losing his way with the concerted effort to convince Tom to go along with them over the years.

    In this way Tom lost his way and his ability to clearly define where he should have set limits.
    No doubt about this as the liberals tried to make Tom into someone he was not as Tom tried to make everyone happy.

    Also you must keep in mind that the church is trying to put all the blame on Tom. Insurance companies on websites state that it really is a failure on the part of the entire congregation.

    The session when they were told of the situation expressed an honest response of remorse at not having looked out for Tom. They failed miserably in their duty to the church and to Tom.
    But were easily swayed by a staff member expressing her feeling of betrayal who did not have the wisdom to understand that Tom was not at the point of understanding everything when he told them things were okay.

    NYC was not a good place for Tom to be a Senior Minister but he will have learned some very valuable lessons about being in the will of God as the safest place to be - not pleasing man.

    In the end the liberals have shown that they did not care about Tom only their agendas and now want to distance him from the new theology.

    It does not take a genius to figure out what happened when you put the events together of the investigation and the vote on covenant. It is known by conservative ministers in whom Tom confided outside the presbyterian church that the NYC leadership put pressure on Tom to go along once they had something on him when they asked him why did he let it go through.

    So there you have it.

















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    on posting of 7/28 4:34
    I tried to amend this immediately but the website was down.

    Tom said back in late May after being questioned as to why he went along with the covenant vote

    his response was
    The NYC leadership wanted him to put it though

    It is my addition only
    it was realized that tom was afraid to speak of anything conservative back in the fall
    (a fact)
    and when the news broke in August
    it was clear to me
    that the NYC liberal leadership
    felt that Tom was in a weak position with Joe's accusation in March of 2005
    and acted very quickly taking advantage of this
    to get it on the April agenda
    for the session

    Tom did not come to terms with the realization that he had indeed used bad judgement until later on in June and soon after admitted his error to the presbytery committee.

    The main point is how aggressive the liberals who have agendas are
    and are willing to use any means
    including their labelling of Tom as a man with problems
    now that they are done using him for their own ends and want to distance his error from their theology of tolerance (permissiveness)























  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    a correction to the posting of 7/28
    4:34 PM
    which I tried to make right away but the website was down

    Tom told a minister in late May '05 when asked why did he go along with the approval of covenant at FAPC

    his replay was:
    The NYC leadership wanted me to go along with it.

    my own observation is that:
    they felt they had something on Tom

    when I was told this I knew that Tom had been afraid to talk about anything conservative back in the fall of 2004

    but when the news came out in August I realized that the NYC liberal leaders wanted to take advantage of Tom being under pressure from Joe's confrontation in March - wasting no time to get covenant on the April agenda meeting for the session vote in May.

    Tom did not come to terms/realization of his error in judgement until June - well
    after conversations explaining why he went along with it. So Tom was not feeling the need to hide anything about himself around the time of the covenant vote and pressure to go along.

    Certainly Tom felt that he lacked power and the liberals inside FAPC must have been told to push hard for covenant NOW.

    My guess is that they put two and two together that the situation with Joe created an opportunity to put it through. The staff knew about what Joe did in March keeping it quiet what they had witnessed.

    And now that they used tom to put covenant through they want to distance Tom from their inclusive/premissive theology
    since there certainly is a question of how moral the behavior it supports really is. They do not want Toms mistake to be connected with the newly voted in theology. (which was done in such a way so that the congregation was kept in the dark - so that there would not be any dissention - this was coordinated by a determined liberal holding a leadership position)

    One thing that is know about liberals with agendas that they are a very determined bunch.

























  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    a correction to the posting of 7/28
    4:34 PM
    which I tried to make right away but the website was down

    Tom told a minister in late May '05 when asked why did he go along with the approval of covenant at FAPC

    his replay was:
    The NYC leadership wanted me to go along with it.

    my own observation is that:
    they felt they had something on Tom

    when I was told this I knew that Tom had been afraid to talk about anything conservative back in the fall of 2004

    but when the news came out in August I realized that the NYC liberal leaders wanted to take advantage of Tom being under pressure from Joe's confrontation in March - wasting no time to get covenant on the April agenda meeting for the session vote in May.

    Tom did not come to terms/realization of his error in judgement until June - well
    after conversations explaining why he went along with it. So Tom was not feeling the need to hide anything about himself around the time of the covenant vote and pressure to go along.

    Certainly Tom felt that he lacked power and the liberals inside FAPC must have been told to push hard for covenant NOW.

    My guess is that they put two and two together that the situation with Joe created an opportunity to put it through. The staff knew about what Joe did in March keeping it quiet what they had witnessed.

    And now that they used tom to put covenant through they want to distance Tom from their inclusive/premissive theology
    since there certainly is a question of how moral the behavior it supports really is. They do not want Toms mistake to be connected with the newly voted in theology. (which was done in such a way so that the congregation was kept in the dark - so that there would not be any dissention - this was coordinated by a determined liberal holding a leadership position)

    One thing that is know about liberals with agendas that they are a very determined bunch.

























  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    To the posting of 7/27 11:18AM

    Tom asked the congregation to allow him to resign
    because he foresaw the situation that actually did start to develop at the congregational meeting
    where his legal representative had to stand up to tell everyone that Tom was resolved in his decision to resign.
    He was talking to those who would want him to stay who loved him.

    He was humble enough to know that he could no longer talk about God or church in his situation - he was not in a leadership role guiding the congregation.

    You need to have less of a self centered approach to all of this.

    And realize that Tom had to say that there was not an affair not only for himself but for the sake of others including the Vione family for closure. And also so that the church could move forward.

    Unfortunatley there is too much of this kind of negative talk at FAPC and not enough Godly perspective.












  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to the posting of 7/28 1:45 PM

    in an earlier posting you said that the staff wanted to have an investigation in order to exonerate Tom. Also it is known that the staff kept this completely quiet what they saw with Joe confronting Tom so that even the session had no idea at all.

    Now you are saying that many people from the beginning told Tom to tell the truth.

    You will say anything that you think will confuse people into believing lies about what happened.

    That is the strategy of Satan and it is frightening how you have influence.







  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    So I'm Satan, huh? Because I tell the truth...

    The staff kept it quiet that it was Joe who came in, yes, because the congregation didn't know who it was at the time. They had no idea that it was Joe or Rachel who were involved.

    Tom was encouraged to tell the truth from the beginning. He decided not to. He was encouraged by the staff, the clerk of session, the IC, his advocate and others. He ignored their advice.

    If there was such a liberal agenda in the church that Tom was so against and so many people [liberals] were out to get him, as you say, then he should not have given them anything for amunition. But he did.

    You make it sound like Tom was a powerless puppet in all of this.

    He was not.

    Why do you keep assuming [incorrectly] that all who post under "anonymous" are the same person?











  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    again lies and deception

    Clearly you are the same person writing with your misleading statments again! Satan loves to use people like yourself who are willing to go with negative thoughts in order to stir things up while trying to destroy a Godly man.

    We all make mistakes (much worse ones than Tom made I am sure)
    the problem was that there were dishonest people ready to take advantage of that when they could find something to grab onto in order to put covenant into place.

    Joe absolutely had no problem with Rachel meeting with Tom until the marriage was in serious trouble - then all of a sudden he changed his mind. He had been very accepting of Rachel being around Tom as much as she was.

    And if Tom is a person who has problems having only made a minor mistake in judgement in a long term friendship with someone due shortly to become a minister herself - then the people who are deliberately telling falsehoods in like yourself are really in trouble with the man upstairs!

    At the time that the situation was first being looked into Tom had not yet come to terms with having done something that was the result of poor judgement. (poor judgement is what the report says as Tom was just saying in his letter what was in the report)

    Of course the people in the investigation would encourage Tom to tell the truth. That is usual procedure. But it takes time to come to an understanding of something when one did not do anything wrong deliberately.
    Tom once he came to understand what had gone on was ready to admit his mistake.
    So Tom did tell the truth but not immediately as it took time !!

    Of course there were intense efforts at reconciliation ! Right from the beginning up until the time the civil suit was filed.

    You must think that people are very very ignorant to believe otherwise ! Numerous attempts were made to reach out to Joe to reconcile.


















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I'm sorry anonymous...but you are DEAD WRONG! There were no attempts to reach out to Joe...non whatsoever! Therin lies part of the problem.

    Maybe the person Satatn has gotten hold of is YOU!

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    session members confirmed at that time that there had been numerous attempts to reconcile with Joe "before this became a public crisis".

    Whereas you ACTING as a friend of Rachel / Joe and leadership at FAPC and extremely well connected within the Presbytery as well as thought of as a very respected mentor at FAPC

    had wanted this to become a public crisis in order to have Tom disgraced and thought of as a liar.

    Which is how you are presenting this situation to everyone. It is taking root because Tom has not been able to speak up for himself as yet. So you have the playing field for now.

    But once the report comes out and the situation is explained.

    Watch out !!! Don't think that people will realize what you have tried to do and it will come back on you. Very short term thinking on your part indeed.

    You are the kind of person who can turn an institution into a place that is dysfuntional.











  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    "That is why the Apostle Paul tells us that Christians in community should not take each other to civil court."

    Great, Paul was a liar and thief, he stole the Jews' Tanakh, and preached a different, actually "his" own particular beliefs with their bible.

    Its apparent, someone is lying on this very thread, yet, all people state they are christian members or prior members to FAPC for the most part. Its apparent, Paul would have been proud indeed, he himself was thrown in prison for preaching lies, and abusing people. Why wouldn't he suggest to keep religious matters out of public scrutiny.

    This same thought, is why little children have been, and will continue to be sexually and mentally abused while touting, "God will sort it out", and the religious group will come to reconciliation. What about the lives trashed, oh, its more important to save the "church" name.

    And, its obvious that if the same people were stil in the same church, no "concensus" was forthcoming or would ever be forthcoming, as even on a blog, there isn't an agreement, and there are no political, legal, emotional, etc., restrictions which would be a greater hindrence if attempting to come to terms face to face.

    This very thread, shows why the nation is led by a legal legislative body, instead of a religious body. I'm sure the Catholic religion would agree with Paul as well, it all needs to be kept secret, the collateral damage in people, is a small price to pay, to keep a good image for a religion.









  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    since people attend churches
    and there are many kinds of people who enter the doors and get into leadership positions
    it is important that selfish people who would create problems be dealt with.

    NYC has become a very difficult environment in large churches
    where people want to push their agendas and take over.

    Church politics can get very dirty same as the polticians are capable of - cutting a person off at the legs, etc.
    When the church leadership is not centered on doing Gods will or the right thing by the church.







  • Trueblue · 3 years ago
    I left New York about a year ago, and somehow missed the story about Tom Tewell and the suit until a mention of his leaving appeared in an article about Park Avenue First Christian Church's new minister. I was a member of Fifth Avenue for a couple of years in the mid-1990's, until I gravitated to Riverside. I left Fifth Avenue because I honestly got tired of his sermons - he preached the same thing over and over! Every week it was "...maybe you moved to New York to sing in the opera, or on Broadway or..." and on and on and on....Yes, how we behave when we're disappointed in life is an important message. But it's the only one he seemed to deliver! I felt he was all show and little substance. Still, it's shocking that a minister with so much at stake could behave so foolishly.
    Why does everyone assume his wife and children SHOULD forgive him? There are consequences to our actions - like others in power, he thought he was immune to the 'rules.'
  • Beatrice: I keep on the Windy · 3 years ago
    In July 2001 an elder and I prayed for our church, FAPC, because one of the ministers promoted universal communion - atheists, Buddhists, etc. being included. This elder told me of the allegations against Tom and said I should keep it secret. Shortly afterward the minister who helped me, raised a non-Christian, become a Christian and be baptised as an adult at FAPC, died. I felt he would want me not to keep this to myself, so I told a mutual friend who was a leader at FAPC that it was possible that a senior staff member had committed a breach of professional ethics that could result in an ecclesiastical trial. I was vague because it was hearsay and I didn't want the leader to have to file a report. Then I said that at a Manhattan church where I used to be a member the senior pastor had had affairs (There was an article about it a couple of years after I left there). This leader investigated conscientiously. When this person left the church, so did I. Memory has faded as part of the healing process so I can't tell you when I second-hand heard that other session members knew allegedly about these accusations. But it was clear that years ago they knew. I also found out second-hand that Tom allegedly displayed inappropriate conduct toward other women.

    But I left because the church is not Christ centered. It is minister centered. Rev. Bonnell, it is said, doubted the resurrection. Dr. Kirkland was charismatic. Rev. Maurice Boyd staged a charismatic egotistic show at the end of a service and got a roaring standing ovation from his adulant followers. Some of us fought him then, because we didn't like seeing him worshipped. Dr. Philippe, the interim, seemed to preach against Christ's divinity and the resurrection. Tom gave jokes and teary anecdotes but often failed to talk about the biblical passage that was the basis of the sermon at all, or provide the meat, preferring pablum. I switched before 2001 to the contemporary service, now extinct.

    Those few of us who left then kept quiet for fear of being sued and because we could only talk of hearsay, and slowly healed (Tom left a lot of pain in his wake).

    FAPC can only be saved by Christ. The next preacher will doubtlessly be a charismatic glad-handing fundraiser who says what you want to hear, goes along with Presbyterian Church USA's denial of the historical part of the trinity (promoting 'Mother child womb' as a definition of the trinity), and believing that there are no basic beliefs required of ministers (ex., trinity, resurrection). The church will continue to foster a numbing don't share your faith with others in the church, center on the minister,and wait till the next senior pastor (and the next) before making changes. The leaders will go along with the staff and not sit in on classes or question or study the bible. Allegedly, they will follow their historical antecedents and perhaps cover up. They will probably still value respectability and money raising more than truth and change.

    I am in a church now with small groups, dining with the poor - not just helping them, great contemporary music, development of talents, faith and joie de vive.

    To FAPCers I say leave the church -
    escape the busyness, pseudo-belonging, and minister-centeredness, the numbness of the service, the absence of biblical deep study, and the denomination. I'm so glad I found FAPC at a time when I could study the books of Philippians, Mark, Romans and John for a year each from a teacher of great faith and joie de vive. I worked hard for many years, trying to change the church. And I'm so glad I left. There's a great life outside FAPC.
    Some of us viscerally say with Deep Throat "Follow the money" whenever we are asked to give, though I understand the church is thoroughly audited in terms of its capital campaign, endowments, pledges and budget, and doubtlessly is impeccably honest and correct.

    To those of you who still believe Tom and Rachel are guiltless or shouldn't be held to account for being in leadership and violating our trust (and I have no direct knowledge, but respect some others who feel that way greatly) I give you Galatians 3:1 - "Who cast a spell on you?"

    I was raised an atheist, and at times an agnostic. To you all I say: Cast your net in deep waters for a great catch. Live the best life you can - discard the easy satire, keep your questioning, explore quantum mechanics, rail against Bush, take the risk of being daring and unrespectable. Become a Christian.















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I agree with much of your commentary and I felt also that Tom could have given a deeper sermon. When he spoke outside of FAPC at evangelical locations he gave much more of himself.

    FAPC was not good for Tom because of the problems there and that contributed greatly to Tom losing his way. This would never have happened in Houston, etc. where Tom preached much better sermons - the liberals came against his sermons when he first came because they were too convicting. And because of pastor worship they did not hold Tom accountable so as to help Tom with a blind spot but allowed this friendship to go on with Rachel even though many saw what Rachel was about and said nothing to Tom because they were into getting not really caring about Tom to look out for him.
    (which is what solid church membership does watch out for the minister because Satan has them in his sights through people like Rachel)

    But in fairness it must be said that Joe had no problem with Tom and Rachel only when the marriage was in dire straits did Joe complain.

    That said one should not listen to hearsay since the ministers allowed and even encouraged such negative portrayals in order to distance Tom from the church trying to make out that he has problems. Which shows they do not understand the mercy of God. Also they were doing it out of self protection not really caring about the spiritual health of the church and what this approach would do.

    When these ministers who were there last fall come before Jesus they will say
    Lord Lord didn't we prophesize and do great things in your name and
    Jesus will respond depart from me you evil doer for I never knew you!

    Whereas Tom will be able to cast his many crowns (rewards) at Jesus feet. Tom helped many, many people along their journeys with his ability to help a person heal,
    etc. He is God's own man.

    As for the situation with Rachel
    it eventually went over the boundary line which is the danger inherent in such relationships especially with someone who had a crush on Tom.

    But Tom should not be condemned especially in light of his humble response trying to learn the lessons God has for him. This was allowed by God to mold Tom for further service taking the dross off.

    It does appear that the interim will be able to address many of the problems in FAPC as he has much experience in this kind of situation.

    I do hope that the remaining ministers move onto another church setting as their presence will not allow the church to move on because of the attitude they have towards Tom.
    The church membership needs to acknowledge who Tom really is and what really happened. So as to heal and humbled and thus grow into a better place.

    God is bigger than the situation !

























  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    I think it was Tom who had the crush on Rachel. Why else would he have had spent so much time with her? How many of you out there [like me] ever wanted to meet with him, but were told by his secretary that he was too busy? If Tom didn't want to spend time with you...Tom didn't spend time with you. It's that simple.

    Interesting also that Tom and Rachel communicated directly with one another via cell phone, never going through his secretary at the church to set up their meetings.

    What a stupid thing to say that Joe had no problem with Tom and Rachel spending time together until there was a problem in the marraige. duh? Why do you think there was a problem in the marriage in the first place? What about the incident from May 2002? That's where the real marital interferrence took place.

    Tom and Suzanne and Joe and Rachel were friends; they even spent time together socially and attended many marriage retreats together. Why would Joe have a problem with the two of them spending time together? Kind of makes you wonder what changed in the winter of 2005.

    And anyone is free to tell the truth whenever they want to...even Tom, but he chooses not to and instead remains silent while other people are suffering.

    What a fine Christian pastor he is!









  • FAPCmemberstill · 3 years ago
    We know about summer 2001 and that is when, in my opinion, Tom should have been called to account, and maybe if 9/11 hadn't happened, he would have been.

    Of course Joe needed to get this done the best way. Tom did not respect their marriage enough to tell Rachel not to talk to him, and I told our clerk of session as much once this broke.

    And didn't a lot of us give him material "gifts"--"things" and in retrospect maybe it would have been better had he refused them and suggested contributions to the church?

    But interesting how no one has sung Rachel's praises given how many people were at the church. So, that's what I find remarkable. One would think she would have people saying positive things.

    A research paper I found connects job dissatisfaction and misconduct and it's well know men don't go to shrinks until the world comes apart. And the word sin was never near Tom's lips in recent years.

    So a lot needed to be changed and the sissies at FAPC needed to step up to the plate and change it.









  • FAPCmemeberstill · 3 years ago
    "Those few of us who left then kept quiet for fear of being sued and because we could only talk of hearsay, and slowly healed (Tom left a lot of pain in his wake)."

    Thank you for writing. A lot of people saw something that bothered them and it should have been reported then. I said as much to the person who preached at FAPC yesterday, Sunday July 30. "If this had been taken care of and Tom written up then..." and he said, "...maybe it wouldn't have happened."

    And the Presbytery doesn't tell you about the misconduct policy unless you ask about it, and even after Tom and the other pastors would have been required to sign it in 1998 (call the Presbytery and ask, that's where I learned this), Tom, the assoc pastors and the clerk of session could have had recurrent education sessions for EVERYONE to learn what misconduct is and how to prevent it:

    No car rides either...so next time you see you minister get into a car, take the license plate and pay to have the DMV run the plate. Then your minister will have some 'splaining to do.

    Yeah, I wanted to pray with him Nov 2003 and he was "too busy," and sometimes I am very glad things ended as they did, since how stupid did the people have to be? But if R didn't really want to be a pastor, then she could do whatever she pleased. But I thought Tom wanted his job or leave it in his own time. Oh well...







  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Hey, Slanderer-Anonymous (I'll take to calling you SA to keep it more neutral):

    So, weren’t you saying last spring “you don’t know how long this has been going on?” Now you are saying it only started in the winter of 2005? It is tiring to deal with your innuendo…

    About “marriage retreats:” There weren’t “many.” Rachel and Joe were active in something called the Couples Club. They were encouraged to keep active in it in that May 2002 meeting, so they would do things there as a couple, rather than have Rachel continually hang around Tom by herself. (Joe Vione somehow turns this into a negative in his lawsuit. His original complaint even gets the date wrong by a year, which tells you how well thought-out it was. The cynical are tempted to ask, “What New Yorkers don’t know the difference between 2001 and 2002?”) The Club did largely social things and had ONE short annual retreat a year. After 2001, Tom Tewell only had time to preside over one or two of them; instead he recommended a colleague for that role. As for Suzanne, she attended even less.

    I won’t go so far as to say this is your lie; it is in Mr. Vione’s complaint. So, why all this silly talk about “marriage retreats?” Because New York law and precedent say that Vione can only have a chance at prevailing in his suit if he shows that Tom counseled the couple on their marriage. He did not nothing of the sort, at least not on a formal or regular basis, so Vione and his ambulance-chasing lawyer use these very rare occasions when Tewell presided over a “retreat” and turn it into some regular program of counseling. It is a pity that the judge takes these allegations seriously even on summary judgment. But perhaps God will use it for good…





  • FAPCstill · 3 years ago
    And, B, you are so right about the sermons. After joining early 2002, by summer 2005, and of course, who knew what Aug 31 would bring--the NY Post breaking the story, which I think was a good thing, I would scream if he didn't get more "serious" with his sermons.

    But when you ignore your problems, and men think emotional issues are "sissy" and ministers are no different, maybe they talk to women. But the point is you need to have "fascist" rules about conduct and the congregation has to let NOTHING go by. And in your new congregations, did you get any instruction on misconduct? If not, don't think it's about the sins of any one or two people. It's about not having enforecement. Because people will do what they can get away with, and many times, and that's the real problem. Interesting how the 2 female assoc-type pastors have resigned within 8 months to Tom resigning. Did they not want to face the music and inquisitions when the Interim and then new sr pastor come on board? Or what? Interesting how the "history" or the "ignorance" is departing with them. But the truth will come out, as big or small as it may be.

  • Reader · 3 years ago
    Books everyone should know about!
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    Before the Fall: Preventing Pastoral Sexual Abuse (Book)ils C. Friberg, Mark R. Laaser, Authors.  Collegeville, MN: Liturgical Press, 1998.
    This book, addressed to church and seminary leaders concerned with the formation of people for ministry, helps leaders identify ministerial candidates who are vulnerable to the possibility of sexual misconduct.


    Restoring the Soul of a Church: Healing Congregations Wounded by Clergy Sexual Misconduct (Book)
    Nancy Myer Hopkins, Mark R. Laaser, Editors.  Collegeville, MN: Liturgical Press, 1995.
    Sexual misconduct by clergy violates trust and inflicts deep wounds. Pastors called to serve congregations in the wake of these crises need to understand what happened to victims, the perpetrator, and the congregation.


    Sex in the Parish (Book)
    Karen Lebacqz, Ronald G. Barton, Authors.  Louisville, KY: Westminster John Knox Press, 1991.
    This book, one of the first to address the subject directly, examines the impact of sexuality on the lives of clergy and looks at some addictions that particularly trouble those in the helping professions.


    Understanding Clergy Misconduct in Religious Systems: Scapegoating, Family Secrets, and the Abuse of Power (Book)
    Candace R. Benyei, Author.  Binghamton, NY: Haworth Press, Inc., 1998.
    An accessible book that provides helpful definitions and information without excessive jargon, this book examines many aspects of clergy misconduct in the context of the congregation and its related systems.




    At Personal Risk: Boundary Violations in Professional-Client Relationships (Book)
    Marilyn R. Peterson, Author.  New York, NY: W. W. Norton, 1992.
    An exploration of how power is distributed in professional relationships between the practitioner and the client, this book raises questions about the distribution of power within congregational and spiritual living.


    Bad Pastors: Clergy Misconduct in Modern America (Book)
    Anson Shupe, William A. Stacey, Susan E. Darnell, Editors.  New York, NY: New York University Press, 2000.
    This solidly grounded study expands our understanding of clergy misconduct, moving discussion from individual actions to a more mature awareness of these real abuses.


    Faithful and True: Sexual Integrity in a Fallen World (Book)
    Mark R. Laaser, Author.  Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan Publishing House, 1996.
    This book examines sexual addiction in the church and exposes it in light of the gospel and contemporary psychological understanding.


    Policies and Procedures Regarding Sexual Misconduct (Web Resource)
    The procedures that the Episcopal Diocese of Southwest Florida recommends should clergy sexual misconduct occur in the congregation.


    Preventing Sexual Abuse in Congregations: A Resource for Leaders (Book)
    Karen McClintock, Author.  Herndon, VA: The Alban Institute, 2004.
    Children and adults can be sexually abused in congregations by clergy, staff, and church leaders. Preventing destructive interactions takes awareness, knowledge, and action. This book can serve as a resource for individual or group study.


    Telling Truths in Church: Scandal, Flesh, and Christian Speech (Book)
    Mark D. Jordan, Author.  Warwick, RI: Beacon Press, 2003.
    Drawing on the experience of the pedophile crisis in the Roman Catholic Church, the author outlines a strategy to promote healthy dialogue, conversation and theological boundary setting with regard to sexual identity and practice.


















































  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    FAPC member still...you are so right...the truth will come out in the end, no matter how big or small it is.

    The point about what was going on in May of 2005, when the Viones were called to the Tewells apt. I don't know what was going on pre 9/11 in 2001, but I do know that Tom did thwe wrong thing in 2002 and then covered it up. Many people were aware of it then, including the assoc. pastors. It would be interesting to talk to the one assoc. pastor who left after the 2002 incident. Why do you think he left when he did?

    New Yorker...to your point about marriage retreats...it's up to the judge to determin whether or not that constitutes marriage counseling, however, one thing is very curiou; in the 10t years that Tom was at FAPC, he probably led about 6-7 of those week end long retreats, yet his wife only attended a couple of those with him. Strange don't you think...given that it was a couple's week end?

    Many people also wondered about why Suzanne was never around for his classes...and when she was, ahe was usually sitting there in the pew knitting. Not someone who is showing support for her husband.

    Despite what may or may not happen with Joe's lawsuit, there still is the truth that needs to be told.

    Hopefully some day it will be.









  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Hey everyone wake up !
    It is a failure of the entire church that this happened !!

    Insurance companies state that the church tries to put the entire blame on the pastor. When in fact they were not looking out for him.

    Everyone has blind spots and hopefully our friends will point them out to us so as to keep us out of trouble.

    But FAPCers were not willing to take the initiative to talk to session members (if they felt that they could not talk to Tom directly) about the inherent dangers of being too close to Rachel or time spent, etc.

    Now that the horse is out of the barn - you people have the NERVE
    to carry on tearing Tom to pieces. Where were you with your big mouths when he needed you !!!!!

    At least I can say that I went to Tom whenever I saw something that I thought he should know about being loyal and Tom appreciated it saying I know that you care about the church so do not ever hesitate to share something you see.

    That was Tom's attitude to constructive citicism.

    So no one has an excuse for not coming forward when they saw something wrong.

    Unfortunately I never noticed Rachel around Tom. I know that Tom would have listened to what I had to say because he knew that it would have been for the right reasons.

    I still stand by saying that Joe did not have a problem with Rachel hanging around Tom which went on for YEARS without Joe saying anything until the marriage was in serious trouble.
    Then Joe's attitude changed and Tom was dragged into their mess. Yes Tom made a mistake but he was not the cause of their problems.

    The church tried to reconcile with Joe. In September I was told by a session member that there was concern that if the findings were not to Joe's liking (not severe enough)then he would sue.
    Joe was not open at all to reconciliation wanting revenge -
    taking things out on Tom for the failure of his marriage. (see the posting 5/31 by the lawyer who attends FAPC)
























  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    At the 10th anniversary of Tom at FAPC in Sept of 2004
    It was said to Suzanne by one the church leaders - I think Mrs. Lamb that - they knew when Tom came to FAPC that it would not be a situation where Suzanne would be involved. They were not getting a two for one deal.

    So what was said in a recent posting is just plain nasty.

    Also the minister who left in 2002
    felt very badly that he was leaving us - I know !! A close friend of his offered him a position close to both of their families and with a teaching position as well in the university nearby. Too good to pass up.

    He was not leaving just to get out of FAPC - he told us WITH GREAT SADNESS in the class he was teaching in the fall of 2002 that his wife and he considered it very carefully and decided it was what they should be doing and when they made a decision together that it always ended up being the right thing to do.

    He had realized by the time he received this offer that the slander in 2002 was untrue as did others on staff - it had blown over(no doubt started by yourself which was the underlying reason for the meeting at the manse)









  • NYC License · 3 years ago
    May 2002 was the "meeting in the manse" (the amended complaint changed the date).

    We know about that already. What we don't know is what was discussed, only that Joe was using it to "prove" prior knowledge that the church had of "something amiss." (my pun) to give his "supervisory negligence" charge some bite. Unproven allegations--and by definition they are unproven statements--in the suit.

    So again people are fishing and you haven't come up with anything.

    If any of the FAPC pastors took rides with congregants, and anyone observed it and didn't report it, well, is it any wonder we are where we are? People have to be kept to "perfect" standards because it is "our" church, not Tom's. As we now know.

    Dr Carl is the new president of Princeton Seminary and I had an interesting conversation with him about ethics--his specialty.

    He learned of the seminary connection and the lack of misconduct training of the congregation. This wasn't just a person in the congregation. It was a person in seminary. So, now, at least, one minister "gets" it and maybe, in the position in his seminary, can be a force for good and ethical training. What else are they being hired for, really? They aren't closer to God than we are!

    But of course, by putting in the "stay" at the Presbytery, the odds of any facts that might prejudice a judge, or jury, if it came to that, are greater. A list of every time they spoke, time and place, and a list of the cell phone calls--over how many years--might not be quite as understandable to a lay jury.

    But it's how things look that juries look at--using "common sense" and how much common sense did people have? Hmm...for example do you know what is right about congregants' cars and pastors riding in them. What would YOU think? That's the common sense answer. What about "off site" conversations. Same thing.

    And the principle of "adverse inference" means that if the defense is asked for paperwork that they can't produce, the jury is told to decide that it is "for" the plaintiff (Joe). That if it were "good" for the defense somehow they would have found a way to produce it.

    So, if there are receipts for a limo service that would be the proof. Simple. Or as we say, "I'm sure there's a simple explanation."

    But one assumes Tom's attys have every detail so they can decide what legal exposure the church has. Certainly if Tom and the pastors didn't receive a list of "do's" and "don'ts" from the Presbytery, wouldn't Tom have his own case?

    Why not? Wasn't Tom as unprotected as Joe when you think about it?

    Because eventually people go back and think about things. And no one can go wrong never doing what ethics tell you "looks" bad.

    So maybe she has a case. If no one protected her from her own decisions. Is Tom supposed to be a better decision maker? Certainly no one can say that anyone at FAPC knows what "good" behavior is, or we would all be on the same page about what one should report, and what the consequences to the church would be--and a far sight better earlier than later--with all this "nothing" that has transpired.

    Who is going to win in all of this? Just because Tom and Suzanne couldn't go "talk it out" when they still had time for it to be their decision?

    Well...it will follow them wherever they go and it's not as though everyone didn't have time to take Suzanne aside and be a Christian friend to her.





























  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Joe Vione gives no date, time, place for the alleged marriage counseling in his complaint. Instead he says it went on for the ten years that they were members (even the membership claim is a slight exaggeration). That is not marriage counseling by anybody’s definition. And it would make this couple a record-setter for the “Can This Marriage Be Saved?” feature we read in ladies’ magazines! This is the meaning of “frivolous” when put as a modifier in front of “lawsuits.”

    SA: You acknowledged in a previous post (July 25) about Tewell’s colleagues at Princeton that the earlier allegations were probably baseless. Now you say he was covering up something wrong in the spring of 2002. Those, of course, were the same stories you were spreading. And they did not only involve Rachel, did they?

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Suzanne was never involved mush at MDPC either so I doubt this was expected at FAPC by at least those who were on the PNC. It has been my experience in several churches that the pastor's wife does not take active roles in the visible life of the church. Many years ago my church was shocked that a senior minister's wife did not take part in even the women's groups. I guess that was not signficant because the minister stayed for 10 years and then retired.

    Ministers' spouses have an identity and life of their own and this should be respected by the congregation. JMHO

  • Reader4Truth · 3 years ago
    From "Governance, Accountability and the Future of the Catholic Church," ed by Oakeley & Russett pub 2004:

    Institutions in crisis evoke 3 kinds of behavior from its members: exit, voice and loyalty...Voice implies loyalty to the institution but not uncritical silence. It means speaking up and insisting on being heard and heeded. It is not a course of action for the faint-hearted and it requires a long sustained effort.

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    No, New Yorker...the cover up in 2002 did not only involve Rachel. I don't know all who were involved, but it should have been investigated then. Had it been...we would not be where we are right now. The difference as I see it, between 2002 and 2005 is that there definitely was something in 2005...if there had not been we would not be blogging about Tom's resignation now.

    To say that nothing happened and that Tom should not have made the alegations known to the Princeton Board is both ignorant and irresponsible.

    New Yorker...if I didn't know any better. I would say that you are Tom Tewell himself. Who else would be so quick to defend him despite what is starring you right in the face? I believe this is called, among other things...denial.

    If you are TT, then you should change your blogger id from New Yorker to Washingtonian!

    Just a suggestion.







  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Those other rumors of another woman were looked at in some official way, weren’t they? There lacked evidence and a formal complaint for an official investigation, but I believe alternatives were pursued, weren’t they? And they were dismissed as false by everybody in leadership, correct? So, people knew that slander was a real issue in the church (and yes, it confused everybody on how and when to act on this matter). They were just not discerning enough to know that you were the slanderer, SA, and Tewell was too scrupulous?, cautious?, ignorant? intimidated? to point the finger at you, I guess. As I see it, Tom must now be “waiting on the Lord” and not defending himself at all. I wouldn’t know his strategy…am not in touch with him. I am not here to defend him, but to point out lies involved in this particular case (and you are unintentionally helping me quite a bit—thanks!) I don’t quarrel with those who don’t like Tom Tewell’s sermons, think he has a big ego, or even think he’s borderline “inappropriate” with women. All of those observations have some merit, but they don’t make him an adulterer, a predator, or even one who engages in sexual misconduct.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Nice try SA (as New Yorker calls you) to try and take away credibility of New Yorker by trying to make out that New Yorker is doing PR for Tom. New Yorker is able to counter your lies and so you are trying so smear this person as a tactic so that people will not believe the gems of wisdom/information New Yorker has to share.

    Still using the same old tactics.

    New Yorker is a person of great integrity and also has a very solid knowledge base with which to come against your attempts to deceive people !

    Good idea to listen carefully to what New Yorker has to say !!!





  • Divine Biblical Menstration · 3 years ago
    "Dr Carl is the new president of Princeton Seminary and I had an interesting conversation with him about ethics--his specialty."

    Religion and Ethics?

    Ethics: "The philosophical study of moral values and rules"
    wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn

    Pardon me for interrupting this delightful chat, but... what exactly does the Dr. profess in the realm of "ethics"? Does the Dr. profess that there are "moral" absolutes... for instance, committing adultery is "absolutely" wrong.

    Isaiah 30:22 "Thou shalt cast them away as a menstruous cloth."

    So, this crude attempt to describe people of "filth" as menstrous cloth is divinely inspired? Is this the source for further reading, on "ethics".

    Moral? A god, who kills their own dysfunctional creation/humanity by adjudicating eternal punishment for a single sinful act, i.e., blasphemy of the holy ghost, etc. How many parents are willing to "kill", and "torture" their child, relentlessy forever, for not adhering to a house rule. If there is at least one, that parent has more "mercy", than god.

    Hosea 4:13 "They sacrifice upon the tops of the mountains, and burn incense upon the hills, under oaks and poplars and elms, because the shadow thereof is good: therefore your daughters shall commit whoredom, and your spouses shall commit adultery."

    So, god's punishment, even if allegorical, is to cause spouses to commit adultery, if a person misbehaves? Obviously, Dr. Carl, couldn't possibly suggest that the bible holds absolute laws against "gods'" will, I mean, god can act through us all, in mysterious ways... thus, can there truly be absolute moral wrongs?

    I wonder what Dr. Carl references when seeking advice for moral and ethical reflection? The Bible? Please, say its not so.


















  • Waxandwane · 3 years ago
    Dr Carl is the new president of PITTSBURGH Seminary. And more info about him is on www.fapc.org/worship where the bulletin is printed.

    But interestingly enough a new official at Princeton Seminary has Federal government legal work background and would be very familiar with the principals in the FAPC situation, so if anyone can put more emphasis on ethics I would think it would this person.

  • Waxandwane · 3 years ago
    Going through history women have wanted the world to think some man of stature has had a relationship with them. It's older than dirt.

    And the fact that the couple was at a church function May 2005 with a ticket price of $250 per person, and she attended church in June 2005, suggests that everyone knew how slight the "facts" were. And has been said before, why would Joe show up, though one wonders if the Tewells would have come if they knew the Viones would be there...still...one wonders why the clerk of session--who was there--didn't go over the guest list and intervene, knowing what he did. My guess is that Tom no more thought the V's would be there than he thought he could fly out his 12th floor windows at the manse overlooking Central Park.

    And if it is true that Tom volunteered to tell his side to the Session, and they refused to hear him out, then one wonders whether people want truth or darkness to prevail.

    But if the Session doesn't know how to administer a misconduct policy--about which the members have heard nothing since--one can only surmise that they might be wondering about how angry 3500 would get when everyone has the same understanding about church administration and more and more, "negligent supervision" is being allowed to move forward in the courts of this land. A fact, which I daresay none of the Session has investigated until now. So "darkness" will keep the congregation quiet, but when the legal truth governing this prevails, then the 100s of people who noticed chatty Kathy people always talking to chatty Tom will know better than to let it go by. At the very least, take pictures. If they can't be used in court, so be it, but if people think that they could be photographed and it could end up on the front page of the Post, as the "separate" photos did, then, well, wouldn't that make you more careful. Even the streets have cameras today!





  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    SA? I also wanted to say that I am still praying for you. I mean, I forget sometimes, but I do pray that you will be healed in the various ways you need that “balm.” I also pray for Tom and Suzanne, of course, but like most people (of various opinions), I have the sense that they will be fine.

    I can’t say for sure that all your misdeeds will emerge before the world; I have no guarantee of that. As for my part, I “chat” here, but I don’t go to the media. But you know that there are some places where people will “connect the dots” (it’s unavoidable, isn’t it?), and someone like a New York Post reporter is under no obligation to protect an anonymous source who deliberately lies. More important is the One who knows and judges all. And Jesus is waiting for you to repent. Go, talk to a good Christian (not someone in your circle), and I’ll try to be more faithful in prayer.

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    A charismatic man who's married to someone who looks like his mother, wanting to have the attention of a "leggy blond" is also as old as dirt. I believe they call it a "trophy relationship."

    Why was Suzanne's picture never printed in any of the newspapers? They certainly have photographs of her...just goes to show...sex sells!

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    It was about Rachel having a crush on Tom and Tom appreciating Rachel's efforts at organizing within the church as well as feeling that Rachel was someone he could talk to and Tom did like Rachel's positive attitude.

    Remember Rachel was a seminarian who was given an award for preaching so it was not all about Tom that she decided to go to seminary. Her father was a minister and she aspired to be the same.

    To spend 6 years with so much time in commuting could not have been all about Tom with all the time put in and outside of class.

    Someone is just plain angry that they were not the ones that Tom wanted to spend more time with.
    And so are literally trashing Tom and Suzanne and Rachel
    because they could not get more into his inner circle and that Tom left.

    Please spare Tom and his family from your angry tirades and nasty characterizations talking about being sexy, etc. It is about a loving and supportive partnership
    where Tom and Suzanne have been clinging to each other.

    At least the papers had the decency to not involve Suzanne because they realize how traumatic this has been for her and the family.












  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Those who are so quick to condemn and criticize Tom certainly do not realize the basics/foundation of Christianity

    that if it were not for what Jesus did on the cross
    and God's mercy

    we would all be headed straight for hell.

    When we commit one sin - we are guilty of all the others - St. Paul

    So who are any of us to criticize?
    Tom has admitted his error and confessed and repented of this
    which is what God requires of us

    Then God is faithful and just to forgive us.

    Are we not to follow the example of Jesus - go and sin no more !

    Tom has taken time for himself during the six months in NYC to really look deeply into himself to see what he needs to change. This was needed as Tom was always taking too much time to look after others. This also lead to his losing his way by being too busy.

    FAPC was not looking out for him being into pastor worship.

    Tom is did what he was supposed to do with self examination and will be a better person for it.

    Too bad can't say the same for those who are so quick to criticize


    Our part is to show mercy. For as ye judge so are ye judged

    To accuse Tom of lying about things is outrageous and a deliberatie attempt to destroy Tom.

    Especially since the findings of the report support Tom's admission last summer when he came to realize what exactly he had done wrong.





























  • Lookster · 3 years ago
    1. Tom remembers the woman he met age 20 in college and I guarantee you he thinks she's the most beautiful woman in creation, and his is the only opinion that counts.

    2. And who thinks Rachel is good looking? What's your evidence of that? She hasn't shown up in Page 6 of the Post with any hunks and they've covered the story how many times, now?

    Just wondering.



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Back in the fall of 2004 I paid Suzanne a compliment and the next Sunday Tom was so very happy expressing his appreciation.

    To him that was the best thing anyone could ever do for him
    was to support his wife. She obviously means the world to him.

    I remember seeing them together
    after one of his lenten talks in the evening and standing together you could just bask in the love that was between them. Something very special indeed.

    The person who posted at 11:19AM
    should have it so good. I suspect that one of the problems that person has is terrible family problems and so wants to pull Tom's down.








  • Thanks for the laugh · 3 years ago
    To Anon...A charismatic man...
    posted: 8/01/2006 11:19 AM EST

    You have just proven that you have never been to our NYC church!

    "Trophy?" that's choice. Hear us chortling? FAPC is home to a multitude of good-looking women with large bank accounts, and without dependents, flocking there. And now that Tom has resigned any of them would be "eligible" to be dated were he to be single, which there is no evidence to suggest he would willingly be.




  • Dave8 · 3 years ago
    "Those who are so quick to condemn and criticize Tom certainly do not realize the basics/foundation of Christianity that if it were not for what Jesus did on the cross
    and God's mercy we would all be headed straight for hell."

    Mercy? God created hell, before mankind, if one believes "all" was created in six days, and he didn't forget anything. Thus, god created mankind, not in perfect form, or Adam & Eve wouldn't have been capable of "sin".

    If god is not prone to sin, or error, then god created sinful mankind on purpose, and destined them deliberately to hell. He then, butchered himself/his son, in order to pay for the debt of "sin" he deliberately established.

    I suppose god had a guilty conscience, or... is that possible if one is omniscient. One who is omniscient would be expected to "always" do exactly what they mean with fore-knowledge, thus, they no longer have "choices" in the godly existence. An "omniscient" god, has no choices, they do exactly what they were "expected" to do, no more, no less.

    In short, one has to "assign" compassion or mercy to their god, on the day, humanity was created, as everything following creation, is nothing but "expectations" for an omniscient being.

    If one asserts their god was merciful and compassionate in the beginning of our creation, then... hell can not exist.

    If one asserts that god was not merciful or compassionate in the beginning of creation, then... hell is an option.

    Why is it, that most christians, go with option two, stating that "hell" is an option, while contradicting themselves by saying their "god", is merciful, compassionate, etc.

    Ethics don't exist, if we are "exactly" what god expects us to do. Ethics establishes what should be morally right/wrong... there is no "right" or "wrong", if we do exactly what we are "expected" to do, based on our pre-programming from an omniscient god.

    "Ethics" doesn't exist from the perspective of an omniscient being. Ethics, thus, must be the result of man-made rules, suggesting mankind in their hubris is capable of being "more", that what their "god" omnisciently "expects".

    Now, anyone want to make a list of religions/organizations who feel they have some "absolute" knowledge, regarding "ethics", "mercy/compassion", etc? Please, by all means, start throwing out which religion, is the best mocker of "god(s)", by insinuating they are capable of knowing what is "divinely" right or wrong, as omniscient equals.

    Well... lets forego common sense, and continue to lash out, at two human beings that filled the needs of eachother in times where there was obviously something missing in each of their lives', whatever that missing element was.

    Which brings me to the next point.

    "To him that was the best thing anyone could ever do for him
    was to support his wife. She obviously means the world to him."

    Okay, Mr/Mrs Omniscient anonymous, either you are "Tom" or you aren't, and if you "aren't", then you are using your hubris to ascert that you are capable of "knowing", all of Tom's thoughts. Shall, we now call you "God", would that make you more the christian?





























  • Writeaway · 3 years ago
    People at work talk to each other without making a Federal case out of it. Clergy have stricter rules. This story broke Aug 2005 and isn't it time to realize it's "over?" Why the biblical debate over and over? Tom resigned. People do. So. That's it. Most of FAPC has less than no interest in this whole subject now as we who go, know. The way people do when they can't change the past. Sometimes people who are "finishing" something like to talk to someone who is "starting" something, or get sucked in to "helping"--it's all there. Teachers teach and anyone who has heard Tom knows that's one of this attributes. No one would make "teaching" something personal because it's an inner ability, not something someone else creates in you from whole cloth. All he had to do was ask her to resign from the church, if he really wanted to be able to talk to her free and clear, without a misconduct element there, and that he didn't do that shows he wasn't very inspired to be able to know her.

    Tom is 200 miles from NYC with his wife is evidence of his constant choice and that no one has leaked anything is rather puzzling for a $6mil suit. No nothing.

    But at least the preachers who read this will know that others know what's what, and won't do anything that could be ill construed.

    Women always take men's words and paint a future from them...it's really amazing how that happens. And the number of women at FAPC boggle the mind; you'd have to see it to believe it. That's what people across the country said when this news broke. "Well, if he were to be single, he'd have a lot of women to choose from," and pulpitless he would still. He'll write a book from his trials and have something to say. How he and S worked through it. Especially S--has a story to tell. So in 2 yrs I predict they'll be rolling in dough because now he has something people would want to listen to, now more than ever!

    Because one thing we know is he has had plenty of time to go over and over and over this...

    And we can hie ourselves off to his next church and avail ourselves of his new learning. People have posted he neeeded some new ideas and by golly now he has them!

    And "nothing" more will be said about it because the Presbytery hearings are confidential, so I wouldn't hold my breath waiting for anything. Because anyone who has dated knows that when someone says, it's "over" there's nothing to "prove" and it's pitiful when people try to convince you. "Over" and "next" are the words the sophisticated run to as soon as possible. Get back on the highway of life!











  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    If she meant the world to him then why did he do what he did/ Whatever it was...
    Tom betrayed his wife...to some degree anyway.
    Rachel and Tom meant something to each other and none of us knows exactly what that was.

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    What are they doing in DC?
  • Hopalong · 3 years ago
    You are so funny, wanting to make this something. You obviously have not seen the immaturity of the people as the presented themselves in certain situations. But, see, the law doesn't care, and the Presbytery doesn't care about people's problems and just serves justice.

    So they each had the opportunity to destroy one career and short circuit another. Because how many IQ points does it take to know what would happen? More than people own, seems. Perhaps one or both of their goals. Very cool way to act.

    T&S are in D.C. area and Tom is working for a consulting firm for the Am Red Crossd in fund-raising/development.

    Don't make pathology at work here something to brag about...that just fuels the problem for others who are swallowing their pride and seeing therapists and overcoming their career-destroying issues.

    Internet porn, for clergy, is becoming increasingly a problem, too, so the question is why two people who acted blatantly immature, were allowed to continue in their work and not have caring intervention. Who didn't like Tom enough to do intervene in the manner of reconiliation, and it deplorable for everyone employed at the church, or serving in a lay capacity that this happened, and you can damn well bet that if those people who take FAPC's money were legally liable, they would sure have put in place a system to stop things. And who's to say they aren't legally liable, all those people who knew Tom there. Interesting thought, anyway. Read the PC USA policy, that's the moral charge.

    So it's a wonder that anyone wants to serve. Annual lie detector tests would be a start.

    Funny how people are trying to make this something other than the sad tale of a minister who needed counseling, as many people do, to do his work, and not talk to the little girl. No doubt he and S are spending huge amts of time with the 4 grandchildren, and given that they are 7 and under, their help must be welcome.

    The law is coming down harder and harder on leadership. Serve someone in a bar too much, and it's your fault what happens. So all those trained people, what are we to think? NO one knows anything? Stupid leadership of FAPC, what we have here. Let's see how the interim picks up the pieces. If he says anything positive about the leadership, we will know that he doesn't know much either, I say we "boo" him and let him know we know what should have happened, and it wasn't be hit on the head by stupid people's violation of their employment "contracts" and moral codes of clergy.

    Suffice it to say, if someone "meant" something to Tom, he wouldn't have acted around her as he did around the 20somethings who adored him, too, like a 20something young'un. That was the point. He didn't have enough high IQ friends with whom he was honest and kept him moving up the maturity curve.

    HONEST. That's the point. Who was honest? That assoc pastors who left...1) didn't see anything or 2) didn't take effective action. And so what praise should we give them?

















  • Conservative Presbyterian · 3 years ago
    Tom Tewell, you have devoted fans in NYC. I'm female, born a Presbyterian, conservative and a strong supporter of our US military presence anywhere in the world. I'm also single but I work very , very hard to support myself. I've pledged FAPC since my membership in 1995 and always received blessed and heartfelt thank you letters from you for my efforts in FAPC stewardship. The 2006 thank you's didn't arrive. YOU ARE MISSED!
  • Dave8 · 3 years ago
    "Love is just a word, until it is proven to you."

    All religious clergy, fail to meet the expectations of their congregations, if they are expected to be "more" than human.

    Yet, in order to market themselves, religions compete by stating they can exceed the expectations of being a mere human, prone to carnal stirrings.

    Yes, religions, place the preacher on a pedastal as above being a mere mortal, and when the preacher fails to be more than "human", they are attacked...

    Some in society would suggest that the failure, is evidence of the "lie", being touted by religions of all denominations, in a spree to be spiritually competitive with their rival spiritual Jones'...

    But, the religious followers of the fallen preacher, are the ones who don't attack the "lie", no... they attack the preacher... why?

    Because, they "fear", damage has been done to their belief, that we can be "more" than "human". They are angry, because a preacher has failed to be what they "expected" - more than human... and in their failings to be more than human, they not only "expose" themselves as being "human", they douse the dreams of their followers, that we can "escape" our humanity.

    I am not omniscient, just human, and I'm content with that, but that's only possible, because I don't believe I lack anything or that I am somehow sinfully dysfunctinal at the behedst of a god's meanderings one day in a garden...

    True, many can speculate on the lives of a few individuals from a second party perspective, and even be capable of possibly being correct in some capacity, yet...

    "Even a broken clock, is right twice a day"

    Truth, is "consistent"... religion isn't, and neither are the words that exceed beyond the bounds of those who hold first party knowledge...



















  • Longroadhome · 3 years ago
    I challenge any posters to actually "cite" what is appropriate for clergy, and not, based on theory and ethics and just forget about this particular church. Lots of ethical words tossed around, but no one seems actually to know what is expected, so why gossip but educate the world about what should be. Much more fruitful than what people are saying because no one REALLY cares what anyone else thinks, but the Presbytery and civil court will enforce their laws! That we know for sure! And you won't be reading these stories for a while since every day a new recording device or camera is invented that before only the CIA or FBI or NSA had, and now will find the photos outside the church on the lamp postts. Someone may be charged with invasion of privacy, but not before the lax-behaving person loses. So you'd have to be a real dummy to flout authority and act like a teen-ager and think nothing will come of it.

    It's like people who let their children run 10 feet away from them. Mind your business!

  • Cowgirl · 3 years ago
    A flouter and a flaunter having their day in court. Probably the flouter has learned a lesson. The flaunter?
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    What makes me sad is how FAPC has suffered and is suffering by Tom's absence. Say what you will, Tom's message had a great impact on many people who were fortunate to hear him on a weekly basis. Of course FAPC can and will get a new minister who will stand at 55th and Fifth and lead the faithful, but it won't be the same. And we all know it.

    I wish calmer heads had prevailed and Tom would have been urged to stay rather than to leave. Forgiveness and mercy are what Christianity is all about, isn't it? His departure was a big loss for all of us as I see it. I wonder how others feel.

    I intend to seek him out in Washington DC and to talk with him about all of this. I hope he gets a church in the area as I so want to hear his message again.

    And to those who have tossed stones at him, shame on you. Look in the mirror and see if you are perfect. And ask yourself if you made a judgment in haste without full knowledge of whatever facts exist here. Whether his misstep was large or small, didn't Tom deserve our help, our compassion, our forgiveness? He gave and gave and gave. So many members and guests at FAPC were touched by his intellect and his humor and his warmth. I called the church soon after he left and asked for Tom and the icy reaction on the end of the line was so sad.

    Think of the man and who he is and what he did for FAPC. He made a big difference in my life and so many others. Could not we as a church have forgiven Tom and Rachel and whatever happened and just have gone forward to the greater glory of God and our
    church?

    I suppose Joe's greed in filing a
    suit which was intended to and did smear Tom would have made all of this much more difficult but we're New York and we can handle pretty much anything. Why wasn't this resolved in such a way as to keep us together. Look what has happened- staff leaving, attendance dropping off, a general malaise over the entire church. Very sad.

    We can read and listen to his sermons and I am sure many of us do regularly. It's just a shame that a golden era of FAPC is now long past. It should have been resolved differently.

    Friend of Tom















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Dear friend of Tom,

    I agree with you 1000 percent that this should have been worked out. The malaise in FAPC and my own life has just been tremendous. Our family also hopes that Tom gets back into a church real soon so we once again can hear his messages. Is it still true that he is taking a position with the Red Cross in Washington DC? Or do you have any other information. My letters to him at FAPC go unanswered. Thanks for your help

    Fellow FAPC member



  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to the 9:46 AM posting

    there are definite reasons as to why the situation was not handled properly. Mainly it was self interest on the part of the staff and presbytery with their agendas.

    The liberals with agendas were very loving towards Tom trying to remake Tom into someone he was not which was very harmful in the end.

    In 2004 the woman he had hired part time to keep things going while he was fundraising made a deliberate effort to take over the theology of FAPC with the help of the minister in charge of small groups (her follower) - not allowing any conservative teachings in small groups and calling FAPC a "liberal church".

    Tom was very frightened to even talk about anything conservative but was going to "handle this" view towards the culture (not scriptures)without creating a messy situation.

    But he ended up acting out (from the stress of his authority being challenged no doubt) not having the usual reserves or good judgement regarding Rachel wanting to get together.

    When the session first heard about the situation in 8/05 they were very upset that they had not looked out for Tom as they should have.

    But in walked Jan to tell them how she had felt betrayed because Tom had told the staff that there was nothing to worry about (he had not yet realized what had gone wrong)
    And the session became very angry thinking that Tom was not trustworthy thanks to Jan (and Nora you can be sure of that)

    One has to wonder if Jan was being self protective that this attitude would work its way towards her and Nora that why didn't they as women see what was going on. And so they decided to portray Tom in this way.

    Never mind that Nora and Jan were trying to take over FAPC and took advantage of Tom being caught up in fundraising and being worn out that fall of 2004 - a betrayal of trust.

    And that Toms situation was taken advantage of by pushing covenant through the session while liberals maneuvered to keep it quiet from the congregation.

    And when the situation became public knowledge the liberals
    wanted to keep Tom separate from their precious covenant that was newly installed. So they made out that Tom was a man with problems allowing gossip to go unchecked
    so as to further distance the congregation from Tom.
    Even though they knew that it was very minor indeed.

    It was all about control and not wanting people to question why didn't they look out for Tom themselves. (after all in many churches ministers are accountable to each other to prevent this kind of thing from happening)

    So the ministers who should have been setting the tone at FAPC teaching the congregation about God's mercy were actually encouraging the negative tone towards Tom

    Their agendas were more important to them than the man they said they loved. Remember how one staff member cried at how much he loved tom at the 10th anniversary
    fall of 2004 and was so quick to change his attitude because it would hurt covenant.

    Both ministers are gone now and perhaps now FAPC with the help of the interim come to realize what happened and be humbled instead of going on about "this great church" - pride goeth before the fall.


































  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    To the 12:11 posting.

    Thank you for putting this in better perspective for me. I was unfortunately away for a great deal of this in-fighting and did not know a great deal about the details of the same. To supplement my previous somments, it seems that Tom was a gentleman the entire time of this ordeal and did not point fingers at anyone. Maybe he should have. Probably not. It was not the man's style.
    But a fight needed to be put forth to keep him in New York and I am sorry it didn't happen. I don't care what his letters may have said- he loved this town and his message was needed here.

    And to the other post (the fellow FAPC member), I will be in Washington DC a great many days in the next two months. I will find Tom and talk to him. He needs to know that there are many, many people at FAPC that care for him, that miss him and his message, and who want to hear him again. I would be glad to share whatever I learn with you but I need a way to do this. Any ideas?

    Friend of Tom






  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Dear Friend of Tom,

    You sound like a nice person, with kind intentions towards Tom in the midst of this awfull situation. It probably would be appreciated by Tom if you did seek him out in the D.C. area for a supportive chat.

    You do need to brace yourself, however, when the Investigating Committee's Report is finally released. It is held up now because Tom has asked for a stay while the civil suit proceeds. The Committee report will reveal many highly uncomfortable details about Tom and his behavior. The evidence presented so far is so strong and inflamatory that Tom and his attorney had no choice but to insist on a "stay" for the Presbyterian process. Tom admitted to a consensual sexual affair with Rachael which would damage his assertions in the civil suit. There was too much evidence, including telephone recordings, for him to do otherwise. His story did not "hang together" when others were called to testify and helped the committee put it all together.

    Throughout this difficult situation Tom had many occasions during which he could have told the whole truth and perhaps avoided the mess everyone is in now. Instead he chose to deny, mislead, and lie. Obviously fear over the loss of his position at Fifth Avenue, and concerns for his family, led him down this disasterous path.

    There is really no background story of political or church intrigue involving Tom's liberal or conservative approaches to theology or the life of the church. Since this news broke Jan, Nora, others on staff and many in the Presbysterian world have conducted themselves with discretion and expressed sorrow for all the innocent parties involved.

    The simple story is that Tom made a huge mistake and thought that he could avoid, mislead, or lie his way out of it. Rachael, of course, misbehaved as well, but Tom as pastor should have put the brakes on this. If Tom had spoken up earlier, he may have gotten away with resigning his pastorate at Fifth Avenue and a suspension of his ordination for a limited period of time. Now he (and others) are dealing with an extremely complex and damaging situation for so many,

    Friend of Truth











  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    regarding this latest posting
    or should I say deliberate lies

    here they go again
    trying to create confusion

    to cover up their evil agendas

    we will have to wait until Tom is able to tell what happened after things are settled







  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    the session was told in September of 2005 by the presbytery that the way the testimony fit together there was complete confidence in what the findings were.

    That it was very borderline and could be considered either way.

    A very credible source who knows what the infraction was says that it was having drinks together in a public place.

    nothing more and nothing less

    That is why Tom did not right away think of that because he was being falsely accused of adultery - a much more serious offense - which was realized to not be true - thankfully by the presbytery.

    To say that the report showed serious behaviors is a complete
    lie. And the writer of that posting is trying to destroy Tom Tewell.

    I think that you and your spouse should head overseas when the report is finally out there.

    The presbytery also does not want to release the report as per a conversation with the moderator of the presbytery revealed.














  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    to posting of 12:27
    FAPC is still forwarding mail to Tom and Amanda is there to make sure it gets to Tom

    If you address it to Tom
    with confidential

    it will get to him

    I think that people should be writing notes of encouragement to Tom at this point

    And you are right Tom is a gentleman and would not want to say anything that would interfere with the healing of FAPC.

    Also he is constrained by the civil suit right now.

    There are many people at FAPC who understand that the liberals put through covenant using the situation to do so as well as dumping Tom.

    No real attempts were made to keep Tom at FAPC - allowing/encouraging the negative talk to go on and focusing on Tom as the problem were all tactics. Too bad there was not a theologian there who had the best interests of everyone at heart. But more focused on putting her agendas in place and being in control.

    The session was told that Tom was expected to be back at FAPC by the end of October - and the staff should have rallied around Tom once that front page article happened in October.

    But they dropped Tom like a hot potatoe !!



















  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    Friend of Tom: You have kind thoughts, but I don’t think Tom and Suzanne were much longer for New York anyway. The strain was too much, and what this investigation did, among all other dreadful things, was to prevent them from moving on to ministry in some place more hospitable. Fifth Avenue Church’s role would have been to determine if they truly did want to leave, if anything could have been changed to make things better, and then to let them go in Christian love. There was much to be done to restore Tom’s reputation, bring out the truth as far as it was known (Session members were told from the beginning that this was something “light”), and to give pastoral guidance to a confused and not very mature congregation. It was just not done.

    But keep up your spirits. The “Friend of Truth” answering you is no more than our “Slanderer” friend writing in a more polished style or getting someone else to write for her. I think by now people reading this can see that Tom had enemies, although you would never guess how influential to this process they are. I know it is hard for you folks in Houston or New Providence or wherever to believe since Tom was rather a people-pleasing sort. Sometimes all it takes is to be “on to” something wrong, and then a vicious self-preservation takes over in your adversaries, and you become the target. So, have the sophistication to look past “telephone recordings” that could reveal “a consensual sexual affair.” (Think for a moment, but only a moment, how silly and unlikely that is). Anytime anyone gives out the line, “If he had told the truth from the beginning, things would have been different,” or “we could have been helpful,” put your antennae up. It is just that, “a line,” and not a very logical one at that--a line that I heard repeated word-for-unchanging-word from church leaders who proved to be singularly “unhelpful” to Tom, when he did not so much require “help” as simple ethical treatment.

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    It's Dem' libral Christens dat's out to get er' done. This isn't about Tom, its about da' liberals and fundies using Tom as a tool.

    If Tom couldn't make a decision of his own volition, and was so easily manipulated by "anyone", then what kind of preacher could he have really been. If you don't know what you stand for, you can fall for anything - Tom fell. Blame, everyone, but please, don't blame Tom, he wasn't aware of his own actions and consequences.

  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Last August before the "news"
    a Presbyterian minister mentioned in conversation that it was common knowledge among ministers in NYC that "Tom had been banged around very badly by the Presbytery".

    At that time I only realized the NYC leadership wanted Tom to put covenant through at FAPC. They must have been using something to put pressure on him to do this.
    When it was announced that an accusation and investigation had been going on - the light dawned
    that they had something on Tom.

    I remember attending a class given by someone who is in charge of the JC at the Presbytery. While many people had real problems with his interpretations - I felt strongly a very strange sense in the room which I realized was the absence of the Holy Spirit and the presence of something else that was not good at all. I found out later that he is very influential in the denomination as a proponent for gay ordination.

    These kind of people place their liberal agendas ahead of the bible and Christian ethical behavior. They LUST after the fulfillment their own desires and being more than willing to undo someone in order to attain their objective.

    Witness the cover of the bulletin cover at FAPC with a quote from a very controversial gay activist - WE SHOULD NOT LOOK TO THE BIBLE BUT TO JESUS

    How do we learn of Jesus but through the scriptures - Jesus makes it very clear that IF YOU LOVE ME YOU WILL OBEY ME as well as making it quite clear that the entire scriptures are the very word of God and that Jesus regarded them as such (every marking).

    This kind of teaching is taking advantage of people who on the whole do not know their bible verses since they spend their time in front of the tv and computer.

    The objective is to advance living life based on one's own understandings / feelings and not on Gods purpose for our lives advancing this deception.

    We should not be looking too hard at the Middle East for churches and countries rot from within from Satan's deceptions of enticing people without letting them know of the consequences. Wanting to destroy.


















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Anonymous...

    You are so right in twelling people to "brace themselves" for the IC report. Tom's story did not "hang together" as you say, because he did not tell the truth from the beginning. It is not because he didn't realize that he had done anything wrong...it was because he knew what he had done was wrong and he tried to cover it up.

    He even called Rachel the wek before the testified [when he wasn't supposed to have any contact with her at all] to get their stories straight. He really believed that she was going to lie to the IC to cover all this up for him. That's where the real sin is...arrogance, pride and self importance. Anyone who thinks thry're more important tan someone else or above the rules then thinks the rules don't apply to them. He abused his office and position for his own gain.

    Tom was willing to peotray Rachel in a way that wasn't true to cover his own ass! He's still doing it now, by not coming forward with
    the truth. The truth will come out...the clock is ticking!






  • New Yorker · 3 years ago
    I was thinking about how SA (or her ghostwriter) has wrapped her grotesqueries in a new-found eloquence as “Friend of Truth.” Does SA really expect us to believe a discredited story from nearly a year ago—that Tom and Rachel confessed to adultery before an investigatory committee? (although she has not garnered much sympathy from many here, this is also a very unjust thing to say about Rachel). So what is the point of this carefully-crafted missive that nobody should believe? I think it is less to convince us readers than to “pretend” that this is another informed and plausible (ha!) voice that SA was relying on when she (or her delegate) outright lied to the New York Post reporter last August. As long as SA pretends to have been speaking in “good faith,” the Post reporter will hesitate to “out” her as a tainted source. Will it work? Probably. Depends on how much the (probably overworked) reporter wants to admit that he was hoodwinked by his “sources familiar with the investigation” last summer. Well, no matter. As wonderful people of faith remind me, God’s timing is the best timing and God’s judgment is the best judgment.
  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    God's timing is the best timing. Tom Tewell's world revolves around Tom Tewell and all of you who support him no matter what the facts are..are really not his 'friends' at all.

    The truth will prevail. The problem with New Yorker and others like him/her is that you want to quote the New York Post when it fits your agenda [i.e. Joe having a girlfriend] but when it doesn't fit your agenda [ie Tom/Rachel confessed] then you dismiss it altogether.

    Every night that Tom Tewell puts his head on the pillow, he knows the truth. Every time he looks himself in the mirror; he knows the truth. God's timming in all of this will prevail.

    Rachel not getting support on a blog such as this by no means indicates that she is not getting support. She has many feriends who have stood by her through all of this and stand by her still.





  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    So obvious SA (as New Yorker calls you) that you are determined to make Tom out to be who he is not - a liar, etc.

    Tom has been humble through this all not trying to defend himself
    admitting to his mistakes and
    making every effort to see the lessons to be learned refraining from trying to unmask the dirty politics of you and your associates

    The moderator of the Presbytery commented that it took time for Tom to get to realizations for admission and was saddened by the characterizations of Tom not telling the truth.

    So who are you to say that he lied!

    In fact a close friend said recently that Tom is doing well and is now looking forward after taking time for self reflection. Not the picture of a man that you are trying to paint as every night putting his head on the pillow feeling guilty.

    Tom has done his best with God's help who is sustaining him.

    You are no friend of Rachel's having been in some way been involved with the person who deliberately gave the NY Post reporter false information that there was an affair admitted to by both - in order to ruin Tom.

    In the end it will come back on you for misleading people like the reporters in order to undermine Tom Tewell. In fact isn't God's judgement happening already with your own situation?

    The reason Rachel has not gotten much sympathy is because many saw Rachel's behavior over the years and she was old enough to know better. Many people are very, very angry with Rachel even though Tom is considered the responsible adult. Rachel was persistent and eventually ended up compromising Tom's ministry as well as damage to the church.

















  • Courthouse Visitor · 3 years ago
    You all do understand that the "Anti Heart Balm Act" of 1935 makes it a FELONY, with a potential penalty of fines in 1000s of dollars and jail time for both a party to a suit and the lawyer who sues for any issues related to who associates with whom. And that is in TOM's LAWYERS FILINGS for the motion to dismiss avaialable to anyone who wants to go read the reality in the courthouse. It's not online. Apparently during the Depression it was not usual for people to try to extort money when something ended. So that was interesting reading. And the Presbytery's filing is putting forth that it is NOT Tom's "boss." So who is? The Session. So, that is what the Presbtyery is saying in ITS motion to dismiss, that it wasn't their problem what he did or didn't do, right or wrong, one may infer. So THAT was interesting reading. Obviously the newspapers did not go down to the courthouse to read the legal docs, so how come they had both the congregation letter and the suit filing from the get go. Seems like, even though it would have been in the courthouse, someone handed them to them both times. Because if they were into going to the courthouse, then why didn't the papers entertain us with the history of the "Anti Heart Balm Act" of 1935 given how pivotal it is to the arguments of the motion to dismiss and suggests a course of further action, that Joe and his lawyer could be subject to a felonious charge. Interesting how no one has looked at the footnotes in the 3 motion to dismiss docs and looked at the implications.

    As for sharing info, those of us who belong to FAPC may be able to put together a meeting, even if we have to limit it to those we know are "for" him, in that by not talking to anyone but his pastor pals, and, he needs to talk to some people who can hold us feet to the fire a little bit, because the "flaw" that Dawson did not identify is something that hopefully he is continuing to get counseling for, and to find ways to create a more balanced life. Do you know MDs who smoke? I was at Sloan Kettering and the doc obviously had not long before. So, it behooves everyone who wants to be supportive to google "clergy misconduct" and spend 20 minutes reading, then see how that dovetails with what might have happened. Don't be as naive as Tom was. He never should have talked to Rachel more than a few times a year, alone, if then, and he should have noticed her hyper demeanor for what many dif posters have observed. A married mother acting liked a lovestruck 14 year old would not be most people's 1st choice of a minister in their church, but as a receptionist--she'd be great!

    She had a 2 and 6 year old when started seminary and crazy men and women supported this? And how long was her commute. Raise your hand if you think, no Tom, no RV at Princeton. If he didn't exist, she would never have set on this quixotic pursuit.

    If you want to meet, pick a time and a place and see who shows up.

    Yes, Tom is working for the American Red Cross, but he is not an employee of the American Red Cross, which has Congressional oversight, so it would make sense that he would be at a remove.

    But, before you go off half cocked, go read what misconduct is. Because Tom has had 1.5 years to grapple with this now, and it was exactly a year when it the fan, as we all know, the Princeton announcement was of Aug 15 2005. So, don't just tell him you support him without understanding what is involved in current thinking today. At least understand for yourself what the insurance co and other churches are doing because it is a problem nationally and empty nest pastors are particularly prone and that our church never intuited anything from the familiarities they observed, and act like true Christians is unfortunate. So, there was no excuse. So understand for yourself what it is the best minds say about this, because obviously we need a better system. Why don't other people list what is 1) proper and 2) improper because right now it's all hysteria, and it will be interesting to see what comes from the 1935 act referenced above. Maybe they think it's too old to be used, but a statue is a statute.

    And one of the motions by the defendants says "all the plaintiff did was change 'malpractice' which isn't recognized in NY State to 'breach of trust' and that is 'breach of fiduciary trust' which is a commercial tort, and not applicable..."

    But the judge let it go and it is in the appeals court as we speak.

    And the judge was slow over 60 days, and 1 of the defedant's lawyers sent a letter as the law allows saying, "You're slow Judge!"

    So that's where we are, waiting to see what's up with the appeal. And then we'll see what, if any, action the defense takes about this charge.

    So, this isn't over yet, and if the Presbytery wants to sue, since they have deep pockets, of course they could counter-sue, but no doubt they have decided to take it one step at a time. Because how many othe people are going to try this? There are some 100 churches in the NYC Presbytery, so it isn't just about one church. If Joe wins something it will greenlight other congregants' actions in NYC and outside. Because this is being watched around the country, and you can be sure if you call the KY nat office, this is big news. And our new assoc pastor came from the nat office.



















  • Courthouse Visitor · 3 years ago
    You all do understand that the "Anti Heart Balm Act" of 1935 makes it a FELONY, with a potential penalty of fines in 1000s of dollars and jail time for both a party to a suit and the lawyer who sues for any issues related to who associates with whom. And that is in TOM's LAWYERS FILINGS for the motion to dismiss avaialable to anyone who wants to go read the reality in the courthouse. It's not online. Apparently during the Depression it was not usual for people to try to extort money when something ended. So that was interesting reading. And the Presbytery's filing is putting forth that it is NOT Tom's "boss." So who is? The Session. So, that is what the Presbtyery is saying in ITS motion to dismiss, that it wasn't their problem what he did or didn't do, right or wrong, one may infer. So THAT was interesting reading. Obviously the newspapers did not go down to the courthouse to read the legal docs, so how come they had both the congregation letter and the suit filing from the get go. Seems like, even though it would have been in the courthouse, someone handed them to them both times. Because if they were into going to the courthouse, then why didn't the papers entertain us with the history of the "Anti Heart Balm Act" of 1935 given how pivotal it is to the arguments of the motion to dismiss and suggests a course of further action, that Joe and his lawyer could be subject to a felonious charge. Interesting how no one has looked at the footnotes in the 3 motion to dismiss docs and looked at the implications.

    As for sharing info, those of us who belong to FAPC may be able to put together a meeting, even if we have to limit it to those we know are "for" him, in that by not talking to anyone but his pastor pals, and, he needs to talk to some people who can hold us feet to the fire a little bit, because the "flaw" that Dawson did not identify is something that hopefully he is continuing to get counseling for, and to find ways to create a more balanced life. Do you know MDs who smoke? I was at Sloan Kettering and the doc obviously had not long before. So, it behooves everyone who wants to be supportive to google "clergy misconduct" and spend 20 minutes reading, then see how that dovetails with what might have happened. Don't be as naive as Tom was. He never should have talked to Rachel more than a few times a year, alone, if then, and he should have noticed her hyper demeanor for what many dif posters have observed. A married mother acting liked a lovestruck 14 year old would not be most people's 1st choice of a minister in their church, but as a receptionist--she'd be great!

    She had a 2 and 6 year old when started seminary and crazy men and women supported this? And how long was her commute. Raise your hand if you think, no Tom, no RV at Princeton. If he didn't exist, she would never have set on this quixotic pursuit.

    If you want to meet, pick a time and a place and see who shows up.

    Yes, Tom is working for the American Red Cross, but he is not an employee of the American Red Cross, which has Congressional oversight, so it would make sense that he would be at a remove.

    But, before you go off half cocked, go read what misconduct is. Because Tom has had 1.5 years to grapple with this now, and it was exactly a year when it the fan, as we all know, the Princeton announcement was of Aug 15 2005. So, don't just tell him you support him without understanding what is involved in current thinking today. At least understand for yourself what the insurance co and other churches are doing because it is a problem nationally and empty nest pastors are particularly prone and that our church never intuited anything from the familiarities they observed, and act like true Christians is unfortunate. So, there was no excuse. So understand for yourself what it is the best minds say about this, because obviously we need a better system. Why don't other people list what is 1) proper and 2) improper because right now it's all hysteria, and it will be interesting to see what comes from the 1935 act referenced above. Maybe they think it's too old to be used, but a statue is a statute.

    And one of the motions by the defendants says "all the plaintiff did was change 'malpractice' which isn't recognized in NY State to 'breach of trust' and that is 'breach of fiduciary trust' which is a commercial tort, and not applicable..."

    But the judge let it go and it is in the appeals court as we speak.

    And the judge was slow over 60 days, and 1 of the defedant's lawyers sent a letter as the law allows saying, "You're slow Judge!"

    So that's where we are, waiting to see what's up with the appeal. And then we'll see what, if any, action the defense takes about this charge.

    So, this isn't over yet, and if the Presbytery wants to sue, since they have deep pockets, of course they could counter-sue, but no doubt they have decided to take it one step at a time. Because how many othe people are going to try this? There are some 100 churches in the NYC Presbytery, so it isn't just about one church. If Joe wins something it will greenlight other congregants' actions in NYC and outside. Because this is being watched around the country, and you can be sure if you call the KY nat office, this is big news. And our new assoc pastor came from the nat office.



















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    You're right...Rachel would make a great receptionist...so would Tom. You're not paying attention to the facts.

    It's great that you have so much time on your hands to read old courthouse documents...perhaps you should be on the legal team for the defense! Clerly you are an insomniac!

    There are two issues here...one is the lawsuit by Joe which is filled with a lot of bullshit. That will be fought out in the legal system, and even if Joe is awarded damages, it will not mean that the truth about what happened with Tom will be told.

    The other issue is that of Tom's actions with respect to his relationship with Rachel.

    All of you who support Tom think that in order to do so means you have to be against Rachel. Why is that? Is God's grace and forgiveness only for Tom but not for Rachel? I don't think so.

    As far as what the moderator of the presbytery said about Tom...let's think for a minute; who is the moderator of the presbytery? Yes...that's right; he's the assoc. pastor emeritus at FAPC. He's also a personal friend of Tom, so what do you expect him to say?

    Here's another interesting piece of information; it was the assoc. pastor [now emeritus] who put the personnel policy into place that said that any alegation of misconduct made against a minister must be reported to the presbytery by the clerk of session. [This is what should have happened in 2002]

    Tom had this assoc pastor, as well as the rest of the staff, convinced that he had sone nothing wrong. That's why no one thought anything would come from the investgation. They were all blindsided!

    Of course the moderator of the presbytery is going to defend Tom. He has called him a "brother" He also has to defend the presbytery as well.

    It was Tom's idea to make this person the "assoc. pastor emeritus" so you can see the politics involved here. The assoc. pastor retired in June 2005 from FAPC and then became the moderator of the presbytery.

    By the way...Tom was VERY supportive of Rachel's going to Princeton. In fact...when Joe suggested she go somewher closer to home, Tom convinced him that Princeton was the best place for here to go.

    Interesting that both Rachel's father and her uncle are ordained pastors...yet it's only because of Tom's influenec that she went to sminary herself. Give us all a break people!





















  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    okay lets say for arguments sake that Tom did hesitate to admit to something "borderline" - this was how it was presented to the session in September.

    Certainly it would have been because there were JACKALS like yourself waiting to tear him to pieces having found something on him even something very slight and making a big deal how Tom denied this minor slipup.
    Trying to say it is a major issue and creating havoc in the church.

    Look at how it is a big no no to even bring up Tom's name at FAPC now that you all have managed to
    trashed his reputation - saying you now want to move on and forget about Tom.

    A deliberate tactic that was carried out at FAPC.

    In the Fall of 2004 began a campaign to turn FAPC into a
    liberal church inspite of Tom wanting to keep FAPC middle of the road.

    It would not be too far fetched to think it possible that you or someone you know encouraged Joe to think that there was an affair going on and to confront Tom.

    And then to encourage a staff member to ask for an investigation so as to clear Tom's name.

    In fact there are a number of people who feel that this was a well orchestrated effort to oust Tom as he was not going along with the covenant theology.

    Don't anyone be fooled by the article Tom wrote for the July 2005 Voice - look at how badly it was just thrown together - that Tom's heart was not in it.

    And after it was written how the presbytery decided to take up a full blown investigation instead of allowing Tom to just move on.
    Terrible.

    When I and others read your posting one can just feel the presence of the evil one working through you.























  • Anonymous · 3 years ago
    Honey...if it had been something borderline, then the IC would have worked for reconciliation...that's their job. The IC is made up of liberals and consevatives. It was not " something borderline" If that's what the session was told in September then it was because they weren't ready to disclose the full report at that time. Tom knew that he would need to resign...he was told so in July of 2005.

    It was Tom's agenda to move the church more to the left...he had many discussions with people about it. When he first came to FAPC he preached a sermon entilted 'Why God Weeps For The Church.' [5/4/97] It was about inclusivity.

    After that some of the conservative members of the church met with Tom to voice their concerns about where he was headed theologically...he told them that he was for inclusivity thus promoting more of a liberal theology. Many conservative members left the church at that time including the former clerk of session.

    Tom also preached at the Covenant Network conference in Pittsburgh in the Fall of 2000 [he and Rachel attended that conference together...they even flew to and from NYC to Pittsburgh together] At that conference he openly promoted a liberal theology. You can read his sermon on the groups website. It was his intenti